• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=aliendrone123;34660348]Been rejected 3 times so far. Twice by one girl. Now I sorta ran out of people I'm interested in so this is quite the predicament. but I still have feelings for the one I got rejected by twice. aaaah[/QUOTE] Go meet new people and/or stop trying so hard. You make it sound like there's something wrong because you're not in a relationship.
[QUOTE=killerteacup;34660940]I [b]got her number[/b] and have the opportunity to [b]see her again,[/b] [i]but I don't know how well today went.[/i] I hope she had fun[/QUOTE] No, man, to me that sounds like an utter fail.
[quote][img]http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc7/395214_341397329227582_100000719526259_1069493_1560604801_n.jpg[/img] Above is non-annoying girl gamer that I talk to a bit and I seem to be hitting off REALLY well with her. Please tell me this picture is real and she exists, because this is the girl I've wanted for like ever. [editline]12th February 2012[/editline] I mean seriously. Valve fan. Played Half Life. holy shit[/quote] So uh basically this quote. She's never kissed a guy before or anything, and knowing you guys are total bros, I'd like to see what you lot think.
[QUOTE=aliendrone123;34660348]Been rejected 3 times so far. [b]Twice by one girl. Now I sorta ran out of people I'm interested in[/b] so this is quite the predicament. but I still have feelings for the one I got rejected by twice. aaaah[/QUOTE] 1, Why did you ask the same girl twice? 2. You asked out 2 girls, not the entire school. I'm sure you're interested in someone else. 3. There is no predicament, stop forcing the issue of dating one particular girl if she continually rejects you. 4. You don't [I]need[/I] to be in a relationship. [editline]12th February 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=No Party Hats;34661552]So uh basically this quote. She's never kissed a guy before or anything, and knowing you guys are total bros, I'd like to see what you lot think.[/QUOTE] Where'd you meet her? This is what really is going to influence my decision.
[QUOTE=Phsykotik;34661334]No, man, to me that sounds like an utter fail.[/QUOTE] we didn't flirt at all is my main gripe, just talked lots Kinda used to things being very flirty so I'm a bit put out by this, but it may be a good thing, we did talk about like everything under the sun
How do you find out the relationship status of someone in the most non-awkward way possible?
Ask her out.
[QUOTE=Evilan;34661868]1, Why did you ask the same girl twice? 2. You asked out 2 girls, not the entire school. I'm sure you're interested in someone else. 3. There is no predicament, stop forcing the issue of dating one particular girl if she continually rejects you. 4. You don't [I]need[/I] to be in a relationship. [editline]12th February 2012[/editline] Where'd you meet her? This is what really is going to influence my decision.[/QUOTE] At school. I sit in one one of her classes because I have Study Hall.
[QUOTE=No Party Hats;34662418]At school. I sit in one one of her classes because I have Study Hall.[/QUOTE] Go for it. Seriously. If you already talk to her in class, ramp it up keep talking to her (Not just about games, though common interest in that area is good) Get full friendly then just ask her out somewhere, doesn't have to sound like a date just a cafe or maybe a film. Just don't let it slip away.
I wasn't intending on letting this one slip. She's like exactly what I've wanted ever in a girl :v:
If she's at school and she's inexperienced in dating, then it would be best to get to know her before dating because school aged people tend to have less of an inclination towards the world of dating before relationships.
[QUOTE=TheHypnotoad;34662676]Go for it. Seriously. If you already talk to her in class, ramp it up keep talking to her ([B]Not just about games, though common interest in that area is good[/B]) [/QUOTE] this is important
[QUOTE=killerteacup;34662170]we didn't flirt at all is my main gripe, just talked lots Kinda used to things being very flirty so I'm a bit put out by this, but it may be a good thing, we did talk about like everything under the sun[/QUOTE] But you got to know her. You didn't know her before, but you know her now, you have her number and she is willing to get together again. I am pretty sure that is success, at least in a minor extent. More success than fail. Give it another go. See how it goes. If it does it does, if not, more fishing to do.
So I asked about going out sometime soon, and she said definitely, just that tomorrow morning we'll talk about a date and shit. woo! BAD MISTAKE AHEAD sometimes I make excited faces when good things happen. [IMG_thumb]http://i.imgur.com/uJCDz.png[/IMG_thumb]
[QUOTE=Evilan;34661868]1, Why did you ask the same girl twice? 2. You asked out 2 girls, not the entire school. I'm sure you're interested in someone else. 3. There is no predicament, stop forcing the issue of dating one particular girl if she continually rejects you. 4. You don't [I]need[/I] to be in a relationship. [/QUOTE] 1. First time it was more of an inderect sorta thing. So I thought I'd try again one day. (encouraged by my friend..) 2. I probably will be later on, you're right 3. Yeah I dunno why I said that I need to watch my wording. 4. So very very very true. I tell myself that all the time although that doesn't change the fact that I want to be in one. All valid points, will take note.
does anyone think that a cigarette shared can be more then a friendly gesture?
[QUOTE=Ladowerf;34670880]does anyone think that a cigarette shared can be more then a friendly gesture?[/QUOTE] Yes. Obviously someone is trying to kill you slowly with lung cancer.
Guys what do I do. I've been talking to this girl for the past few days and everything has been going well and she knows I have the intentions of being with her as her friend who I'm friends with introduced me to her. Aaaaaaand Valentines Day is right around the corner so I'm guessing getting her a cute little card and maybe an other little gift will be good. Ya know, nothing too big, nothing too small, and it sorta fits how things are going right now.
Ok so I'm watching this thing go down on Facebook. Person A is leading on person B and person B seems to be completely into person From what I know person A has no interest in person B at all. Thing is, person A doesn't even seem to realize they're leading on person B. I am really fighting the urge to tell person A about what they're doing to person B, but last time something like this happened I got kind of yelled at, guess I ruined her plans of using person B to get whatever it is they want. So I guess I'll just sit back and watch this thing go on for who knows how long, it's been going on for nearly three months now already. [editline]12th February 2012[/editline] Two similar situations are going on at other places I frequently visit but oh well, doesn't seem like I can do anything even though it bugs me with what there people are doing. Guess I'll sit here and watch the fireworks as I eat a "share size" Skittles bag.
[QUOTE=Makol;34674733]Ok so I'm watching this thing go down on Facebook. Person A is leading on person B and person B seems to be completely into person From what I know person A has no interest in person B at all. Thing is, person A doesn't even seem to realize they're leading on person B. I am really fighting the urge to tell person A about what they're doing to person B, but last time something like this happened I got kind of yelled at, guess I ruined her plans of using person B to get whatever it is they want. So I guess I'll just sit back and watch this thing go on for who knows how long, it's been going on for nearly three months now already. [editline]12th February 2012[/editline] Two similar situations are going on at other places I frequently visit but oh well, doesn't seem like I can do anything even though it bugs me with what there people are doing. Guess I'll sit here and watch the fireworks as I eat a "share size" Skittles bag.[/QUOTE] Be the rainbow.
[QUOTE=Ladowerf;34670880]does anyone think that a cigarette shared can be more then a friendly gesture?[/QUOTE] I always wondered why people winked at me when I bummed cigarettes off of them.
[QUOTE=Ladowerf;34670880]does anyone think that a cigarette shared can be more then a friendly gesture?[/QUOTE] I hope not because once when I was working I gave a 60+ year old dude a cigarette and didn't even accept the dollar he tried giving me for it.
Well, I'm in a weird situation. My girlfriend of 4 months just doesn't "like" me. Shes always been weird around me, she doesn't say anything nice to me at all, and shes never really flirted with me. Yesterday I asked her why I feel like she doesn't like me. She pretty much texted me a million things that she dislikes about me, followed with that she just really doesn't like me in general. However, she doesn't want to break up. I'm also pretty sure she is talking to other guys, in a flirtatious way. I would expect the normal thing to do is to break up with her, but I really do like her a lot.
[QUOTE=Glitchman;34681070]Well, I'm in a weird situation. My girlfriend of 4 months just doesn't "like" me. Shes always been weird around me, she doesn't say anything nice to me at all, and shes never really flirted with me. Yesterday I asked her why I feel like she doesn't like me. She pretty much texted me a million things that she dislikes about me, followed with that she just really doesn't like me in general. However, she doesn't want to break up. I'm also pretty sure she is talking to other guys, in a flirtatious way. I would expect the normal thing to do is to break up with her, but I really do like her a lot.[/QUOTE] Dump that ungrateful wench
Dump it like it's hot.
I guess i will try to ask a girl out once more. Been rejected so many times, so I wouldnt even care if i get rejected anotjer time. After this one, i'll just spend the weekends in a bar and see if i gind someone from there.
Why stop trying if you no longer care? If anything, that sounds like incentive to just ask girls out willy nilly. Learning how to stop caring gives you a huge advantage as long as you don't approach girls with an obviously miserable tone. Who cares if she says no? Who cares if she says yes? Just go with it and whatever happens, happens. If you can get that mindset going, you'll find success. Keep in mind that there's a difference between not caring and expecting failure, the latter turns girls off instantly. Also, guys get turned down all the time. You aren't the only chap to be rejected a lot. Before I found my current girlfriend, I got turned down all the time. However, each rejection is an isolated incident, they don't impact each other. As in, a girl turning you down doesn't increase/decrease your odds of being turned down the next time. It's like flipping a coin, just because it lands on heads 99 times in a row doesn't (for the sake of the analogy, it's a fair coin) change the odds of the 100th flip. It'll still be a 50/50 chance. So being rejected, no matter how many times it happens, is no excuse to stop flipping the coin. The odds are the same each time, don't let insecurity convince you otherwise. Very few men go through their lives without meeting rejection multiple times. It makes you stronger.
[QUOTE=Shovelpass;34683770]Why stop trying if you no longer care? If anything, that sounds like incentive to just ask girls out willy nilly. Learning how to stop caring gives you a huge advantage as long as you don't approach girls with an obviously miserable tone. Who cares if she says no? Who cares if she says yes? Just go with it and whatever happens, happens. If you can get that mindset going, you'll find success. Keep in mind that there's a difference between not caring and expecting failure, the latter turns girls off instantly. Also, guys get turned down all the time. You aren't the only chap to be rejected a lot. Before I found my current girlfriend, I got turned down all the time. However, each rejection is an isolated incident, they don't impact each other. As in, a girl turning you down doesn't increase/decrease your odds of being turned down the next time. It's like flipping a coin, just because it lands on heads 99 times in a row doesn't (for the sake of the analogy, it's a fair coin) change the odds of the 100th flip. It'll still be a 50/50 chance. So being rejected, no matter how many times it happens, is no excuse to stop flipping the coin. The odds are the same each time, don't let insecurity convince you otherwise. Very few men go through their lives without meeting rejection multiple times. It makes you stronger.[/QUOTE] Im gonna stop trying because i already tried everyone v:v:v Now i'll just stop trying and go with the flow, see if i can find someone without trying to find that someone. But yeah, i have stopped caring lately anyway, and i have been going with that mindset. Around here the girls only go on a date if they have a crush on the guy asking.
Okay quick question, Should I give this friend that has Best-Friend-Zoned me a valentine card? And this is the girl who once said: I didn't kiss you because it could ruin our friendship. Yes - No?
no
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