• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=twoski;36576847]I think i may have been heavy on the flirting, which could have been a turn-off for her.[/QUOTE] Or she wasn't attracted to you. Either way, you tried and that's what counts. :)
So the girl who I thought was my everything was constantly lying and cheating on me. Even hooked up with her ex and some of my friends. fml
[QUOTE=RopaDope;36577566]So the girl who I thought was my everything was constantly lying and cheating on me. Even hooked up with her ex and some of my friends. fml[/QUOTE] I'm not surprised after seeing your other posts in this thread (if they are true and you aren't trolling).
[QUOTE=Spirit_Breaker;36577652]I'm not surprised after seeing your other posts in this thread (if they are true and you aren't trolling).[/QUOTE] I was high and it was one mistake, she had constantly been lying and being deceitful the entire relationship before and after.
[QUOTE=RopaDope;36577566]Even hooked up with her ex and some of my friends. fml[/QUOTE] how does this go under the radar?
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;36577969]how does this go under the radar?[/QUOTE] shes really quiet and really good at lying and keeping secrets. I mostly blame myself for not giving her enough attention, I just feel like the second I left her she went off and did her own thing. Like one day I was suspended from school so I decided to just show up at lunch and greet her and shes sitting next to her ex. i cant even type right now im crying fuck
Fuck her, dude, she's not worth getting a headache over. Chalk her up to a rough patch and look onwards.
[QUOTE=RopaDope;36578643]shes really quiet and really good at lying and keeping secrets. I mostly blame myself for not giving her enough attention, I just feel like the second I left her she went off and did her own thing. Like one day I was suspended from school so I decided to just show up at lunch and greet her and shes sitting next to her ex. i cant even type right now im crying fuck[/QUOTE] I can understand that kind of pain, went through the same thing as well. I feel sorry for you :( but it's good to know I'm not the only one who had to go through this. Not sure what to tell you right now though, you'll need some time to calm down.
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;36506943]Now about my previous story about that girl to whom I got a place to stay in my grandfather's house. We had a talk and we both agreed that it would be a good idea not to call the cops on the guy since they wouldn't do much and they would just piss the guy off. I told her to stay away from him, she said she will (let's hope so) so tonight I helped her pack her things since the dust settled and drove her to her mom's house, to whom I explained the situation. Funny thing is she kissed my cheek while I was leaving back to the car and said something like: "You're a sweetheart, I wish there were more guys like you". It made me blush. I think she kinda likes me but she's probably still with the other guy in mind so I just said thanks and goodbye and left. I think I'll call her one day, if she stays away from that idiot. She's a nice girl. Right now I just want to breathe in relief for being able to solve a problem. She's currently safe at her mom's house and that's what matters. And now, changing topic: It's been hot as hell here and tomorrow I think I'm going to the beach with some friends. They say there will be some girl friends they want me to meet, so why the fuck not?[/QUOTE] A friend of his pulled out a knife on you and her boyfriend gets dramatically violent. What the fuck makes you think him and his friends are not doing the same to other people or random strangers? He's probably still looking for you and his girlfriend and it's evident he isn't going to play nice. It's clear that you and no one else can actually handle this dangerous situation properly besides from, you know, the police. Just go and get real help before your friends, family, colleagues whatever get involved with this stupid shit. You didn't solve the situation, you just delayed the result of it or made it worse. This is a very serious claim and the police aren't going to brush it off easily. Sorry for the rant but people who actually don't report these matters make other people prone to being victims of crime.
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[QUOTE=A Glitch;36581169]and she happened to choose the genre love songs...and having not really spoken to her in months, sounds to me like she's still interesting in trying something...[/QUOTE] i think you have read into that [B]way[/B] too much
who said marriage...I just figured out of the tonnes of possible genres she could have chosen she chose the romantic one? I don't know women I can't tell when they're dropping hints and when they're not...
maybe she just likes that sort of shit sappy music? like quite a lot of girls do
valid point...nevermind then
hey just a helpful hint here: you should learn to let go.
[QUOTE=GreenDolphin;36580697]A friend of his pulled out a knife on you and her boyfriend gets dramatically violent. What the fuck makes you think him and his friends are not doing the same to other people or random strangers? He's probably still looking for you and his girlfriend and it's evident he isn't going to play nice. It's clear that you and no one else can actually handle this dangerous situation properly besides from, you know, the police. Just go and get real help before your friends, family, colleagues whatever get involved with this stupid shit. You didn't solve the situation, you just delayed the result of it or made it worse. This is a very serious claim and the police aren't going to brush it off easily. Sorry for the rant but people who actually don't report these matters make other people prone to being victims of crime.[/QUOTE] She called me 2 days ago and we decided to report the guy to the police. It seems he started calling her again threatening her. Her mother is really worried and she told him that I didn't have any fault about what happened. According to her the guy didn't say anything about me. However, we decided to call the police and are trying to put a restraining order on the guy. Let's see how things go. I wasn't thinking of calling the police before because there was alcohol involved and the situation had easen up for a while. The police here aren't very effective and we were both afraid that by calling the cops on him would enrage him more. Also because she was begging not to do it. She's afraid of him and the guy's his ex. (but it seemed that things between them weren't that good for a while before this explosive breakup).
[QUOTE=Autumn;36581213]i think you have read into that [B]way[/B] too much[/QUOTE] and here i thought i was Autissimo Spergalino
Whatever that means, you fuckin are man, don't worry on that
I have a little something something I need advice with, let me break it down. Im helping my dad at his work, there is also this good looking girl, however, I didnt get a chance to speak with her today, anyway I should talk to her without looking like a creep?
Yes, without looking like a creep would be best
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;36593451]Yes, without looking like a creep would be best[/QUOTE] Now how do I do that.
[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;36593478]Now how do I do that.[/QUOTE] If you've just started working there go have a look around familiarise yourself with the layout and stop by and say hello to people who don't look very busy. Don't just go to talk to her. You can gain a lot by just being friendly, cheerful and asking people a little about what they do/who they are. If they haven't got time to chat they may well tell you so, but don't be put off, it's a workplace. Smile wish them luck etc. and move on.
[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;36593478]Now how do I do that.[/QUOTE] I guess you'd walk in, and when she inevitably looks up/over/around to determine who has come in and sees you, ask her what's up or what's happening or something. Then she will say something back, and you can say whatever you like in turn. And it will go on in a similar fashion
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;36593863]I guess you'd walk in, and when she inevitably looks up/over/around to determine who has come in and sees you, ask her what's up or what's happening or something. Then she will say something back, and you can say whatever you like in turn. And it will go on in a similar fashion[/QUOTE] Yeah like it's just a conversation, don't get all rattled up over it
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;36593863]I guess you'd walk in, and when she inevitably looks up/over/around to determine who has come in and sees you, ask her what's up or what's happening or something. Then she will say something back, and you can say whatever you like in turn. And it will go on in a similar fashion[/QUOTE] Last time I did that I got called a stalker for 2 weeks.
Haha, you must have done it wrong somehow
Mornin', folks, making first post here as far as I can remember I'm going to try to tell my story here a short as possible, I guess too many details would be confusing. Anyways, situation is as follows: I've come to this school 3-4 years ago and I guess I was more of an awkward kid back then, but I changed a lot since then and I've become a more social guy. Well, this year is actually the first year I've really had contact with this one girl from my class; she's fairly good looking (understatement) and also seems to be fairly intelligent. Later this year, we take driving school together, and during one really empty theoretical lesson, we were the only ones there from our school so we got more into talking. Well, things go nice, we exchange numbers and go eat to some place later, generally did a bit together over the course of ~2 weeks, always having loadsa fun together. Now, this is where things go downhill: She works at this kids playhouse-workshop place thats generally low on staff, and messages me one evening that she broke down due to stress and won't be coming to school; I try and cheer her up a little and help her out on organising some stuff with school and driving lessons Weekend's over and I have a feeling she's trying to avoid me for whatever reason; feels shitty to get ignored like that. Anyone have any clue why a girl would act like that?
Perhaps she is just a bit stressed and full of work, not really in the mood for anything. It really depends on the girl though. Be there for her if she needs some help, but do not cling onto her ass and constantly ask her what's wrong.
[QUOTE=OatmealMan;36604444] Anyone have any clue why a girl would act like that?[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=OatmealMan;36604444]messages me one evening that she broke down due to stress[/QUOTE] There you go
From my experience, when people are pulled out of school for stress, it's usually pretty serious. She's probably trying to put her life back together right now and needs some time to sort the basic components out in her life. She doesn't mean to avoid you, it's just she's going through a lot.
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