The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
10,002 replies, posted
[QUOTE=Mon;36816691]okay, i know this falls more under the spectrum of medical advice, but this thread has been good in the past and the actual medical advice thread keeled over a while ago, so uh
i'm actually having a problem with sleep - and it's not like waking up in the middle of the night, or anything like that, it's just i hardly ever feel alert after i wake up. like, i can't concentrate, focus, or make plans as to what i'm going to do and then do it. i can't wrap my head around things as quickly as i normally can, and generally my conversational skills fall to shit.
i'm getting a good amount of sleep every night, but my hours have been shifting around. is there any way i could fix this, or should i just live with it?[/QUOTE]
Make sure youre getting a good breakfast in every morning. Sugary cereals are a bit crap. Try boiled egg and toast for a bit see if that helps. Get a shower too and as everyone else has said, exercise. Doesnt have to be drastic like a marathon before bed every night but if youve been sat in front of a computer all day i recommend a quick 30min run an hour or two before bed. Alternatively try and make sure you move around more during the day.
[QUOTE=Vonwilbur;36820280]I told her that it was moving too fast and she got all depressed and started telling me about if I left her what she would do.
I hate how nice I have to be to people :v:[/QUOTE]
Damn.
Well, when I imagine myself in these scenarios, things don't go pear-shaped when I execute my own advice. Wishful thinking I suppose
[editline]18th July 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;36820322]She might mope about, dye her hair black, and give herself some shallow [I]look-at-me[/I] cuts for a while[/QUOTE]
Seriously?
She's undoubtedly a dumb kid from what we've been told, but that's just more reason to consider that she might believe her melodrama is actually sincere. There are a variety of ways that she could [i]accidentally[/i] top herself due to being rejected out of hand. Maybe her hand slips and one of her cuts isn't shallow. Maybe she OD's on something she took up to help her deal with shit.
Maybe you're right, but there's no way of knowing and you could just as easily be wrong. You can't discount someone's problems and say nothing will come of it because they're fourteen when all you know about them is a small slice of second-hand information.
i can't sleep so i figure i'd tell a little situation i'm in. and no i'm not losing sleep over it, I just took too much caffeine.
I was invited to go to the beach by one of my friends, because she was trying to set up one of our friends with this other girl, but she didn't want to third wheel, so I went with them. It got really awkward and I ended up talking to the other girl for a little bit. I had a girlfriend at the time so I kind of backed off and kept it down to small talk. I had that feeling she was interested, ya know? Anyway fast forward a couple weeks and me and my girlfriend (now ex) break up. Whatever. During those couple weeks me and the other girl chat a little and we ended up getting along pretty well. Eventually she finds out i'm single, and i'm kind of interested in her now, so we talked a lot. Texting, phone calls, video chats, etc etc. Only hung out with her once though. Anyway we both have feelings for each other and we get along so well it's crazy. But the shitty fucking part of it is that I'm going away for college in about two months and she's still in high school. The good thing though is that we understand it probably won't work out if we tried a relationship...but it's still shitty because we can't really do anything about it. I always wonder where I would be if I didn't go to the beach that day lol.
i probably sound dumb as fuck but whatever lol can't sleep just figured i'd share
[QUOTE=Vonwilbur;36819758]Ok so there's this girl who really likes me (like seriously alot, she says she wants to be together forever and I'm "the one" for her, and she thinks I like her that much) but [b]I really dont like her back that much[/b], and she told me she wants me to ask her out. The big problem is [b]we are both only 14[/b], she's just going into high school and I'm going into 10th grade, and [b]she lives in California and I live in New York.[/b] She is coming back to new york from maine today and she wants us to meet up at my house (and ask her out.) [b]She has really bad emotional issues (depression, abusive ex boyfriends, she used to cut)[/b] and I don't think she would take it well at all if I were to tell the truth.
So facepunch, am I just going to have to bite the bullet on this one so she doesn't flip out and harm herself?[/QUOTE]
I think i pointed out all the red flags. you should probably not talk to her, but sure as hell dont date her. she sounds crazy, and if you are actually considering a serious relationship with her, you're desperate.
wait, how has she had "abusive boyfriends" in the past when she's 14? did a boy steal her crayons or something?
[QUOTE=areolop;36819247]Well guys, if I'm going to ask this girl out, I'm going to do it my way. Which means that we scare the living shit out of her first. Since I work for my local police I'm going to use them to help. This is how its going to it .. for now.
We call her gym
We say that we need to talk to her about being at a party the other day.
We then go on to say that she needs to come out and talk to us about the situation
Once she gets outside my partner slaps cuffs on her
Then I show up, in uniform, and just start talking to her and spill the beans. I then ask her out to dinner for later in the week.
[editline]17th July 2012[/editline]
When i say gym, I mean her cheerleading place[/QUOTE]
I know I'm late, but I want front row seats for this.
God [I]fucking[/I] damnit.
Alright so here's the deal. I've been infatuated by this girl for over a good year. We talk everyday and dated a few times in the past. She drove me nuts by calling me the sweetest things and spamming my inbox and facebook wall. That eventually faded but I was still head over heels for her. But after a few months I realised this wasn't going anywhere, so I gradually accepted my loss.
Fast forward another few months, she suddenly has a boyfriend. We even went on a date, and when I got home I noticed the relationship status on facebook. I talked to her and said she could have at least told me. She agreed but feared I'd get mad (because the dude is a total douche). I didn't really care anymore it was him, but I can say I've felt better.
Things calmed down after that, moved on and met some cool new people. But lately she's constantly whining and being melodramatic over her shitty relationship. She tells me she feels he's just using her for sex and whatnot and that doesn't show much emotion towards her. I knew this from the start but bitch won't listen. Anyway she rambles and rambles on, telling me every goddamn detail about her fucking sex life with that guy and how she secretly has feelings for yet [I]another[/I] guy.
Can you imagine how it feels when the girl you're infatuated about tells you all this kind of shit? I feel like a tool just sitting there trying to comfort her and inside I'm bloody dying. She's been doing that for a long time actually. Like she'd just randomnly tell me how much her tits have grown or how she'd like me to take a look at a couple of pictures she made of herself. Not the easiest thing to do when you're pretty much craving her.
Anyway I hinted at her sarcastically with something along the lines of "[I]Boy it sure does feel great here in the friendzone[/I]" but she quickly waved that away by changing the subject to like, music or some shit. She realised she hit a soft spot so she instantly stopped the drama and asked shit like how my day has been and other pointless things.
I pretty much get it that she really wants to keep me as a friend, but it fucking bugs me a lot. Just when I thought I was over it, I'm back at the start. Sorry for the rambling and the incoherent mess, but I just wanted to vent all this for a bit.
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;36825516]wait, how has she had "abusive boyfriends" in the past when she's 14? did a boy steal her crayons or something?[/QUOTE]
She had a boyfriend for 8 months who constantly beat her and yelled at her for no reason.
You can't just assume that if someone is young they are innocent and nothing has happened to them.
[editline]dasnj[/editline]
and I dont really know how to say it but [sp]she was raped[/sp]
[QUOTE=brianosaur;36823629]I think i pointed out all the red flags. you should probably not talk to her, but sure as hell dont date her. she sounds crazy, and if you are actually considering a serious relationship with her, you're desperate.[/QUOTE]
Have you read anything that he posted? He said he doesn't want a relationship with her, but he feels forced to for her sake, not his. His question just should he ask her out, it's how does he do something that doesn't result in her offing herself.
[editline]18th July 2012[/editline]
Also, so that hot chick I mentioned, apparently she can't stand sex jokes, so me being the 16 year old I am, 90% of my jokes are about masturbation, so this leaves me with almost no material. Oh well, it's a good challenge, I think I'm still doing ok, and she seems fine with at least the more mild and subtle sex jokes. I dunno, I'll have to see how things go.
[QUOTE=Larry_G;36828601]God [I]fucking[/I] damnit.
Alright so here's the deal. I've been infatuated by this girl for over a good year. We talk everyday and dated a few times in the past. She drove me nuts by calling me the sweetest things and spamming my inbox and facebook wall. That eventually faded but I was still head over heels for her. But after a few months I realised this wasn't going anywhere, so I gradually accepted my loss.
Fast forward another few months, she suddenly has a boyfriend. We even went on a date, and when I got home I noticed the relationship status on facebook. I talked to her and said she could have at least told me. She agreed but feared I'd get mad (because the dude is a total douche). I didn't really care anymore it was him, but I can say I've felt better.
Things calmed down after that, moved on and met some cool new people. But lately she's constantly whining and being melodramatic over her shitty relationship. She tells me she feels he's just using her for sex and whatnot and that doesn't show much emotion towards her. I knew this from the start but bitch won't listen. Anyway she rambles and rambles on, telling me every goddamn detail about her fucking sex life with that guy and how she secretly has feelings for yet [I]another[/I] guy.
Can you imagine how it feels when the girl you're infatuated about tells you all this kind of shit? I feel like a tool just sitting there trying to comfort her and inside I'm bloody dying. She's been doing that for a long time actually. Like she'd just randomnly tell me how much her tits have grown or how she'd like me to take a look at a couple of pictures she made of herself. Not the easiest thing to do when you're pretty much craving her.
Anyway I hinted at her sarcastically with something along the lines of "[I]Boy it sure does feel great here in the friendzone[/I]" but she quickly waved that away by changing the subject to like, music or some shit. She realised she hit a soft spot so she instantly stopped the drama and asked shit like how my day has been and other pointless things.
I pretty much get it that she really wants to keep me as a friend, but it fucking bugs me a lot. Just when I thought I was over it, I'm back at the start. Sorry for the rambling and the incoherent mess, but I just wanted to vent all this for a bit.[/QUOTE]
I know the feeling. Something just doesn't feel right knowing a girl's been fucked by someone.
it's worse when you here that it was a threesome.
[QUOTE=Vonwilbur;36829243]She had a boyfriend for 8 months who constantly beat her and yelled at her for no reason.
You can't just assume that if someone is young they are innocent and nothing has happened to them.
[editline]dasnj[/editline]
and I dont really know how to say it but [sp]she was raped[/sp][/QUOTE]
or at least she claims to have been, I'm willing to bet it was never referred to the police and with her as the only person to claim it it could be either way. You're listening to the the shit of either a) an attention seeking teenager or b) an emotionally damaged person and taking it as gospel truth.
Just be honest with her, you can't do any more than that and you sure as hell shouldn't get guilt tripped in to being with her. If you do, a couple of years down the line you'll look back on it and be kicking yourself.
Sounds to me like she's just being a manipulative little shit. I think she has issues, but probably not the ones she claims to have.
[editline]18th July 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=shatteredwindow;36829278]
[editline]18th July 2012[/editline]
Also, so that hot chick I mentioned, apparently she can't stand sex jokes, so me being the 16 year old I am, 90% of my jokes are about masturbation, so this leaves me with almost no material. Oh well, it's a good challenge, I think I'm still doing ok, and she seems fine with at least the more mild and subtle sex jokes. I dunno, I'll have to see how things go.[/QUOTE]
You make it sound like you have to appease women with jokes to get them to sleep with you. You could just try you know, talking to her, rather than trying too hard to be a funny guy all the time.
[QUOTE=shatteredwindow;36829278]Have you read anything that he posted? He said he doesn't want a relationship with her, but he feels forced to for her sake, not his. His question just should he ask her out, it's how does he do something that doesn't result in her offing herself.
[/QUOTE]
Yeah but she probably won't kill herself. She's just an attention whore.
[QUOTE=Vonwilbur;36829243]She had a boyfriend for 8 months who constantly beat her and yelled at her for no reason.
You can't just assume that if someone is young they are innocent and nothing has happened to them.
[editline]dasnj[/editline]
and I dont really know how to say it but [sp]she was raped[/sp][/QUOTE]
If she says stuff like "If you don't be with me, I'll kill myself!" I wouldn't be surprised if she consented sex and then later regretted it (or something), and just says she got raped. I know it's not really right to ask for the details to confirm, but IMO she's a manipulative crazy bitch.
I like how you all judge this girl on assumptions when you barely know shit about her
[QUOTE=Vonwilbur;36829243]
and I dont really know how to say it but [sp]she was raped[/sp][/QUOTE]
Well not like that. The social taboo embarrassment/humiliation factor is what leads to rape victims themselves not speaking out, and developing guilt and blaming themselves is very very common as a result of this. It doesn't do to propagate it
Im talking to this girl on fb, and her dbag friend points me out and she never replied :(
[IMG]http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8161/7600516436_bed4977116.jpg[/IMG]
I was just stating a widely known opinion and being nice, why are things like that looked at as being a player or hitting on girls?
[editline]18th July 2012[/editline]
the photo was a shot of the barbados ocean with a sunset and low clouds
uhh she probably didnt reply to you based on your comment, not her friends comment
[QUOTE=RopaDope;36831908]Im talking to this girl on fb, and her dbag friend points me out and she never replied :(
[IMG]http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8161/7600516436_bed4977116.jpg[/IMG]
I was just stating a widely known opinion and being nice, why are things like that looked at as being a player or hitting on girls?
[editline]18th July 2012[/editline]
the photo was a shot of the barbados ocean with a sunset and low clouds[/QUOTE]
Because you're trying too hard
Next time a simple "ey yo u want sum fuk?" will suffice.
[editline]19th July 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Mon;36816691]okay, i know this falls more under the spectrum of medical advice, but this thread has been good in the past and the actual medical advice thread keeled over a while ago, so uh
i'm actually having a problem with sleep - and it's not like waking up in the middle of the night, or anything like that, it's just i hardly ever feel alert after i wake up. like, i can't concentrate, focus, or make plans as to what i'm going to do and then do it. i can't wrap my head around things as quickly as i normally can, and generally my conversational skills fall to shit.
i'm getting a good amount of sleep every night, but my hours have been shifting around. is there any way i could fix this, or should i just live with it?[/QUOTE]
Go get a full hormone blood panel done. Specifically you want to look at your androgen/testosterone levels and Estradiol levels. I suspect one or both are very low. Don't just settle for the GP/endo telling you "lol its fine", get him to give you a copy of the readout, and then ask him to explain the numbers to you. Given that you are a young male, if you are at the low end of the normal range for total and free androgen/testosterone, that's a problem and you may want to look into hormone therapy.
That's just what it sounds like to me, it could be an entirely unrelated issue, but any endo worth his salt should be able to spot a problem with a full hormone panel anyway.
im guessing i was doing to much, but it was honestly only a comment. fuck im weird, i wasnt even trying to hit on her
[QUOTE=RopaDope;36832193]im guessing i was doing to much, but it was honestly only a comment. fuck im weird, i wasnt even trying to hit on her[/QUOTE]
Oh come on, that's bullshit and you know it. Just relax, nobody's gonna care that much. You're overthinking things.
How do you folks feel about facebook and its effects on relationships?
i feel that, example me, when you have a girlfriend you can say stupid stuff to pretty girls and piss your girlfriend off.
snip
[QUOTE=blacksam;36832369]How do you folks feel about facebook and its effects on relationships?[/QUOTE]
Once had a big fight with my at-the-time-girlfriend over some facebook crap.
I think it's a useful tool but you shouldn't rely on it for your relationship. Neither that or text messaging. Most people rely on that and it's a mistake. I hate that "in a relationship" status and the fact my ex made me put that.
And basically that was what fuelled the big argument:
I told her I'm not comfortable with those wall posts saying "I love you" or "oh my dear X and Y", you know. I like to be discreet. No need to tell the 7 winds about my private life but apparently some people can't live without that crap nowadays. That scares me.
So I told her that and she starts posting that on my fb.
I tell her again. She start arguing with me. throwing the "You don't really like me! ( don't get me wrong that shit was really cheesy and I don't see facebook as the proper place to do that), and the "you're just ashamed of me" bomb.
I get tired of that and I delete them. Drastic move I know but I was already fed up with her.
Don't get me wrong, I'm totally ok with public love demonstrations, holding hands, saying "I love you" in front of friends... etc etc... but on facebook? Seems like a fucking waste of time to me. It's fucking ridiculous. And that's what I was trying to say to her. Makes me feel like those couples on highschool that can't stop french kissing and rubbing their relationships on others.
But she got stuck with the "you're ashamed of me" and nothing could change her mind. Nothing I'd say would make her see it my way. So fuck, why bother. She wasn't good for me anyway.
All because of fucking facebook.
I'd say It's a powerful and useful tool to get information from people, arrange dates, meetings, parties and such. Now to pull the strings of your relationship, I'd say don't use facebook for that.
[editline]19th July 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=RopaDope;36831908]Im talking to this girl on fb, and her dbag friend points me out and she never replied :(
[IMG]http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8161/7600516436_bed4977116.jpg[/IMG]
I was just stating a widely known opinion and being nice, why are things like that looked at as being a player or hitting on girls?
[editline]18th July 2012[/editline]
the photo was a shot of the barbados ocean with a sunset and low clouds[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=RopaDope;36832193]im guessing i was doing to much, but it was honestly only a comment. fuck im weird, i wasnt even trying to hit on her[/QUOTE]
Hahahaha
Don't be like that! It wasn't bad. Don't be so insecure. If you weren't saying that to hit on her then you were being honest.
The other guy was just messing around but don't bother with that. I'd say something like that too if someone said something like that to a friend of mine so he's not picking on you.
You shouldn't say that "and thats all they are plain and simple" at the end though. You already said what you had to say you're just repeating yourself.
Leave it like it is.
[QUOTE=Vonwilbur;36829243]She had a boyfriend for 8 months who constantly beat her and yelled at her for no reason.
You can't just assume that if someone is young they are innocent and nothing has happened to them.
[editline]dasnj[/editline]
and I dont really know how to say it but [sp]she was raped[/sp][/QUOTE]
i'm not trying to accuse your girl of anything by saying this so don't take this the wrong way, but i've known a LOT of girls who claimed they were raped or abused because they wanted attention. like, i knew maybe 10 or 20 girls who were like that when i was in middle and high school. a lot of the time they were just exaggerating on an actual event, like their parent slapped them because they said something rude or whatnot, and they turned that into "omg my parents are abusing me!"
again, not accusing her. just letting you know it's a possibility.
also, it's not because she's young. when i was a kid, boys didn't become romantically interested in girls until they were around 14 or 15. she probably would have been dating a guy a few years out of her age range.
also, something else i'd like to add: everyone has a state of emotional normalcy. when something unpleasant happens (this, of course, does not apply to particularly traumatic events) they'll feel unhappy for a while but their emotions will eventually balance out and they'll get over it, same way with happiness. if you turn this girl down, she'll feel worse than usual for a while and then get over it and go back to being depressed like she already seems to be. if you get with her, she'll be happy for a while and then she'll get used to you and she'll go back to being gloomy, and probably up her standards for your behavior or expect something new to make her happy again. no matter what you do, she's ultimately going to be in the same emotional state she is now a few months down the line.
nah, the guy was definitely picking on him. that's the kind of thing i do too to people on facebook to make things way too awkward for them
[QUOTE=RopaDope;36832487]i feel that, example me, when you have a girlfriend you can say stupid stuff to pretty girls and piss your girlfriend off.[/QUOTE]
Girlfriend nagging over some chat with other friend girls?
tell me about it. that's a living hell...
I like to mess around with my girl friends on facebook, you know some jokes and funny talk. But I know them in person and we used to do it all the time before me and my ex started seeing each other. It's not like I'm hitting on them or anything I even know them personally but with my ex it seemed like she wanted to have control of everything in me during the relationship. It was so uncomfortable and annoying that I couldn't take it anymore.
And the hypocrisy was that she was the one who didn't trust me (with no reason) and blamed it on her ex and I was always the guy who supposedly kept deceiving her. Couldn't take it anymore. Everything was about her.
Right now if I get another girl like that, I'll say "pleasure to meet you. Goodbye, have a nice life!"
I don't know how some of you guys take it. Either you like to suffer or you must really love your girls.
my bf and i post something on facebook maybe once every few months. didn't set our relationship status for a few months, his friends found out he was with someone because of a post i made ending up on the front page of reddit..
also, the "in a relationship" status thing is fucking stupid. my ex felt the need to make every action between us facebook official. and he would remove/block me every time something bad happened between us. so our friends got to see our facebook friend status and relationship status rotate six times over the course of four months at one point. fucking embarrassing
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;36832896]i'm not trying to accuse your girl of anything by saying this so don't take this the wrong way, but i've known a LOT of girls who claimed they were raped or abused because they wanted attention. like, i knew maybe 10 or 20 girls who were like that when i was in middle and high school. a lot of the time they were just exaggerating on an actual event, like their parent slapped them because they said something rude or whatnot, and they turned that into "omg my parents are abusing me!"
again, not accusing her. just letting you know it's a possibility.
also, it's not because she's young. when i was a kid, boys didn't become romantically interested in girls until they were around 14 or 15. she probably would have been dating a guy a few years out of her age range.[/QUOTE]
Had a girlfriend like that once and it was the clinginess that got me.
She had a troubled past with some guy. We were 16 at the time and I was, as in your case, the knight in shinny armour for her.
I know you must be feeling confused but ask yourself this question:
What do you want to do?
take your time to think about this. You have to make a decision here.
You either go with it or you stop it. There's no right or wrong path here it's not that black and white.
You just need to take control. And sooner or latter she has to realize there are things she can't control in life. And you'll learn that as much as it feels bad, you can't be responsible for how people react to the paths you take in life.
She obviously has her head on the clouds and she's doing it all wrong to get your atention. She's using guilt on you. She has to step out of that state.
I think what you did so far was a righteous thing to do. You told her that she was moving fast and she had to stop.
Now, that doesn't mean it will make any harm to go out with her. You're friends.
You lso told you felt an infatuation for her, I'd say you should exploit that.
It would give you experience and an insight on how relationships work.
From the way I see it that clinginess is going to take a while to pass. So you should take that in consideration. She's already in a relationship with you in her head.
Point is you shouldnt feel guilty or responsible about her dark past, that's hers to deal with, not yours. As a friend there's only so much you can do. If she can't take care of herself and live by herself you can't be there carrying her around for the rest of your life.
On the other hand you can say you don't want anything with her and move on with your life. Don't do this unless you're 100% sure.
She will most likely react bad as you break things up. However, in the state things are now it will happen sooner or latter.
The way I see it as a 21 guy who had a fair trade of experiences:
You need not to worry about if she's going to be your girl for life, cause I'm now 99% sure that this girl will not be your last. And the way things are I'm sure it will end someday if she doesn't change.
However the question is if its worth it.
I'd say you should follow your feelings. Doesn't matter if her feelings are greater than yours, you already explained her how things work, if she's still in love with you, that's her responsibility from now on.
You have the control now, it sucks but it's up to you to make the decisions.
What do you want to do?
So there's this girl. I used to like her, and we talked a lot, but I didn't think she was into me. So whatever, I got over it, but we're still friends and what not. But now she's trying to set me up with her best friend, the one I mentioned in an earlier post, so sweet, awesome. But now she's talking to me about her guy troubles. But I'm her friend, I can deal with this. But she won't tell me what they are, they're just general "boys suck" comments. So I try to keep her calm and reassure her that not all guys suck. Then she said she wishes more guys were like me and all that jazz. I dunno, maybe I'm misreading her, but maybe she's into me? Maybe I'm just being egotistical, I dunno. And there have been other signs, but I mostly just overlooked them, but still, they might add up.
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;36832722]Once had a big fight with my at-the-time-girlfriend over some facebook crap.
I think it's a useful tool but you shouldn't rely on it for your relationship. Neither that or text messaging. Most people rely on that and it's a mistake. I hate that "in a relationship" status and the fact my ex made me put that.
And basically that was what fuelled the big argument:
I told her I'm not comfortable with those wall posts saying "I love you" or "oh my dear X and Y", you know. I like to be discreet. No need to tell the 7 winds about my private life but apparently some people can't live without that crap nowadays. That scares me.
So I told her that and she starts posting that on my fb.
I tell her again. She start arguing with me. throwing the "You don't really like me! ( don't get me wrong that shit was really cheesy and I don't see facebook as the proper place to do that), and the "you're just ashamed of me" bomb.
I get tired of that and I delete them. Drastic move I know but I was already fed up with her.
Don't get me wrong, I'm totally ok with public love demonstrations, holding hands, saying "I love you" in front of friends... etc etc... but on facebook? Seems like a fucking waste of time to me. It's fucking ridiculous. And that's what I was trying to say to her. Makes me feel like those couples on highschool that can't stop french kissing and rubbing their relationships on others.
But she got stuck with the "you're ashamed of me" and nothing could change her mind. Nothing I'd say would make her see it my way. So fuck, why bother. She wasn't good for me anyway.
All because of fucking facebook.
I'd say It's a powerful and useful tool to get information from people, arrange dates, meetings, parties and such. Now to pull the strings of your relationship, I'd say don't use facebook for that.
[editline]19th July 2012[/editline]
Hahahaha
Don't be like that! It wasn't bad. Don't be so insecure. If you weren't saying that to hit on her then you were being honest.
The other guy was just messing around but don't bother with that. I'd say something like that too if someone said something like that to a friend of mine so he's not picking on you.
You shouldn't say that "and thats all they are plain and simple" at the end though. You already said what you had to say you're just repeating yourself.
Leave it like it is.[/QUOTE]
how incredibly childish of you. im glad you left her, you weren't very good to her.
so what if she posts affectionately on your wall, if it's such a "fucking waste of time" then it doesn't affect you anyway.
Also there's this really creepy chick at work who is in another department and she's like 6 years older than me. Anyway, she says she wishes I were 18 so she could take my virginity. Usually, this would turn me on, but she is ugly as fuck. Like, ok call me shallow if you want, but only after you see her and can tell me she isn't hideous. And she's really creepy. And I have a general rule of not dating girls that have more facial hair than me. Or are twice the size of me. Or have a deeper voice than me.
Sorry, you need to Log In to post a reply to this thread.