The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;36832722]
Hahahaha
Don't be like that! It wasn't bad. Don't be so insecure. If you weren't saying that to hit on her then you were being honest.
The other guy was just messing around but don't bother with that. I'd say something like that too if someone said something like that to a friend of mine so he's not picking on you.
You shouldn't say that "and thats all they are plain and simple" at the end though. You already said what you had to say you're just repeating yourself.
Leave it like it is.[/QUOTE]
actually it was pretty bad
i mean it won't matter in the long run really but yeah thats a very bad way to make conversation on facebook
[QUOTE=shatteredwindow;36834666]So there's this girl. I used to like her, and we talked a lot, but I didn't think she was into me. So whatever, I got over it, but we're still friends and what not. But now she's trying to set me up with her best friend, the one I mentioned in an earlier post, so sweet, awesome. But now she's talking to me about her guy troubles. But I'm her friend, I can deal with this. But she won't tell me what they are, they're just general "boys suck" comments. So I try to keep her calm and reassure her that not all guys suck. Then she said she wishes more guys were like me and all that jazz. I dunno, maybe I'm misreading her, but maybe she's into me? Maybe I'm just being egotistical, I dunno. And there have been other signs, but I mostly just overlooked them, but still, they might add up.[/QUOTE]
Two options - ask her out or take the Behemoth_PT method and tell her you like her
I personally think you're misreading her because that's more often than not the case. If you ask her out, you no longer have to wonder. I mean, by the sounds of it, you're ~friendzoned~ and by asking her out you can gauge if she likes you back without the risk of extreme awkwardness.
Note that asking her out doesn't give b/w answers, ie. she might still want to go out but as friends, with friends, etc. and if that happens you should be able to get the hint.
Unless you don't like her in which case you shouldn't do anything.
re: other girl at work, I have a coworker like that who's reasonably more attractive, but she just flirts with everyone. Half the other employees think she's serious too :S
[QUOTE=RopaDope;36831908]Im talking to this girl on fb, and her dbag friend points me out and she never replied :(
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I was just stating a widely known opinion and being nice, why are things like that looked at as being a player or hitting on girls?
[editline]18th July 2012[/editline]
the photo was a shot of the barbados ocean with a sunset and low clouds[/QUOTE]
clearly it was that cunt friend of hers and not your lame "please notice me i think ur beautiful" comment
[QUOTE=shatteredwindow;36834666]So there's this girl. I used to like her, and we talked a lot, but I didn't think she was into me. So whatever, I got over it, but we're still friends and what not. But now she's trying to set me up with her best friend, the one I mentioned in an earlier post, so sweet, awesome. But now she's talking to me about her guy troubles. But I'm her friend, I can deal with this. But she won't tell me what they are, they're just general "boys suck" comments. So I try to keep her calm and reassure her that not all guys suck. Then she said she wishes more guys were like me and all that jazz. I dunno, maybe I'm misreading her, but maybe she's into me? Maybe I'm just being egotistical, I dunno. And there have been other signs, but I mostly just overlooked them, but still, they might add up.[/QUOTE]
"i wish more guys were like you" =/= "I want to be with you" especially if youve been squarely friendzoned. It could well mean shes just comfortable talking to you and wishes other males were the same or enjoys your company in a way she dpesnt get from partners (especially since youve probably been in her life longer than they have) in my eyes youre massively over analysing a single comment, smells an awful lot like wishful thinking too, you cant tell shit from it. If you like her though do something about it.
[editline]19th July 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;36830931]I like how you all judge this girl on assumptions when you barely know shit about her
Well not like that. The social taboo embarrassment/humiliation factor is what leads to rape victims themselves not speaking out, and developing guilt and blaming themselves is very very common as a result of this. It doesn't do to propagate it[/QUOTE]
He came here seeking advice. My advice is based on my past experiences. Ive never met a single girl in my teenage years who went around claiming to be raped who actually had been. Thus I'm giving him the best advice I can with the information available. Just because you dont agree doesnt make it wrong, nobody has enough information on the matter and I know on which side of the line I'd rather error and therefore i think he should.
Well it's more than just that comment, but if I asked her, it would fuck things up with the other girl.
[QUOTE=metallics;36835406]I know on which side of the line I'd rather error and therefore i think he should.[/QUOTE]
You would rather call bullshit on a girl's rape claim when she has actually been raped than believe a girl's rape claim who hasn't? I really fail to understand why that's the side of the line you want to be on, it's more or less the line between being a complete wanker and being gullible
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;36832722]Once had a big fight with my at-the-time-girlfriend over some facebook crap.
I think it's a useful tool but you shouldn't rely on it for your relationship. Neither that or text messaging. Most people rely on that and it's a mistake. I hate that "in a relationship" status and the fact my ex made me put that.
And basically that was what fuelled the big argument:
I told her I'm not comfortable with those wall posts saying "I love you" or "oh my dear X and Y", you know. I like to be discreet. No need to tell the 7 winds about my private life but apparently some people can't live without that crap nowadays. That scares me.
So I told her that and she starts posting that on my fb.
I tell her again. She start arguing with me. throwing the "You don't really like me! ( don't get me wrong that shit was really cheesy and I don't see facebook as the proper place to do that), and the "you're just ashamed of me" bomb. [/QUOTE]
you're an ass
i'm pretty sure any girl would react the exact same way and think you're embarrassed to be with her if you freaked out like that over their displays of affection. if you're strongly against that sort of thing then maybe you two just didn't fit together that well, sure - but i can't believe you'd blame her for taking offense to your reaction.
[editline]19th July 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;36835648]You would rather call bullshit on a girl's rape claim when she has actually been raped than believe a girl's rape claim who hasn't? I really fail to understand why that's the side of the line you want to be on, it's more or less the line between being a complete wanker and being gullible[/QUOTE]
even though there's no real evidence that suggests one way or the other, it's VERY common for girls who desire attention to lie about being raped.
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;36832722]Once had a big fight with my at-the-time-girlfriend over some facebook crap.
I think it's a useful tool but you shouldn't rely on it for your relationship. Neither that or text messaging. Most people rely on that and it's a mistake. I hate that "in a relationship" status and the fact my ex made me put that.
And basically that was what fuelled the big argument:
I told her I'm not comfortable with those wall posts saying "I love you" or "oh my dear X and Y", you know. I like to be discreet. No need to tell the 7 winds about my private life but apparently some people can't live without that crap nowadays. That scares me.
So I told her that and she starts posting that on my fb.
I tell her again. She start arguing with me. throwing the "You don't really like me! ( don't get me wrong that shit was really cheesy and I don't see facebook as the proper place to do that), and the "you're just ashamed of me" bomb.
I get tired of that and I delete them. Drastic move I know but I was already fed up with her.
Don't get me wrong, I'm totally ok with public love demonstrations, holding hands, saying "I love you" in front of friends... etc etc... but on facebook? Seems like a fucking waste of time to me. It's fucking ridiculous. And that's what I was trying to say to her. Makes me feel like those couples on highschool that can't stop french kissing and rubbing their relationships on others.
But she got stuck with the "you're ashamed of me" and nothing could change her mind. Nothing I'd say would make her see it my way. So fuck, why bother. She wasn't good for me anyway.
All because of fucking facebook.
I'd say It's a powerful and useful tool to get information from people, arrange dates, meetings, parties and such. Now to pull the strings of your relationship, I'd say don't use facebook for that.
[editline]19th July 2012[/editline]
Hahahaha
Don't be like that! It wasn't bad. Don't be so insecure. If you weren't saying that to hit on her then you were being honest.
The other guy was just messing around but don't bother with that. I'd say something like that too if someone said something like that to a friend of mine so he's not picking on you.
You shouldn't say that "and thats all they are plain and simple" at the end though. You already said what you had to say you're just repeating yourself.
Leave it like it is.[/QUOTE]
well im just saving myself from my girlfriend if she saw it.
[editline]19th July 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Kopimi;36835380]clearly it was that cunt friend of hers and not your lame "please notice me i think ur beautiful" comment[/QUOTE]
and it wasnt lame, my word play was immaculate fuck you
[QUOTE=RopaDope;36836600]and it wasnt lame, my word play was immaculate fuck you[/QUOTE]
played it off very cool and collected "THEYRE JUST WORDS PLAIN AND SIMPLE"
she wont suspect a thing
she wont cause i have my gf in check, if she still wants my penis she wont say shit about it.
why are you hitting on fb chicks if you have a girlfriend
your penis does not seem like its worth the trouble of dealing with you
[QUOTE=RopaDope;36836684]she wont cause i have my gf in check, if she still wants my penis she wont say shit about it.[/QUOTE]
remember when i was like "ugh"?
im not married, I think i can talk to other chicks if i want to.
[QUOTE=RopaDope;36836684]she wont cause i have my gf in check, if she still wants my penis she wont say shit about it.[/QUOTE]
Man I hope you're trying to be funny or something
[QUOTE=RopaDope;36836727]im not married, I think i can talk to other chicks if i want to.[/QUOTE]
Talk to them yeah. Flirt and lead them on, no.
If you think a girl will take that, you had best just become single now.
He can flirt as much as he wants, as long as there's a mutual consent about the nature of their relationship.
[QUOTE=Seith;36836961]He can flirt as much as he wants, as long as there's a mutual consent about the nature of their relationship.[/QUOTE]
Which there never is with girls, they will assume and go crazy in almost all normal situations. Unless of course she is the same way and doesn't consider your relationship seriously.
There never is? Have you dated the entire female population on planet Earth? They only assume that kind of shit, if you misled them in the first place.
[QUOTE=RopaDope;36836727]im not married, I think i can talk to other chicks if i want to.[/QUOTE]
it depends. does your girlfriend know about your attitude towards her and how you "talk to" other girls?
[QUOTE=Seith;36836961]He can flirt as much as he wants, as long as there's a mutual consent about the nature of their relationship.[/QUOTE]
I wouldn't call his behaviour flirting, flirting has a degree of subtlety at least. This is like him peering into a shop window and going 'I like what I see that's beautiful'.
Flirt, hit, have sex with.... Anything should be fine and morally correct if there's a mutual consent.
[QUOTE=G3rman;36837048]Which there never is with girls, they will assume and go crazy in almost all normal situations[/QUOTE]
um i dunno what you're implying but me and my girlfriend are really chilled but if i went on some random girl's pic and said "you're beautiful :)" i think she'd be a bit concerned/confused
and jesus cut the "girls are fucking crazy and irrational" bullshit it's not 1920 anymore
[QUOTE=Seith;36837278]Flirt, hit, have sex with.... Anything should be fine and morally correct if there's a mutual consent.[/QUOTE]
shame it never works like this because what people mutually consent to in order to look cool/emotionally unattached never means shit. if people are mutually consented to have sex with others then they're not in a relationship, they're just friends who also have sex and have sex with other people too. that is not a relationship
the people who say "oh no it's an open relationship we can do whatever" almost always say this because they don't want to seem attached, but then the moment something happens with a 3rd-party they get upset and feel dejected and of less worth
beepboop moral code initiated beepboob
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;36835682]you're an ass
i'm pretty sure any girl would react the exact same way and think you're embarrassed to be with her if you freaked out like that over their displays of affection. if you're strongly against that sort of thing then maybe you two just didn't fit together that well, sure - but i can't believe you'd blame her for taking offense to your reaction.
[/QUOTE]
wow, you seem to know so much about me based on some simple text. Go ahead and judge then if it makes you feel any better, I don't regret anything I did.
I'm glad we're not together any longer too but you comment based on no circumstances. And yes, I can see how "rejecting afection comments" can seem like a douche move.
I already told the story of her about 5 times here, you should read it first for some imput.
I'll put it in context and explain:
First of all, I didn't freak out.
Second:
She supposedly wanted to go slow at the time, so basically I took it discretely to respect her wishes.
So basically it wasn't just the ocasional sweet "I love you" wall posts. It was a constant "You're mine" kinds of posts:
I'd talk to other girls, she'd go comment there something awkward to others.
It was all the time. We didn't even had any "in a relationship" status at the time she did it.
Second, she seemed to rely too much on text messages. She was all about text and I was all about being there in personal.
I always arranged some time to be with her everyday after uni even if I had to study I always managed to be with her, go out with her. I did more for that girl that many of you would.
So yeah, buddy, I'm a fucking dirtbag over some facebook cheesy crap.
Attraction is not a choice. I can't control what goes up in her head, the best I can do is be honest about it. That's her problem.
Both genders, in my opinion both get attached even though they know they shouldn't because of two reasons;
one stated above, where they simply can't control who they are attracted to.
second, a need to connect because they don't have any other options.
Hey guys.
Sorry for the reaction from my post above. It sounds like an excuse but I was about to leave home at the time and I didn't have much time to explain things properly.
That and at the time I wrote that thing about facebook and my ex, me being awake half-asleep at 3 AM (due to exams) so yeah, I guess I didn't explain myself very well and the image I got was the idiot who doesn't respect her GF's affection.
What I was trying to say was that facebook isn't a good place to go through relationship issues. Things get out of control and get miss interpreted very easily.
Second of all, no I wasn't ashamed of her. Apart for at the time feeling uncomfortable with the idea of facebook cheesy affection comments I was there a lot for her and she was the only girl I was really commited to.
Now I'm not going to tell the whole story again but long story short she was using me. And at the time of the "incident", as much as I went out with her, talked, be there together spending good times when it came to text messaging (she loved doing it a lot) things would get out of control.
She argued a lot with me through text / facebook and when it came to being present she wouldn't talk to me about the issues. When I did talk to her, she reasured me saying everything was alright. However when I got home the incriminatory text messages like "why don't you say anything?" started to fall on me. I had just been with her.
That facebook incident was after a big argument we both had. I admit it, it may have been harsh but I was frustrated with her atitude. She had issues due to her ex and was giving me the idea she was over him (when she clearly wasn't).
Sure some of you might think it was a dick move. I thought about that too. But looking back we were friends for a very long time. We used to argue, make peace, be there for each other, you know everything close friends go through.
Whenever she was feeling like crap because of her boyfriend using her or being a dick, I would move mountains just to make her feel happy again. She recognized that. Problem is last time it happened we went into a relationship. And when we're inside a relationship things can get out of control more easily, you're expected to act differently. I don't know.
Sure in retrospective things look clearer, and yeah, I'd make some things different. But when you're there, you have feelings in the way and things are not as clear as they look like.
Sorry for the harshness Guy Manly.
[editline]19th July 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;36835205]actually it was pretty bad
i mean it won't matter in the long run really but yeah thats a very bad way to make conversation on facebook[/QUOTE]
Yes, it was a little embarrassing but nothing she'll be thinking about, so no "damage" on the long run.
That's why it wasn't "too bad".
How to make contact with someone who you have no links to? Not even mutual friends to speak of.
You probably have something in common with them. Shared class, go to the same school, live in the same area, listen to the same news etc. Just start a conversation based on that.
Originally posted [url=http://facepunch.com/showthread.php?t=1199133]here[/url].
Yes, this really is my first post. I've been lurking here for a while now and had an intention of joining at some point, but just haven't gotten around to it. Well I seem to have found myself in a bit of a predicament as of late, so after getting some conflicting advice from my friends, I decided to ask this question anonymously on a few of the forums that I have been lurking at, perhaps I can receive a more objective response from people who don't know me or the girl I am referring to. I must warn you though, this is a bit of a long read, so I do apologize in advance for the length. Normally I would never go to the internet for advice, let alone dating advice, but I figured 'what the hell, I'll give it a shot,' so here goes.
To start off I'm 20 years old (and so is the girl I like) and I've had very little real experience with relationships. I did date a girl for about six months my junior year of high school, but I don't even consider that a real relationship, since I was an entirely different person back then and I didn't even really feel anything towards her. I'm very selective when it comes to relationships, both in terms of physical appearances and in terms of various personality traits and her intelligence level (which must be high). Some say that I'm "too picky," and perhaps they are right, since I've only really found two women to be truly attractive in the past few years (if not in my entire life).
In early April 2012 I got a new job at a Walmart store that at the time wasn't open yet. I helped set the store up, doing tasks such as unloading freight and stocking shelves. Well I eventually became friends with one of my co-workers, who we shall now refer to as Chris (not his real name). Well one day in early May, just a few days before the store was set to open, Chris introduced me to his best friend, a beautiful young woman who we shall now refer to as Claire (not her real name). I was almost immediately taken in by her beauty, and was extremely nervous, to the point where I hardly said two words the entire time the three of us sat and had lunch for about an hour.
Unfortunately I hadn't seen Claire since that day until about a week and a half later, and she said "hi" to me (and I said "hi" back) as we ran into each other at work. This happened a handful of times over the next few weeks. Eventually I told Chris that I had a crush on her, Chris and I hung out all the time at work at that point and were quickly becoming friends; he told me that I should probably just move on, because apparently Claire "just doesn't do relationships." I asked him what he meant by this, and he told me that he's been her best friend since 6th grade and she's never been in a relationship and has shot down every guy who has ever tried asking her out or made "moves" on her. She is also like me in the sense that she wants to wait until she meets the right person and fall in love with him (or in my case, her) before having sex. However, unlike me, she is a fairly hardcore Christian, whereas I am an agnostic atheist. When I say "hardcore Christian," I do not mean that she is a Christian fundamentalist or homophobic or anything like that, but she does take her faith seriously.
I listened to what Chris had to say, but I was not dissuaded in the least. I ran into Claire a few times in the break room since then, and we talked, we got to know each other somewhat. We have a lot in common, we're both pretty big geeks and we love Japanese culture, anime, reading, guns, video games, etc. We both have similar political views, as we are both conservatives, and we spoke about politics a few times, and we shared our disgust with how Obama and the Democrats are taking us down the same road as the socialists in the European Union. She even recommended me a book, which I haven't gotten around to checking out yet because ano
Well one day one of my co-workers, who shall now refer to as Leon (not his real name), was talking about the girls that he likes; he then proceeded to ask me if I "have the hots for" anyone at the moment. To which I responded by telling him about Claire, and I mentioned that she was really quiet all of the time. Leon then started talking about how "oh I could carry a conversation with her easily," since apparently he is a "stud" (right...), so I bet him $10 that he couldn't. A few hours later Leon approached me and said "I talked to her, she likes books" then he asked for the $10. I'm a fair and honest man, so I gave him the $10. I later learned that his "conversation" with her consisted of him sitting next to her for about 15 minutes and trying to talk to her while she was reading a book on break, and barely responded to him at all.
Leon, being the only 16 year old who works at our Walmart, then proceeded to brag to everyone about how he "won $10" by making a bet with me about talking to Claire. I needed to get on damage control quickly, for this rumor was spreading quickly. Leon and I were on break and so we went to find Claire, I was hoping that I could talk to her before she found out via a third party. When we found her, I asked her if she heard anything about a bet that Leon and I had had or anything like that, and said she did hear about a bet; she however did not hear that I liked her, so we didn't mention that. I swear she had the most puzzled look on her face, she probably thought we were making fun of her because she hardly ever talks and because she probably thought we're just two stupid football jocks who are picking on her. I said I was so sorry, and I meant every word of it, I didn't explain why we made the bet though. She was visible confused and embarrassed, so Leon and I left; I swear I felt like such an idiot, and I did make a stupid mistake, I don't know what I was thinking when I made that bet.
About two hours later, I was getting ready to go home and so I went in the break room and... OH MY GOD! She was there, sitting down at a table by herself. I sat next to her and I told her the truth, the whole truth. Perhaps I was a little to honest, since I didn't leave out things that a more savvy individual probably would have kept to himself. I told her about how ever since I laid eyes on her that I thought she was beautiful and how I've had a crush on her for the past month. I swear, her whole face just lit up when I said that, and she had a look on her face that read of surprise. I also explained that I was stupid for making the bet with Leon, and that I was sorry. I told her that I shouldn't have ever made that stupid bet with him, to which she responded "in the future you probably shouldn't do that." Things were great, I left her alone for a while and finished getting ready to go home after a nine hour shift of pushing carts in the summer heat. I really thought things were going to work out, we had a great heart-to-heart and I felt like I really turned things around.
And that lasted for about five minutes until I walked out of the door and ran into Leon. I told him about how I think things are going to work out between Claire and me after all and that I was so happy. About thirty seconds later Claire walked out the same door I did and ran into Leon and me. What happened next can only be described as the most anti-climatic event that has ever happened in my entire life. Leon walked in front of her and stopped her from going any further, he then started talking about me, telling her how I'm "such a great guy" and he literally begged her to go out with me. At that point I pretty much just turned to jelly and just slid down the wall I was leaning against on to the floor in a heap, thinking to myself "OH FU-------------." As Leon was begging her to go out with me, I was begging Leon to "stop" and to "leave her alone," but he wouldn't listen to my pleas. He literally asked her to go on a date with me about 30 times, and she said "let's try being friends first and see where that goes." But that wasn't the end of it, Leon then asked her to give me her number, and when she refused, he then asked for her to add me on Facebook (and add him too). After he asked her about five times, she finally wrote down her full name and gave him the paper, saying "fine, you can look me up, now I need to get back to work, so please step aside." He finally stepped aside and let her leave, during this time I was still sitting on the floor, my back to the wall, thinking "what the hell just happened?" I then had a few words with Leon, telling him that he shouldn't have done that and that she'll probably never talk to me again (even though I had nothing to do with Leon doing this, and even tried to stop him). Leon, seeing nothing wrong in what he had just did, replied with "dude I got you her Facebook, you should be thanking me, I got you the girl!" I just walked away at that point, words could not describe how I felt and I was still trying to process and collate everything that had just happened.
From that point on Claire thought I was a creep, despite me having nothing to do with Leon's crazed outburst. A few days after the incident, I approached Claire and tried to apologize, I felt so bad about what had happened; I told her that I had nothing to do with the way Leon was behaving, but I don't think she believed me. I have no doubt that in Leon's mind, he honestly thought he was helping and he had his heart in the right place; it took a couple of weeks, but I eventually forgave Leon. A few weeks after the incident, Chris, knowing that I was innocent in this, talked to Claire and he told me that Claire told him that she wants to give me a second chance and be friends, but that I should give her a little time. So that's what I did, I didn't even talk to her for about a month, then one day I tried asking her how she's been and I felt like she was just ignoring me, though there is a possibility that she just didn't hear me, since I was a few meters away at the time and we were both in the middle of doing our own separate tasks.
About a month after the day that Leon had his outburst, Leon had suggested that each of us cartpushers should write an autobiography about our lives and jobs here at Walmart, and we could publish it in a book. Needless to say, I was skeptical, but I went along with it since everyone else was and I thought it might help me better understand myself. So I wrote about everything that happened, for the first month that I worked for Walmart, including the day that I met Claire. I didn't say anything too weird or creepy, just that I had a crush on her and that I was extremely nervous around her. After that point, I decided to turn it into a zombie apocalypse story, and it was quite good. There were no other references to Claire in it at all, aside from one small paragraph where her and Chris worked together to survive the initial zombie outbreak and fought alongside Leon and myself.
In fact, there were no references to any romance between any of the characters. I eventually showed Chris and Leon it and they thought it was great, so I shared it around to a couple other people, and those people told their friends about it, and their friends told their friends about it, and their friends told their friends about it; so on and so forth. Well by the time Claire finally heard about it, the real story was completely distorted and apparently she thought that it was a romance story involving me and her. It's like that game "telephone," where the original message is passed on so many times that it loses parts of the truth each time it is passed down.
Chris, having read the actual story, talked to Claire about it and told her that there was nothing even close to that. He told her that the only reason her name (as well as the names of several other Walmart employees) was mention in it, was because it was supposed to be a story of what would happen if a zombie outbreak occurred while we were all working at Walmart. I didn't actually hear what Chris and Claire talked about, since I was in the next room; but when Chris came out he said that I should just "move on and forget about Claire." Chris is the closest person I have to a best friend, so I took his advice and tried moving on. I haven't spoken to Claire in about a month, but we still run into each other all of the time at work and I still really like her.
Well two days ago I was talking to a co-worker, a young woman in her mid-twenties who I cashier with frequently. One topic led to another and I mentioned Claire. She knew that I had a crush on her forever, and she was wondering why Claire didn't like me. Apparently I'm "cute" and a "great guy," or so my co-worker told me, and so I explained everything that had happened, and she said that I shouldn't give up so easily, and that I should keep pursuing her. I remained skeptical, but I said I would think about what she told me, and what she was saying made a lot of sense, but I still needed time to think about it.
Yesterday Leon and I were trying to find one of the head-honcho managers for about 20 minutes, so we asked our supervisor if she could ask for him over the radio, and she said she didn't have a radio at the time and that we should try asking Claire, because she has a radio on her. Well we walked over to Claire and I talked to her for the first time in like five weeks, and things weren't so awkward or bad, she helped us out and was very friendly. I am beginning to think that perhaps my co-worker was right in saying that I shouldn't just give up, and Claire seems to have forgiven me? All I want is another chance, even if just to be friends; I've learned from my mistakes and I feel confident that I can turn things around. What do you guys think I should do?
Hey, learn to condense your story into something small and easily readable. The internet cares, but not that much.
[QUOTE=G3rman;36842312]Hey, learn to condense your story into something small and easily readable. The internet doesn't care if it means we have to read for more than a minute.[/QUOTE]
No, you're just lazy.
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