• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=Zerohe;36888506]Never read a post of this thread before besides the OP, not sure if this is the best place to post this, and I don't even give a fuck if anyone reads this either, I'm just in one of those moods Fuck everything, fuck the sky and the birds and the planes everything is shit on this planet why is everything so fucking shit its all fucking shit, i cannot look around without seeing fucking shit everywhere just pure plain stupid ass shit, fucking Facebook and Twitter and fucking Gmail, DayZ is shit too the servers are fucking horrible and dont work and my internet connection is dick i have tonnes of food downstairs and im hungyr but nothing there is appetizing to me right now because its all fuck, shit shit shit shit pretzels, fuck those shitty drawers and fuck whats in them, some african kid would lob off his cock for some god damn chicken nuggets but im too fucking picky to eat some god damn Bear Paws, because fuck the steak i had for supper and fuck my cell phone too, its shit charging like a little bitch being slow no memory 8 apps fuck my phone tv in my room but everything is shit on it, shows are shit the hosts are shit they are fucking shit shit shit everyone is a dick and fuck you gatorade get the fuck in the garbage stop being on my fucking desk friends are all pissed off for no god damn reason at everyone else thats not them im trying to get a bunch of people to hang out and go do something but fuck texting = nope no answer no matter who texts oh wait just got a text now brb oh wait nevermind just some fucking useless shit fuck that anyways so much for interacting with another human trying to go to the gym but nope friends are all fuck (see above) and the ones who said they would are too god damn lazy to do so and cant go by myself i have no idea what the fuck im doing anyhting fitness related is shit i dont know what the fucking a god damn fucking form for a shit tits deadlift is fuck off $21 trillion in offshore tax evasion because the wealth trickles down right im a fucking capitalist libertarian bitch and fucking fucks like that fuck everything up because HRURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR FUCKING MONEYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY fuck you fuck autistic fuck cocks your balls are shriveled like a fucking goat my room is either too fuckign hot or too fucking cold and i cant fucking compromise because the heating system in this is a fucking shit, it sucks donkeys off on a daily basis and i went to sleep at fucking 5:00am last night because of it work all week sitting down counting fucking ATV parts and doing inventory on them 30 hours a god damn week, lunch break consists of fucking KFC and other generic shit and is shit and i just want to go the fuck asleep when i get home but oh wait eveything is still fuckign shit FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK EVERYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYTHINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG[/QUOTE] rofl
[QUOTE=Zerohe;36888506]Never read a post of this thread before besides the OP, not sure if this is the best place to post this, and I don't even give a fuck if anyone reads this either, I'm just in one of those moods Fuck everything, fuck the sky and the birds and the planes everything is shit on this planet why is everything so fucking shit its all fucking shit, i cannot look around without seeing fucking shit everywhere just pure plain stupid ass shit, fucking Facebook and Twitter and fucking Gmail, DayZ is shit too the servers are fucking horrible and dont work and my internet connection is dick i have tonnes of food downstairs and im hungyr but nothing there is appetizing to me right now because its all fuck, shit shit shit shit pretzels, fuck those shitty drawers and fuck whats in them, some african kid would lob off his cock for some god damn chicken nuggets but im too fucking picky to eat some god damn Bear Paws, because fuck the steak i had for supper and fuck my cell phone too, its shit charging like a little bitch being slow no memory 8 apps fuck my phone tv in my room but everything is shit on it, shows are shit the hosts are shit they are fucking shit shit shit everyone is a dick and fuck you gatorade get the fuck in the garbage stop being on my fucking desk friends are all pissed off for no god damn reason at everyone else thats not them im trying to get a bunch of people to hang out and go do something but fuck texting = nope no answer no matter who texts oh wait just got a text now brb oh wait nevermind just some fucking useless shit fuck that anyways so much for interacting with another human trying to go to the gym but nope friends are all fuck (see above) and the ones who said they would are too god damn lazy to do so and cant go by myself i have no idea what the fuck im doing anyhting fitness related is shit i dont know what the fucking a god damn fucking form for a shit tits deadlift is fuck off $21 trillion in offshore tax evasion because the wealth trickles down right im a fucking capitalist libertarian bitch and fucking fucks like that fuck everything up because HRURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR FUCKING MONEYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY fuck you fuck autistic fuck cocks your balls are shriveled like a fucking goat my room is either too fuckign hot or too fucking cold and i cant fucking compromise because the heating system in this is a fucking shit, it sucks donkeys off on a daily basis and i went to sleep at fucking 5:00am last night because of it work all week sitting down counting fucking ATV parts and doing inventory on them 30 hours a god damn week, lunch break consists of fucking KFC and other generic shit and is shit and i just want to go the fuck asleep when i get home but oh wait eveything is still fuckign shit FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK EVERYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYTHINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG[/QUOTE] get a blog [editline].[/editline] and probably a therapist
shit son that rant felt good, much better now
[QUOTE=Zerohe;36888506]Never read a post of this thread before besides the OP, not sure if this is the best place to post this, and I don't even give a fuck if anyone reads this either, I'm just in one of those moods Fuck everything, fuck the sky and the birds and the planes everything is shit on this planet why is everything so fucking shit its all fucking shit, i cannot look around without seeing fucking shit everywhere just pure plain stupid ass shit, fucking Facebook and Twitter and fucking Gmail, DayZ is shit too the servers are fucking horrible and dont work and my internet connection is dick i have tonnes of food downstairs and im hungyr but nothing there is appetizing to me right now because its all fuck, shit shit shit shit pretzels, fuck those shitty drawers and fuck whats in them, some african kid would lob off his cock for some god damn chicken nuggets but im too fucking picky to eat some god damn Bear Paws, because fuck the steak i had for supper and fuck my cell phone too, its shit charging like a little bitch being slow no memory 8 apps fuck my phone tv in my room but everything is shit on it, shows are shit the hosts are shit they are fucking shit shit shit everyone is a dick and fuck you gatorade get the fuck in the garbage stop being on my fucking desk friends are all pissed off for no god damn reason at everyone else thats not them im trying to get a bunch of people to hang out and go do something but fuck texting = nope no answer no matter who texts oh wait just got a text now brb oh wait nevermind just some fucking useless shit fuck that anyways so much for interacting with another human trying to go to the gym but nope friends are all fuck (see above) and the ones who said they would are too god damn lazy to do so and cant go by myself i have no idea what the fuck im doing anyhting fitness related is shit i dont know what the fucking a god damn fucking form for a shit tits deadlift is fuck off $21 trillion in offshore tax evasion because the wealth trickles down right im a fucking capitalist libertarian bitch and fucking fucks like that fuck everything up because HRURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR FUCKING MONEYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY fuck you fuck autistic fuck cocks your balls are shriveled like a fucking goat my room is either too fuckign hot or too fucking cold and i cant fucking compromise because the heating system in this is a fucking shit, it sucks donkeys off on a daily basis and i went to sleep at fucking 5:00am last night because of it work all week sitting down counting fucking ATV parts and doing inventory on them 30 hours a god damn week, lunch break consists of fucking KFC and other generic shit and is shit and i just want to go the fuck asleep when i get home but oh wait eveything is still fuckign shit FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK EVERYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYTHINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG[/QUOTE] Best post 2012
[QUOTE=Zerohe;36888506]and fuck you gatorade get the fuck in the garbage stop being on my fucking desk[/QUOTE] a true work of art
[QUOTE=Zerohe;36888506]-Rant-[/QUOTE] The only thing I could think of is this: [img]http://static.fjcdn.com/gifs/FUCK_449486_3018675.gif[/img] [editline]22nd July 2012[/editline] also ... not sure if excited or nervous about tomorrow...
Is it bad that the most exciting thing to happen to me in months is going to be drinking at a Christian camp?
[QUOTE=Glitch360;36894428]Is it bad that the most exciting thing to happen to me in months is going to be drinking at a Christian camp?[/QUOTE] [img]http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_0F-11_yDYTI/TME3Eg6KF3I/AAAAAAAAAMo/_Z-nZRT73zM/s1600/getty_rm_photo_of_man_drinking_at_bar.jpg[/img]
So I finally moved out of home to another city, and it feels pretty good. Within thirty minutes of being in the town, I landed a full-time job as barista as well as training other people to work in a cafe. Sounds like shit work, but seeing as it was on the right inside the second building I walked into, I think that's pretty okay.
If it's not a shit job in your eyes, then it's not.
Thank you, Seith.
Shit guys, bear with me here. I met this girl over the internet, she's pretty cool and all, likes the same shit I like, and I generally like having internet buddies. Now here's the catch: she's super shy. It's cool with me, since I was the same way in the past. I would jokingly say things like "miss me?" after I came back from the shitter or something to just break the ice (didn't tell her I was taking a dump of course). Anyways, she was like "err...yes?". I'm pretty sure that creeped her out, though I was just saying it to break the ice. I said that I was joking and thanked her for playing along. She didn't answer to anything I said for days after that, even though it said that she's typing. Was she serious and got mad when I told her that I was joking? Shy girls feel offended rather fast, so I've heard. God, I fucked up didn't I.
[QUOTE=Glitch360;36894428]Is it bad that the most exciting thing to happen to me in months is going to be drinking at a Christian camp?[/QUOTE] whats it called? i need to know because of reasons.
[QUOTE=Raizo;36896898]Shit guys, bear with me here. I met this girl over the internet, she's pretty cool and all, likes the same shit I like, and I generally like having internet buddies. Now here's the catch: she's super shy. It's cool with me, since I was the same way in the past. I would jokingly say things like "miss me?" after I came back from the shitter or something to just break the ice (didn't tell her I was taking a dump of course). Anyways, she was like "err...yes?". I'm pretty sure that creeped her out, though I was just saying it to break the ice. I said that I was joking and thanked her for playing along. She didn't answer to anything I said for days after that, even though it said that she's typing. Was she serious and got mad when I told her that I was joking? Shy girls feel offended rather fast, so I've heard. God, I fucked up didn't I.[/QUOTE] she shouldn't be mad that you asked her "miss me?" honestly. Maybe you do it too often? You know, you could just say 'hey im back' now or something. How long have you guys been talking, and do you guys flirt with each other via IM? How far away is she? I'm asking this as somebody who has met a girl online over 4 years ago, and IRL met her the february before last. We've been really close and regularly seeing each other since despite how far away we are (1000mi at first, now 175mi). We're still working on getting a normal relationship.
[QUOTE=Raizo;36896898]Shit guys, bear with me here. I met this girl over the internet, she's pretty cool and all, likes the same shit I like, and I generally like having internet buddies. Now here's the catch: she's super shy. It's cool with me, since I was the same way in the past. I would jokingly say things like "miss me?" after I came back from the shitter or something to just break the ice (didn't tell her I was taking a dump of course). Anyways, she was like "err...yes?". I'm pretty sure that creeped her out, though I was just saying it to break the ice. I said that I was joking and thanked her for playing along. She didn't answer to anything I said for days after that, even though it said that she's typing. Was she serious and got mad when I told her that I was joking? Shy girls feel offended rather fast, so I've heard. God, I fucked up didn't I.[/QUOTE] [SUB][SUB]Joins thread with novel[/SUB][/SUB] I wouldn't say she's offended, per se. But shy girls probably wouldn't want to be forced or rushed into any kind of "committment" unless they felt safer -- even if it was meant jokingly, she probably isn't used to something that. She also could've thought you were flirting with her. Flirting, to those shy and therefore most likely introverted, requires a lot of thought and tact that she may not have wanted to use yet. It is a little scary, though. My current boyfriend was very pushy towards the beginning of things, and I had just gotten out of a relationship + am not good with people + had just met him so I kept responding awkwardly to any advances. Maybe she thought you were hitting on her a little bit, and got spooked? Or maybe you just said something that someone else has said to her in the past. "Miss me?" can easily be used as a harmless joke, but a lot of self-righteous douchebags use it as well, to show "confidence". Though you don't seem at all to fall into the latter, I'm willing to bet that she was a bit scared, either because she thought you were flirting or because it had caused her to recall someone else. My inner psychologist says that she's probably introverted and wasn't expecting to have to respond to something like that. It's a skewed example, but this one kid I know keeps asking to marry me after half the things I say, if it's an unpopular opinion that he shares. I'm sure he's just trying to show how strongly he agrees with me, but it does get creepy. Sorry for the choppy post. You should tell her you're sorry if you creeped her out or upset her or anything; something is better than nothing.
[QUOTE=brianosaur;36897361]she shouldn't be mad that you asked her "miss me?" honestly. Maybe you do it too often? You know, you could just say 'hey im back' now or something. How long have you guys been talking, and do you guys flirt with each other via IM? How far away is she? I'm asking this as somebody who has met a girl online over 4 years ago, and IRL met her the february before last. We've been really close and regularly seeing each other since despite how far away we are (1000mi at first, now 175mi). We're still working on getting a normal relationship.[/QUOTE] She must be very over sensitive. I can't see how you can get offended by being asked ''miss me?''
[QUOTE=Zerohe;36888506]Never read a post of this thread before besides the OP, not sure if this is the best place to post this, and I don't even give a fuck if anyone reads this either, I'm just in one of those moods Fuck everything, fuck the sky and the birds and the planes everything is shit on this planet why is everything so fucking shit its all fucking shit, i cannot look around without seeing fucking shit everywhere just pure plain stupid ass shit, fucking Facebook and Twitter and fucking Gmail, DayZ is shit too the servers are fucking horrible and dont work and my internet connection is dick i have tonnes of food downstairs and im hungyr but nothing there is appetizing to me right now because its all fuck, shit shit shit shit pretzels, fuck those shitty drawers and fuck whats in them, some african kid would lob off his cock for some god damn chicken nuggets but im too fucking picky to eat some god damn Bear Paws, because fuck the steak i had for supper and fuck my cell phone too, its shit charging like a little bitch being slow no memory 8 apps fuck my phone tv in my room but everything is shit on it, shows are shit the hosts are shit they are fucking shit shit shit everyone is a dick and fuck you gatorade get the fuck in the garbage stop being on my fucking desk friends are all pissed off for no god damn reason at everyone else thats not them im trying to get a bunch of people to hang out and go do something but fuck texting = nope no answer no matter who texts oh wait just got a text now brb oh wait nevermind just some fucking useless shit fuck that anyways so much for interacting with another human trying to go to the gym but nope friends are all fuck (see above) and the ones who said they would are too god damn lazy to do so and cant go by myself i have no idea what the fuck im doing anyhting fitness related is shit i dont know what the fucking a god damn fucking form for a shit tits deadlift is fuck off $21 trillion in offshore tax evasion because the wealth trickles down right im a fucking capitalist libertarian bitch and fucking fucks like that fuck everything up because HRURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR FUCKING MONEYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY fuck you fuck autistic fuck cocks your balls are shriveled like a fucking goat my room is either too fuckign hot or too fucking cold and i cant fucking compromise because the heating system in this is a fucking shit, it sucks donkeys off on a daily basis and i went to sleep at fucking 5:00am last night because of it work all week sitting down counting fucking ATV parts and doing inventory on them 30 hours a god damn week, lunch break consists of fucking KFC and other generic shit and is shit and i just want to go the fuck asleep when i get home but oh wait eveything is still fuckign shit FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK EVERYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYTHINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG[/QUOTE] just ask her out
[QUOTE=brianosaur;36897361]she shouldn't be mad that you asked her "miss me?" honestly. Maybe you do it too often? You know, you could just say 'hey im back' now or something. How long have you guys been talking, and do you guys flirt with each other via IM? How far away is she? I'm asking this as somebody who has met a girl online over 4 years ago, and IRL met her the february before last. We've been really close and regularly seeing each other since despite how far away we are (1000mi at first, now 175mi). We're still working on getting a normal relationship.[/QUOTE] We haven't been talking for long yet, maybe 3 weeks. Talking is an understatement, honestly. She only answers mostly to yes or no questions, which I don't get upset about, I just ask some other time or use different words. And no, I've never said anything that could've been misinterpreted to me flirting or hitting her up, since I'm not even sure if she's open to deeper relationships. She lives 178 miles away from me. I want to put her to ease and let her know that she can be herself around me. Sure, it takes time for her to get used to me, I just want to make it easier for both of us. [editline]23rd July 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=~horizon;36898398][SUB][SUB]Joins thread with novel[/SUB][/SUB] I wouldn't say she's offended, per se. But shy girls probably wouldn't want to be forced or rushed into any kind of "committment" unless they felt safer -- even if it was meant jokingly, she probably isn't used to something that. She also could've thought you were flirting with her. Flirting, to those shy and therefore most likely introverted, requires a lot of thought and tact that she may not have wanted to use yet. It is a little scary, though. My current boyfriend was very pushy towards the beginning of things, and I had just gotten out of a relationship + am not good with people + had just met him so I kept responding awkwardly to any advances. Maybe she thought you were hitting on her a little bit, and got spooked? Or maybe you just said something that someone else has said to her in the past. "Miss me?" can easily be used as a harmless joke, but a lot of self-righteous douchebags use it as well, to show "confidence". Though you don't seem at all to fall into the latter, I'm willing to bet that she was a bit scared, either because she thought you were flirting or because it had caused her to recall someone else. My inner psychologist says that she's probably introverted and wasn't expecting to have to respond to something like that. It's a skewed example, but this one kid I know keeps asking to marry me after half the things I say, if it's an unpopular opinion that he shares. I'm sure he's just trying to show how strongly he agrees with me, but it does get creepy. Sorry for the choppy post. You should tell her you're sorry if you creeped her out or upset her or anything; something is better than nothing.[/QUOTE] I understand fully. I noticed that it could have been creepy, unfortunatly after I hit the damn enter key.
Trying way too hard, just don't imagine this will blossom into some great long distance relationship. They rarely if ever work that way. Just figure out the appropriate way to talk to make her comfortable and be friends, nothing more.
[QUOTE=G3rman;36899590]Trying way too hard, just don't imagine this will blossom into some great long distance relationship. They rarely if ever work that way. Just figure out the appropriate way to talk to make her comfortable and be friends, nothing more.[/QUOTE] I didn't say that I want to go all the way with her. As I said in my novel post, I just like having internet buddies. I'm just trying to figure out how to make her feel comfortable with me so that just being friends would even work out.
[QUOTE][B]I met this girl over the internet, she's pretty cool and all, likes the same shit I like,[/B][/QUOTE] I interpret as you aren't saying it, but you are working up to it and would be willing. It's just not a good idea so I felt it was best to warn now.
[QUOTE=Raizo;36896898]Shit guys, bear with me here. I met this girl over the internet, she's pretty cool and all, likes the same shit I like, and I generally like having internet buddies. Now here's the catch: she's super shy. It's cool with me, since I was the same way in the past. I would jokingly say things like "miss me?" after I came back from the shitter or something to just break the ice (didn't tell her I was taking a dump of course). Anyways, she was like "err...yes?". I'm pretty sure that creeped her out, though I was just saying it to break the ice. I said that I was joking and thanked her for playing along. She didn't answer to anything I said for days after that, even though it said that she's typing. Was she serious and got mad when I told her that I was joking? Shy girls feel offended rather fast, so I've heard. God, I fucked up didn't I.[/QUOTE] If she got upset by a single word then something's wrong with her, shyness or not. Move on, pointless investment of your time
[QUOTE=G3rman;36899638]I interpret as you aren't saying it, but you are working up to it and would be willing. It's just not a good idea so I felt it was best to warn now.[/QUOTE] I appreciate the warning, but in my eyes friends should at least remotely have the same interests to make it work out. You're right on one thing, though. I would be open for a long distance relationship, but that doesn't mean I want to win her heart immediatly, or that it even has to be her individually.
[QUOTE=Raizo;36896898]Shit guys, bear with me here. I met this girl over the internet, she's pretty cool and all, likes the same shit I like, and I generally like having internet buddies. Now here's the catch: she's super shy. It's cool with me, since I was the same way in the past. I would jokingly say things like "miss me?" after I came back from the shitter or something to just break the ice (didn't tell her I was taking a dump of course). Anyways, she was like "err...yes?". I'm pretty sure that creeped her out, though I was just saying it to break the ice. I said that I was joking and thanked her for playing along. She didn't answer to anything I said for days after that, even though it said that she's typing. Was she serious and got mad when I told her that I was joking? Shy girls feel offended rather fast, so I've heard. God, I fucked up didn't I.[/QUOTE] i don't know what your relationship with her is like, but she might just be freaked out by the fact that you're hitting on her. online relationships rarely work. on top of that, depending on how you two met, she might be pretty used to guys hitting her online, or getting tired of it, and you might even have just gotten yourself thrown into the "drooling xbox nerd who's never seen a girl before" category in her mind. if that isn't the case and she's just upset then she's probably not worth your time. either way, don't get your hopes up.
So, If someone that is totally not me- (It's totally me) -at all at sent this crappy pick up line over facebook while being drunk, would that be at all a tiny bit scary taken the fact that I have only stared at her without stop for pretty much a whole year, never said a word. I was just there at all times looking at her, and for the first time in my life pretty much I didn't just look at her tits, but it was the eyes that caught my attention. How odd is that? But still the ''pick up'' line that i sent was: Hey! I just meet you, and this is crazy, but here's my number [ I put my phone number here...], so call me, maybe? I did this a few many minutes ago.. and she has seen it, just not yet replied or called me.. So maybe I'm Creepy.. I think I'am. So let this be a lesson, never try the same. Why i post this? I don't know, it said love and friendly. Share your thoughts please!
that's mad creepy [QUOTE=tomteglogg;36899972]taken the fact that I have only stared at her without stop for pretty much a whole year, never said a word. I was just there at all times looking at her, and for the first time in my life pretty much I didn't just look at her tits, but it was the eyes that caught my attention. [/QUOTE] stop you're scaring me this is like reading a women's horror novel
The eyes are like glowing marbles, or something that sounds sexy..
[QUOTE=tomteglogg;36899972]So, If someone that is totally not me- (It's totally me) -at all at sent this crappy pick up line over facebook while being drunk, would that be at all a tiny bit scary taken the fact that I have only stared at her without stop for pretty much a whole year, never said a word. I was just there at all times looking at her, and for the first time in my life pretty much I didn't just look at her tits, but it was the eyes that caught my attention. How odd is that? But still the ''pick up'' line that i sent was: Hey! I just meet you, and this is crazy, but here's my number [ I put my phone number here...], so call me, maybe? I did this a few many minutes ago.. and she has seen it, just not yet replied or called me.. So maybe I'm Creepy.. I think I'am. So let this be a lesson, never try the same. Why i post this? I don't know, it said love and friendly. Share your thoughts please![/QUOTE] you dun goofed son. just pray that this doesn't spread round, say you were fraped or something by a friend.
[QUOTE=tomteglogg;36899972]So, If someone that is totally not me- (It's totally me) -at all at sent this crappy pick up line over facebook while being drunk, would that be at all a tiny bit scary taken the fact that I have only stared at her without stop for pretty much a whole year, never said a word. I was just there at all times looking at her, and for the first time in my life pretty much I didn't just look at her tits, but it was the eyes that caught my attention. How odd is that? But still the ''pick up'' line that i sent was: Hey! I just meet you, and this is crazy, but here's my number [ I put my phone number here...], so call me, maybe? I did this a few many minutes ago.. and she has seen it, just not yet replied or called me.. So maybe I'm Creepy.. I think I'am. So let this be a lesson, never try the same. Why i post this? I don't know, it said love and friendly. Share your thoughts please![/QUOTE] Don't do this again
[QUOTE=tomteglogg;36899972]So, If someone that is totally not me- (It's totally me) -at all at sent this crappy pick up line over facebook while being drunk, would that be at all a tiny bit scary taken the fact that I have only stared at her without stop for pretty much a whole year, never said a word. I was just there at all times looking at her, and for the first time in my life pretty much I didn't just look at her tits, but it was the eyes that caught my attention. How odd is that? But still the ''pick up'' line that i sent was: Hey! I just meet you, and this is crazy, but here's my number [ I put my phone number here...], so call me, maybe? I did this a few many minutes ago.. and she has seen it, just not yet replied or called me.. So maybe I'm Creepy.. I think I'am. So let this be a lesson, never try the same. Why i post this? I don't know, it said love and friendly. Share your thoughts please![/QUOTE] This is the wrong way to let alcohol push you into being brave. Somewhere, there is some part of you that thinks this was at least slightly a good idea. Sort it out.
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