• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=tomteglogg;36899972] How odd is that? But still the ''pick up'' line that i sent was: Hey! I just meet you, and this is crazy, but here's my number [ I put my phone number here...], so call me, maybe? [/QUOTE] You had to use one of the most annoying and overdone lines too. You couldn't do something funny like most drunks do?
Well.. it has now been a bit over and hour or so since i sent the message, and she actually called me, believe it or not. Turns out I'm not the only creepy person out there as it turns out after i poured out all my ''feelings'', toughts and so on about how i pretty much stalked her for a year and how lovely i think she was and still is. She had noticed me aswell and thought i was handsome, yes she even used the word handsome after she told me how shocked she was when i sent her the message and that she thought i got ''faceraped'' by a friend or some crap like that and now i got a date next weekend so screw you guys! she still couldn't deny that i was creepy when i asked her if i was. So who knows, she atleast gave me a chance! And.. the reason i said i wasn't the only creepy person in the world was because she also had been looking at me a bit more than normal and stalked my facebook for awhile! Yey, or something like that. -UPDATE- I'm now chatting with her after the slightly awkawrd,lovely conversation we had a few moments ago.
[QUOTE=tomteglogg;36900270]Well.. it has now been a bit over and hour or so since i sent the message, and she actually called me, believe it or not. Turns out I'm not the only creepy person out there as it turns out after i poured out all my ''feelings'', toughts and so on about how i pretty much stalked her for a year and how lovely i think she was and still is. She had noticed me aswell and thought i was handsome, yes she even used the word handsome after she told me how shocked she was when i sent her the message and that she thought i got ''faceraped'' by a friend or some crap like that and now i got a date next weekend so screw you guys! she still couldn't deny that i was creepy when i asked her if i was. So who knows, she atleast gave me a chance! And.. the reason i said i wasn't the only creepy person in the world was because she also had been looking at me a bit more than normal and stalked my facebook for awhile! Yey, or something like that.[/QUOTE] Wow, so you either have someone pitying you or you found someone just as creepy as you. Not good.
[QUOTE=G3rman;36900284]Wow, so you either have someone pitying you or you found someone just as creepy as you. Not good.[/QUOTE] she's probably just as eccentric as him if she's willingly going out with a stalker. whatever floats their boat i guess
[QUOTE=tomteglogg;36900270]Turns out I'm not the only creepy person out there as it turns out after i poured out all my ''feelings'', toughts and so on about how i pretty much stalked her for a year and how lovely i think she was and still is[/QUOTE] Oh goodness I guess if you got a date, you got a date, but it just seems sketchy.
[QUOTE=tomteglogg;36899972] I just meet you, and this is crazy, but here's my number [ I put my phone number here...], so call me, maybe? [/QUOTE] ..Isn't that a song? Holy shit. [editline]23rd July 2012[/editline] it's a cute ass song how do chicks not dig that?
[QUOTE=Disseminate;36900477]Oh goodness I guess if you got a date, you got a date, but it just seems sketchy.[/QUOTE] Well i got two dates now! Well, if you would call coming over to play skyrim while eating crisps and drinking soda a date, then yes. I can't really tell how this worked out this way, maybe I'm friendzoned now or something.
[QUOTE=Raizo;36900521]..Isn't that a song? Holy shit. [editline]23rd July 2012[/editline] it's a cute ass song how do chicks not dig that?[/QUOTE] because it was done while drunk through facebook
[QUOTE=Protocol7;36900624]because it was done while drunk through facebook[/QUOTE] True.. that's why I always stay the fuck away from a computer while drunk or just type funny shit to my friends on Steam, then laugh with them about it the next day. [editline]23rd July 2012[/editline] And oh yeah, about my little dilemma. I asked her straight forward if she was upset about what I said to her. She wasn't at all. She said she didn't answer to anything because she never even recieved anything on her faulty Steam mobile app.
[QUOTE=tomteglogg;36900270]Well.. it has now been a bit over and hour or so since i sent the message, and she actually called me, believe it or not. Turns out I'm not the only creepy person out there as it turns out after i poured out all my ''feelings'', toughts and so on about how i pretty much stalked her for a year and how lovely i think she was and still is. She had noticed me aswell and thought i was handsome, yes she even used the word handsome after she told me how shocked she was when i sent her the message and that she thought i got ''faceraped'' by a friend or some crap like that and now i got a date next weekend so screw you guys! she still couldn't deny that i was creepy when i asked her if i was. So who knows, she atleast gave me a chance! And.. the reason i said i wasn't the only creepy person in the world was because she also had been looking at me a bit more than normal and stalked my facebook for awhile! Yey, or something like that. -UPDATE- I'm now chatting with her after the slightly awkawrd,lovely conversation we had a few moments ago.[/QUOTE] you told her about the stalking? oh man. i hope for your sake she is not taking the piss at this point, but don't be shock if you get stood up at the date.
He's just getting his swag on
[QUOTE=CheeserCrice;36897213]whats it called? i need to know because of reasons.[/QUOTE]It doesnt have a name, it's just a camping thing my church does every year
Well LA I just got fired from my job because apparently I was "dicking around and harassing a manager", aka. tossing a golf ball back and forth with a coworker for (literally) 30 seconds before doing my job. Coworker got fired too. The manager in question has a tendency to blow things out of proportion. This is possibly the dumbest reason to fire an employee ever but I suppose it's better to not work for someone who's on a hair trigger like that. Feels like shit but I suppose I now have loads of free time for the next month and a half, I'm more worried about telling my parents since they're the reason I got a job in the first place & it's more likely than not I'll be skinned alive. Oh well :(
Ohp. The whole thing has been postponed until Wednesday due to my work fucking shit up... We shall try again then.
I posted here a few weeks ago nervous about my first date and such, but then she cancelled on me because she had to move out of her house on that day. She said "I'll make it up to you sometime". It's been three weeks now and I haven't had any contact with her since, I texted her and tried to get a conversation going but she never replied. She's always on Facebook and I've tried messaging her there but to no avail. Should I move on or wait for her to reschedule the date?
[QUOTE=psychojake;36906140]I posted here a few weeks ago nervous about my first date and such, but then she cancelled on me because she had to move out of her house on that day. She said "I'll make it up to you sometime". It's been three weeks now and I haven't had any contact with her since, I texted her and tried to get a conversation going but she never replied. She's always on Facebook and I've tried messaging her there but to no avail. Should I move on or wait for her to reschedule the date?[/QUOTE] Told you you should have volunteered to help her move. Move on, you are focusing way too much on her. No one should have to put this much effort into a first date, it should be a casual and easy yes/no thing.
I'm asking out Work Girl when she comes to relieve me this morning! I'm a wee bit nervous, because I'm deffo getting a little crush on her, but she laughs at all my jokes, likes all my Facebook statuses, and sends me things like "Some men are awesome... Like you!" when we text, so I'm feeling my chances are at least better than bad! I've just got to be really super cool when I do it. I'm going to go check the lost and found for some sun glasses and hair gel. [editline]24th July 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Disseminate;36902794]Well LA I just got fired from my job because apparently I was "dicking around and harassing a manager", aka. tossing a golf ball back and forth with a coworker for (literally) 30 seconds before doing my job. Coworker got fired too. The manager in question has a tendency to blow things out of proportion. This is possibly the dumbest reason to fire an employee ever but I suppose it's better to not work for someone who's on a hair trigger like that. Feels like shit but I suppose I now have loads of free time for the next month and a half, I'm more worried about telling my parents since they're the reason I got a job in the first place & it's more likely than not I'll be skinned alive. Oh well :([/QUOTE] Man, you should've seen my old boss, at the bar. Have you ever seen the movie "Waiting?" You know that waitress who was always on the edge of uncontrolled rage? She was the family-friendly version of my old manager. She'd turn on anybody who crossed her path when she got in one of her moods (even the customers)! I have no idea how she stayed in business, with the amount of customers she alienated! That's the only job I ever got fired from, and it was for making a comment about her hotheadedness.
[QUOTE=rosthouse;36496092]So, I guess it's my first time asking for advice here. I've met this girl a few months ago in my hometown, and we've seen each other every now and then (we mostly hang out in the same bar(s) and sort of have the same friends by now, so we never actually had what you'd call a date). We are good friends by now (at least from my point of view). Now, during the week I live in another city and 2 weeks ago she had a test here. I offered her to sleep at my place and she gladly took the offer. We had a great evening (I even cooked for her :v:) and talked a lot about our interests and backgrounds. She was even interested in some of the little games I programmed (She asked what I'd like to do later, I decided to be honest. When I said I made some small games, she insisted that I'd show her some). So, after that little backstory, I need some advice. As you probably guessed, I really like her. Right now I text her every other day or so, and we'd always have a little conversation (We both have our finals right now, so at least I have an opener). I don't want to come over as a desperate creep, so I'm really unsure if it's OK that I write her that often. I don't want to do anything wrong (probably why I never had a girlfriend in the first place), so that's why I'm asking here. [B]tl;dr[/B] I text a girl I like every other day or so, that too much?[/QUOTE] I posted this a few weeks back (thanks again to Lukeo for helping me out, did what you said and here I am :) ). We've been seeing each other a lot lately, 3 times in a row last week alone. She'll be moving to my town soon as well and we already have lots of plans for things to do (sports, cooking, clubbing). Thanks to this I'm quite sure that she really enjoys my company as well. We're texting a lot, mostly playfull little things. What really makes me happy is that I'm not always texting her first, sometimes she writes by herself (yeah, seems like nothing special, but for me she's the first girl to ever do that :v: ). Now, I want to take this up a notch. I'm not quite sure how to make the next step though. I mean, we're seeing each other a lot, but most of the time it's with other friends. How would I go about either telling her how I feel or... I don't know, any ideas? I've been thinking about telling her that I'd like to spend more time with her, but I'm not quite sure if that sounds corny or stupid or whatever. On an somewhat unreleated note, something funny that occured one night out with her: We were a small group and suddenly some guy burst into our group. He started chatting with her and after a minute or so, she asked him "Hey, I know a prostitute who's running around here, should I introduce you to her?" Couldn't stop laughing :v:
So this girl I've been talking to, I have mixed feelings about her. At first I thought she was just some cute innocent girl. Then she told me her whole life story. Well not whole, she didn't go into much detail, but it seems like she's had some fucked up things happen to her. At first, I was a little freaked out, but then I thought hey, I can deal with this. It's fucked up and she needs someone to talk to. Ok. Well then I was talking to her tonight, and she just said some things, I'm not sure but I can't really place my finger on it but something doesn't sit right. I don't know, I get the feeling she might be playing me? But it's not quite that. I dunno. I just kinda wanted to write this out, I'm not really looking for advice or anything, yet, but yeah. But I'm hanging out with her this weekend so I'll see how that goes.
[QUOTE=tomteglogg;36900050]The eyes are like glowing marbles, or something that sounds sexy..[/QUOTE] "It rubs the lotion on its skin. It does this whenever it is told."
"Would you fuck me? I'd fuck me. I'd fuck me so hard."
Yeeha, Work Girl is coming over for dinner tomorrow night! Now I need to think of an easy, but impressive dish for two. I've never really tried cooking anything fancy before, so I think I'll give it a practice run tonight.
shatteredwindow, go with your gut. if you think she' playing you, then be a little more wary around her.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;36912774]Yeeha, Work Girl is coming over for dinner tomorrow night! Now I need to think of an easy, but impressive dish for two. I've never really tried cooking anything fancy before, so I think I'll give it a practice run tonight.[/QUOTE] If all else fails just order a chinese
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;36912774]Yeeha, Work Girl is coming over for dinner tomorrow night! Now I need to think of an easy, but impressive dish for two. I've never really tried cooking anything fancy before, so I think I'll give it a practice run tonight.[/QUOTE] Sausage and beef casserole! I'm sure I've rolled out this recipe before, it looks and sounds really fancy, is really tasty and so fucking easy. Some beef, some sausages (I go for 0.5kg of each), chop into chunks, fry, roll in flour. Chop stuff of your choice to go with (I normally go for onions, celery and apple) fling it all in a big pot with 1/2 pint beef stock and some cider (200ml?). Add a bay leaf if you're a classy fucker. Boil the shit out of it on the hob(depending on how watery you make it anywhere between an hour and 4). If you've got it right the sauce should be fairly thick. If it isn't thick enough when you come to serve throw in some cornflour. Serve it with mash (mash in small amounts of boiled leek/onion/garlic/cheese for extra points) peas and carrots, or just bread. Looks like you've put all day into making it, when in reality it's just sat on the hob all day.
I already talked to the owner of the farmer's market I live above, and she recommended that I make teriyaki chicken with wild rice and broccoli, served with a salad, fresh bread, and lemonade on the side. She offered to make the salad and bread, for a nominal fee, and lent me some fancy glassware (because she's such a wonderful lady)!
[QUOTE=Lukeo;36913385]If all else fails just order a chinese[/QUOTE] diarrhea is so romantic in other news, i'd like to rant. about my parents. again this is at least the 4th time this year they have talked about divorce. I'm really desensitized to it now, ala the old story of the boy who cried wolf. What's really annoying is how childishly they handle the entire situation. My dad sits and makes snide remarks for hours on end - I ignore them to try to encourage him to shut up, but it never works. My mom's melodramatic to the extreme, and to be honest, the way she acts really just sounds like a cry for attention. Literally. She cries a lot, and sure, given the circumstance, I don't see that as a problem. But it's the way she acts during and around these occasions, it's not too different from the way a child throws a tantrum. Screaming, throwing things, accosting people for no reason. Just this morning she was crying when she woke up and so, trying to be a good son, I go ask her what's wrong, because she literally just woke up and maybe she stubbed her toe or something. Immediately she snaps "what do you mean what's wrong" and glares at me like I'm fucking crazy. I took the hint and left. I don't know what to do. I try to mediate everything and let there be peace but it's the conundrum of an unstoppable force meeting an immovable object. If they want to divorce, fine, I'm 19 and can handle myself, but there are better ways of handling marriage problems than throwing tantrums, aren't there?
[QUOTE=Protocol7;36915294]diarrhea is so romantic[/QUOTE] Are you thinking of indian or something? I've never had bowel problems with chinese food.
any dodgy take-away can give you health issues. you could have a pizza that could fuck you up. anyways take-out tends to be very filling and often really smelly n stuff so i wouldn't recommend it in the wooing process
Question: When you find out that the person you really care for doesn't have any feelings for you, you start to feel incredible hot rage (where you feel that your brain is burning) and ice-cold sorrow (and the rest of your body is cold and water-y) but it's all repressed with perfect clarity and you literally have no intentions of doing harm... How hard is it going to bite you back later in your life? Oh and yeah I had a rather difficult life to answer your question.
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