• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=rivershark;36928428]How old are you? Is this a summer job, or a year-round job? Do you rely on the money for food/rent/tuition? If it's just a summer job and you're just there to get some disposable income, then I would do as GoldenGnome says, don't necessarily quit just yet but use any free time you're given to look for another job. And once you've been hired somewhere, then quit your shitty current job and work at the new place. But if it's your full time job and you need the money, then I would do the same thing but just take it slower and don't be so quick to quit your current job. Don't quit until you've found a job that you KNOW will be much better and your are absolutely sure you will get the job.[/QUOTE] I'm 19. I still live at home with my parents since public transport makes it really easy to get to campus. I don't [I]need[/I] the money for anything but keeping up car maintenance and whatever other hobbies I want, but on the same token there's no reason to not have a job. It is full time, except I can take any day I want off since I'm still technically an intern. I feel like I ought to take a week's vacation and just get back into the groove so to speak.
Well, I'm about to start prepping dinner. I've got a fresh-baked loaf of bread on the counter, a yummy-looking hand tossed salad in the fridge, some semi-fancy glassware on the table and a counter full of meat, veggies, and rice. I've got a sparkly clean apartment, appropriate lighting, and music playing, too. I am going to rock this date. Even if my chicken comes out like crap, I think she'll dig the effort! That said, I hope it doesn't come out like crap! Vague Recollection of High School Cooking Class, don't fail me now!
better overcooked than undercooked, remember that
[QUOTE=areolop;36924771]ok... lets get the game plan down.. #1 -> 5: Secret 6: Ask girl to go out to lunch on Friday 7: Choose lunch location... Panera or something else (probably going with Panera) 8: Hope and pray to the gods that she says yes[/QUOTE] would you just go on this date already and stop posting your weird daily updates on whatever creepy awkward plan you have in store to wow this girl
[QUOTE=areolop;36924968]OH SHIT. No, i just like having plans. Plan everything.[/QUOTE] No don't plan anything You have a severe case of over-planning Symptoms include stupidly elaborate disaster-prone schemes involving special timings, props and third parties all in order to ask [b]one very straightforward question[/b]
I can't ask you out today; I forgot my pogo stick.
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;36936659]No don't plan anything You have a severe case of over-planning Symptoms include stupidly elaborate disaster-prone schemes involving special timings, props and third parties all in order to ask [b]one very straightforward question[/b][/QUOTE] I'll have you know, I got me a date.
[QUOTE=areolop;36939535]I'll have you know, I got me a date.[/QUOTE] And yet it could have been achieved by just, ya know, asking her normally.
[QUOTE=G3rman;36939856]And yet it could have been achieved by just, ya know, asking her normally.[/QUOTE] But I did ask her normally. [editline]26th July 2012[/editline] I didnt do all that other shit
[QUOTE=G3rman;36939856]And yet it could have been achieved by just, ya know, asking her normally.[/QUOTE] did I miss something or are you guys just being incredibly bitchy about this? his plan seemed perfectly normal, the very first step was asking her out, and then the rest of his plan was about planning the date there is nothing over the top about that
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;36939929]did I miss something or are you guys just being incredibly bitchy about this? his plan seemed perfectly normal, the very first step was asking her out, and then the rest of his plan was about planning the date there is nothing over the top about that[/QUOTE] I think you missed an earlier post where he siad he was planning to go in uniform and pretend to arrest her before asking her out.
[QUOTE=metallics;36939999]I think you missed an earlier post where he siad he was planning to go in uniform and pretend to arrest her before asking her out.[/QUOTE] Yeah, this is what I was referring to. I guess he figured out that it was totally unnecessary to do all that.
Very.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;36939929]did I miss something or are you guys just being incredibly bitchy about this? his plan seemed perfectly normal, the very first step was asking her out, and then the rest of his plan was about planning the date there is nothing over the top about that[/QUOTE] I'm sorry, it's been bugging me for a while, but who is that as your avatar? I wanna say Marlon Brando? Well whatever, all I know is they look goddamn sexy doing that eye roll thingy and the mouth thingy and yeah. Anyway, Tomorrow I'm gonna make some cookies with this chick, so I hope that goes well.
Guys. Guys I think this is how girls should ask out dudes [b]NSFW[/b] [url]http://cdn.fakku.net/8041E1/c/manga/m/myfirsttimewithprez_e/images/011.jpg[/url]
oh lol that was the same person? yeah thats a terrible god awful idea and you should be ashamed for even thinking of it [editline]26th July 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=shatteredwindow;36940222]I'm sorry, it's been bugging me for a while, but who is that as your avatar? I wanna say Marlon Brando? Well whatever, all I know is they look goddamn sexy doing that eye roll thingy and the mouth thingy and yeah. Anyway, Tomorrow I'm gonna make some cookies with this chick, so I hope that goes well.[/QUOTE] marlon brando in a screen test for rebel without a cause (he didn't end up starring in it though)
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;36940452]marlon brando in a screen test for rebel without a cause (he didn't end up starring in it though)[/QUOTE] every time i see your posts i have to pause for a minute to stare at your avatar.
It's just so sexy. I don't know how it's physically possible to be a sexy as that one instant is. I want to make sweet sweet love to that picture. [editline]26th July 2012[/editline] Maybe my avatar could meet up with your avatar?
bjork is better
yes i sure love blue penis
Tonight was just beautiful. Work Girl and I really hit it off. We talked while I made dinner, talked while we ate dinner, talked through a movie (and cuddled most sweetly), and then stayed up until these early hours just lying with each other. We really seem to be getting along well with each other, and I can already hardly wait to see her again! I'm pretty sure she's smarter than me, too. She's a psychology major, and is very well spoken on the subject!
okay that's all good and well, but please put that in the hilarious BDA style we all know and love.
BDA's posts remind me of the Oatmeal for some reason.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;36941201]Tonight was just beautiful. Work Girl and I really hit it off. We talked while I made dinner, talked while we ate dinner, talked through a movie (and cuddled most sweetly), and then stayed up until these early hours just lying with each other. We really seem to be getting along well with each other, and I can already hardly wait to see her again! I'm pretty sure she's smarter than me, too. She's a psychology major, and is very well spoken on the subject![/QUOTE] Tell her your hotel stories and you're bound to win her over.
soo, this girl im kind of dating says that she's really bad and awkward with the whole relationship stuff, like holding hands and kissing and shit, so she says we should take it slow Ive never been in a relationship before, is there anything I could do to make her feel "safe" and that it's ok to do those things? [editline]26th July 2012[/editline] i mean, we've kissed before but we were both drunk; she complains that she's awkward at it while sober (ill probably be the same too, but oh well)
Fuck, my parents are pissing me off. I can't have any goddamn privacy. My dad's fucking pms'ing constantly. Dad: "Oh you went shopping, what'd you get?" Me: "oh, nothing really, just stuff" "Jesus fucking christ stop being so damn defensive" "???" Fuck. And I'm constantly barraged by questions, usually I can brush most of them off, but then sometimes that happens. It's not like I have anything to hide, I just want to be left alone for 5 damn minutes.
or you could answer the questions.. unless you bought girls underwear or something
Well like, I went to barnes and noble, and I got a comic and a star wars book, so my dad asked what I got. Well, he's not exactly a book person, and definitely not a comic or star wars book person, so I told him "just stuff", and that's when he flipped on me.
ehh.. even if he's not a comic or book person, he's asking because he's interested in getting an answer.
[QUOTE=shatteredwindow;36950858]Well like, I went to barnes and noble, and I got a comic and a star wars book, so my dad asked what I got. Well, he's not exactly a book person, and definitely not a comic or star wars book person, so I told him "just stuff", and that's when he flipped on me.[/QUOTE] thats pretty passive-agressively evasive of you; i know because i used to pull the same crap with my parents before i realized that they are in fact some of the few people who will ever be genuinely interested in my affairs. cut your old man some slack.
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