• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=redBadger;36944291]Tell her your hotel stories and you're bound to win her over.[/QUOTE] She's Work Girl, you donkey! I'm winning her over with my boyish charm and curious innocence. Also, I made some MEAN teriyaki chicken. It was the chicken that tipped the scales. I'm sure of it.
Lunch tomorrow just got turned into dinner on saturday.
Make her chicken.
I was thinking somewhere out since I dont think my family would like me cooking... (and before you ask, shatteredwindow, you cannot come) I didnt say anything about it being a date but she said it was, so now it is. Improvement. and, she said that this is her first date ever.
Choose a nice restaurant then. I think you know what to do from there.
[QUOTE=areolop;36953614]I was thinking somewhere out since I dont think my family would like me cooking... (and before you ask, shatteredwindow, you cannot come) [/QUOTE] Oh well, I'm going to Minnehaha with this chick Saturday, so yeah, take that.
[QUOTE=areolop;36953614]I was thinking somewhere out since I dont think my family would like me cooking... (and before you ask, shatteredwindow, you cannot come) I didnt say anything about it being a date but she said it was, so now it is. Improvement. and, she said that this is her first date ever.[/QUOTE] Make it more than awesome because you are setting the standard.
[QUOTE=brianosaur;36961864]Make it more than awesome because you are setting the standard.[/QUOTE] Definitively will.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;36953287]Make her chicken.[/QUOTE] At this point it's tried and true.
anyone know what i could do for a week in san jose? i'm gonna be stuck with family for most of the time so
get high and be bored
Work on your car?
I'm starting to wonder if the boyfriend of the girl that I'm trying to woo is upset with me for what I said to him on Monday. He asked me to take him and his girlfriend to the mall because he would be having a special surprise for her. And I asked:"Is it that you are actually going to spend some time with her?" The worst part being that yes, it was his "special surprise". Or to be more specific: To finally agree with going out to the cinema with her. I don't know what would be an appropriate reaction so let's just go with :downs:. She told me before that she was under the shoe, but I had no idea it was that bad. As she said before to me:"When he doesn't want to do something, he just sulks until he gets his way". I really hope that she would finally draw a line soon. For her own sake. It would at least spare me having to listen to her being mad about him. But I guess if he would be upset with me for what I said, then we would be even, because I am already upset with him taking her for granted. A long while ago I even told him to be grateful for whom he's got, because girls like her don't come by every day. But it seems like so much for that on his part.
Oh, friend, you are travelling down a bad road.
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;36968726]I'm starting to wonder if the boyfriend of the girl that I'm trying to woo[/QUOTE] imo this should be a no go in any situation. personally, i think if someone cheats on their partner (or flirts, lets you "woo her", etc) with you, there's nothing that should make you think they're not going to do it to you idk that's just not the kind of person i'd want to be with
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;36968726]I'm starting to wonder if the boyfriend of the girl that I'm trying to woo is upset with me for what I said to him on Monday. He asked me to take him and his girlfriend to the mall because he would be having a special surprise for her. And I asked:"Is it that you are actually going to spend some time with her?" The worst part being that yes, it was his "special surprise". Or to be more specific: To finally agree with going out to the cinema with her. I don't know what would be an appropriate reaction so let's just go with :downs:. She told me before that she was under the shoe, but I had no idea it was that bad. As she said before to me:"When he doesn't want to do something, he just sulks until he gets his way". I really hope that she would finally draw a line soon. For her own sake. It would at least spare me having to listen to her being mad about him. But I guess if he would be upset with me for what I said, then we would be even, because I am already upset with him taking her for granted. A long while ago I even told him to be grateful for whom he's got, because girls like her don't come by every day. But it seems like so much for that on his part.[/QUOTE] Hey, maybe you should not try going for a taken woman and leave her with the man she gushes about? Sure, he's not perfect, but you sure as hell have your flaws too.
Any advice for asking a girl out who I've never met/spoken to before? We work together but we never see each other due to different positions.
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;36968726]I'm starting to wonder if the boyfriend of the girl that I'm trying to woo is upset with me for what I said to him on Monday. He asked me to take him and his girlfriend to the mall because he would be having a special surprise for her. And I asked:"Is it that you are actually going to spend some time with her?" The worst part being that yes, it was his "special surprise". Or to be more specific: To finally agree with going out to the cinema with her. I don't know what would be an appropriate reaction so let's just go with :downs:. She told me before that she was under the shoe, but I had no idea it was that bad. As she said before to me:"When he doesn't want to do something, he just sulks until he gets his way". I really hope that she would finally draw a line soon. For her own sake. It would at least spare me having to listen to her being mad about him. But I guess if he would be upset with me for what I said, then we would be even, because I am already upset with him taking her for granted. A long while ago I even told him to be grateful for whom he's got, because girls like her don't come by every day. But it seems like so much for that on his part.[/QUOTE] honest question, have you actually followed a single piece of advice given to you in this thread?
My developing relationship is the jam, and we're getting along quite well. We're having a late-night auxilary date tomorrow night to hold us off until our next "real" date on Tuesday. Tuesday is an adventure date, so I need to think of something pretty wacky and unconventional. The only thing I'm a bit worried about is that she might want to progress physically a bit faster than I do! I'm in the mindset that I'm really digging this girl, and that I'd like to move along at a comfortable pace in order to give myself more time to know her before getting physical, so that the physical aspects of our relationship don't become the cornerstone of it. However, I wonder that she's keen to advance at a more ambitious rate than I am! [editline]27th July 2012[/editline] I don't know, now that I think about it. That doesn't sound very troubling at all. I bet I could just be like, "hey, I want to forge a stronger relationship by not rushing sex," and she'd be all, "You are so sensitive and also handsome. I am liking you so much more for your emotional depth and all that shit. We should have relations." And then I'd be like, "Well, okay." Because, really, I'm only so strong.
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;36968726]I'm starting to wonder if the boyfriend of the girl that I'm trying to woo is upset with me for what I said to him on Monday. He asked me to take him and his girlfriend to the mall because he would be having a special surprise for her. And I asked:"Is it that you are actually going to spend some time with her?" The worst part being that yes, it was his "special surprise". Or to be more specific: To finally agree with going out to the cinema with her. I don't know what would be an appropriate reaction so let's just go with :downs:. She told me before that she was under the shoe, but I had no idea it was that bad. As she said before to me:"When he doesn't want to do something, he just sulks until he gets his way". I really hope that she would finally draw a line soon. For her own sake. It would at least spare me having to listen to her being mad about him. But I guess if he would be upset with me for what I said, then we would be even, because I am already upset with him taking her for granted. A long while ago I even told him to be grateful for whom he's got, because girls like her don't come by every day. But it seems like so much for that on his part.[/QUOTE] you are now their 3rd wheel and personal bitch, congratz
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;36968726]I'm starting to wonder if the boyfriend of the girl that I'm trying to woo is upset with me for what I said to him on Monday. He asked me to take him and his girlfriend to the mall because he would be having a special surprise for her. And I asked:"Is it that you are actually going to spend some time with her?" The worst part being that yes, it was his "special surprise". Or to be more specific: To finally agree with going out to the cinema with her. I don't know what would be an appropriate reaction so let's just go with :downs:. She told me before that she was under the shoe, but I had no idea it was that bad. As she said before to me:"When he doesn't want to do something, he just sulks until he gets his way". I really hope that she would finally draw a line soon. For her own sake. It would at least spare me having to listen to her being mad about him. But I guess if he would be upset with me for what I said, then we would be even, because I am already upset with him taking her for granted. A long while ago I even told him to be grateful for whom he's got, because girls like her don't come by every day. But it seems like so much for that on his part.[/QUOTE] back out, dude. back out.
Right now I'm not actively doing anything with them. Didn't even take them to the mall. I have decided to back off and watch them fall apart by themselves. His attitude may cause a huge fight soon. And to be honest; I am going to try to provoke her. I've been trying to back off as best I can during the summer. And here's a short summary: The few single girls I've hung out with haven't so much as glanced at me, while in the other hand the taken girls have been all been flirty (some less some more).
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;36972606] And to be honest; I am going to try to provoke her.[/QUOTE] stop
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;36972658]stop[/QUOTE] I know what I'm doing. I've done it before (by accident).
No you don't. All you're going to do is create unnecessary drama and fuck yourself over in the process [editline]28th July 2012[/editline] What's the point of posting in here if all you do is the exact opposite of the advice we give you?
True dat. Imma stop it with this thread. But I'm still gonna do what I said I would.
Welp, have fun with that
At the very least, please, PLEASE, make your avatar transparent. Also, don't do it. (By it, I mean trying to get in with that girl, not making your background transparent. Still do that.)
Will do on the avatar part. But do you think that even though they would break up without me having anything to do with it that she would still be a no go? I also wonder about what the reaction in this thread would been had I not given any personal input on my post and instead had it be about a friend whom is in a relationship with someone whom takes them for granted. And once he does what is considered obvious to say the least in a relationship, he thinks that he's the shit.
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;36973122]Will do on the avatar part. But do you think that even though they would break up without me having anything to do with it that she would still be a no go? I also wonder about what the reaction in this thread would been had I not given any personal input on my post and instead had it be about a friend whom is in a relationship with someone whom takes them for granted. And once he does what is considered obvious to say the least in a relationship, he thinks that he's the shit.[/QUOTE] Don't meddle with other people's affairs, they won't learn anything about other people or themselves if you have to interfere. She needs a wake up call, let her get it. If she chooses to lean on you, do your thing. If not, don't be a douche and move on.
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