• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;37052737]i already hate her. especially with the new knowledge that while she was teasing me she ran off and fucked some random. feeling incredibly inadequate. i feel like i need to confront her but i know that's just going to lead to her stupid apologies and more importantly me believing them. ughh[/QUOTE] yo dawgg it's not you that's inadequate, it's her. don't talk to her it just makes life worse no matter what goes down. if you get her to apologize, good fucking job, nothing changed. if you make her feel bad, then you feel like an ass, and if you buy into whatever she says then gg you're just believing stupid shit. just drop it, who cares what she does. [editline]2nd August 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=killerteacup;37045949]So I need to pull some smooth moves on my girlfriend. Something cool. Unfortunately as a general rule once I'm in a relationship I tend to lose all semblance of being able to be smooth. Suggestions?[/QUOTE] being smooth is p contextual what do you want to be smooth for/when?
Quick question: How much does social networking sites play into a relationship? Im getting a lot suggestive feedback via chat from all my buddies from school about dating this girl (that of which, im not yet dating). However, she is going ape shit on my wall - liking all my photos, statuses, and comments. Is this a red-flag? I dont mind her liking everything but other people are starting to say shit about it.
[QUOTE=areolop;37056496]Quick question: How much does social networking sites play into a relationship? Im getting a lot suggestive feedback via chat from all my buddies from school about dating this girl (that of which, im not yet dating). However, she is going ape shit on my wall - liking all my photos, statuses, and comments. Is this a red-flag? I dont mind her liking everything but other people are starting to say shit about it.[/QUOTE] are you interested in dating her, or not? [editline]2nd August 2012[/editline] i'm confused as to what you're actually asking
[QUOTE=areolop;37056496]Quick question: How much does social networking sites play into a relationship? Im getting a lot suggestive feedback via chat from all my buddies from school about dating this girl (that of which, im not yet dating). However, she is going ape shit on my wall - liking all my photos, statuses, and comments. Is this a red-flag? I dont mind her liking everything but other people are starting to say shit about it.[/QUOTE] check out how much of other people's stuff she likes and comments on if she does it for everyone she's just a facebook addict. if it's solely you thats a little different
I've been thinking about something that has bugged me since i was younger and i couldn't figure it out. So i was taking a shit the other day, smoking some cheap kush. I was thinking about beautiful girls, like not the neighborhood good looking cute, the jaw dropping one in a million beautiful women, i couldn't understand why these girls rarely dated, let along had boyfriends, then it hit me. Guys avoid these girls thinking they have no chance with them, and most of these beauts are somewhat lonely because no one (ish) approaches them assuming they have no chance/already taken, they tend to be more insecure about themselves, to that day i didn't fully understand why for instance i'd say X girl was gorgeous and she would shrug off saying something along the lines of 'FUCK OFF I'M HIDEOUS LOL' Also explained why the less pretty girls are more cocky and spoiled. I think this is powerful knowledge when picking someone to date or some shit, so anyone in this thread wants to date a real pretty girl but is afraid she is 'out of their league', don't worry about it because they are significantly less hard to hook up than other girls. Honestly this hole 'out of my league' bullshit pisses me off, this is insecurity talking, girls are meat bags just like us, they are not gods, they not jesus with pussies, they are regular people just like you and me and most likely they are more lonely than you are. So if you're in this position nut the fuck up
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[QUOTE=DrBreen;37060248]I've been thinking about something that has bugged me since i was younger and i couldn't figure it out. So i was taking a shit the other day, smoking some cheap kush. I was thinking about beautiful girls, like not the neighborhood good looking cute, the jaw dropping one in a million beautiful women, i couldn't understand why these girls rarely dated, let along had boyfriends, then it hit me. Guys avoid these girls thinking they have no chance with them, and most of these beauts are somewhat lonely because no one (ish) approaches them assuming they have no chance/already taken, they tend to be more insecure about themselves, to that day i didn't fully understand why for instance i'd say X girl was gorgeous and she would shrug off saying something along the lines of 'FUCK OFF I'M HIDEOUS LOL' Also explained why the less pretty girls are more cocky and spoiled. I think this is powerful knowledge when picking someone to date or some shit, so anyone in this thread wants to date a real pretty girl but is afraid she is 'out of their league', don't worry about it because they are significantly less hard to hook up than other girls. Honestly this hole 'out of my league' bullshit pisses me off, this is insecurity talking, girls are meat bags just like us, they are not gods, they not jesus with pussies, they are regular people just like you and me and most likely they are more lonely than you are. So if you're in this position nut the fuck up[/QUOTE] [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nNTb5sBvJPY[/media]
lol
god phoebe cates is so hot
[QUOTE=DrBreen;37060248]I've been thinking about something that has bugged me since i was younger and i couldn't figure it out. So i was taking a shit the other day, smoking some cheap kush. I was thinking about beautiful girls, like not the neighborhood good looking cute, the jaw dropping one in a million beautiful women, i couldn't understand why these girls rarely dated, let along had boyfriends, then it hit me. Guys avoid these girls thinking they have no chance with them, and most of these beauts are somewhat lonely because no one (ish) approaches them assuming they have no chance/already taken, they tend to be more insecure about themselves, to that day i didn't fully understand why for instance i'd say X girl was gorgeous and she would shrug off saying something along the lines of 'FUCK OFF I'M HIDEOUS LOL' Also explained why the less pretty girls are more cocky and spoiled. I think this is powerful knowledge when picking someone to date or some shit, so anyone in this thread wants to date a real pretty girl but is afraid she is 'out of their league', don't worry about it because they are significantly less hard to hook up than other girls. Honestly this hole 'out of my league' bullshit pisses me off, this is insecurity talking, girls are meat bags just like us, they are not gods, they not jesus with pussies, they are regular people just like you and me and most likely they are more lonely than you are. So if you're in this position nut the fuck up[/QUOTE] [video=youtube;JVebSZXcAc0]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JVebSZXcAc0[/video]
i find it amusing that a pickup "artist" thinks he has insight on how women think
[QUOTE=killerteacup;37045949]So I need to pull some smooth moves on my girlfriend. Something cool. Unfortunately as a general rule once I'm in a relationship I tend to lose all semblance of being able to be smooth. Suggestions?[/QUOTE] get both of you nice and drunk. Try not to get so drunk that words fall out and dont mean anything but enough for her to not mind you not being that smooth. This also means you'll be able to have sex for longer later. ;)
[QUOTE=thisispain;37065281]i find it amusing that a pickup "artist" thinks he has insight on how women think[/QUOTE] Is it because he's a "pick up artist" or because you can't imagine someone knowing more than you on such an "abstract" field?
[QUOTE=Seith;37065473]Is it because he's a "pick up artist" or because you can't imagine someone knowing more than you on such an "abstract" field?[/QUOTE] it's not an abstract field. it's people [editline]3rd August 2012[/editline] i mean i know that's an abstract field for you because it wasn't properly programmed but that's different
Are you intentionally being an idiot?
seith we've been asking you that for a long time now
I realize it's easier for you to joke and go around the bush instead of being honest.
no beating around the bush is definitely your hallmark i gave you my honest answer: it's not an abstract field
So I've had this problem for months and I just can't kick it no matter what I do; I'm in love with my best friend. So as assumed, I'm a male and of course, she's female. Oh, by the way, we're both eighteen. Around five months ago there was a chance of us getting into a relationship together, it all happened one night while we were drunk and we kissed, etc. But around a week later she decided we should stay friends, which destroyed me, I just couldn't get over it. and we didn't talk much. So then a few weeks later we start talking again and we developed feelings for each other, we decided to give it a go, but yet again she felt like it wasn't right. So that was it, I couldn't take it any more, I didn't talk to her for two months, despite it killing me and making me feel like shit all the time. Eventually around two weeks ago you guessed it, we started talking again. This time, making sure that we were friends from the start and nothing more. But here's the thing, when we go out together, such as the other night we went camping, just the two of us. We cuddled all night and held hands and other stuff like that. And yes, we're still friends at this point, is this weird or what? Because I'm pretty damn sure that friends don't do stuff like this. Anyway, although I keep telling myself we're just friends I cannot help feeling strongly about her, I hate to say it, but I honestly think I'm in love, it's crazy, right? But we talk constantly, and when we don't, all I do is think about her. She's the first thing I think about before going to bed and the first thing on my mind when I wake up. I don't want to stop being friends with her, but I just don't know what to do. If you read all this then thank you.
I am not surprised that Seith considers "pick up artist" a serious science.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;37050607]Ask her, and basically tell her just that. There is no reason you can't date and be friends. Maybe give her the option to go as a couple or just friends, but you'll have to word it right.[/QUOTE] How would I do that? As in wording, like can you give me an example?
The solution of getting rid of another girl from your head is talk to others, so why is it that every girl in this town in a relationship? /rant
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;37066355]no beating around the bush is definitely your hallmark i gave you my honest answer: it's not an abstract field[/QUOTE] Nobody asked you that question directly or even indirectly or even asked whether you think this is an abstract field. It was your bullshit interpretation to negate what I'm actually saying into your own childish provocation. [editline]3rd August 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Big Dumb American;37066960]I am not surprised that Seith considers "pick up artist" a serious science.[/QUOTE] Meeting a woman isn't serious, Romeo? I've seen your fairytales... [editline]3rd August 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=vizard38;37067250]The solution of getting rid of another girl from your head is talk to others, so why is it that every girl in this town in a relationship? /rant[/QUOTE] How many people are there, in your town, 10?
[QUOTE=vizard38;37067250]The solution of getting rid of another girl from your head is talk to others, so why is it that every girl in this town in a relationship? /rant[/QUOTE] Personally that doesn't work for me, I just go play guitar or hang out or something.
Out of curiosity why have we never heard of your conquests Seith?
[QUOTE=Seith;37067333] How many people are there, in your town, 10?[/QUOTE] The town population sign says 40,000 but something tells me that we over compensated a little.
[QUOTE=Seith;37067333]Meeting a woman isn't serious, Romeo? I've seen your fairytales...[/QUOTE] He means someone who goes out of their way to learn all these pick-up methods, when getting a girlfriend is not too entirely hard, shouldn't really be taken seriously. "Meeting a woman" can be serious as you want. Practicing and studying how to meet women is slightly ridiculous.
[QUOTE=AltUser;37066595]So I've had this problem for months and I just can't kick it no matter what I do; I'm in love with my best friend. So as assumed, I'm a male and of course, she's female. Oh, by the way, we're both eighteen. Around five months ago there was a chance of us getting into a relationship together, it all happened one night while we were drunk and we kissed, etc. But around a week later she decided we should stay friends, which destroyed me, I just couldn't get over it. and we didn't talk much. So then a few weeks later we start talking again and we developed feelings for each other, we decided to give it a go, but yet again she felt like it wasn't right. So that was it, I couldn't take it any more, I didn't talk to her for two months, despite it killing me and making me feel like shit all the time. Eventually around two weeks ago you guessed it, we started talking again. This time, making sure that we were friends from the start and nothing more. But here's the thing, when we go out together, such as the other night we went camping, just the two of us. We cuddled all night and held hands and other stuff like that. And yes, we're still friends at this point, is this weird or what? Because I'm pretty damn sure that friends don't do stuff like this. Anyway, although I keep telling myself we're just friends I cannot help feeling strongly about her, I hate to say it, but I honestly think I'm in love, it's crazy, right? But we talk constantly, and when we don't, all I do is think about her. She's the first thing I think about before going to bed and the first thing on my mind when I wake up. I don't want to stop being friends with her, but I just don't know what to do. If you read all this then thank you.[/QUOTE] you need to quickly establish yourself not simply as a provider partner but as a sexual one the cuddling and holding hands is cute and all, but that's an incredibly friendly act you will have to be bold, and give her the impression that being yours is something that her life will benefit from
[QUOTE=Lukeo;37067531]Out of curiosity why have we never heard of your conquests Seith?[/QUOTE] I don't kiss and tell.
[QUOTE=Seith;37067768]I don't kiss and tell.[/QUOTE] Perhaps it would make your nonsensical advice have some sort of sense to it knowing previous experiences
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