The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=Mobon1;37067601]He means someone who goes out of their way to learn all these pick-up methods, when getting a girlfriend is not too entirely hard, shouldn't really be taken seriously.
"Meeting a woman" can be serious as you want. Practicing and studying how to meet women is slightly ridiculous.[/QUOTE]
There are no pick methods. There's only understanding. I can't be taught what to say to make be attracted to me, which is why I think what you are saying is what is ridiculous.
People do this purely because they enjoy it, there are no magic pills or wand swings.
[editline]3rd August 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Lukeo;37067789]Perhaps it would make your nonsensical advice have some sort of sense to it knowing previous experiences[/QUOTE]
Everything I say is based on experience.
[QUOTE=Seith;37067801]There are no pick methods. There's only understanding. I can't be taught what to say to make be attracted to me, which is why I think what you are saying is what is ridiculous.[/QUOTE]
wtf does this even mean
[QUOTE]I can't be taught what to say to make be attracted to me[/QUOTE]
wtf
[quote=Seith]Meeting a woman isn't serious, Romeo? I've seen your fairytales...[/quote]
i'm crying
I have no idea, I am nonsensical.
[QUOTE=AltUser;37066595]So I've had this problem for months and I just can't kick it no matter what I do; I'm in love with my best friend.
So as assumed, I'm a male and of course, she's female. Oh, by the way, we're both eighteen.
Around five months ago there was a chance of us getting into a relationship together, it all happened one night while we were drunk and we kissed, etc.
But around a week later she decided we should stay friends, which destroyed me, I just couldn't get over it. and we didn't talk much.
So then a few weeks later we start talking again and we developed feelings for each other, we decided to give it a go, but yet again she felt like it wasn't right.
So that was it, I couldn't take it any more, I didn't talk to her for two months, despite it killing me and making me feel like shit all the time.
Eventually around two weeks ago you guessed it, we started talking again. This time, making sure that we were friends from the start and nothing more. But here's the thing, when we go out together, such as the other night we went camping, just the two of us. We cuddled all night and held hands and other stuff like that. And yes, we're still friends at this point, is this weird or what? Because I'm pretty damn sure that friends don't do stuff like this.
Anyway, although I keep telling myself we're just friends I cannot help feeling strongly about her, I hate to say it, but I honestly think I'm in love, it's crazy, right? But we talk constantly, and when we don't, all I do is think about her. She's the first thing I think about before going to bed and the first thing on my mind when I wake up.
I don't want to stop being friends with her, but I just don't know what to do. If you read all this then thank you.[/QUOTE]
you should distance yourself from her. it'll help you get over it. be careful though, because she'll notice what you're doing and will try and reel you in again. when this happens, know that if you do let her in, it won't be anything more than a few hook ups before she pulls the same tricks. if that appeals to you, them sure, go for it. but try your best not to get too attached because it will suck colossally for you.
[editline]3rd August 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Seith;37067842]I have no idea, I am nonsensical.[/QUOTE]
evidently
Beep boop
[QUOTE=Seith;37065473]Is it because he's a "pick up artist" or because you can't imagine someone knowing more than you on such an "abstract" field?[/QUOTE]
because anyone that calls themself a "pickup artist" clearly doesn't have the first clue about what women think
[QUOTE=Rusty100;37068489]because anyone that calls themself a "pickup artist" clearly doesn't have the first clue about what women think[/QUOTE]
You base this on what? Lack of belief is caused by.....?
because considering yourself a pick up artist is probably top on the list of shit women will think is disgusting and pathetic (and most people in general)
[editline]4th August 2012[/editline]
are you being thick on purpose or what
Don't listen to this troll, Seith. If people think you're pathetic, it's probably just because they are jealous.
That's darn pretentious. You say anyone who calls himself a "pickup artists" doesn't know the first thing about women and here you go assuming you know what women, all of them, think of that term.
I can't read your mind, that's why I am asking questions before I assume shit.
[QUOTE=Seith;37068615]That's darn pretentious. You say anyone who calls himself a "pickup artists" doesn't know the first thing about women and here you go assuming you know what women, all of them, think of that term.[/QUOTE]
No
just human beings
which most women squarely fall under
the other catagory is idiots
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;37068590]Don't listen to this troll, Seith. If people think you're pathetic, it's probably just because they are jealous.[/QUOTE]
Are you being sarcastic? If so, then if you tried actually going out and asking people who call themselves that you wouldn't have to degrade other people's achievements just so you could feel better about yourself. If not, then good for you
do you seriously think calling yourself or being a pickup artist is cool or something? hey dude i'm so good at picking up women, it's like, an art. i'm like an artist at picking up chicks. i'm so great at it, here let me teach you how amazing i am and how much of a prolific man prostitute i can be
isnt that cool??????????? im so dead inside
[QUOTE=Rusty100;37068623]No
just human beings
which most women squarely fall under
the other catagory is idiots[/QUOTE]
I find it lovely how you define all humanbeings as equals and think they all share the same way of thought. Sounds like...... Hitler.
lmfao did you just call me hitler because i think pickup artistry is moronic and so will most others???
[QUOTE=Rusty100;37068648]do you seriously think calling yourself or being a pickup artist is cool or something? hey dude i'm so good at picking up women, it's like, an art. i'm like an artist at picking up chicks. i'm so great at it, here let me teach you how amazing i am and how much of a prolific man prostitute i can be
isnt that cool??????????? im so dead inside[/QUOTE]
I have no idea where are you getting this from, seriously.
[editline]3rd August 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Rusty100;37068682]lmfao did you just call me hitler because i think pickup artistry is moronic and so will most others???[/QUOTE]
No, I called you hitler because you think all humans are equal and think the same way. Sounds like hitler to me.
I specifically said people who aren't idiots
[editline]4th August 2012[/editline]
and morons
[editline]4th August 2012[/editline]
and pathetic and disgusting people
is this Seith kid an alt of MaverickIB or something
[QUOTE=Seith;37068697]
No, I called you hitler because you think all humans are equal and think the same way. Sounds like hitler to me.[/QUOTE]
because this sounds like something he would say; outrageously stupid
[QUOTE=Seith;37068697]
No, I called you hitler because you think all humans are equal[/QUOTE]
i also want to point out how mind breakingly dumb this is
[QUOTE=Seith;37068697]I have no idea where are you getting this from, seriously.
[editline]3rd August 2012[/editline]
No, I called you hitler because you think all humans are equal and think the same way. Sounds like hitler to me.[/QUOTE]
Fairly sure Hitler didn't think all humans were equal
there was this thing called the Holocaust
unless they were equalisation chambers idk
i think hes confusing hitler with the general idea of communism?
Historian of our generation
Hitler's terrible reign of social equality.
[QUOTE=Xonax;37067181][QUOTE=Rhenae;37050607]Ask her, and basically tell her just that. There is no reason you can't date and be friends.
Maybe give her the option to go as a couple or just friends, but you'll have to word it right.[/QUOTE]
How would I do that? As in wording, like can you give me an example?[/QUOTE]
Anyone?
[QUOTE=Xonax;37069174]Anyone?[/QUOTE]
she already rejected you. i don't think i've ever heard of a case where someone has been told "um it's too risky for our friendship" where the hidden answer wasn't really "we get along alright but you're not attractive to me. that's why i'm not going to date you". if someone's hot and you get on with them alright and they ask you out, you're gonna go out with them. the very rare cases where "it's too risky for our friendship" is actually true is when people grew up from a very young age together or when their friendship group is very very closeknit
so yeh if you have movie tickets and you're interested in seeing a film with her as a friend then just ask her. if you truly value her friendship as a person and not just as something to put your dick in then respect that and hopefully there'll be no awkwardness. when i was younger i once asked a close female friend of mine about us maybe going on a proper date. she politely said she only saw me as a friend. i accepted that and 4 years later we're still great friends and i still go to the cinema or to her house to watch films, even though we're both in relationships these days
[QUOTE=djshox;37067663]you need to quickly establish yourself not simply as a provider partner but as a sexual one
the cuddling and holding hands is cute and all, but that's an incredibly friendly act
you will have to be bold, and give her the impression that being yours is something that her life will benefit from[/QUOTE]
How do I put myself across as being a sexual partner and a person she can benefit from.
I'm pretty sure now that she's just afraid of relationships in case she gets hurt and she doesn't want to ruin the friendship.
But the cuddling thing is just being friendly? Because it seemed a bit odd for me.
[editline]3rd August 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;37068263]you should distance yourself from her. it'll help you get over it. be careful though, because she'll notice what you're doing and will try and reel you in again. when this happens, know that if you do let her in, it won't be anything more than a few hook ups before she pulls the same tricks. if that appeals to you, them sure, go for it. but try your best not to get too attached because it will suck colossally for you.
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Well that's the thing, the last thing I want to do is distance myself from her again, we're like best friends, we talk constantly, the thing is I don't want to be without her.
There's this girl I've been trying to talk to for the past week, but she's super shy and it's a quite a challenge to get past small talk.
What do you guys think works best in this situation?
I have to be able to have some real conversations or she'll get the first impression that I'm an idiot because of my accent.
[QUOTE=Rusty100;37068682]lmfao did you just call me hitler because i think pickup artistry is moronic and so will most others???[/QUOTE]
I don't think the SimplePickup dudes consider themselves artists, they learned how to talk to women and they show that anyone can do it. Just because they do it a lot doesn't mean they are morons or whatever it is you mean.
we've been through this again
pick-up is a bullshit pretentious "methodology" for growing a pair and being able to talk to women
yeah anyone who considers themselves a "pickup artist" is probably a massive cunt
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