• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=Super_Poo;37168953]Getting laid tommorow. With my girlfriend. [editline]11th August 2012[/editline][/QUOTE] sometimes i wish my username was "laid" so i could post "you got me!!" whenever someone says this
[QUOTE=Super_Poo;37168953]Getting laid tommorow. With my girlfriend. [editline]11th August 2012[/editline][/QUOTE] I suppose that is better than getting laid tomorrow with your boyfriend? edit: how is it two words just go missing from a sentence?
[QUOTE=Super_Poo;37168953]Getting laid tommorow. With my girlfriend. [editline]11th August 2012[/editline][/QUOTE] i'm getting laid too; sometime in the near future. i don't know when. maybe we could get laid together?
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;37168610]It was really unecessary from him. He could have just deleted you without further justification. He didn't need to do it and it was mean. However, if you're the type of person who constanltly posts whiny crap on facebook, talking about "how shitty I feel" and "how people are bad to me" and stuff like that, that IS how most people will feel about you.[/QUOTE] I don't post statuses or whine, but I may be biased on my own accounts, mind you. Regardless, I just hope that nothing more comes of this
[QUOTE=vizard38;37173239]I don't post statuses or whine, but I may be biased on my own accounts, mind you. Regardless, I just hope that nothing more comes of this[/QUOTE] you should really make a new profile picture i totally thought you were an old lady [editline]10th August 2012[/editline] or maybe it's too small idk
[QUOTE=insanox;37170822]i'm getting laid too; sometime in the near future. i don't know when. maybe we could get laid together?[/QUOTE] Can I join too? I usually find a girl every summer but this one has been different. I feel lonely and desperate for the soft touch of a woman. In september I'll be 1 year without sex. :suicide:
so, my girlfriend (we havent been on any official dates) but we both have strong feelings for eachother and are just taking it slow for now. we've been talking for a few months deeply about our feelings and we care for eachother very much. shes been trying to tell me about her past and stuff about a mistake she wishes she could tell me but didnt know how i would react so she wasnt ready to tell me. last night, she told me when she was at a party last november, she made out with my best friend and he was feeling her up and stuff. she assures me thats all they did. We were just acquaintances at that time, but i feel betrayed in a way, but i still have strong feelings for her, but i've been a little distant from her. I shouldnt really feel so bad because it was before we started seeing eachother but i feel hurt. She just wanted to see me today but i struggled to say no because it felt too soon. Im wondering am i reacting normally to this? i want to know how other people would feel about this if this happened to them.
i don't understand why you'd feel hurt
just the fact that she made out with my best friend and she kept it a secret and i was left clueless about it.
she probably felt embarrassed or something there's no reason to take it as a personal jab
[QUOTE=AEIOWNYEW;37174927]just the fact that she made out with my best friend and she kept it a secret and i was left clueless about it.[/QUOTE] but she had absolutely no obligation to tell you? or to even think it was something to feel guilty about you weren't together at the time
okay, im trying to get over it, but i feel uncomfortable about it because it was my best friend. and i shouldnt feel bad because it was before we were us. [editline]10th August 2012[/editline] and i just need some reassurance that it'll be ok and we can get past it
[QUOTE=AEIOWNYEW;37174881]so, my girlfriend (we havent been on any official dates) but we both have strong feelings for eachother and are just taking it slow for now. we've been talking for a few months deeply about our feelings and we care for eachother very much. shes been trying to tell me about her past and stuff about a mistake she wishes she could tell me but didnt know how i would react so she wasnt ready to tell me. last night, she told me when she was at a party last november, she made out with my best friend and he was feeling her up and stuff. she assures me thats all they did. We were just acquaintances at that time, but i feel betrayed in a way, but i still have strong feelings for her, but i've been a little distant from her. I shouldnt really feel so bad because it was before we started seeing eachother but i feel hurt. She just wanted to see me today but i struggled to say no because it felt too soon. Im wondering am i reacting normally to this? i want to know how other people would feel about this if this happened to them.[/QUOTE] I think your reacting normally, but you should try to get over it. Your reaction is why she didn't want to tell you and this is a major point in your relationship now. You need to show her it is okay to tell you things. Try your best to get over it and act normally to her and let her know it is okay.
[QUOTE=AEIOWNYEW;37175008]and i just need some reassurance that it'll be ok and we can get past it[/QUOTE] you're gonna be just fine try to a) forget about it b) if you are gonna think about it, just remember that [B]you weren't together[/B] at the time
thanks for the comments, im already trying to patch things up, and its gonna be fine :D
[QUOTE=AEIOWNYEW;37175470]thanks for the comments, im already trying to patch things up, and its gonna be fine :D[/QUOTE] there's nothing to patch up unless you shit your pants at the news and made her feel really bad, just stop talking about it
Sooooo, it seems that the best way to stop thinking about someone too much is to get out and occupy yourself until everything returns to normal. Is that basically it or does anyone else have a different method?
drugs work
Aww yeah, date went sweet as FUCK. Like, way better than I expected.
[QUOTE=AEIOWNYEW;37175470]thanks for the comments, im already trying to patch things up, and its gonna be fine :D[/QUOTE] Glad you've done that. Don't try and distance yourself from her for something so minor. You've got an opportunity to be with someone who you care about, so don't fuck it up by making her feel bad about something she shouldn't have to feel bad about. Hope it all goes well.
[QUOTE=thisispain;37176633]drugs work[/QUOTE] i have found exactly the opposite [editline]11th August 2012[/editline] well does alcohol count as drugs? because last night after consuming entirely too much of it i rather foolishly texted my ex. it was bad and i hate that i did it because it didn't satisfy me at all the way i thought it would, rather i just feel like a shallow dick and she feels like shit
[QUOTE=D0C H.;37176465]Sooooo, it seems that the best way to stop thinking about someone too much is to get out and occupy yourself until everything returns to normal. Is that basically it or does anyone else have a different method?[/QUOTE] working out is always a great option. the euphoric high from getting in better shape will help focus more on yourself than thinking about someone else
[QUOTE=djshox;37181929]working out is always a great option. the euphoric high from getting in better shape will help focus more on yourself than thinking about someone else[/QUOTE] I agree, but that's a temporary solution and it's completely bullshit when people say "it will go away with time". Nothing goes away on it's own, unless you treat it. Deep breathes to the stomach, concentrating only on that to calm yourself is a brilliant way to keep your head off shit. That's physically speaking. Mentally, I would suggest sitting and finding out why you care so much and reversing that thought process.
Had the perfect chance to ask this girl out. Pussied out :(
[QUOTE=Seith;37182175]I agree, but that's a temporary solution and it's completely bullshit when people say "it will go away with time". Nothing goes away on it's own, unless you treat it. Deep breathes to the stomach, concentrating only on that to calm yourself is a brilliant way to keep your head off shit. That's physically speaking. Mentally, I would suggest sitting and finding out why you care so much and reversing that thought process.[/QUOTE] I agree, but that's a temporary solution and it's completely bullshit when people say "it will go away with time". Nothing goes away on it's own, unless you treat it.
[QUOTE=redBadger;37182183]Had the perfect chance to ask this girl out. Pussied out :([/QUOTE] Why?
A few days ago I met someone I came very well along with. It would be a good idea to ask her out. It's just that my two best friends loathe her.
[QUOTE=Lukeo;37182321]I agree, but that's a temporary solution and it's completely bullshit when people say "it will go away with time". Nothing goes away on it's own, unless you treat it.[/QUOTE] Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery,
[QUOTE=Benf199105;37182336]Why?[/QUOTE] I don't know, I just feel like asking 'hey want to go out sometime?' is way too generic and I just get scared trying to say it. I've only asked out two girls, you know, and one of them was over text. The first one I did use that line and got a yes, but I still feel really nervous asking.
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