The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=kaine123;37207365]I'm currently getting pretty involved with a girl because she seemed to like me a lot a few months ago and as a result I "friendzoned" another female that I was getting involved with whom I liked a lot. The thing is I still actually quite like the original girl seeing as she was more geeky and introverted like me and the new girl is more of what I would consider "popular."
[editline]13th August 2012[/editline]
Man I have no idea how to handle this.[/QUOTE]
Your gonna have to figure out which one you get along with better. Probably shouldn't have rushed it and went with this one but what is done is done. Maybe you will get along with this popular girl as well.
The thing is it seems almost like there's this role reversal thing going on. With hindsight I'm thinking that the situation with the first girl was pretty much like my own current situation with the current female. I think I was the one who sort of "pursued" her rather than the other way around. The thing is that it seems like I'm now the one who's being "pursued." The current girl said apparently it was more of a spur of the moment thing where she decided to ask me out right away. This is different than with the first girl where she was in one of my classes and I took a few weeks in order to decide whether or not I was going to tell her about how I felt.
Man I feel narcissistic telling random strangers on the internet about my personal life.
[QUOTE=kaine123;37207592]The thing is it seems almost like there's this role reversal thing going on. With hindsight I'm thinking that the situation with the first girl was pretty much like my own current situation with the current female. I think I was the one who sort of "pursued" her rather than the other way around. The thing is that it seems like I'm now the one who's being "pursued." The current girl said apparently it was more of a spur of the moment thing where she decided to ask me out right away. This is different than with the first girl where she was in one of my classes and I took a few weeks in order to decide whether or not I was going to tell her about how I felt.
Man I feel narcissistic telling random strangers on the internet about my personal life.[/QUOTE]
Well stick with it I guess, seems like you would have better chances with a girl who asked you out instead.
You told the other girl how you feel, how did she respond to that then?
[QUOTE=kaine123;37207592]
Man I feel narcissistic telling random strangers on the internet about my personal life.[/QUOTE]
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There's this girl I really want to ask out but she's ALWAYS with this other friend to the point that it's ridiculous.
They're always right next to each other and they're roommates so the window for getting her alone seems locked up tight.
I don't know how she does it. I don't think I could stand just hanging around the same person every minute of my life no matter who they are.
people always say that 'bout my girlfriend and i, like we're stuck with glue
at a certain point we'll just evolve into each-other
like rocks or something
Ask her out in front of her friend
[QUOTE=Rhenae;37207674]Well stick with it I guess, seems like you would have better chances with a girl who asked you out instead.
You told the other girl how you feel, how did she respond to that then?[/QUOTE]
She said apparently she felt the same way. The thing is she's extremely shy and didn't talk much to anyone including me until I started hanging out with her and her friends outside of school. I only decided to talk with her about it after i noticed her catching the occasional glance at me she said apparently she had picked up on me developing a bit of a subtle crush on her.
[QUOTE=Glitch360;37207822]Ask her out in front of her friend[/QUOTE]
hey bebe wanna get nasty yr both invited to my room
but you guys have to get out by 11 cuz that's when my mum comes home aw yiss
[QUOTE=kaine123;37207836]She said apparently she felt the same way. The thing is she's extremely shy and didn't talk much to anyone including me until I started hanging out with her and her friends outside of school. I only decided to talk with her about it after i noticed her catching the occasional glance at me she said apparently she had picked up on me developing a bit of a subtle crush on her.[/QUOTE]
So why werent you already dating her?
[QUOTE=thisispain;37207842]hey bebe wanna get nasty yr both invited to my room
but you guys have to get out by 11 cuz that's when my mum comes home aw yiss[/QUOTE]what he said.
[QUOTE=Glitch360;37207822]Ask her out in front of her friend[/QUOTE]
Well I've only talked to her a couple of times so it would just be sort of a friendly thing. In that situation I would feel like kind of a jerk by not inviting her friend who would be right there.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;37207844]So why werent you already dating her?[/QUOTE]
Because a whole slew of life stuff got in the way for both of us and we didn't get time to really get to reciprocate about whether we really wanted to hang out until right about until the second girl asked me out.
[QUOTE=kaine123;37207910]Because a whole slew of life stuff got in the way for both of us and we didn't get time to really get to reciprocate about whether we really wanted to hang out until right about until the second girl asked me out.[/QUOTE]
Well I think she will be assuming she is just friendzone now. I guess it is up to you to decide what you want to do about that.
I suggest if you plan to go back to her end it with the girl who asked you out soon. Before she gets too attached (if you think it wont work as well as the other). Its easier to say you just don't think it will work earlier rather than later.
[QUOTE=Meller Yeller;37207899]Well I've only talked to her a couple of times so it would just be sort of a friendly thing. In that situation I would feel like kind of a jerk by not inviting her friend who would be right there.[/QUOTE]If you pick the right words, I'm sure her friend will understand.
[QUOTE=Glitch360;37207964]If you pick the right words, I'm sure her friend will understand.[/QUOTE]
"Hey baby let's go get a sandwich." "Oh sorry but I'd rather you not come since you're not as likeable or attractive"
How does that sound?
[QUOTE=Rhenae;37207957]Well I think she will be assuming she is just friendzone now. I guess it is up to you to decide what you want to do about that.
I suggest if you plan to go back to her end it with the girl who asked you out soon. Before she gets too attached (if you think it wont work as well as the other). Its easier to say you just don't think it will work earlier rather than later.[/QUOTE]
Honestly I'm just thinking that if things go well with the current girl I'll be happy with that. But The earlier girl and I did in fact discuss how if they don't we could still get together. I'm thinking either way we can still be good friends in the end.
[QUOTE=Meller Yeller;37207991]"Hey baby let's go get a sandwich." "Oh sorry but I'd rather you not come since you're not as likeable or attractive"
How does that sound?[/QUOTE]
Sarcasm please.
[QUOTE=kaine123;37208024]but The earlier girl and I did in fact discuss how if they don't we could still get together. [/QUOTE]
"you're my fallback plan".
what a charmer.
[QUOTE=Meller Yeller;37207780]There's this girl I really want to ask out but she's ALWAYS with this other friend to the point that it's ridiculous.
They're always right next to each other and they're roommates so the window for getting her alone seems locked up tight.
I don't know how she does it. I don't think I could stand just hanging around the same person every minute of my life no matter who they are.[/QUOTE]
You need a wingman! Get a friend to distract the other girl for a few minutes?
Soo, been talking to this girl, met up. Things have been kind of confusing and by all indications there was no chance.
She texts me tonight and I mention off hand I was just thinking of her, she wants to know about what I won't tell her. Basically, I was just going to confess my feelings to her. I wouldn't tell her all the same so she offers to let me see/feel her boobies if I tell her.
So meeting up tomorrow to do that. Only have like thirty minutes before she has to go to an appointment though.
So my question is. Feel boobies or confess first?
If I confess first there is, I think a good chance that she'll reject me. But if I feel first it will make my confession seem really odd, considering I just felt her up but even if she does reject me I got to feel boob.
What do I do?
[QUOTE=CodeMonkey3;37208997]Soo, been talking to this girl, met up. Things have been kind of confusing and by all indications there was no chance.
She texts me tonight and I mention off hand I was just thinking of her, she wants to know about what I won't tell her. Basically, I was just going to confess my feelings to her. I wouldn't tell her all the same so she offers to let me see/feel her boobies if I tell her.
So meeting up tomorrow to do that. Only have like thirty minutes before she has to go to an appointment though.
So my question is. Feel boobies or confess first?
If I confess first there is, I think a good chance that she'll reject me. But if I feel first it will make my confession seem really odd, considering I just felt her up but even if she does reject me I got to feel boob.
What do I do?[/QUOTE]
Tell her first, feeling boobs isn't that amazing.
also if she wants you to feel her boobs she probably wont reject you
dont come off like a creep though just say youre interested thats all
I've felt boobs before, so I know what you mean. But like, gift horse and all that jazz.
And I think my rejection chance is above like, 80%. The fact she will let me feel her up is nothing, that's just how she is.
She's told in the past we'd be better as just friends and all and to be fair she's kind of a bitch to me, especially lately.
[QUOTE=CodeMonkey3;37208997]
She texts me tonight and I mention off hand I was just thinking of her, she wants to know about what I won't tell her. Basically, I was just going to confess my feelings to her. I wouldn't tell her all the same so she offers to let me see/feel her boobies if I tell her.[/QUOTE]
what are you, 12?
[QUOTE=CodeMonkey3;37209036]I've felt boobs before, so I know what you mean. But like, gift horse and all that jazz.
And I think my rejection chance is above like, 80%. The fact she will let me feel her up is nothing, that's just how she is.
She's told in the past we'd be better as just friends and all and to be fair she's kind of a bitch to me, especially lately.[/QUOTE]
Tell her while you feel her up, better to just let it out and find out if she isn't interested. Move on and if she tries to make fun of you, just say you felt her up and she's a slut.
It covers ALL the bases.
[QUOTE=G3rman;37209101]Tell her while you feel her up, better to just let it out and find out if she isn't interested. Move on and if she tries to make fun of you, just say you felt her up and she's a slut.
It covers ALL the bases.[/QUOTE]
worst advice ever wow please leave
[QUOTE=CodeMonkey3;37208997]Soo, been talking to this girl, met up. Things have been kind of confusing and by all indications there was no chance.
She texts me tonight and I mention off hand I was just thinking of her, she wants to know about what I won't tell her. Basically, I was just going to confess my feelings to her. I wouldn't tell her all the same so she offers to let me see/feel her boobies if I tell her.
So meeting up tomorrow to do that. Only have like thirty minutes before she has to go to an appointment though.
So my question is. Feel boobies or confess first?
If I confess first there is, I think a good chance that she'll reject me. But if I feel first it will make my confession seem really odd, considering I just felt her up but even if she does reject me I got to feel boob.
What do I do?[/QUOTE]
is this a joke
if shes ok with you making an appointment to come and fondle her chest area i don't think rejection is something you need to worry about?
How can I make a good first impression on my girl's father? I mean there's the obvious be polite and shake his hand stuff but is there anything else that might be a bit more subtle? I'm not too worried about it, just looking for some tips.
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