The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=Protocol7;34712322]That's badass.
I'm in downtown Denver for pretty much all of the day, every weekday, so there's a lot of bars but they won't let me in :/[/QUOTE]
I live in Texas.
The town I am talking about is called Denton, I have some college buddies who have a house rented there and that is where I crash. So if it makes you feel better I don't get to experience that everyday, but will if I get accepted into the college there.
[QUOTE=Protocol7;34712322]That's badass.
I'm in downtown Denver for pretty much all of the day, every weekday, so there's a lot of bars but they won't let me in :/[/QUOTE]
I've never been carded in Denver. I know I'm 23, but still I get told by some of my friends that I don't look older than 20. In fact, my first bartended drink in the States occurred when I was 17 in Denver International Airport. I ordered a "Root Beer" and they assumed I meant "beer" so they brought me a Sierra Nevada stout.
That's weird.
I guess I'm just unlucky.
[QUOTE=Protocol7;34712499]That's weird.
I guess I'm just unlucky.[/QUOTE]
Eh everyone has bad luck sometimes. I know I have shit luck in a lot of areas.
I suppose I'll let the stubble reform again.
When I stop shaving each day seems to add ~1 year to my appearance
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;34705734]TH89 the destroyer: breaker of hearts, callous rapper of despair. The cruel and unsympathetic wordsmith weaves his joy on a web of broken dreams. Shame to your household.[/QUOTE]
Yeah we discussed it and I tried to be rly nice and was like you are a good friend and you are cool but I am not interested like that and she was like ok...ok... and went in her room and later her friends took her out for YogurtLand and now i am the World's Worst Person
[QUOTE=Protocol7;34712322]That's badass.
I'm in downtown Denver for pretty much all of the day, every weekday, so there's a lot of bars but they won't let me in :/[/QUOTE]Ugh, downtown Denver. So many homeless people there :v:
[QUOTE=Glitch360;34712763]Ugh, downtown Denver. So many homeless people there :v:[/QUOTE]
Jesus, yes.
I'm always on the Auraria campus or at work or inbetween. So that means I'm near the 16th St. mall almost constantly.
So many fucking hobos.
You are going to think this is really pathethic. In fact, it is.
So, 9 months ago my "girlfriend" dumped me. Why? She was pregnant. Was it mine? Nope. Did I know this? Yes. She had another boyfriend, who she'd been going out with for a year and a half I think. We started dating in secret for 3 months. Now, I know what you're thinking. No, she isn't a slut. Sounds hard to believe but believe me, she really isn't. She's a really nice girl that was just very confused. She said to me that I was really special, that nothing like that had ever happened to her in all that time she'd been going out with him etc.. We were very, very close before we began dating. I really just saw her as a friend because she had a boyfriend and all that, but one night we started talking for.. man I don't know. Must've been around 7 hours. I don't think I've ever talked so much to someone in my life. We then saw that we were very attracted to each other, so we expressed our feelings. His boyfriend and her were in bad terms for some time since we began our relationship. I had hope that she was finally going to dump him and be with me, but then it all went to pure shit. She took a pregnancy test, and it was positive. You might ask "How the hell didn't she notice she was pregnant in three months?" Deep down, I knew it from the start. But I decided to blindly believe what she said, even though it wasn't logical. We were very nervous because she almost didn't get her period for a month, but in the last days of january she told me she finally got it, but that it was "different". It was pink instead of red. Turns out, these "periods" were just abortion warnings. Her belly didn't grow much either, she just thought she was getting fat because of all the junk food she ate when she studied. When she told me she was pregnant my world collapsed. She was my first girl, my first kiss, lost my virginity with her... My first everything. I asked her if the baby was mine. She said it wasn't possible. She got pregnant on 7th of January, and we did it for the first time the 11th. What did I do? Fell into the biggest depression of my life. Didn't eat for a week, had suicidal thoughs... It was horrible. We still loved each other a lot, however. After 2 or 3 months, we did it for the last time, just before the day we had our summer break or holidays or whatever you call it. (Don't have sex with pregnant women). When I went home, we messaged for some time. She told me that the very first day both of us are single (if we are), we'd try again. Now, it's been 9 months since this. I just see her at high school, and we barely talk anymore. I've been thinking about her at least once every single day. I've only been with another woman, but it was just a week and pretty much sex and no love. I liked her, but she was unbelievably slutty. What should I do, Facepunch? It's been 9 months. I've tried to forget her as much as I can, but it just isn't working. I feel like crap almost everyday. Been taking some medication. So far it's been working a little. Cheers me up sometimes, but I still can't get her off my mind.
What college do you go to? I go to CCD
[editline]15th February 2012[/editline]
@ Protocol
[QUOTE=Glitch360;34713168]What college do you go to? I go to CCD
[editline]15th February 2012[/editline]
@ Protocol[/QUOTE]
UCD
[editline]15th February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Kias20;34713146]You are going to think this is really pathethic. In fact, it is.
So, 9 months ago my "girlfriend" dumped me. Why? She was pregnant. Was it mine? Nope. Did I know this? Yes. She had another boyfriend, who she'd been going out with for a year and a half I think. We started dating in secret for 3 months. Now, I know what you're thinking. No, she isn't a slut. Sounds hard to believe but believe me, she really isn't. She's a really nice girl that was just very confused. She said to me that I was really special, that nothing like that had ever happened to her in all that time she'd been going out with him etc.. We were very, very close before we began dating. I really just saw her as a friend because she had a boyfriend and all that, but one night we started talking for.. man I don't know. Must've been around 7 hours. I don't think I've ever talked so much to someone in my life. We then saw that we were very attracted to each other, so we expressed our feelings. His boyfriend and her were in bad terms for some time since we began our relationship. I had hope that she was finally going to dump him and be with me, but then it all went to pure shit. She took a pregnancy test, and it was positive. You might ask "How the hell didn't she notice she was pregnant in three months?" Deep down, I knew it from the start. But I decided to blindly believe what she said, even though it wasn't logical. We were very nervous because she almost didn't get her period for a month, but in the last days of january she told me she finally got it, but that it was "different". It was pink instead of red. Turns out, these "periods" were just abortion warnings. Her belly didn't grow much either, she just thought she was getting fat because of all the junk food she ate when she studied. When she told me she was pregnant my world collapsed. She was my first girl, my first kiss, lost my virginity with her... My first everything. I asked her if the baby was mine. She said it wasn't possible. She got pregnant on 7th of January, and we did it for the first time the 11th. What did I do? Fell into the biggest depression of my life. Didn't eat for a week, had suicidal thoughs... It was horrible. We still loved each other a lot, however. After 2 or 3 months, we did it for the last time, just before the day we had our summer break or holidays or whatever you call it. (Don't have sex with pregnant women). When I went home, we messaged for some time. She told me that the very first day both of us are single (if we are), we'd try again. Now, it's been 9 months since this. I just see her at high school, and we barely talk anymore. I've been thinking about her at least once every single day. I've only been with another woman, but it was just a week and pretty much sex and no love. I liked her, but she was unbelievably slutty. What should I do, Facepunch? It's been 9 months. I've tried to forget her as much as I can, but it just isn't working. I feel like crap almost everyday. Been taking some medication. So far it's been working a little. Cheers me up sometimes, but I still can't get her off my mind.[/QUOTE]
That's not pathetic, man. It's part of love. Good things happen, things that will knock you down happen.
Good for you for venting it out.
Sorry if question is inapproprate, stupid or in the wrong thread but
Have any of you gone so depressed you grew a beard?
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Only reason I ever grow out my facial hair is when I'm too lazy.
I suppose depression can have that effect though.
I get depressed when I try to grow a beard, does that count? :v:
Eh, my facial hair takes time to come in and sometimes is very spotty.
I don't like it at all so I'd say to an extent... yes? :v:
I only have an ugly mustache and a pinchful of beard hairs on my chin.
[QUOTE=Protocol7;34713202]UCD
[editline]15th February 2012[/editline]
That's not pathetic, man. It's part of love. Good things happen, things that will knock you down happen.
Good for you for venting it out.[/QUOTE]
Thanks bro, felt really good getting that out of my chest
[QUOTE=Nitro836;34713232]Sorry if question is inapproprate, stupid or in the wrong thread but
Have any of you gone so depressed you grew a beard?[/QUOTE]
yeahh, they were bad times indeed :(
I didn't grow my beard, my beard grew me.
i can't grow beards very well
it always looks like i had an almost fatal incident while shaving
I'd have to wait about 6 months to get a decent looking stubble. For those 6 months I wouldn't not be able to shave, it'd look so pubey and shit I'd die
So I need permission from a girls dad yet i dont know what to say because im a nervous wreck atm advice :3:
My whole situation with my girlfriend being half-with me and half-not is really tearing me apart. She won't break up with me even though she has told me she doesn't like me, and we never talk or anything. She wont even answer a simple text. I just give up.
[QUOTE=Glitchman;34718062]My whole situation with my girlfriend being half-with me and half-not is really tearing me apart. She won't break up with me even though she has told me she doesn't like me, and we never talk or anything. She wont even answer a simple text. I just give up.[/QUOTE]
Well It would be best for the both of you if you just Broke up Why are you waiting for her to do it?
[QUOTE=Lexinator;34718197]Well It would be best for the both of you if you just Broke up Why are you waiting for her to do it?[/QUOTE]
terminate it, she's a girlfriend in your mind only, effectively she's not.
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abort the relationship
[QUOTE=Glitchman;34718062]My whole situation with my girlfriend being half-with me and half-not is really tearing me apart. She won't break up with me even though she has told me she doesn't like me, and we never talk or anything. She wont even answer a simple text. I just give up.[/QUOTE]
If you tell her that you're broken up and she refuses to respond, you have done your part and get to move on as if you're broken up. Breakups do not actually require two people, believe it or not. She doesn't have to give you her permission for you to do it.
Clearly she's not interested in a relationship and is too afraid to outright say it.
Don't antagonize yourself.
I miss Maverick ):
So Im nervous as fuck how do i respond to This girls dads questions and ask if i can take her out
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