The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;37347021]so I'm at college now and i met this two girls. one is named mary and the other is named kaitlyn. I'm definitely more into mary but kaitlyn is definitively into me and I think mary kind of likes me too but is wingmaning for kaitlyn. every time I try and text-flirt mary she goes, "kaitlyn is pissed you didn't answer" and every time I try and hang out with mary, kaitlyns there. what do[/QUOTE]
lose-lose situation there, sorry
[QUOTE=djshox;37348256]lose-lose situation there, sorry[/QUOTE]
fuck college
Went into the store I work to get something to drink, crush was there with her sister and sister's husband.
She said hi to me but there were so many people around
I am so bad at this
[QUOTE=slayer20;37348524]Went into the store I work to get something to drink, crush was there with her sister and sister's husband.
She said hi to me but there were so many people around
I am so bad at this[/QUOTE]
you will get another chance, but you will really have to take the leap man
you are a MANLY MAN, and you will land a date with her if you give it your all
I want to tell this girl I like her but I doubt she likes me back but I still want to be friends with her, but I fear that if I declare my love for her then it will make the friendship unbalanced and give her too much power
But I will be filled with regret forever if I don't tell her and the longer I wait the deeper I go into the friendzone, I can feel it happening already
[QUOTE=Alcapwne;37349220]I want to tell this girl I like her but I doubt she likes me back but I still want to be friends with her, but I fear that if I declare my love for her then it will make the friendship unbalanced and give her too much power
But I will be filled with regret forever if I don't tell her and the longer I wait the deeper I go into the friendzone, I can feel it happening already[/QUOTE]
then you know you have to tell her, having a "what if" hanging over your head sucks big time
obligatory: ask her out
your post was a bit confusing, you say you like her but you still want to be just friends with her?
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;37342176]i want to see that craigslist conversation[/QUOTE]
Nothing interesting about it really. She just asked which tennis courts are near me and if I have my own tennis shorts and racket.
[QUOTE=loco;37349567]Nothing interesting about it really. She just asked which tennis courts are near me and if I have my own tennis shorts and racket.[/QUOTE]
She asked if you had your own tennis shorts, she wants your DICK.
[QUOTE=loco;37349567]Nothing interesting about it really. She just asked which tennis courts are near me and if I have my own tennis shorts and racket.[/QUOTE]
So are you two banging or what?
So has anyone else ever met someone who toe walked? (Walking only on the front part of your foot, like being in high heels but without the heel) I do, but I've never met anyone else who did. Just curious?
yes, and it's unnatural and bad for you
the one person i met who did had to get surgery to stretch his underdeveloped achilles tendons and was in a wheelchair for a while, had to relearn how to walk
[QUOTE=Dark RaveN;37347110]Made my girlfriend cry because [B]I just felt I wanted to[/B].[/QUOTE]
uuhh
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;37351012]yes, and it's unnatural and bad for you
the one person i met who did had to get surgery to stretch his underdeveloped achilles tendons and was in a wheelchair for a while, had to relearn how to walk[/QUOTE]
That depends, there are a lot of causes for it and in his case it was his under developed achillies tendon. It can also be caused by : Cerebral Palsy, Muscular Dsytrophy, and Autism. Those are all causes not effects though. Effect wise it can have the same effect as wearing high heels, and people wear those enough don't they? :v:
People can also toe walk when anxious, as a subconcious effect. I also think it can just be caused by habit since I don't have any specific muscular problems and I certainly haven't been diagnosed with autism.
Often children toe walk and grow out of it as they get older also :)
If there is a girl on here, could you PLEASE explain to me what you are saying when you send smiley face through a text message.
I get a lot of " :) " from this girl but I have no idea what the fuck she is saying other then 'im happy'
It means "I don't want this text to sound cold and Seith-like"
ps. i am totally a girl on here
[editline]22nd August 2012[/editline]
:)
>:O
[QUOTE=Disseminate;37352443]It means "I don't want this text to sound cold and Seith-like"
ps. i am totally a girl on here
[editline]22nd August 2012[/editline]
:)[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=areolop;37352360]If there is a girl on here, could you PLEASE explain to me what you are saying when you send smiley face through a text message.
I get a lot of " :) " from this girl but I have no idea what the fuck she is saying other then 'im happy'[/QUOTE]
It just means she is happy. I use smiley faces constantly just to convey extra mood with my words to avoid missreading the tone or something. I cut back on it when I started posting on here, cause people dont really use smileys much. It would have seemed very out of place if I continued to punctuate everything with smileys.
Come back maybe if she sends you a lot of winky faces, smileys dont mean much though.
I need some advice, while texting a girl how would i keep the conversation going, I'm not being anything I'm not or trying to please her just a conversation with a girl that could be more than a friend. I find I can only talk for so long about things, any tips?
[QUOTE=Rusty100;37351093]uuhh[/QUOTE]
exactly....
[QUOTE=Rhenae;37350722]So has anyone else ever met someone who toe walked? (Walking only on the front part of your foot, like being in high heels but without the heel) I do, but I've never met anyone else who did. Just curious?[/QUOTE]
I wonder how much people differ in adaptation to different walking styles.
Like how I was supposed to help my best friend get rid of his military style walk.
But instead it grew onto me.
Urgghgh, she's cancelled. This is the [I]third[/I] time a girl has cancelled on me last minute :(
is it the girl, or a girl?
Oh no it's not the same one that cancelled before. It's happened once with 3 different girls now.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;37350722]So has anyone else ever met someone who toe walked? (Walking only on the front part of your foot, like being in high heels but without the heel) I do, but I've never met anyone else who did. Just curious?[/QUOTE]
I do this sometimes, Usually if I have to move quickly from one spot to another. I find myself doing this also when it has snowed or rained.
[QUOTE=Tennisball;37354699]Oh no it's not the same one that cancelled before. It's happened once with 3 different girls now.[/QUOTE]
And you keep on trying, you're on the right track my friend...
[QUOTE=Seith;37354755]And you keep on trying, you're on the right track my friend...[/QUOTE]
Well I'm hoping this one really in genuinely busy, in which case we'll just rearrange and go out on Monday or Sunday instead.
She hasn't replied to my text asking what she's doing (and about rearranging) yet though.
[editline]22nd August 2012[/editline]
Okay, turns out her cousin arrive unexpectedly. We're going out on Monday instead.
That was an emotional 3 hours.
Actually it's quite a long time until Monday. Does it matter if I don't text her every day?
[QUOTE=Tennisball;37356256]Actually it's quite a long time until Monday. Does it matter if I don't text her every day?[/QUOTE]
Psychologically speaking, too much contact between two individuals can worsen the relationship unless you possess a near perfect compatibility of personality traits. This suggests that redundant communication in purpose of simply establishing communication, for example, should be avoided.
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