The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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Stopped by the store to get some food and stuff and the girl I like's mom was working. We're good friends (we've hung out and stuff before), and we talked about stuff and things.
Getting to the point, she basically told me that she has told her that we should hang out before, and that she doesn't want a boyfriend right now.
Not really sure how to feel about this...I guess I can ask her to hang out without feel over-excited this time. I just have to play it out as friends and go on from there.
If all we do is hang out, that would be just fine with me. I also learned her schedule today (totally not creepy) from her sister (I don't really know why she told me it, but I guess when you ask her one question she gives you all the answers possible).
women are just people too!!!!!!!!!
[editline]24th August 2012[/editline]
shit u ruined my merge
I waited for the right moment to ruin your automerge
[QUOTE=Rusty100;37382064]i didnt know that was such a big deal? ive played vid games with plenty of lady friends[/QUOTE]
i've never managed to meet friends in person who actually play games and don't sound like complete dumbasses when they talk about them. i accidentally got into a conversation with a guy because he played diablo 3 a few months back and got to listen to him talk my ear off for half an hour about how difficult normal mode is for a barbarian.
i've also never managed to meet other girls who share my interests and i tend to shy away from girls because most of the girls i meet seem to enjoy drama a bit too much and prefer to talk about things i think should be kept private.
[editline]23rd August 2012[/editline]
wait did you think i was a guy
[QUOTE=slayer20;37382068]Stopped by the store to get some food and stuff and the girl I like's mom was working. We're good friends (we've hung out and stuff before), and we talked about stuff and things.
Getting to the point, she basically told me that she has told her that we should hang out before, and that she doesn't want a boyfriend right now.
Not really sure how to feel about this...I guess I can ask her to hang out without feel over-excited this time. I just have to play it out as friends and go on from there.
If all we do is hang out, that would be just fine with me. I also learned her schedule today (totally not creepy) from her sister (I don't really know why she told me it, but I guess when you ask her one question she gives you all the answers possible).[/QUOTE]
keywords being "right now"
you could be the game changer, man. just take the leap and ask her next time you see her
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;37382120]i've never managed to meet friends in person who actually play games and don't sound like complete dumbasses when they talk about them. i accidentally got into a conversation with a guy because he played diablo 3 a few months back and got to listen to him talk my ear off for half an hour about how difficult normal mode is for a barbarian.
i've also never managed to meet other girls who share my interests and i tend to shy away from girls because most of the girls i meet seem to enjoy drama a bit too much and prefer to talk about things i think should be kept private.
[editline]23rd August 2012[/editline]
wait did you think i was a guy[/QUOTE]
that's probably what most people think
i thought the same until you posted a pic in the poy thread
[QUOTE=djshox;37382148]that's probably what most people think
i thought the same until you posted a pic in the poy thread[/QUOTE]
yeah, i just tend to assume people in the love advice threads know since i'm here all the time.
-snip
EDIT: LMAO this was meant to go into embarassing situations thread
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;37382120]
wait did you think i was a guy[/QUOTE]
i havent been keeping track
to be fair your name IS "guy manly"
Got a date with some chick.
Success.
Got no date.
Fail.
Nah seriously, I get more self-confident over time, because I really want a girlfriend, and friends are going to find girls for me. Is that bad? I mean I could find girls by myself, but the only problem is that if I would talk with someone who I don't know, then the entire thing would be strange because we fucking don't know each and I don't know what would that girl think about that a stranger out of nowhere starts to talk to her and everything. And the other problem is that I pretty much don't know if she has a bf or doesn't want a new relationship.
This is annoying but I really want a gf.
[QUOTE=ichiman94;37390919]Got no date.
Fail.
Nah seriously, I get more self-confident over time, because I really want a girlfriend, and friends are going to find girls for me. Is that bad? I mean I could find girls by myself, but the only problem is that if I would talk with someone who I don't know, then the entire thing would be strange because we fucking don't know each and I don't know what would that girl think about that a stranger out of nowhere starts to talk to her and everything. And the other problem is that I pretty much don't know if she has a bf or doesn't want a new relationship.
This is annoying but I really want a gf.[/QUOTE]
i find talking to people i don't know 10x easier than with someone i do know, because then you can ask all sorts of questions and shit that other people you're familiar with expect you to know about them
also, you'll find out if she wants a relationship just by asking them out. if she says no then she doesn't want a relationship.
[QUOTE=ichiman94;37390919]Got no date.
Fail.
Nah seriously, I get more self-confident over time, because I really want a girlfriend, and friends are going to find girls for me. Is that bad? I mean I could find girls by myself, but the only problem is that if I would talk with someone who I don't know, then the entire thing would be strange because we fucking don't know each and I don't know what would that girl think about that a stranger out of nowhere starts to talk to her and everything. And the other problem is that I pretty much don't know if she has a bf or doesn't want a new relationship.
This is annoying but I really want a gf.[/QUOTE]
just start off with easy, small subjects, like comments about the place you both are in, what you do for a living/what you're going to school for. then gradually get more personal with the questions
if she doesn't want to talk, she'll keep her answers short, and won't ask you anything in return. you can ask her about her relationship status later on if she's being friendly to you
remember, worst thing that can happen to you is that she doesn't want to talk. the only thing you lost was a short amount of your own time
Well, this went well.
Me and by two closest friends (my best friend and his gf) were supposed to have a night out at the bar tomorrow, but sadly my other best friend was unable to join us due to being a "taxi" to his grandparents.
But luckily then that girl that gave me her number via FB a while ago then started a chat with me on regards of a link that she had put up, gave me another link. Some good music too [url]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NtojE2tYi0c[/url].
So I mentioned that we were heading tomorrow to a bar that's close to where she lives.
And she replied with that she would come too as it's in her hoods.
The more the merrier.
I was at a festival today, and I literally had Patrick Wolf's penis pressed against my face. Kinda starstruck right now.
You what?
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;37393745]You what?[/QUOTE]
He jumped up on the railing right in front of me during his concert. So his penis was pressed against my face.
Romantic.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;37393902]Romantic.[/QUOTE]
I've never been so happy ever. Patrick and me are official now.
His husband would have a problem with that, I bet he gets his penis pressed against his face more than you.
[editline]25th August 2012[/editline]
I should clarify I mean Peter pushes his penis against his husbands face, not his own. That would be strange.
[editline]25th August 2012[/editline]
And by Peter I meant Patrick
I don't post here, I just lurk but where I usually post would just make fun of this and I can't be bothered being a smartass back to them.
I recently got a full time job and my entire mental attitude has changed because I realised that I became a productive member of society instead of being at home all day and occasionally getting high with my friends and going to a party or so every month. Yesterday I felt really good and was in an amazing mood. I don't think I've felt that good since I was 13 years old (I'm 18 now). It carried over into my soccer match and I had a blast and afterwards I had a good time at McDonalds with a few of my teammates. And today I sat on the bench for our seconds and reserve grades, ran the touchline for fillies (girls) and helped out at the bar during the premiers match. I had no issue chatting with people, which is usually a problem for me because I have a diagnosed anxiety disorder which only really shows during social situations.
Generally what I'm saying is that I feel great and I would love to meet and talk to a girl while feeling like this and I hope I do go out more and meet people and be happy, because I did not like being miserable and depressed like I was before this happened. It was just some sort of revelation and I wanted to share it with you guys.
okay so that girl who i was talking about? yea well we were grinding and dancing and shit at this party and everything was going really well. i saw her the next day with some friends and she casually mentions how she's still kind of dating her ex and felt bad about leading me on. wow. fucking wow.
Why did this thread magically stop showing up in my read threads? Jeeze I thought the place must have died :v:
theres a WHOLE lot of penis pushing in here
[QUOTE=W0w00t;37410095]theres a WHOLE lot of penis pushing in here[/QUOTE]
Explain the phrase "penis pushing" please? I have not heard that before and have no clue what you mean.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;37410236]Explain the phrase "penis pushing" please? I have not heard that before and have no clue what you mean.[/QUOTE]
I could post a picture but it wouldn't be SFW.
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;37410580]I could post a picture but it wouldn't be SFW.[/QUOTE]
Words are a wonderful invention ya know. Cause internet search aint telling me anything.
So there's this girl who lives in Virginia, I live in New York (Just graduated from there and living here now and she's a Senior this year) and she's feeling stressed because she's swamped in AP homework and has to work for her parents who own a nail salon because she has to pay for her own stuff like her phone and own food. She's Vietnamese and she lives in a really strict Asian-cultured household and she even has to make her own food and she tells me that she is so stressed about doing all this and she has to do this for the entire year and she feels like she isn't getting a break anytime soon. She wants to make her parents proud but she argues with them a lot also.
I'm going to Virginia next weekend to visit my family for a week and I wanted to see her (hang after school, help with her homework, etc.) but I don't think it'd be possible with her tight schedule and I want to know if there is anything I can do or say to her to just relieve some stress from her. She's a very understanding person and even though I tell her I'm there for her for anything, it just doesn't feel like it's doing anything, at least for me it feels that way.
Any advice?
I have a Chinese friend who's in the same boat - he has to work for his parents' restaurant on Fri/Sat/Sun. Basically, the only solution he found is to get a better job (which he hasn't been able to yet).
you know what sucks
when you see your relationship slipping into some kind of abyssal quasi-friends with benefits, you try your hardest to make it work,
even though it was pretty much a lost cause from the start... you sorta always knew it
but you never wanted to really accept it. It's not even like there's friction or issues in the relationship..
it just sort of degenerates for no reason, sort of a sad thought.
everything has to end
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