• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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i had a bath with my dog while cleaning her on valentine's, highlight of the year
Oh she's not going out with him. That's good.
Okay, so I saw this girl I like, and in a horrible effort to make her laugh I said "Happy Elevator Shoe Day!". She was silent for a second and then muttered "Thanks." Did I just drop the fuckin' ball?
Or not. I replied with "oh so I still have a chance then" and then she says "hahah;) we are seeing eachother" I wasn't sure if she meant her and the other guy so I said "oh you and [guy's name]. Now she hasn't replied AHSDUHASDUGA
[QUOTE=Tennisball;34730363]Or not. I replied with "oh so I still have a chance then" and then she says "hahah;) we are seeing eachother" I wasn't sure if she meant her and the other guy so I said "oh you and [guy's name]. Now she hasn't replied AHSDUHASDUGA[/QUOTE] You shouldn't be over analyzing everything. Sometimes you just gotta go for it, and show that you like her. Go out on a couple of dates, see where it takes you.
[QUOTE=Evilan;34729011]This has been said many many times. The only way to get better socially is to put yourself out there and take risks in interactions that you normally don't do on a daily basis. Still though, being average is a great thing. I wouldn't call myself the most attractive guy in the world, I'm 5'9" and the only thing going for me physically is I work out which women love in a dude. Your problems are all solvable within a reasonably short amount of time if you put in the effort. Start going to the gym 3-4x a week, workout for an hour. Also start to make small talk with people who you see everyday, but don't take initiative to speak to normally. You'll get better socially and you'll start to feel better about yourself every week you [b]spend time for yourself[/b].[/QUOTE] About the gym thing, i was going to a gym for nearly a year, 2 times a week, 2-4 hours each time. i didnt really see much progress, though my muscles flt like they were burning. Now it makes me really sad to see how all that work is going down the drain as my muscles go smaller and smaller again. Lack of progress must have been because of the lack of nutrition. Right now im becoming more and more satisfied about who i am, as i now got a proper haircut, im getting rid of my acne, im going to get a piercing or two. (labret, middle and maybe a brow piercing) Trying to finally get a style, not just wear whatever is cheap and fits. Depression is holding back my motivation, so doing all that change will probably motivate me to get back in the gym. Back on subject of love, i had a couple of beers (only 3) with this cute girl, wrestled a bit in the snow with her and after a while, lieing on a snowy field, she laid her head on my chest and said "you be my pillow", we wathed the starry nightsky, I stroked her cheek and she didnt seem to be bothered about it at all & shit like that, it was generally a great ":3" moment with her. When i asked her on a date the next day, she said that she was sorry and she cant think of us as anything more than friends. I do not understand women.
[QUOTE=The Maestro;34730360]Okay, so I saw this girl I like, and in a horrible effort to make her laugh I said "Happy Elevator Shoe Day!". She was silent for a second and then muttered "Thanks." Did I just drop the fuckin' ball?[/QUOTE] I don't get it.
[QUOTE=The Maestro;34730360]Okay, so I saw this girl I like, and in a horrible effort to make her laugh I said "Happy Elevator Shoe Day!". She was silent for a second and then muttered "Thanks." Did I just drop the fuckin' ball?[/QUOTE] What.
happy elevator shoe day i guess
I tried being funny by making up a stupid holiday, and instead of the hoped for giggle, all she did was mutter a lukewarm thanks. Have I destroyed any chance with her?
[QUOTE=Seith;34727177] Dealing with something is accepting it. It's not your only way.[/QUOTE] youre right, he should just live in denial no reason to accept anything!
[QUOTE=The Maestro;34731217]I tried being funny by making up a stupid holiday, and instead of the hoped for giggle, all she did was mutter a lukewarm thanks. Have I destroyed any chance with her?[/QUOTE] just for future reference, being funny never comes from trying to be funny unless you write all your jokes beforehand.
Being funny is something you learn to do, not something that you force and hope it works
[QUOTE=The Maestro;34731217]I tried being funny by making up a stupid holiday, and instead of the hoped for giggle, all she did was mutter a lukewarm thanks. Have I destroyed any chance with her?[/QUOTE] Probably not [I]destroyed.[/I] But uh Your chances are significantly less
and that's assuming there were chances in the first place
Well great. There goes my spectacular "Don't give a fuck what happens" mood.
[QUOTE=The Maestro;34731624]Well great. There goes my spectacular "Don't give a fuck what happens" mood.[/QUOTE]Not giving a fuck can be bad too, you know
Just forget about it. Talk to her next time like you normally would. You guys tend to make a huge deal out of nothing when you make a little mistake. You just have to pick yourself back up again and move along or try again. Mistakes are how you learn, after all. Even if they're embarrassing.
[QUOTE=The Maestro;34731624]Well great. There goes my spectacular "Don't give a fuck what happens" mood.[/QUOTE] ummm you're being told by people on an internet forum that you fucked up in all honesty who gives a fuck what we say do what you want to do and what makes you happy
just do what I do an spew jokes at an alarming rate hope the few that land will make everyone forget the ones that fall flat
I like to pick my moments for jokes got a penchant for bad puns too. [I]a punchant, if you will.[/I]
lately at school, everyone been depressed and breaking up with each other. high school life is worse than a fucking soap opera.
i self-deprecate because people find it charming. just the other day this woman i'd met at a bar said "this is funny, we keep running into each other" when i saw her in the super-market to which i responded "you must be very unlucky".
guys, this is really off-topic, but a page ago there was talks about the working out thing. how could i best work out without gym membership?
run every day [editline]17th February 2012[/editline] if you get 20+ minutes of serious running in every day (with some rest days of course), you will be in great shape in no time i mean, the more you do the better, try for over 20 minutes
Do calisthenics. Push-ups, pull-ups, sit-ups/crunches, squats
A change in diet helps too.
Running is too hard, walking works just the same. Takes up more time but does wonders. Also you'd be surprised how much you can cut out of your diet and not notice or feel hungry.
gents how do you bring yourself to move on from a girl? it's been months now and i'm still hung up over this one.
Occupy your time elsewise and eventually it'll be a changed focus off of her.
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