The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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Well, a couple weeks have already passed, but that doesn't necessarily mean anything yet. The biggest problem I have socially is pretty much just expanding beyond having acquaintances, so hopefully I'll get better at that.
So last friday i went to meet an old friend of mine (from the last few pages) and it went horribly well
After dinner we decided to go clubbing and we got fucked up, when we were about to leave, she was driving, drunk as fuck until i noticed she was driving drunk and told her to stop and we should sleep in the car to avoid getting killed. or something.
it was pretty cold so we went to the back seat and snuggled up, suddenly she sits on my crotch and starts rubbing her ass, next thing i remember i'm doing her doggy style for a few minutes before i started blacking out, next morning we wake up naked, cars going by and shit
i have never felt this awkward in my life. Oh when itold her about how i felt about her after dinner, just before clubbing she said "of course i knew, you dumbass"
It was an ok weekend
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;37638140]ask one of your friends if they'd want to go if your original plans fall through, maybe?[/QUOTE]
Well, girl #1 is out now so that's pretty much my only option at this point. That or selling the spare ticket off when I get there
[QUOTE=DrBreen;37640834]So last friday i went to meet an old friend of mine (from the last few pages) and it went horribly well
After dinner we decided to go clubbing and we got fucked up, when we were about to leave, she was driving, drunk as fuck until i noticed she was driving drunk and told her to stop and we should sleep in the car to avoid getting killed. or something.
it was pretty cold so we went to the back seat and snuggled up, suddenly she sits on my crotch and starts rubbing her ass, next thing i remember i'm doing her doggy style for a few minutes before i started blacking out, next morning we wake up naked, cars going by and shit
i have never felt this awkward in my life. Oh when itold her about how i felt about her after dinner, just before clubbing she said "of course i knew, you dumbass"
It was an ok weekend[/QUOTE]
She sounds lovely.
[QUOTE=Apache249;37641552]She sounds lovely.[/QUOTE]
Oh, she is
A girl I like asked about a noticeable red scratch on my forehead. I told her it was from where I bumped my head on a table. It's actually from where I was vigorously trying to get a blackhead outta my forehead
#swag
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[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;37642443]Remember. The more the smiles, the more she wants to fuck.[/QUOTE]
not always the case
So guys, I'm having a problem at university. (if you can call it that). There's this colleague and we have a bit of a friendship. I enjoy talking and shit but he's a fucking pain in the ass in class as a co-worker.
I worked with him last semester and basically I was the one who did all the work while he watched.
This guys sometimes has awkward conversations during class. Like for example, I'm trying to hear what the professor is saying and he suddenly tells me this terribly unfunny joke about something he saw on 9fag (the terrible addiction of university students) and starts giggling all by himself.
I had a very bumpy progress in university and so did he and no matter what I do he now comes seat right next to me. Completely blocking me from seating next to people who interest me or who are useful to me in terms of studying and work progress. Basically the guy's a fucking parasite and I'm fucking tired of him.
Today I had a class from 1st year (that I was supposed to have done in the beginning, but left behind) and the professor was friendly asking us how many subjects we had done so far while making friendly jokes about it. I said I made 3 last semester and that co-worker basically interrupted us and said oh but both of us have been here for like 3 years, and started laughing.
So basically that kinda implied to the teacher that we were both on the same boat. So basically, there I am, stamped as an up to no good party goer who doesn't care about studying. And I'm stuck in that boat with that fucking retard.
Basically I arrive very early to class to find the best seats, and no matter where the other people sit, or if the room is full, he arrives late as fuck and comes sit right next to me. So basically now we're both branded by the teachers as "partners in crime" and I don't want that.
I'm now back on track. I have no desire nor possibility to keep on leaving subjects behind. Basically there is no money for that kind of fooling around. He, on the contrary keeps his drug and party filled life and I no longer desire to do so. I want to be organized and work with someone who is responsible instead of pestering me with conversations about licking some pussy.
I don't know how I should get rid of him professionally without being harsh or hurting his feelings.
Tell him to go fuck himself and not to come near you again or you'll rip his fucking head off.
If that doesnt work you have more serious issues than someone who is just affecting your education.
So I've asked a total of 5 people to go see that concert with me. I'm still going alone. Yaaaaay
[QUOTE=Alan Ninja!;37644985]So I've asked a total of 5 people to go see that concert with me. I'm still going alone. Yaaaaay[/QUOTE]
That's okay, sometimes things like this happen, circumstances were probably bad for the other people or they might not enjoy the music. You have people to ask which is always good. Enjoy your concert and have a great time!
[QUOTE=Alan Ninja!;37644985]So I've asked a total of 5 people to go see that concert with me. I'm still going alone. Yaaaaay[/QUOTE]
I went to see Jay-Z and Kanye west on my own. It was the single most enjoyable experience of my life. Like, best night of my life.
[QUOTE=Tennisball;37645898]I went to see Jay-Z and Kanye west on my own. It was the single most enjoyable experience of my life. Like, best night of my life.[/QUOTE]
sounds like you have a
[i]hell of a life[/i]
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;37645949]sounds like you have a
[I]hell of a life[/I][/QUOTE]
OMG <3
But seriously, going alone is fine. Once it's started it really doesn't matter anyway. Don't worry about it.
[editline]12th September 2012[/editline]
So I have a problem of my own... This girl I really like is, according to facebook, in a relationship. I'm really, really gutted :( It says they've been together since March 2011, and she hasn't mentioned him or anything. What are the chances of the facebook info being outdated?
My friends from town always decided not to go to concerts at the last hour. So, due to the fact I didn't want to lose the opportunity to see my favourite bands I went to lots of concerts alone at the age of 15/16.
I was scared shitless, really. Had to catch an almost empty train with just enough money in my pockets for the ticket, beer and transportation. Sometimes fearing I'd get robbed and with no idea whatsoever if the concert was going to end in time for me to be able to return home that night.
I still remember the 16 year old me getting on the train with ripped jeans, some weird ass band shirt, and a denim sleeveless jacket over a leather jacket with pins and some chains and people giving me the weird looks that made me feel insecure as shit inside.
I'd stand next to the entrance, at the time I was like an encyclopedia of bands and I was really passionate about it. I had this denim jacket I still have (and use in concerts) full of band patches, eavesdropping on other groups conversations.
Then suddenly either would somebody start a conversation with me because I was a fresh new face or I'd drop in someone's conversation.
And now, some years later I have no problem whatsoever going to concerts alone. I know I'll find a friendly face or a friend there.
i've never been to a concert, except for the us army band and my orchestra teacher's performance at her college. i've also missed sleigh bells performing here 3 times now because i always find out about them being here as soon as they're sold out.
there's a nightclub nearby that constantly has really good artists perform, but i'm way too shy to go by myself.
[editline]12th September 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Tennisball;37646023]So I have a problem of my own... This girl I really like is, according to facebook, in a relationship. I'm really, really gutted :( It says they've been together since March 2011, and she hasn't mentioned him or anything. What are the chances of the facebook info being outdated?[/QUOTE]
i wouldn't count on it. most people won't want others to think they're still in a relationship if they already officially ended it.
I like concerts, but I only go if it's one of my favorite bands performing, or if I'm really heavily persuaded. I'm going to see Helio Sequence on November 6th, which should be pretty cool.
crystal castles, passion pit, beach house, and miike snow are all performing here within the next month. most of them are sold out though
aaaaa
[QUOTE=Tennisball;37646023]
So I have a problem of my own... This girl I really like is, according to facebook, in a relationship. I'm really, really gutted :( It says they've been together since March 2011, and she hasn't mentioned him or anything. What are the chances of the facebook info being outdated?[/QUOTE]
Reminds me of someone I know. She mentioned her boyfriend a couple of times, I checked out his FB page once. Then from there it turned to not showing that she is in a relationship, while his still showed it.
Then a couple of days ago I saw that guys face in the people you may know thingy on the side.
I click it and this girl isn't even shown as a mutual friend. But he was shown as being in a relationship (not specified with whom).
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;37646898]Reminds me of someone I know. She mentioned her boyfriend a couple of times, I checked out his FB page once. Then from there it turned to not showing that she is in a relationship, while his still showed it.
Then a couple of days ago I saw that guys face in the people you may know thingy on the side.
I click it and this girl isn't even shown as a mutual friend. But he was shown as being in a relationship (not specified with whom).[/QUOTE]
god damn you are creepy and also this is literally meaningless
some people have weird privacy settings and its hard to see specific details about them, llike them showing up in a mutual friend list or not
Update here,
Those text messages were real. She actually means what she said. Apparently I've been the topic of most of her conversations so far this week (info from her bestie).
I went over to her house today and hung-out, shes pretty cool. Her brother is an idiot and is constantly mad at everyone for nothing - especially cops.
Gonna hang out with her on friday again, thast when I'll seal this deal.
[QUOTE=DrBreen;37641726]Oh, she is[/QUOTE]
Did you start the night by professing your love for her?
[QUOTE=Apache249;37647518]Did you start the night by professing your love for her?[/QUOTE]
started with a headache actually
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;37646927]god damn you are creepy and also this is literally meaningless
some people have weird privacy settings and its hard to see specific details about them, llike them showing up in a mutual friend list or not[/QUOTE]
I do know it's meaningless.
And it really feels like everything I say gets labelled creepy regardless of what I say.
What's next?
I saw my former boss from back at the bus-station this morning, I said hi to him and as he asked me where I was going I answered him with that I'm going to school but I'm on a loose schedule due to working on my final project and then I accompanied him to the bus dock he was going to and got to acquaint myself with a friend of his.
~Creepy as fuck.
Friend asked me to accompany her for a smoke outside, so I joined.
~Creeeeeepy.
On another note:
Looks like I won't be going out this weekend either with that girl who's number I got last week.
Because she's going on a party-cruise with her father.
no none of that is creepy but stalking someone's facebook profile in order to give yourself the illusion they aren't dating anyone is definitely creepy
Well, that would be creepy.
Just isn't really what that I did.
His page was shown in the people you may know tab and I went to check it out and I noticed it.
first off, i've made an alt account with this name because i'm not sure how my other friends would react if they knew this, i'm almost sure they would support me but i don't want to take the chance.
i would really like some advice on this matter because it's driving me insane.
I've known my best friend since primary school, we've been through thick and thin together and he was always the first to help me with any problems i had. now i'm 21, and i'm been looking at my friend a different way, he's always been with me and has been the one person in my life that I've been able to open up to. i've always felt at ease by his side, to me he was more than i friend, i'm pretty sure he was straight but he had never gotten far with a girl.
even better i was pretty sure [B]I[/B] was straight i've even had a few girlfriends, but when i was with him, it felt right, and had he asked i would have said yes in a heartbeat. but that was only for him, i've had other friends closer than he was even one of my best mates from college who is fully gay and i've never had feelings for him
and before you say "go ask him." or something along those lines
the problem is that he's [I]gone[/I] now. i really don't want to go into the details and i've only just got over it enough to ask this i still keep every gift he ever gave me close to my heart, hell. the last thing we did together, the last good memory before he went was us sharing a drink together, i still have that bottle on my fireplace but because it was his, it's one of my most precious memories and one of the few good times i remember having with him before the end
but now i'll never know if he liked me(or even loved me) and it's killing me inside because it's left me feeling unsure about myself now, what do i do?
I don't know if this is the place to ask but does anyone have a VK account? Out of pure boredom I made one about a month ago, and a girl from a town in the middle-of-nowhere Russia sent me a message asking to be friends, and that she wants help learning English.
Does anyone else have an experience like this? I'm kind of tripping out, because the circumstances are just odd.
scam?
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