The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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what the hell is wrong with you people
"meeting other people on facebook is creepy", what the hell! i made a lot of friends on facebook, girls that i'm close friends with in real life, i met them on facebook, you guys should talk to people more, online and offline, it's healthy, it's what makes us tick, to dicover new things, new people, regardless of where you meet someone, for instance i'm bored and i read a random profile, and i'm like 'Hmm this person seems interesting, maybe i'll have a chat with him/her someday. I don't just approach people in real life and talk about world poverty though.
Honestly if anyone thinks talking with someone you don't know on facebook is creepy, either you are a social reject or we have a very different social culture, just my 2 cents, no offence to anyone
[editline]22nd September 2012[/editline]
Even if someone messages me telling me i'm cute or butt ugly or whatever, i'll struck conversation anyways
it might partly have to do with where you're from. people where i live tend to be incredibly antisocial and prefer not to talk to people outside of their own group.
[QUOTE=Seith;37763252]...Talk to her, get to know her and ask her out or whatever you [B]Americans[/B] do when you do it with women. The boyfriend is irrelevant. You're just asking.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Seith;37763635]Be in Zimbabwe for all I care... It's no excuse.[/QUOTE]
I was referring to you assuming I'm American for some reason
Also... No excuse? What?
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;37764196]it might partly have to do with where you're from. people where i live tend to be incredibly antisocial and prefer not to talk to people outside of their own group.[/QUOTE]
just out of curiosity where are you from
unless you live in the same district as me, telling you where i live wouldn't help any
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;37764196]it might partly have to do with where you're from. people where i live tend to be incredibly antisocial and prefer not to talk to people outside of their own group.[/QUOTE]
yeah
here in canada the only thing colder than the weather is everyone's personality
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;37764345]unless you live in the same district as me, telling you where i live wouldn't help any[/QUOTe]
uh
no i asked where you live as in what country do you live in
whenever i meet people from the midwest i'm able to immediately identify them because of how much nicer they are
"wait you're talking to me? what the hell is wrong with you? oh are you from wisconsin?"
[editline]22nd September 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=DrBreen;37764396]uh
no i asked where you live as in what country do you live in[/QUOTE]
US but that really doesn't mean anything in terms of niceness
most of canada is friendly except when you're an english speaker in quebec
bostons ok
helsinki is incredibly antisocial
that's seems a thing in bigger cities
But it seems like people in big cities won't stray away from a conversation once you initiate in one.
[QUOTE=JgcxCub;37764242]I was referring to you assuming I'm American for some reason
Also... No excuse? What?[/QUOTE]
Actually I think you have an excuse for that shite you posted a few pages back.
Its not hard, just ask her whats she been up to in the past week and if she plans on doing anything on the weekend, if the road is clear ask her if she wants to do something on that weekend.
There you have it, you've now discovered if shes got a partner and you've also set up the chance of a date.
You dont have to thank me, my brain has been trained for the past 6 years to deal with all types of situations.
[QUOTE=Boss;37765133]You dont have to thank me, my brain has been trained for the past 6 years to deal with all types of situations.[/QUOTE]
what would you do if bull murray walked in your room and shit on your keyboard
[QUOTE=Mon;37764346]yeah
here in canada the only thing colder than the weather is everyone's personality[/QUOTE]
As a Canadian, I can confirm.
[QUOTE=Mon;37765405]what would you do if bull murray walked in your room and shit on your keyboard[/QUOTE]
i'd fucking help him
[QUOTE=Boss;37765133]Actually I think you have an excuse for that shite you posted a few pages back.
Its not hard, just ask her whats she been up to in the past week and if she plans on doing anything on the weekend, if the road is clear ask her if she wants to do something on that weekend.
There you have it, you've now discovered if shes got a partner and you've also set up the chance of a date.
You dont have to thank me, [B]my brain has been trained for the past 6 years to deal with all types of situations[/B].[/QUOTE]
That last bit would bite except it shows just how much you misunderstood what I said statement
But this is irrelevant, if you ACTUALLY want to understand my original point then take it to PMs
Otherwise just stick to throwing vitriol around for no good reason
People don't really add other people on facebook as a general rule and strike up conversations where I'm from
Maybe it's an age thing
[QUOTE=JgcxCub;37762618]Okay, so what's the best way to ask someone if they have a boyfriend?
I was out with the aforementioned girl today and it was really good, and I'd be interested in a relationship, but I'd prefer to be aware sooner rather than later if she has one.[/QUOTE]
u want sum fuk
Um... I'm new here. .___.
[QUOTE=Lone Warrior;37767008]Um... I'm new here. .___.[/QUOTE]
Salutations.
Bear in mind this thread does not live up to the first part of its name... In fact, barely any of it.
Enjoy your stay.
[QUOTE=JgcxCub;37767178]Salutations.
Bear in mind this thread does not live up to the first part of its name... In fact, barely any of it.
Enjoy your stay.[/QUOTE]
hey brah if you don't wanna listen to anyone's advice then don't expect anyone to be super friendly about it
[QUOTE=Mon;37767254]hey brah if you don't wanna listen to anyone's advice then don't expect anyone to be super friendly about it[/QUOTE]
I hope you see the ass backwards logic in that.
HOW DARE THEY NOT TAKE MY ADVICE! FUCK THEM!
[QUOTE=lotusking;37762700]go up to her and say this
"hey, do you have a boyfriend?"
works everytime[/QUOTE]
the joke is this is how he does it
[QUOTE=Lone Warrior;37767008]Um... I'm new here. .___.[/QUOTE]
Howdy! This really is a nice thread when we're not arguing over stupid shit, so feel free to discuss whatever you'd like.
[QUOTE=Lone Warrior;37767008]Um... I'm new here. .___.[/QUOTE]
gotta pay me 10 quid in order to stay mate
I need to let something out...
There has been this girl that I have liked for 2 years who went out with one of my so called friends for over a year.
I finally told her I was done being friends with her after a year of them going out...
She told me she wouldn't date me anyways even if they broke up.
I truly feel like shit right now..
[QUOTE=Lone Warrior;37767008]Um... I'm new here. .___.[/QUOTE]
Is that the penguin from adventure time
Age is not related nor the area, city or state. You can initiate a conversation with the most antisocial person in the world, if only you tried instead of talking why you can't.....
[QUOTE=Seith;37768112]Age is not related nor the area, city or state. You can initiate a conversation with the most antisocial person in the world, if only you tried instead of talking why you can't.....[/QUOTE]
It's frowned upon where I live.
I think I might end up breaking up with my girlfriend....... And it's because of life circumstances, not because of anything she's done. She's changed a lot of things and has gotten rid of a lot of bad friends just to be with me, but I don't think I can be with her.
I'm worried, because she's been so mistreated and abandoned in the past, that if I do, I will completely break her....... and she doesn't deserve that....... But I don't think I can continue........ Every day I'm with her I get saddened because of how much I care about her, but knowing that it probably won't work, and that I'm going to absolutely kill her and probably throw her into a debilitating depression..........
Oh God....... what do I do?
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