The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;37802717]pro tip on social interaction:
stop fucking staring
people notice[/QUOTE]
That's why when I talked to the random girl today I didn't awkwardly stare at her before. I just said hi and introduced myself as soon as I saw her. Chances are I probably won't ever see her again so I just said fuck it.
[QUOTE=Ardosos;37803818]Define "attractive".[/QUOTE]
here i wrote a paper for you
[quote]The Factors Underlying Perception Of One's Peers As Potential Mates Through Visual Attraction As Humans
Ardosos Psychological Study Laboratories
Disseminate
Abstract
Girls like guys that have aesthetic appeal[1].
[1] Common Sense (2012). The super friendly social and love advice thread v3. Retrieved from [url]http://facepunch.com/showthread.php?t=1160400[/url][/quote]
[QUOTE=thisispain;37803822]i don't know that kind of depends on the specific person doesn't it
for instance i find coats pleasing to the eye, and they get extra if they have shorter hair.
some people think a woman isn't beautiful till she's at least 300 lbs.[/QUOTE]
short hair on a girl is awesome
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on some girls, anyway
hey are we still talking about weirdo girlstarer
[QUOTE=Disseminate;37803892]here i wrote a paper for you[/QUOTE]
Woah, so descriptive! I don't know if I can read all of that description! Thank you for elaborating on that extremely subjective point and not at all totally being a jerk about it! :downs:
Ask a stupid question, I guess...
because lets not
[QUOTE=Cheesemonkey;37803908]hey are we still talking about weirdo girlstarer[/QUOTE]
except I'm going to stop doing that.
oh okay then!!!
[QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;37803899]short hair on a girl is awesome
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on some girls, anyway[/QUOTE]
For me, I don't usually like anything shorter than a bob cut.
[QUOTE=Ardosos;37803913]Woah, so descriptive! I don't know if I can read all of that description! Thank you for elaborating on that extremely subjective point and not at all totally being a jerk about it! :downs:
Ask a stupid question, I guess...[/QUOTE]
hey we can't be specific for you dude
if you want specifics you'll have to be specific.
for instance "are fedora's totally attractive?" and the answer is a big giant no
please dont wear hats tia
if you don't know what people consider attractive then i'm guessing it isn't you
A good haircut (try having short hair seriously), [U]personal hygiene ([/U]makes your spots GTFO), simple clothes if your fashion sense isn't good and not being horrendously overweight will get you just about there.
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Very few people are actually ugly beyond these things and more than a few people would contest the last one anyway.
[QUOTE=BrainDeath;37804348]A good haircut (try having short hair seriously), [U]personal hygiene[/U], simple clothes if your fashion sense isn't good and not being horrendously overweight will get you just about there.
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Very few people are actually ugly beyond these things and more than a few people would contest the last one anyway.[/QUOTE]
Finally, thank you. This is the kind of stuff they should be teaching in schools.
[QUOTE=Ardosos;37804361]Finally, thank you. This is the kind of stuff they should be teaching in schools.[/QUOTE]
I forgot shaving (if you can't decide on facial hair it's better to have none, especially if you're young) but tbh this should all be super obvious anyway.
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;37798990]Oh boy.
Tomorrow I'm going to ask the girl I like if she wants to come with me and my two closest friends to the bar when one of them has to practice her singing for her upcoming karaoke contest.
And also suggest that the two of us would hang out on Thursday, Friday or both in order to get to know each other better so things wouldn't have a chance of getting awkward on the bar night.
To further push the Thursday/Friday hang out: I'm getting sick of only talking to her by text.
And there is no way I'm going to back out from asking her out due to getting a small kick of jealousy.
She posted on FB: "Fun" Continued by "with [I]some guy[/I] at [I]some city club[/I]" that was added automatically by FB (I'm not too sure about that but I expect it).
I have to add that I'm actually kinda happy of that I did react to it. But I'm not concerned.
Now for the advice asking:
Anyone got any good suggestion on what I could suggest doing when hanging out on Thur/Fri?[/QUOTE]
is she single
[QUOTE=Ardosos;37803804]Well duh, I mean what specific factors of appearance?[/QUOTE]
a large "roman" nose of genome 85x45b has been shown to improve the female-to-male attraction factor in women aged 18-24 by a nominal 2.46 (repeating decimal on the 6) percent. try to get your lips thinned out to about 1cm each for optimal results. wtf are you even talking about? look attractive, there's not some magical checklist you need to attract women. groom yourself, get a nice haircut, keep yourself clean and dress in clothes that fit you well. ie act like an adult
Damn,
I was about to ask 'the girl' out after school for lunch. Nothing big.
I got a feeling that she can go and will go with me.
30 mins before school ends. I got called down to the hall for some student group meeting.
End up finishing an hour after school ends. Went looking for her, she left.
Man, I was so annoyed that time because it ended 1 hour late because some bloke came late.
Asking her out this Friday again.
[QUOTE=HellSoldier;37801199]
If you have no clue then it's likely that she isn't and that could cause problems because now what [I]might[/I] seem like an outing with a friend has suddenly turned into her accepting a sort of date or, even worse, an attempt to turn a friendly outing into a date while its happening (which I hope you won't do).
I don't mean taking it further. You aren't doing that. You are changing it and turning it around on its head. You're not entering Friendship+ but, in reality, you're entering a relationship which should involve emotional and physical intimacy. You shouldn't be weaseling your way onto a girl by first being friends with her (unless you happened to be friends and then somehow grew infatuated with her then fine).
I doubt she'd be the one at loss. You aren't as special as you might imagine (no on ever is).[/QUOTE]
I really can't be certain but I'd imagine she'd could suspect it due to how often I want to chat.
Like how I did like 15 minutes ago, although it seems like she went on her break just as I started the chat.
[QUOTE=Kopimi;37804561]is she single[/QUOTE]
Yes.
Oh yeah, not really asking for advice here but its related to "the girl".
So we chatted today and I asked her about her home. Seoul, Korea. Yes I knew that but which district exactly.
"Gangnam"
She seemed pretty embarrassed about it thanks to that song but I managed to convince her that it is okay. I didn't find it funny but now that I thought of it. Heheh :v:
I just asked the girl if she wants to come to the karaoke bar with me and my friends.
Still haven't got a formal yes, but once I let her know that I can sing, then she started to ask about what I'm going to sing.
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;37805176]I just asked the girl if she wants to come to the karaoke bar with me and my friends.
Still haven't got a formal yes, but once I let her know that I can sing, then she started to ask about what I'm going to sing.[/QUOTE]
Have fun. She'll come and watch you sing the song you told her.
Let's hope so.
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Starting to look good, still no formal reply but more positive reactions to hearing what song's I'm thinking about singing.
Then our chat ended because her teacher forced her class to shut down the computers.
[QUOTE=adam1172;37805136]Oh yeah, not really asking for advice here but its related to "the girl".
So we chatted today and I asked her about her home. Seoul, Korea. Yes I knew that but which district exactly.
"Gangnam"
She seemed pretty embarrassed about it thanks to that song but I managed to convince her that it is okay. I didn't find it funny but now that I thought of it. Heheh :v:[/QUOTE]
That's really cool. That she's korean that is, not from Gangnam.
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[QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;37803899]short hair on a girl is awesome
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on some girls, anyway[/QUOTE]
See my avatar
that's not really "short"
On a side note, guys: Ardosos is asking WHAT do girls normally consider attractive, because he's evidently not sure
I don't think he's asking for a magical formula as Kopimi seems to think, just general advice
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[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;37805412]that's not really "short"[/QUOTE]
Ohright, well I guess it depends on your definition too
Some girl I know/knew had the sides of her head cut really short and it looked p. sweet
[QUOTE=JgcxCub;37805405]That's really cool. That she's korean that is, not from Gangnam.
[/QUOTE]
Super smart and good looking. You don't meet a girl like this everyday.