The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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Man, I gotta watch Amelie someday.
omg
let me tell you about amelie; the movie that changed my life
When I think of attractive short hair on girls, I think of Audrey Tatou
[editline]26th September 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=thisispain;37805614]omg
let me tell you about amelie; the movie that changed my life[/QUOTE]
how so? Did it have you creating romances between coworkers?
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;37803751]are you serious? you're asking if you should break up with a girl you claim to enjoy being with because she's busy during the week?
if you can't handle the prospect of being in a relationship where you aren't breathing down each other's necks 24/7, then end it[/QUOTE]
Did you even read my post?
I actually prefer girls with long hair, it just looks nicer to me.
Hi guys!
Heres my super not unique story that im going to ask about...
So I do stage crew at school for the drama company. I do sound. Well this year this girl joined. I eventually started talking to her on kik last night just about dumb things... Turns out shes like super cool and we have lots in common.
She asks me about homecoming (a big dance thing our school has every year)... I casually say I dont know If im going to go. I dont have a date, all my friends do, blah blah. So she starts telling me the same thing. And then starts telling me about how awesome her dress is. Then she sent me a picture of her in it. It was pretty so I told her it was. She says thanks and keeps using the <3 emote a lot. I feel like she wants me to ask her to homecoming? Im a junior in highschool and shes a freshman... (normally I dont like the freshman (yeah I know I was one too) because they just annoy me... But I thought she was a sophomore )
What do?
[QUOTE=Mitchell4500;37806540]Hi guys!
Heres my super not unique story that im going to ask about...
So I do stage crew at school for the drama company. I do sound. Well this year this girl joined. I eventually started talking to her on kik last night just about dumb things... Turns out shes like super cool and we have lots in common.
She asks me about homecoming (a big dance thing our school has every year)... I casually say I dont know If im going to go. I dont have a date, all my friends do, blah blah. So she starts telling me the same thing. And then starts telling me about how awesome her dress is. Then she sent me a picture of her in it. It was pretty so I told her it was. She says thanks and keeps using the <3 emote a lot. I feel like she wants me to ask her to homecoming? Im a junior in highschool and shes a freshman...
What do?[/QUOTE]
If you're down and she's down then give her the dick
if you don't care that shes younger than you then don't worry about it (unless you do care in which case consider carefully your course of action) but your friend would probably give you some non-serious shit for it
[QUOTE=HellSoldier;37806558]If you're down and she's down then give her the dick
if you don't care that shes younger than you then don't worry about it (unless you do care in which case consider carefully your course of action) but your friend would probably give you some non-serious shit for it[/QUOTE]
Yeah my friends keep telling me I should go for it. Also I added this to my previous post
"(normally I dont like the freshman (yeah I know I was one too) because they just annoy me... But I thought she was a sophomore )"
[QUOTE=Mitchell4500;37806567]Yeah my friends keep telling me I should go for it. Also I added this to my previous post
"(normally I dont like the freshman (yeah I know I was one too) because they just annoy me... But I thought she was a sophomore )"[/QUOTE]
Personally I wouldn't bother dating someone out of my grade in high school but now that I'm in university age is such a non-issue you may as well get used to it now. Like i said earlier, if both of you are down then why not? Hell, your friends even want you to.
Unless there's something else that's bothering you then really the question is would you want to go to homecoming with a freshman while you're a junior and does it bother you? If no, give her the dick.
[QUOTE=Mitchell4500;37806540]Hi guys!
Heres my super not unique story that im going to ask about...
So I do stage crew at school for the drama company. I do sound. Well this year this girl joined. I eventually started talking to her on kik last night just about dumb things... Turns out shes like super cool and we have lots in common.
She asks me about homecoming (a big dance thing our school has every year)... I casually say I dont know If im going to go. I dont have a date, all my friends do, blah blah. So she starts telling me the same thing. And then starts telling me about how awesome her dress is. Then she sent me a picture of her in it. It was pretty so I told her it was. She says thanks and keeps using the <3 emote a lot. I feel like she wants me to ask her to homecoming? Im a junior in highschool and shes a freshman... (normally I dont like the freshman (yeah I know I was one too) because they just annoy me... But I thought she was a sophomore )
What do?[/QUOTE]
If age is an issue don't ask her to homecoming.
If it isn't an issue, ask her to homecoming.
It's not like there's some deep involving philosophy behind all of this. Do it or don't based on if you want to.
[QUOTE=adam1172;37805136]Oh yeah, not really asking for advice here but its related to "the girl".
So we chatted today and I asked her about her home. Seoul, Korea. Yes I knew that but which district exactly.
"Gangnam"
She seemed pretty embarrassed about it thanks to that song but I managed to convince her that it is okay. I didn't find it funny but now that I thought of it. Heheh :v:[/QUOTE]
I live in Gangnam currently. I go to a private international school though that's why I'm with expats/foreigners hence my girlfriend coming from LA. Have to say the song really did kind of make Gangnam look like it was a joke. Gangnam is an awesome place and it's filled with rich people with lots of insane stuff to do.
[QUOTE=Mitchell4500;37806540]Hi guys!
Heres my super not unique story that im going to ask about...
So I do stage crew at school for the drama company. I do sound. Well this year this girl joined. I eventually started talking to her on kik last night just about dumb things... Turns out shes like super cool and we have lots in common.
She asks me about homecoming (a big dance thing our school has every year)... I casually say I dont know If im going to go. I dont have a date, all my friends do, blah blah. So she starts telling me the same thing. And then starts telling me about how awesome her dress is. Then she sent me a picture of her in it. It was pretty so I told her it was. She says thanks and keeps using the <3 emote a lot. I feel like she wants me to ask her to homecoming? Im a junior in highschool and shes a freshman... (normally I dont like the freshman (yeah I know I was one too) because they just annoy me... But I thought she was a sophomore )
What do?[/QUOTE]
If you're already considering it, just do it. Nothing to lose.
What places can I go to look for expats as friends.
I'm bored with local people
Ok so I have a bit of a different kind of question. I don't need help with how to get with a girl I like, but sort of the opposite.
I travel out of state every summer to go to a summer camp. (from Virginia to Massachusetts, about four states away) Everyone there is really awesome and cool and I have about the same amount of friends up there as I do down here.
The full story I really long and full of details so I’ll just give the short version - I went all school year without a single crush on anyone then go up there and fall for two different girls in one month. The second girl I fell for also liked me. Seeing as I live so far away, there was no way we’d be able to be together and I didn’t want to mess up our friendship by telling her I liked her. I hoped I’d just forget about her over the school year and meet some other great girl or something. What I didn’t count on was us keeping in touch - we email each other all the time and have hour long chat and phone conversations, almost like we were going out or something. We both know we like each other and all that-but it just won’t go away. This girl is seriously the awesomest person I’ve ever had a crush on. The more we talk the bigger my crush gets, and the next time I’ll be able to see her is in like ten months. I’ve been trying to muster up the confidence to tell her how I feel, but honestly what’s the point? We can’t be together. I actually could have moved up there, but that would have been creepy seeing as we’re only teenagers.
So basically I’m asking for advice on how to break it off, but I don’t know how to go about doing it because WE AREN’T EVEN GOING OUT. How do you break up with someone you aren’t going out with? I want to keep talking to her, she’s really really awesome.
I’m afraid I wont be able to move on to other girls if I’m talking to her so much, but I don’t want to stop.
What do?
How do you get from the first few dates/fooling around to the formally going out/gf stage? This is where most girls seem to back out. I'm in the first stage now, and I don't want to fuck up the transition to the second one
[QUOTE=exhale77;37805689]Did you even read my post?[/QUOTE]
if i missed something, then tell me, but what i got from it is that you're ditching her because she doesn't have enough free time to spend with you. if you're actually happy with her and she's actually busy and not avoiding you, then i don't see why any of this is a problem.
[QUOTE=atl101;37808739]How do you get from the first few dates/fooling around to the formally going out/gf stage? This is where most girls seem to back out. I'm in the first stage now, and I don't want to fuck up the transition to the second one[/QUOTE]
Takes time, dont rush it and dont make it appear you want to force the relationship. Let it take its course.
[QUOTE=adam1172;37805440]Super smart and good looking. You don't meet a girl like this everyday.[/quote]
You are one lucky motherfucker.
[QUOTE=Potanis;37807965]Ok so I have a bit of a different kind of question. I don't need help with how to get with a girl I like, but sort of the opposite.
I travel out of state every summer to go to a summer camp. (from Virginia to Massachusetts, about four states away) Everyone there is really awesome and cool and I have about the same amount of friends up there as I do down here.
The full story I really long and full of details so I’ll just give the short version - I went all school year without a single crush on anyone then go up there and fall for two different girls in one month. The second girl I fell for also liked me. Seeing as I live so far away, there was no way we’d be able to be together and I didn’t want to mess up our friendship by telling her I liked her. I hoped I’d just forget about her over the school year and meet some other great girl or something. What I didn’t count on was us keeping in touch - we email each other all the time and have hour long chat and phone conversations, almost like we were going out or something. We both know we like each other and all that-but it just won’t go away. This girl is seriously the awesomest person I’ve ever had a crush on. The more we talk the bigger my crush gets, and the next time I’ll be able to see her is in like ten months. I’ve been trying to muster up the confidence to tell her how I feel, but honestly what’s the point? We can’t be together. I actually could have moved up there, but that would have been creepy seeing as we’re only teenagers.
So basically I’m asking for advice on how to break it off, but I don’t know how to go about doing it because WE AREN’T EVEN GOING OUT. How do you break up with someone you aren’t going out with? I want to keep talking to her, she’s really really awesome.
I’m afraid I wont be able to move on to other girls if I’m talking to her so much, but I don’t want to stop.
What do?[/QUOTE]
give it time, it's just a crush. it'll pass. you're too young to really move closer to each other or anything so it's really not worth it anyway
no reason to tell her how you feel because that would just drag out matters further
go to college in boston MA is the best state
chick in class is being super clingy and always following me around, got [I]seriously[/I] pissed at her best friend when i talked to her
what is the logical course of action
sure i'm lonely but i would fancy someone who doesn't create an obama llama triangle drama over a fifteen second long conversation
[QUOTE=Honesty;37810652] an obama llama triangle drama conversation[/QUOTE]
I fucking lost it after this
[QUOTE=HellSoldier;37810666]I fucking lost it after this[/QUOTE]
cool, thanks for sharing that with us
Finding out that she has an eating disorder... caused by her older brother constantly harassing her at home.
I really never feel sad or anything but this just makes me feel really terrible.
@Honesty
i think so long as you don't give her anything that could even be loosely translated as a mutual feeling then she'll (hopefully) realise you have no intentions of anything with her and should calm down after a while
[QUOTE=Autumn;37810771]@Honesty
i think so long as you don't give her anything that could even be loosely translated as a mutual feeling then she'll (hopefully) realise you have no intentions of anything with her and should calm down after a while[/QUOTE]
i think i kinda did something because she won't stop eyeing me down whenever she's around
during a 500m walk from a bus stop today she was constantly quite literally rubbing against me and talking non-stop, i just nodded and agreed by mumbling
later i talked to her friend on the bus and for some reason clingy girl got pretty pissed
i guess i am fucked
A short story that might tickle a couple of you.
Me and my girlfriend had just gotten to the whole "I love you" stage. I take that stuff seriously, and have trouble expressing my emotions as it is. At this point I've said it, but still had trouble.
One day she turns to me and says "I love you"
I turn to her and say "Thank you"
So I'm in Physics this year. There's a bunch of seniors in there(I'm a junior), and my friends(whoa re also juniors) sit on the other side of the room, so w/e. My table has 2 other seniors(one male, other female) and 1 other junior(female).
I missed 3 days on the second week to go to a funeral(it was in a different state). When I get back, I ask my teacher what I'd miss and he gave me some sheets and that was that. He then starts lecturing for the day, and before we start our lab he says something about group projects. Being the socially awkward person that I am, I don't say anything about it until the female senior brings up that we should do something about it. I ask what the project entails and I'm told that we have to think of 2 variables(like the length of your arm and your height), and then graph them and figure out the relation between the two.
Next day is the only day in class we get to work on it. The female senior isn't there that day. Female junior says repeatedly over the class that we should do something but no one has ideas. I finally snap out of my social awkwardness for a moment and start spitting out idea because no one else is. We decide to do one that I came up with, which was to compare the time it takes to write the word "Physics" to the length of the pencil used(I sharpened 3 different pencils and whatnot). I write the data down in my notebook, but for the next week straight I was busy writing essays/studying for tests/doing busywork/playing video games that I neglect the project.
Today comes, and it turns out that it's the day to turn in the lab(we're in the computer lab, we're all in different areas). I look over to female junior and she laughs. I look over to female senior and she acts confused and rushes over to male senior and then starts asking a bunch of questions. I overhear a bit of the conversation and she's basically pissed at us for not working at all(the male senior isn't making anything better by forgetting about what we did that one day). I think she even goes over to the teacher to change groups after the project is done. I hand over my data to her and she says that she will work over it on the weekend.
Basically I'm not sure if I'm the one to blame or not. I had the data(but no one else wrote it down for themselves), but then again since I had it I feel bad for not working on it. I've never done group projects like this before where no one took over the situation, so when I took it over for the day I was bit awkward with it.
so i log into facebook today to a notification on a picture i was tagged in that's over a year old.
[img]http://i.imgur.com/8eh11.png[/img]
blue is my ex
it's been almost a year since we broke up, are you fucking kidding me?
pretty sad to think that while i've gone through three semesters of college and gotten ready to move out of state to live with my boyfriend, my ex has spent all of 2012 sitting around moping about his "bitch" ex-girlfriend and talking shit about me to his friends.
That's so stupid
Like he's perfectly allowed to think those things if it was a bad breakup or whatever but there was no motivation for him to bring it up at all?
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