The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=areolop;37865057]So I told the girl to not go shooting with me because of her cheer things later in the day and my god that was the best decision ever.
The gun I was using would have been WAY to big for her[/QUOTE]
thank god you cancelled a date she was probably looking forward to so you could pretend it was in her best interests
[editline]1st October 2012[/editline]
can i please have like a 30 second grace period for my automerges
[QUOTE=DaFreshLemon;37865064]Act with the girls then, problem solved. Also, you keep posting "yeah I'm totally going to talk with that girl tomorrow" all the time like it's a big ass achievement. Chill out man, go talk to a girl and THEN post how it went. Otherwise you'll keep posting the same problem over and over again.[/QUOTE]
Did I say when I was going to talk to her? No. I just said I was going to. I theoretically could talk to her tomorrow but I won't because in the class we have tomorrow we have a test so I won't be able to talk to her unless we finish at the same time. I'll shut up now
[QUOTE=Kopimi;37865073]thank god you cancelled a date she was probably looking forward to so you could pretend it was in her best interests
[editline]1st October 2012[/editline]
can i please have like a 30 second grace period for my automerges[/QUOTE]
It actually was.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;37865010] I can in fact act like a normal person in real life.[/QUOTE]
I am struggling to believe this.
You shouldn't just focus on just talking to girls.
Make some friends first at your university, get involved in things.
Plus the few times I decided I was going to talk to a totally random girl I managed to act pretty normal. So it shouldn't be that hard.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;37865087]Did I say when I was going to talk to her? No. I just said I was going to. I theoretically could talk to her tomorrow but I won't because in the class we have tomorrow we have a test so I won't be able to talk to her unless we finish at the same time. I'll shut up now[/QUOTE]
the fact that you're planning a simple conversation so strategically is a really really bad sign
i know she might have broken her girl hands or hurt her delicate christian soul
[QUOTE=areolop;37865100]It actually was.[/QUOTE]
uh were you shooting a .308 and couldn't find a table or something to rest on because in almost any situation im p sure even a really flimsy person can handle shooting almost any gun as long as they can brace against something
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;37865104]I am struggling to believe this.
You shouldn't just focus on just talking to girls.
Make some friends first at your university, get involved in things.[/QUOTE]
I do have friends though. Quite a few actually. Surprisingly some of them are girls too. I manage to act totally normal around them and they have no idea I'm a social retard.
[QUOTE=areolop;37865100]It actually was.[/QUOTE]
her delicate feminine arms couldnt have saved herself from the horrible big gun!!
[QUOTE=Kopimi;37865120]uh were you shooting a .308 and couldn't find a table or something to rest on because in almost any situation im p sure even a really flimsy person can handle shooting almost any gun as long as they can brace against something[/QUOTE]
Small girl + 870 Wingmaster + trap shooting.
Her arms are too short
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;37865087]Did I say when I was going to talk to her? No. I just said I was going to. I theoretically could talk to her tomorrow but I won't because in the class we have tomorrow we have a test so I won't be able to talk to her unless we finish at the same time. I'll shut up now[/QUOTE]
Tests make great conversation starters, flat, and 2 dimensional conversations, albeit tons better than a feign, non-existent conversation that you had in your head.
[QUOTE=Kopimi;37865108]the fact that you're planning a simple conversation so strategically is a really really bad sign[/QUOTE]
I'm not strategically planning it down to the most minute detail because that's totally impossible. You can't account for what she's going to do. I'm just figuring out when I can talk to her.
[QUOTE=areolop;37865148]Small girl + 870 Wingmaster + trap shooting.
Her arms are too short[/QUOTE]
omg she would have broken her shoulder why didn't you tell me it was a shotgun!
seriously dude children shoot bigger guns than that, you messed up big time
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;37865143]I do have friends though. Quite a few actually. Surprisingly some of them are girls too. I manage to act totally normal around them and they have no idea I'm a social retard.[/QUOTE]
Are the rest of them social retards...?
[QUOTE=Kopimi;37865168]omg she would have broken her shoulder why didn't you tell me it was a shotgun!
seriously dude children shoot bigger guns than that, you messed up big time[/QUOTE]
Yeah. I would fucking [I]love[/I] to take a girl shooting. What were you thinking, man?
he didnt mess up big time but hes a misogynist.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;37865143]I do have friends though. Quite a few actually. Surprisingly some of them are girls too. I manage to act totally normal around them and they have no idea I'm a social retard.[/QUOTE]
"I have friends who are girls, but I can't talk to girls and make friends"
I don't quite follow you on this one.
Im not trying to be an ass, i apologies in advance if my tone comes off as that, but I don't really see how what you just said goes together with the picture you have painted of yourself in this thread through your actions.
[QUOTE=HellSoldier;37865171]Are the rest of them social retards...?[/QUOTE]
As far as I know, no.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;37865087]Did I say when I was going to talk to her? No. I just said I was going to. I theoretically could talk to her tomorrow but I won't because in the class we have tomorrow we have a test so I won't be able to talk to her unless we finish at the same time. I'll shut up now[/QUOTE]
Well perfect time to strike a conversation. You could ask her if she studied or whatever before the test and how did she do after the test. Altough the way I see it it's better to start chatting with people as soon as the year starts. The more you push that away the harder it will be to make friends etc because they would have already formed a group. Especially if you never opened your mouth and suddenly start talking with people out of the blue, it would seem weird.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;37865176]he didnt mess up big time but hes a misogynist.[/QUOTE]
far from.
[editline]30th September 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=HellSoldier;37865171]Are the rest of them social retards...?
Yeah. I would fucking [I]love[/I] to take a girl shooting. What were you thinking, man?[/QUOTE]
It was bad timing because of her cheer stuff. If she didnt have that stuff she definietly would have been out there with me
how did you break it to her
"im sorry but your flimsy arms wont be able to handle this man cannon"?
[QUOTE=Kopimi;37865227]how did you break it to her
"im sorry but your flimsy arms wont be able to handle this man cannon"?[/QUOTE]
"Unfortunantly, because of your physical stature, I am strongly encouraging that you do not come shoot this bazooka of a gun"
Like seriously, guys wow. You all dont even understand
[QUOTE=Kopimi;37865227]how did you break it to her
"im sorry but your flimsy arms wont be able to handle this man cannon"?[/QUOTE]
'sorry babe, I don't think your ovaries could handle all this raw man energy'
[QUOTE=Kopimi;37865227]"im sorry but your flimsy arms wont be able to handle [B]my[/B] man cannon"?[/QUOTE]
hehehe
[QUOTE=DaFreshLemon;37865199]Well perfect time to strike a conversation. You could ask her if she studied or whatever before the test and how did she do after the test. Altough the way I see it it's better to start chatting with people as soon as the year starts. The more you push that away the harder it will be to make friends etc because they would have already formed a group.[/QUOTE]
Again, these conversations are stale, and die really quickly.
A lot of the time people are nervous about the test, and then there's the actual test, so theres little room to talk, and there's tension surrounding the subject itself (test). But the whole cliche, overly used "did you study" opens the window for after the test/later with the "how did you do" which is a less stressful conversation, less compressed on time usually, and is very easy to branch onto other conversations as the prior conversation.
[QUOTE=areolop;37865265]"Unfortunantly, because of your physical stature, I am strongly encouraging that you do not come shoot this bazooka of a gun"
Like seriously, guys wow. You all dont even understand[/QUOTE]
thought you said you told her not to come because of her cheer thing later in the day, and [i]then[/i] found out the guns were too big
not that you told her straight up that the guns were too big...?
might wanna get your story straight bud
Well if it was a gigantic fucking handcannon it would suck if she broke her wrist or something.
[QUOTE=areolop;37865265]"Unfortunantly, because of your physical stature, I am strongly encouraging that you do not come shoot this bazooka of a gun"
Like seriously, guys wow. You all dont even understand[/QUOTE]
do you seriously not realize the problem in telling someone that they're physically ill-equipped to perform an activity they want to do? this is the equivalent of telling a young girl she can't be an engineer or play violent video games or whatever because those activities are restricted to men. even if you think she's ill-suited for the activity, if she wants to do it then don't tell her she can't because of circumstances out of her control.
This girl I know + think is p. dope broke up with her boyfriend a couple weeks ago and I'm gonna ask her out but I have followed her on tumblr for a while and she keeps posting super sad posts and it is uncomfortable. I feel kinda bad now.
Is it bad to be called cute by your girlfriend? I don't want to be cute! :suicide:
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