• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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I think it's better than being called sexy :D. Also, another question. Is it bad to fall in love before having sex?
[QUOTE=DaFreshLemon;37865199]Well perfect time to strike a conversation. You could ask her if she studied or whatever before the test and how did she do after the test. Altough the way I see it it's better to start chatting with people as soon as the year starts. The more you push that away the harder it will be to make friends etc because they would have already formed a group. Especially if you never opened your mouth and suddenly start talking with people out of the blue, it would seem weird.[/QUOTE] It's only a month in, it's not like I'm planning on having a crush on a girl for the whole semester and never saying a word to her. I learned from high school that's fucking shitty. Plus I didn't even notice her until a few days ago. [editline]30th September 2012[/editline] And I noticed that she doesn't appear to have friends in the classes we have together
[QUOTE=HeatPipe;37865946]Is it bad to fall in love before having sex?[/QUOTE] nope [editline]1st October 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Taepodong-2;37866191] And I noticed that she doesn't appear to have friends in the classes we have together[/QUOTE] Perfect! She can thusly be easily cornered. Procreation is imminent.
you're probably not tired because you're staring at a computer screen for future reference: read for a bit or something before sleeping, avoid bright light [editline]1st October 2012[/editline] also you should try and get 4 hours of sleep and go to school
you should also use F.lux it really does help [url]http://stereopsis.com/flux/[/url]
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;37866191]It's only a month in, it's not like I'm planning on having a crush on a girl for the whole semester and never saying a word to her. I learned from high school that's fucking shitty. Plus I didn't even notice her until a few days ago. [editline]30th September 2012[/editline] And I noticed that she doesn't appear to have friends in the classes we have together[/QUOTE] STOP THINKING ABOUT GIRLS SO MUCH Seriously I am going to repeat it like a fucking mantra drilling it in your head until you get that the above message, in capital letters, is the sole solution to literally all your girl problems
[QUOTE=thisispain;37866842]you should also use F.lux it really does help [url]http://stereopsis.com/flux/[/url][/QUOTE] Brilliant. Has it changed anything for you? Like, are your eyes less tired, you feel less sleepy....
[QUOTE=thisispain;37866842]you should also use F.lux it really does help [url]http://stereopsis.com/flux/[/url][/QUOTE] this is going to sound really dorky but i actually tend to choose warmer color contrasts on computers because blue light suppresses melatonin more than warm light does didn't know there was software like this though, thanks for the link!
yeah my eyes just hurt less. when i look at other people's pleb monitors with their sharp blue tint i scoff. [editline]1st October 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Guy Mannly;37867262]this is going to sound really dorky but i actually tend to choose warmer color contrasts on computers because blue light suppresses melatonin more than warm light does didn't know there was software like this though, thanks for the link![/QUOTE] yeah you can even customize the colour contrast if you want. for that extra burst of melatonin.
i get the feeling it won't do me much good when i'm up at 4am writing lab reports anyway
[QUOTE=Jellyman;37865757]Is it bad to be called cute by your girlfriend? I don't want to be cute! :suicide:[/QUOTE] This is very bad, you have entered the dreaded "boyfriend zone" I recommend a complete regimen of PUA books
I love f.lux, except when I forget I had it on while Im doing digital art and all my colours are terribly wrong :c Unrelatedly, im up at 5 am and cant get back to sleep, im off to work at 6, for a long day of learning what to do on the spot high pressure situation, from my boss, one on one. This is one of those times being a nervous person comes out in all the worst ways.
[QUOTE=Disseminate;37864584]Everyone starts somewhere (though taepodong has already been told multiple times he needs to fix himself first)[/QUOTE] Sorry for bringing this up, I know it's kinda late. I know it sounded a bit harsh, but it's a bit tiresome when the same people (don't want to throw in names) keep posting and posting with the same miserable speech. I mean, all it takes is going some posts back and we've already gave advice about it. And seriously, when someone comes here all miserable, not pinpointing any problem in specific other than "I'm a huge creep" and "I'm anti-social" there isn't much we can say or do about it other that was already said most posts before. I know I sometimes come here seeking for advice and I try my best to give it based on experience, but some things here in the past few posts have been all like "oh crap, not this again...". And you know what I'm talking about cause most of you already complained about it. Now I'm sorry I was harsh. It kinda sounded better in my head than when I read it now, but this is what I think. And yes, everybody deserves advice but some things are just tiring to hear over and over. It's like some guys only come here seeking condescension and when advised they do nothing to improve themselves and keep coming in from time to time with the same issues. I'm sorry for the "rant" and I won't be bringing this up ever again, but I felt I needed to explain myself. Keep it going.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;37866191]It's only a month in, it's not like I'm planning on having a crush on a girl for the whole semester and never saying a word to her. I learned from high school that's fucking shitty. Plus I didn't even notice her until a few days ago. [editline]30th September 2012[/editline] And I noticed that she doesn't appear to have friends in the classes we have together[/QUOTE] I've read a majority of your posts and you should really get some counselling. You're posting small details that make the most fuss about you. You come here to talk that you're just clumsy about everything and you are just a failure (it was from some pages ago but if I accidentally misread I'm a bit sorry). I'm like you but I can say it was abit worse since I don't know everything about you yet. I came from the slums. My parents luckily worked and raised me enough to get an international education. However, I faced heavy domestic abuse from my father, an alcoholic, blah blah blah. Had no social life, blah blah blah. But at the end of the day, are you going to come up to people, especially girls, and say "I was a social retard, my childhood was a piece of fuck, blah blah blah"? I think not. I think you don't deserve to be this guy you are at all. If there's one thing you should really improve on is [B]confidence[/B]. A lot of girls like [B]confident guys[/B]. If you aren't then the girl will not feel as much for you than the other [B]guys with confidence[/B]. My girlfriend and her friends (although we're all senior high schoolers) told me they like guys with confidence too. From what I've seen, you lack confidence. Go counselling and get help to find a better you. You are a good social guy who's really confident. It's just the matter of digging it back up from years it had been deep underground. It's a time for you to shine. Now go outside, get some fresh air, gain confidence. Go.
So there's a new girl at work, and we talked a bit a couple days ago and she seemed pretty nice. Thought about asking her to go see a movie or something, but chickened out. Today I looked her up on Facebook, turns out yesterday she started dating some other guy. Okay.
nevermind then
Went to class too late and didn't get to talk to the girl before the test started. Plus she had friends now so I wouldn't have been able to anyway. And then I finished the test before her and didn't get to talk to her after. Maybe I should just forget about her for now. [editline]1st October 2012[/editline] I mean I don't even know her name and I'm crushing on her pretty hard. That can't be good.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;37869980]Went to class too late and didn't get to talk to the girl before the test started. Plus she had friends now so I wouldn't have been able to anyway. And then I finished the test before her and didn't get to talk to her after. Maybe I should just forget about her for now. [editline]1st October 2012[/editline] I mean I don't even know her name and I'm crushing on her pretty hard. That can't be good.[/QUOTE] what [I]are[/I] you doing
"oh no i got to class 5 minutes late now i'll never be able to date this girl i've been ogling because she has [b]friends[/b] now!!" you are the least persistent stalker ever [editline]1st October 2012[/editline] i can think of a million reasons why she wouldn't be interested in you and none of them are "she has friends"
[QUOTE=Jellyman;37870203]what [I]are[/I] you doing[/QUOTE] being completely socially retarded as usual
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;37871068]being completely socially retarded as usual[/QUOTE] Do you want us to pat your shoulder, stroke your hair and whisper: "there, there..."?
So a girl is pretty into me, which hasn't happened before.. she's nice and all, and I do like her (as a person) but after I hooked up with her I just felt terrible because I can't really return those feelings and felt like I just used her. I was drunk, so I lied to her that I liked her too... I mean I think I'd know whether to go ahead with this, but I'm just not feeling it. With any girl, actually. So what's the best way to make this just kind of fade away? Just treat her like a friend and stop any advances, hoping she gets the message? Or straight up tell her? It doesn't help that my friends are trying to get me together with her either.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;37871068]being completely socially retarded as usual[/QUOTE] I feel like you aren't too far off from adopting the Chrischan strategy for getting a woman. [img]http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_7xoqTglSOj8/THxnm3UIkAI/AAAAAAAAAAM/I1Z_DtbbLFA/s1600/WantWoman.jpg[/img]
I may get flamed for this and what not but I really think that Taepongdongwhatever is just coming to this thread for attention whoring. You guys told him solution for his problems several times now but everytime he just ignores them and starts being the usual creep he is and then he comes to this thread again whining and you give him the solution and he ignores it and it just keeps going on and on.
i don't think he's attention whoring, i just think he has some genuine social (and more?) problems that we are not really able to deal with.
And that's why you gave him an advice to get some help which he just shrugged off and went into full detail on how [B]to talk[/B] with a girl. There's p much nothing else you can do to help him, but if you want to keep up with useless cycle, keep at it. I just lurk these threads anyway.
Wait, sorry for the offtopic. Autumn, are you male or female? (I was going to ask this earlier but I forgot)
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;37873324]Wait, sorry for the offtopic. Autumn, are you male or female? (I was going to ask this earlier but I forgot)[/QUOTE] Autumn is a lady, one of the most well known ones on this site :v:
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;37869980]Went to class too late and didn't get to talk to the girl before the test started. Plus she had friends now so I wouldn't have been able to anyway. And then I finished the test before her and didn't get to talk to her after. Maybe I should just forget about her for now. [editline]1st October 2012[/editline] I mean I don't even know her name and I'm crushing on her pretty hard. That can't be good.[/QUOTE] Can we just ban Taepodong until he posts in the Refuge Camp with some signs of improvement?
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;37870245]"oh no i got to class 5 minutes late now i'll never be able to date this girl i've been ogling because she has [b]friends[/b] now!!" you are the least persistent stalker ever [editline]1st October 2012[/editline] i can think of a million reasons why she wouldn't be interested in you and none of them are "she has friends"[/QUOTE] The whole reason I want to talk to girls who have no friends is because they would be the only ones desperate enough to even bother with me.
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