The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=1chains1;34520567]Just don't get excited and start twitching, then hurl on her.[/QUOTE]
I'll do my hurling beforehand.
[editline]2nd February 2012[/editline]
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Gosh, today is one of those days where I feel this tremendous pain inside of me because of my ex-girlfriend. It has been 6 months since we broke up, but at times this whole thing that we had to together flashes back.
Feels bad man.
[QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;34520620]I'll do my hurling beforehand.
[editline]2nd February 2012[/editline]
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lol spoons
Need some quick advice, just said to a girl we should go see __ sometime, and she said "Who else is going?"
Now should I say I was just thinking we could
or say Do you know anyone that would wanna come?
Since I don't wanna fuck shit up.
I'd say something like "Well I was thinking just the two of us could go" or some shit like that
[QUOTE=Tennisball;34525812]I'd say something like "Well I was thinking just the two of us could go" or some shit like that[/QUOTE]
No.
[editline]3rd February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=TrannyAlert;34525691]Need some quick advice, just said to a girl we should go see __ sometime, and she said "Who else is going?"
Now should I say I was just thinking we could
or say Do you know anyone that would wanna come?
Since I don't wanna fuck shit up.[/QUOTE]
How did you guys meet? How long have you know each other? Is this your first time trying to initiate that sort of move?
[QUOTE=Seith;34525860]How did you guys meet? How long have you know each other? Is this your first time trying to initiate that sort of move?[/QUOTE]
Two years, but i've only just started speaking to her in the past 2 - 3 weeks, having proper conversation etc... and she doesn't speak to me in person, or she doesn't initiate anything since I think she's shy.
[QUOTE=TrannyAlert;34526058]Two years, but i've only just started speaking to her in the past 2 - 3 weeks, having proper conversation etc... and she doesn't speak to me in person, or she doesn't initiate anything since I think she's shy.[/QUOTE]
Do you usually do all the talking in person? Do you guys speak eveyday, did she ever send you messages?
[QUOTE=Seith;34526091]Do you usually do all the talking in person? Do you guys speak eveyday, did she ever send you messages?[/QUOTE]
I'm the one who usually starts speaking, but even then it's quick stuff. I see her monday and Thursday in College on the break and she hasn't started any messages since I did, but she's been replying and stopped replying for whatever reason last week, but then replied a couple of days ago.
[QUOTE=DrBreen;34518667]Would you guys say that having a lot in common is better for a relationship?
because i feel that there's people that want a copy of their ego with boobs and people that want the exact opposite of themselves, and hundred other combinations
i feel that having a lot in common doesn't really matter
At least for people over 20[/QUOTE]
my friend once casually referred to my girlfriend as "the other one"
I asked him who he meant (though I had a feeling I knew), and he said "you know, the one that's like... you, but a girl"
I guess that makes both of us huge narcissists? lol
Hah, doesn't matter anyway, got friendzoned~
I stopped commenting because I knew that would happen. Now, after you've gotten to where you are right now this is what you need to do:
don't contact her for at least a month. then you can reset, and learn from your previous mistakes.
Well, my ex-gf snapped at me and everyone was like "back the fuck up you hurt him already"
Today was good day. I feel free.
i'm going to a date in about 70 minutes, wish me luck
[QUOTE=Turnips5;34504286]why did you hijack this fucking thread[/QUOTE]
At least he's not hijacking your planet.
From you guy's perspective is kissing on a first date such a bad thing?
Depends.
[QUOTE=DrBreen;34529856]From you guy's perspective is kissing on a first date such a bad thing?[/QUOTE]No. If you and the other person are okay with it, what's wrong with it?
[QUOTE=DrBreen;34529856]From you guy's perspective is kissing on a first date such a bad thing?[/QUOTE]
kissing is okay
sex is better though
Ill leave it for the second date! :v:
[editline]3rd February 2012[/editline]
Ill be honest though, i'm a terrible kisser, no matter how much practice i have
its like my handwritting
No offense but I don't think you have been practising enough
I went out with that girl again, we had another great time, we laughed and talked for a long time and it overall turned out great. Just one confusion though, when we got close to her home, we have gone our separate ways before getting really near either house, today when we got close I offered to walk her home, but she said no even when I offered multiple times, what does that mean? I have made it clear that I am not some dick who just wants to sleep with her, I haven't even made a move to kiss her at all even against all my feeling towards her.
[QUOTE=flamehead5;34533079]I went out with that girl again, we had another great time, we laughed and talked for a long time and it overall turned out great. Just one confusion though, when we got close to her home, we have gone our separate ways before getting really near either house, today when we got close I offered to walk her home, but she said no even when I offered multiple times, what does that mean? I have made it clear that I am not some dick who just wants to sleep with her, I haven't even made a move to kiss her at all even against all my feeling towards her.[/QUOTE]Maybe her family has issues with her having a boyfriend?
And I don't even know if I should call it a date or not because it has not been acknowledged by either of us that it was a date, but we have just walked around a large area together for like 3-4 hours.
[QUOTE=JohanGS;34533026]No offense but I don't think you have been practising enough[/QUOTE]
trust me i had enough practice
[QUOTE=Oicani Gonzales;34533350]kissing is almost a natural thing, kind of like sex
theres the practice part and theres the you part in my experience
[editline]3rd February 2012[/editline]
from the sound of it maybe your intentions werent very clear[/QUOTE]
Well how do I show her that I might like her?
[QUOTE=DrBreen;34533660]trust me i had enough practice[/QUOTE]
Your hand doesn't count dude.
[QUOTE=flamehead5;34533665]Well how do I show her that I might like her?[/QUOTE]
It should not have been hard to acknowledge whether or not you two were on a date. If your day went fine for both of you then ask her out again making it clear that you want to go on a date. That's my advice but I'm sure others will know better of what to do.
[QUOTE=GreenDolphin;34534161]It should not have been hard to acknowledge whether or not you two were on a date. If your day went fine for both of you then ask her out again making it clear that you want to go on a date. That's my advice but I'm sure others will know better of what to do.[/QUOTE]
I don't really know how to ask.
[QUOTE=1chains1;34534118]Your hand doesn't count dude.[/QUOTE]
yeah i make out with my hand a lot
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