• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=Future;37899740]I enjoy your positivity regarding the situation, but unfortunately I also have to question these 'sleeping arrangements'. Everybody is different of course, not knowing the person I could be completely wrong. It just doesn't sound right to me, seems as though you may just be trying too make yourself belive it?[/QUOTE] I am skeptical over it surely. But as you said, everybody is different and as far as I can tell she isn't too usual. Neither am I stressing it out because there's a lot of pretty clerks (for example) that I can always try to ask out if I feel a great desire for a romantic relationship. [editline]4th October 2012[/editline] Case in point, some girl from another social site is attempting at starting a flirt with me.
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;37899937]Case in point, some girl from another social site is attempting at starting a flirt with me.[/QUOTE] (C:)\\local flirt drive_ initiate a flirt? y/n _
A rather Seithic wording so to say. Getting a "whispered" message of: "evening ;) how's it going?" seems quite clear to me. [editline]4th October 2012[/editline] What level of clingyness would you put - Getting worried and calling your boyfriends friend because he didn't call you before going to bed like he usually does.
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;37900220](C:)\\local flirt drive_ initiate a flirt? y/n _[/QUOTE] Flirt.exe has stopped working Facepunch can check online for a solution to the problem -> Check online for a solution and close the program -> Close the program
[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;37896648]What are some really obvious signs a girl is interested in you?[/QUOTE] I know I'm late to responding to this but I hate it when people ask this, if you like her just ask her out.
[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;37896648]What are some really obvious signs a girl is interested in you?[/QUOTE] they are obvious and you would have to be a completle mongoloid idiot to not pick up on them you don't know them because a girl hasn't flirted with you
[QUOTE=lotusking;37878467]touch her butt if she slaps you she doesnt like you if she smiles she likes you simple solution [editline]2nd October 2012[/editline] just stop being a retard and go out and talk to people dont plan it dont over analyze everything just go out and eventually youll get the hang of it[/QUOTE] dont take advice on going out and doing stuff from this guy, he actually never leaves the house and thats a FACT
who the fuck are you?
[QUOTE=lotusking;37878467] just stop being a retard and go out and talk to people dont plan it dont over analyze everything just go out and eventually youll get the hang of it[/QUOTE] dont tell me how to run my life, i go hardstyle get as much people to suck my dick as possible black white latino female male u could be the next person to suck my dick for all you know
[QUOTE=thisispain;37903898]who the fuck are you?[/QUOTE] the guy that lotuskings ~~internet gf~~ (which is probably going to be his only girlfriend) cheated on him with
holy shit nice dude guess what no-one cares dude stop posting insults here
guys please stop harassing me on the internet oh no!!!! youre gonna make me cry
I'd say one of my biggest weaknesses socially is taking friendships to the next level, and perhaps getting numbers. I mean, I'm fine with talking to people and I do have friends, but I don't have very many 'deep' friends, or friends that are so close they're like brothers. Also not the best at sensing if people like me or not :V I feel as if I'm the kind of guy you either love or hate.
jesus christ the asian exchange students are really hard to talk to. im a pretty friendly guy but you just cant talk to any of them, they just look at the floor and shuffle away. lots of them are sharply dressed so you want to talk to them but nope just mumbling and walking away. a few of them are cute too but haha fuck that noise
[QUOTE=Cheesemonkey;37905252]jesus christ the asian exchange students are really hard to talk to. im a pretty friendly guy but you just cant talk to any of them, they just look at the floor and shuffle away. lots of them are sharply dressed so you want to talk to them but nope just mumbling and walking away. a few of them are cute too but haha fuck that noise[/QUOTE] theyre just intimidated by such a handsome man talking to them
Any tips for someone professionally diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome to get some friends, maybe even a partner? I'm trying to come out of complete social withdrawal, along with just trying to get my life together in general, and I have absolutely no idea what to do. Also take into account the fact that I live in a place where there is literally nothing to do besides go to the movies, unless you feel like spending a bit of gas money. My old best friend from way back in grade school has been keeping back in touch with me recently, and I, at least I think, actually get along pretty well with him. I don't mean to sound like I'm using my friend, but I wonder if it's possible to get connections with other people through him? Like do you simply straight up just ask him if he's got anyone you'd like to talk to? Or do you let it happen more naturally, as in do you wait until he introduces you to people? Are there any others ways for a guy like myself to make friends? I got about half a year to a year before I get into college, which will definitely be one of my better social outlets, so I will have to make do with other methods in the meantime. I wouldn't function at all at big gatherings like parties or crowds or anything, so those are not an option for me. Maybe joining a group with like minded people or those sharing a common goal would help me? Give me some ideas here. Speak from experiences or the experiences of those you know. Just help a guy out here.
[QUOTE=lotusking;37905257]theyre just intimidated by such a handsome man talking to them[/QUOTE] ooo big strong american man hehehehe
[QUOTE=elevate;37905345]Any tips for someone professionally diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome to get some friends, maybe even a partner? I'm trying to come out of complete social withdrawal, along with just trying to get my life together in general, and I have absolutely no idea what to do. Also take into account the fact that I live in a place where there is literally nothing to do besides go to the movies, unless you feel like spending a bit of gas money. My old best friend from way back in grade school has been keeping back in touch with me recently, and I, at least I think, actually get along pretty well with him. I don't mean to sound like I'm using my friend, but I wonder if it's possible to get connections with other people through him? Like do you simply straight up just ask him if he's got anyone you'd like to talk to? Or do you let it happen more naturally, as in do you wait until he introduces you to people? Are there any others ways for a guy like myself to make friends? I got about half a year to a year before I get into college, which will definitely be one of my better social outlets, so I will have to make do with other methods in the meantime. I wouldn't function at all at big gatherings like parties or crowds or anything, so those are not an option for me. Maybe joining a group with like minded people or those sharing a common goal would help me? Give me some ideas here. Speak from experiences or the experiences of those you know. Just help a guy out here.[/QUOTE] i ended up switching schools in the middle of high school and kinda lost all my connections apart from one friend i had from middle school who had gone to the other school. if they're a close friend they'll understand your situation and shouldn't mind you asking them to introduce you to some people. just start hanging out with him a bit and bring up your situation and ask him if he can introduce you to some people. i ended up meeting a ton of really cool people that way and it's almost no effort on your part (not really something to brag about but my point is that its easy to meet people) [editline]4th October 2012[/editline] christ reading that first sentence makes no sense
just a quick question, i've never been on a movie date (usually too expensive, or when i have the money >tfw no gf), and im just gonna ask if there are any big tips i need to know about, i'm pretty confident i won't screw anything up or be awkward with her, but she says she wants to go to see this movie really badly (its a comedy), and i said id take her, so i just gotta scrounge up some extra money and do it. basically what im asking is if there are any like, big things that experienced people would know about, i mean, i don't want to put up a facade and act like im some stud, but i just would like to know if there's something that causes awkwardness that only people who experience it often can know about. (p.s. my friend told me about the dick in the popcorn trick, totally trying that one)
i don't understand the question??
[QUOTE=Eeshton;37905565]just a quick question, i've never been on a movie date (usually too expensive, or when i have the money >tfw no gf), and im just gonna ask if there are any big tips i need to know about, i'm pretty confident i won't screw anything up or be awkward with her, but she says she wants to go to see this movie really badly (its a comedy), and i said id take her, so i just gotta scrounge up some extra money and do it. basically what im asking is if there are any like, big things that experienced people would know about, i mean, i don't want to put up a facade and act like im some stud, but i just would like to know if there's something that causes awkwardness that only people who experience it often can know about. (p.s. my friend told me about the dick in the popcorn trick, totally trying that one)[/QUOTE] Don't do what you're doing now, and definitely don't do the dick in the popcorn trick.
[QUOTE=elevate;37905345]Any tips for someone professionally diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome to get some friends, maybe even a partner? I'm trying to come out of complete social withdrawal, along with just trying to get my life together in general, and I have absolutely no idea what to do. Also take into account the fact that I live in a place where there is literally nothing to do besides go to the movies, unless you feel like spending a bit of gas money. My old best friend from way back in grade school has been keeping back in touch with me recently, and I, at least I think, actually get along pretty well with him. I don't mean to sound like I'm using my friend, but I wonder if it's possible to get connections with other people through him? Like do you simply straight up just ask him if he's got anyone you'd like to talk to? Or do you let it happen more naturally, as in do you wait until he introduces you to people? Are there any others ways for a guy like myself to make friends? I got about half a year to a year before I get into college, which will definitely be one of my better social outlets, so I will have to make do with other methods in the meantime. I wouldn't function at all at big gatherings like parties or crowds or anything, so those are not an option for me. Maybe joining a group with like minded people or those sharing a common goal would help me? Give me some ideas here. Speak from experiences or the experiences of those you know. Just help a guy out here.[/QUOTE] i was diagnosed with that shit when i was like 8 but i stopped caring about dumb limitations and stopped being a weirdo creep thats obsessed w/ girls and talking about anime and now my friend j'shawn says im "one frosty ass nigga" so hey guess what stop being so awkward and just talk to people and get to know people. you dont have to be bffs with everyone just at least make a lot of aquaintences
[QUOTE=Aries;37906014]Don't do what you're doing now, and definitely don't do the dick in the popcorn trick.[/QUOTE] don't take her to the movies or what? i was kidding about the popcorn thing obviously [B]obviously[/B]
How long after first meeting a girl should you wait before you ask for a date? Obviously it's better to do it sooner than later but when does it become too late? [editline]4th October 2012[/editline] Actually a serious question
it depends on the situation if theres chemistry and she a classy ass dame you just ask for her number and schedule a date if it a girl you hit it off with repeatedly you just ask the next time u talk to her but dont be that guy who talks to a girl like 3 times in an elevtar and is like UHM UH *sweats* UH HE I CAN I UH *clears throat* UH AGET YOUR NUMBER MAYBE FOR... UHM A DATE? [editline]4th October 2012[/editline] *sweats*
[QUOTE=Cheesemonkey;37908166]i was diagnosed with that shit when i was like 8 but i stopped caring about dumb limitations and stopped being a weirdo creep thats obsessed w/ girls and talking about anime and now my friend j'shawn says im "one frosty ass nigga" so hey guess what stop being so awkward and just talk to people and get to know people. you dont have to be bffs with everyone just at least make a lot of aquaintences[/QUOTE] so much win. I love you
[QUOTE=Cheesemonkey;37909174]it depends on the situation if theres chemistry and she a classy ass dame you just ask for her number and schedule a date if it a girl you hit it off with repeatedly you just ask the next time u talk to her but dont be that guy who talks to a girl like 3 times in an elevtar and is like UHM UH *sweats* UH HE I CAN I UH *clears throat* UH AGET YOUR NUMBER MAYBE FOR... UHM A DATE? [editline]4th October 2012[/editline] *sweats*[/QUOTE] Well we get along good and I'm not awkward around her at all so we can rule out the last possibility.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;37910513]Well we get along good and I'm not awkward around her at all so we can rule out the last possibility.[/QUOTE] If you say so.... I still think you may be in waaay further than you should be. Regardless, I just hope she doesn't become the next pillow to one of your bursts of anger.
Well at the very least I'm going to ask for her number. I had a chance earlier today but I was running late for a midterm and didn't want to waste more time.
I have a good friend of mine who celebrated her birthday yesterday and we're going to hang out together this weekend. What sort of gift should I get her? Keep in mind I'm interested in her as well and I feel that it might be mutual.
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