The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=NessTea;37911374]I have a good friend of mine who celebrated her birthday yesterday and we're going to hang out together this weekend. What sort of gift should I get her? Keep in mind I'm interested in her as well and I feel that it might be mutual.[/QUOTE]
buy her a gift you think she'll like?
why are you asking the internet
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;37910987]Well at the very least I'm going to ask for her number. I had a chance earlier today but I was running late for a midterm and didn't want to waste more time.[/QUOTE]
There's not an exact time to ask someone out. If you feel you are both friendly enough with eachother. Go for it.
[QUOTE=Cheesemonkey;37908166]i was diagnosed with that shit when i was like 8 but i stopped caring about dumb limitations[/QUOTE]
Is that even a thing? Like, if over years you'd managed to get over it, that I can understand, but the way you say it it's like one day you just got over it, which I'm fairly certain is impossible for most people with Asperger's.
What should I get my bf for his birthday? (other than sex and blowjob such, that will be covered at next opportunity) Considering getting him a second monitor for his computer if no one else does, but how much will that run me?
Any other ideas guys?
So I have been talking with the girl quite frantically for the last two days.
Haven't really communicated with anyone as much as I have with her. Our chats ending for reasons like her phone running out of juice or her bitchy teacher (as she stated) telling her class to shut down their computers.
Problem is I don't have an entirely clear on picture with how it is between her and that other guy.
Thing is that I admittedly do like her a lot, she likes me a lot but I don't know if there is a chance of taking our friendly relationship forward to the more-than-friends kind.
Well, initially I was thinking about taking things slowly and figure it out that way.
But that seems like a somewhat bad idea now due to that girl on the dating/social site being rather straightforward with herself: "you seem like a really fun guy ;) your profile is interesting and when I look at the list of stuff that you like i get some kind of chills down my spine"
Wat do?
I did have my own cue on how to go about with this, going about it with straightforward honesty, as in something along:
"If I may ask the opinion from someone whom I've become quite a bit closer with within the past few weeks, I made a profile on a dating/social site some time ago when I was drunk and now a girl there is interested in me. Thing is that I already kinda do like somebody already." Then take on from what her reaction is to figuring out that I like her that way.
Just putting that out here because sometimes ideas have a bad habit of sounding 10 times better in your head.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;37913175]What should I get my bf for his birthday? (other than sex and blowjob such, that will be covered at next opportunity) Considering getting him a second monitor for his computer if no one else does, but how much will that run me?
Any other ideas guys?[/QUOTE]
You can get a decent monitor for ~$150.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;37913175]What should I get my bf for his birthday? (other than sex and blowjob such, that will be covered at next opportunity) Considering getting him a second monitor for his computer if no one else does, but how much will that run me?
Any other ideas guys?[/QUOTE]
Buy him the Necronomicon.
Awesome gift!
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;37914850]Buy him the Necronomicon.
Awesome gift![/QUOTE]
i gave my bf my copy of this the first time he visited in may and he still hasn't found the time to read it ):
Is it bad if I couldn't talk to that girl today because she looked too sexy?
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;37915274]Is it bad if I couldn't talk to that girl today because she looked too sexy?[/QUOTE]
I think you already know the answer to that
i feel incredibly sorry for the girls you're creeping on
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;37915469]i feel incredibly sorry for the girls you're creeping on[/QUOTE]
I'm creeping on her when she was the one who introduced herself to me first ok.
It should be understandable though. I'm new to talking to girls obviously I'll be a little intimidated if she's sexy. I could talk to her before, but not today.
is it bad if i invite a friend (girl) to go out or something, not necessarily a date but whatever, by phone? i dunno, just plain call her and ask her out even though we'll meet later anyway. it will be exams though so she'll be probably be busy being alone reviewing and shit so i am asking this silly question
oh and things kind of has been awkward between us because we haven't talked a lot since so it's like im trying to get close with her again or something along those lines
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;37915578]I'm creeping on her when she was the one who introduced herself to me first ok.
It should be understandable though. I'm new to talking to girls obviously I'll be a little intimidated if she's sexy. I could talk to her before, but not today.[/QUOTE]
That still doesn't justify creeping on her. Hell, it's worse that you admit it and find nothing wrong with it to the degree that you aren't willing to [I]stop[/I] doing it.
Dude, no one is new to talking to girls unless they've never talked to a [I]person[/I] before (an infant, e.g. not you). You're over thinking this and you should stop doing that.
Stop using this thread as your personal blog. We don't want to hear if you haven't done anything because it just makes you look more pathetic. Come back when you accomplish something positive or hit a roadblock otherwise concentrate your energy on something more useful.
[QUOTE=Eeshton;37905565]just a quick question, i've never been on a movie date (usually too expensive, or when i have the money >tfw no gf), and im just gonna ask if there are any big tips i need to know about, i'm pretty confident i won't screw anything up or be awkward with her, but she says she wants to go to see this movie really badly (its a comedy), and i said id take her, so i just gotta scrounge up some extra money and do it. basically what im asking is if there are any like, big things that experienced people would know about, i mean, i don't want to put up a facade and act like im some stud, but i just would like to know if there's something that causes awkwardness that only people who experience it often can know about.
(p.s. my friend told me about the dick in the popcorn trick, totally trying that one)[/QUOTE]
Sit as far back as possible.
My friend was apparently in the back row of a movie with his girlfriend of a few months and noticed another friend (who's got no game) trying to be on a date with a chick, but they were sitting in the front row and they were very uncomfortable and didn't talk to each other.
let's hear it
How do I kiss a girl?
lol
[QUOTE=space1;37915956]How do I kiss a girl?[/QUOTE]
it's like a fifteen step procedure so i suspect if you need help with this you should probably approach an expert to give you physical instruction to avoid any confusion
Are you said expert(hopefully not)?
[QUOTE=space1;37916100]Are you said expert(hopefully not)?[/QUOTE]
im one of ten experts you can consult directly
to participate in the counselling however you need to come to my home in canada, bring your own female which you would like to kiss, and about three fiddy for services rendered
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why are you making a big drama out of it just write it or dont
[QUOTE=space1;37916100]Are you said expert(hopefully not)?[/QUOTE]
when you meet the girl you want to kiss, you'll know. don't think about it.
and for the love of god stop quoting names
"The woman formerly known as 'Agnes'"
or if you're drunk! that's how my first kiss was.
wow broken automerge for a page king. solid.
yeah your writing is really wordy and obnoxious to read, i'm not going to bother going through all that
Well, I've learned how NOT to kiss..
[video=youtube;U3lavVkiFXw]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U3lavVkiFXw&oref=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fresults%3Fsear ch_query%3Dwtf%2Bjapan%2Bkiss%26oq%3Dwtf%2Bjapan%2 Bkiss%26gs_l%3Dyoutube.3...3954.4457.0.4519.5.5.0. 0.0.0.77.286.5.5.0...0.0...1ac.1.LoV6nUOXUzg[/video]
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