The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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I shower in the evenings, it isn't necessary to shower in the morning. I get up and wash my face (it gets oily) but my hair is fine, my body odor is fine, showering in the morning isn't the only way to go you know guys?
Although if he is gonna complain his hair sticks up cause he showers in the evening (and probably goes to bed with his hair still wet, never do that) that is a rather obvious problem.
I also shower in the evenings, then you don't have to stress and it also keeps my hair from getting frizzy.
sleeping is one of the dirtiest things you can do. you're literally rolling about in, depending on how often you wash your bedding, weeks of your own dead skin and body fluid remnants n stuff. showering after that is just a good idea
my hair gets greasy when i sleep
im a little greaseball
which is why i wash it and dont wear fucking hats to cover it up
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;37947869]sleeping is one of the dirtiest things you can do. you're literally rolling about in, depending on how often you wash your bedding, weeks of your own dead skin and body fluid remnants n stuff. showering after that is just a good idea[/QUOTE]
Who the hell doesn't clean their bed once in a while?
I always shower in the evenings, and I don't even sweat that much nor do I smell as badly as you guys claim when I wake up early in the morning.
Everybody has their own set of beliefs. Some believe sleeping in your own bed, on your own sheets, while shedding dead skin which you do anyway, and it's in the air anyway, some how make you specifically dirtier after a good night's sleep....
Also, I shower in the mornings.
I shower in the morning because I smell horrible when I wake up.
Shower in the morning too and at night after Krav Maga. Still I don't feel the need to shower religiously every day. I just enjoy a nice steaming hot shower whenever I'm feeling tired or dirty. Which is very frequent.
i shower when i feel icky, which is most mornings
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I'm away for one day (helping friends move their stuff for moving together) and I come back to see 67 new posts in this thread.
Could there be some heated opinions flying about? I think for myself.
Instead it's a whole lot of nothing about hats and showering and some dweeb being random and getting banned for it.
Super Friendly Hat and Shower thread.
[editline]7th October 2012[/editline]
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*ichiman94 ignored as requested*
I shower in the morning and after work, because I don't like to go around smelling like french fries, fried chicken and sweat.
Also I almost never wear hats or worry about my hair. High and tight > other buzz cuts > anything else
So I've been seeing this girl for about two months, but now I feel like I'm running out of unique things to do (you can only go get ice cream or dinner or watch movies or whatever so many times). Any advice on what to do now? I guess I feel pressured to be more exciting
The two of you being together should be exciting by itself alone. There should be no pressure for you, besides occasionally, to continually go out of your way to offer places, ideas and stuff to do.
If this is a "I'm bored, what do to make exciting" then I would say don't think of ideas, just flow. Be completely spontaneous. Play games.
If this is a sublime "this relationship is lacking something, and I feel I have a pressure on me to provide something because she might not stick around" then it's a whole new topic.....
i shower in the morning because my hair is messed up from sleeping on it?
seems like the biggest reason to fucking shower in the morning
My hair only gets messy on some days of the week, and initially I'd only wear hats on those days, then when I didn't people were all "where's your hat?" so then I had to go ahead and keep wearing it.
In my town people like guys who wear fedoras, mainly because the last person in my school to have worn a fedora was this guy who everyone liked because he was a musician and he was all wordy and cool and wore black trench coats and made dark art and whatever. He just had a style that people liked. I guess they wanted to fill in the void when he graduated. The only spaghetti in my area can't wear fedoras because of how big their hair is.
Now they all know me as "Tall Joe, the guy who wears a hat and has no knees" (the knees are a different story)
[quote]the last person in my school to have worn a fedora was this guy who everyone liked because he was a musician and he was all wordy and cool and wore black trench coats[/quote]
you live in the bizarro world sorry
[QUOTE=thisispain;37954831]you live in the bizarro world sorry[/QUOTE]
New Jersey is pretty bizarro...
[QUOTE=BigJoeyLemons;37954839]New Jersey is pretty bizarro...[/QUOTE]
I live in New Jersey, and there was a kid in my school that wore a fedora and trenchcoat. He's fucking weird. This year he carries a ukulele to every class. Don't be him.
great he's unbanned
looks like this thread is about hats again
Hey joey how about you follow your own advice
[QUOTE=BigJoeyLemons;37930072]That's enough of men's fashion opinions, this is not the place for that, unless there's a guy looking for how to dress around a girl of a certain type, and even then it's her opinion.
So if anyone cares enough, make it a separate thread.[/QUOTE]
pls and thanks
When I'm confronted by someone who draws art, wears black trench-coats, a fedora, likes to be known for their loquacity and describes their art as 'dark', I usually stay away from them lest the ~darkness~ they express in their art plagues me too.
i just hang around people i dont mind being around
so my bf and our roommate signed the lease yesterday on our apartment. 2 months until i move in, can't fucking wait
does that roommate feel a bit like a third wheel
nope, he's actually a really close friend of ours and the first person we discussed the idea of moving in together with a year ago. never actually happened until this year though
his girlfriend's going to be moving in with us later on and she'll probably be there most of the time before she moves in. she's dyslexic too so he gave her my number a while back and we've gotten to be really good friends (she wants me to teach her to play video games so i'm super excited for that)
oh okay, fair enough
Just that i'm in exactly the same situation, moving in with another couple who are my closest friends I thought it might be awkward when they fight - but then two other close friends decided they want in so it all ended up okay
Okay guys so I think I'm infatuated with this girl at college (UK so 16-18).
Last Thursday the photography class was in the "art room" which basically just means 1 1/2 hours of banter. Now at the time I didn't really have anything for her. But by the end of the lesson I thought she kinda liked me. I dunno why really it just felt like it. So then the next day when we were back in the normal classroom we talked a bit more (including a small contest between the two of us trying to throw balls of masking tape into the bin). And I dunno, she just seemed to take quite an interest in me. We walked out and down the hallway together to my maths classroom which was on the way to her next lesson.
So I was kinda just waiting to see where it was going to go, but over the weekend (and therefore not seeing her) I've really developed feelings.
Normally I would "just ask her out" and stuff, but with her sitting next to me (which can't change do to the Macs in the classroom) I'm just so much more scared. Also I haven't known her for long at all, having started college just 4 weeks ago. And her facebook says she's "married" to some guy and I'm not really sure about the situation with that.
So yeah, I'm not really sure what I want advice with... Just some guidance I guess?
[QUOTE=Tennisball;37962067]Okay guys so I think I'm infatuated with this girl at college (UK so 16-18).
Last Thursday the photography class was in the "art room" which basically just means 1 1/2 hours of banter. Now at the time I didn't really have anything for her. But by the end of the lesson I thought she kinda liked me. I dunno why really it just felt like it. So then the next day when we were back in the normal classroom we talked a bit more (including a small contest between the two of us trying to throw balls of masking tape into the bin). And I dunno, she just seemed to take quite an interest in me. We walked out and down the hallway together to my maths classroom which was on the way to her next lesson.
So I was kinda just waiting to see where it was going to go, but over the weekend (and therefore not seeing her) I've really developed feelings.
Normally I would "just ask her out" and stuff, but with her sitting next to me (which can't change do to the Macs in the classroom) I'm just so much more scared. Also I haven't known her for long at all, having started college just 4 weeks ago. And her facebook says she's "married" to some guy and I'm not really sure about the situation with that.
So yeah, I'm not really sure what I want advice with... Just some guidance I guess?[/QUOTE]
If you do not think she's married (or more likely just in a relationship), crack a joke about the status at some point where it makes sense. Just make sure that it makes sense, you aren't supposed to stalk people you don't know that well. Otherwise just ask if she's up to something, you don't have to go on a "date" - learn more about her, you might find out whether she's spoken for or not, and if she isn't; well, good luck then. If she is, she's clearly liberate enough to go out with you, and as such you've just made a friend.
[QUOTE=Tennisball;37962067]Okay guys so I think I'm infatuated with this girl at college (UK so 16-18).
Last Thursday the photography class was in the "art room" which basically just means 1 1/2 hours of banter. Now at the time I didn't really have anything for her. But by the end of the lesson I thought she kinda liked me. I dunno why really it just felt like it. So then the next day when we were back in the normal classroom we talked a bit more (including a small contest between the two of us trying to throw balls of masking tape into the bin). And I dunno, she just seemed to take quite an interest in me. We walked out and down the hallway together to my maths classroom which was on the way to her next lesson.
So I was kinda just waiting to see where it was going to go, but over the weekend (and therefore not seeing her) I've really developed feelings.
Normally I would "just ask her out" and stuff, but with her sitting next to me (which can't change do to the Macs in the classroom) I'm just so much more scared. Also I haven't known her for long at all, having started college just 4 weeks ago. And her facebook says she's "married" to some guy and I'm not really sure about the situation with that.
So yeah, I'm not really sure what I want advice with... Just some guidance I guess?[/QUOTE]
Baby steps. I could write 3 pages of crap about how you should deal with this differently, but I rather see it coming from you instead of me, and the only way to do it is by you going balls to the wall on this. The best tip I could give you is to let go of all your assumptions and just go along with the fear.
The worst that can happen is you get a no, slap on the face or sex. Sounds fun either way.
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