The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=Phsykotik;34804977]
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jono: "Hey, you want to come over on [some said date]?"
Or "Hey, want to go out and do [some said activity] on [some said date]?"[/QUOTE]
Well, I forgot to say that she would've to go 4 hours with train to come to me...
In that case, I don't know what to say.
[QUOTE=Bootlord;34805739]Ok guys, let's get this going. I'm 16 years old and I'd like to think i'm a pretty nice guy. I'm smart, have a good group of friends, and enjoy most of my classes.
Now comes the problem. Recently, it feels like nobody really respects me much. It feels like most everybody, including a lot of my friends, just sort of treat me like a small child. And it's really patronizing sometimes.
Example: I was born slightly pigeon-toed and walk with a small inward slant on my left foot when i'm not paying attention to it. One of my really close friends constantly tells me to correct it, telling me "You walk like a woman".
This feeling, not necessarily born of this guy, has been around for a while now and it won't go away. My family isn't the problem, they're actually pretty good about this, but whenever i try to bring it up with my friends or the other perpetrators, they just laugh it off. Because of the whole "child" perception. I'm not immature, nor do i look like a child, so i really don't know where the problem is coming from. Advice, anybody?[/QUOTE]
Uh dude... you're sorta just being invisible right now. You know, you can't change anything about your physical problems, but you can develop a frame for yourself. don't tolerate shit from people, remember, this is YOUR reality. Be vocal about how u feel dude
[editline]21st February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=CommanderPT;34805104]Was supposed to go to the cinema on Friday, a second date if you will. She texted me yesterday saying that she can't go. I figured "Oh well.. I guess she didn't feel like it and came up with an excuse."
Immediately after saying so she asks me to come and play golf with her the next day (That being today) and that is just what I did.
Which was great fun even though the weather was shit.
So yes, thing are going well to say the least.[/QUOTE]
yea, dont figure stuff like that after getting rejected, thats not helpful to you. btw if I were you, i'd tell her; "I've got a better idea. let's taste the sweetened, refreshing, sensual drinks at Jamba Juice. Meet at my place first though, I'll drive." Then i'd be at the door /w out a shirt on straight out of the shower - Hey! make your self at home for a bit, I'm just getting ready. I leave a movie playing near my bed... she sits down to watch. "Hey! Ya ever watch Bambi?" Before you know it we're stuck in a tussle of lovemaking. That's how ya do it
[QUOTE=YugiReggie;34806443]
yea, dont figure stuff like that after getting rejected, thats not helpful to you. btw if I were you, i'd tell her; "I've got a better idea. let's taste the sweetened, refreshing, sensual drinks at Jamba Juice. Meet at my place first though, I'll drive." Then i'd be at the door /w out a shirt on straight out of the shower - Hey! make your self at home for a bit, I'm just getting ready. I leave a movie playing near my bed... she sits down to watch. "Hey! Ya ever watch Bambi?" Before you know it we're stuck in a tussle of lovemaking. That's how ya do it[/QUOTE]
You confuse me.
Rejected? Hardly. She has been texting me the entire evening and asking me if I really did have fun. Which I did.
Then there is the rest of the post.. :v:
[QUOTE=CommanderPT;34806659]You confuse me.
Rejected? Hardly. She has been texting me the entire evening and asking me if I really did have fun. Which I did.
Then there is the rest of the post.. :v:[/QUOTE]
was refering to ". I figured "Oh well.. I guess she didn't feel like it and came up with an excuse." "
[QUOTE=1chains1;34801229]
This is just a mess, you seem to have the notion that people are trying to decipher your messages when most just laugh and skim. Even then the people who do attempt to "decipher" your posts have to decipher because they are horribly put together, not because they have any deep meaning what so ever.
Your notions are not abstract, to create something abstract you have to know the realities and rules of whatever you are using so you can break them. You do not know English well enough to do so and while it is respectable that English is not your first language, to go as far to call your own writing "abstract" is ridiculous.[/QUOTE]
Do you represent the people of this thread? I did not know that.
According to the dictionary;abstract;[i]based on general ideas or principles rather than specific examples or real events[/i] isn't that what you people were complaining about? being "verbose" "vague" and "pretentious"? I think abstract fits perfectly.
Also, I'd like you to dissect the post you quoted, sentence by sentence, so I could grasp what is so "horribly put together".
[editline]21st February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Phsykotik;34804977]We don't need Maverick. If you want Maverick's advice, look at the first page.
Literally, the [i]only[/i] thing he'd say is, "Stop being a pussy, get it done."
I've read it enough that I believe that's the answer. I don't know if it is; because to be honest, I haven't tried it myself.
But he always said that your situation, more like than not, is the same as everyone else's with minor variations.
The answer is the same, with minor variations. The answer is, "Ask her out." Almost every time.
As to everyone else, I don't know what Contag is trying to get at. If he means to only point out Seith makes no sense in what he says, he's done it too complicated. Seith keeps trying to make us guess what he means, which is a pain in the ass because I don't want to read through his messy posts of broke sentences that misuse words.
You guys say the thread is downhill, ignore (list) the people who make it difficult, and move on. Why is everyone such defeatists?
And YugiReggie, please learn to post before you continue. I mean, [i]I don't in any way [/i], doubt your achievements that you claim, but please post reasonably if you want anyone (meaning me, hopefully others) to care.
e.
jono: "Hey, you want to come over on [some said date]?"
Or "Hey, want to go out and do [some said activity] on [some said date]?"[/QUOTE]
Very observant my friend. I like to make people guess and use their brains.
[QUOTE=Seith;34807210]Do you represent the people of this thread? I did not know that.
According to the dictionary;abstract;[i]based on general ideas or principles rather than specific examples or real events[/i] isn't that what you people were complaining about? being "verbose" "vague" and "pretentious"? I think abstract fits perfectly.
Also, I'd like you to dissect the post you quoted, sentence by sentence, so I could grasp what is so "horribly put together".
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you're letting your pride cloud your judgement
God shut [I]up.[/I]
Can we move along to something that isn't so stupid.
[QUOTE=Mon;34807306]you're letting your pride cloud your judgement[/QUOTE]
What pride? I want him to show me what exactly is wrong so I could improve myself.
[editline]21st February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Pascall;34807323]God shut [I]up.[/I]
Can we move along to something that isn't so stupid.[/QUOTE]
You got any suggestions?
How about you actually offer some advice to the people asking for it instead of constantly finding the need to argue about nonsense.
[QUOTE=Pascall;34807407]How about you actually offer some advice to the people asking for it instead of constantly finding the need to argue about nonsense.[/QUOTE]
I shall try my best to give advice to people who need it. I need to stop thinking about myself.
[QUOTE=Pascall;34807407]How about you actually offer some advice to the people asking for it instead of constantly finding the need to argue about nonsense.[/QUOTE]
BECAUSE, someone said it perfectly about, your pride is clouding your judgement. We are in the thread, Super FriendlySocial Love Advice. If your pride clouds your judgement, you probably won't get laid unless you're really prideful about how well you can play football or workout.
[QUOTE=YugiReggie;34807695]BECAUSE, someone said it perfectly about, your pride is clouding your judgement. We are in the thread, Super FriendlySocial Love Advice. If your pride clouds your judgement, you probably won't get laid unless you're really prideful about how well you can play football or workout.[/QUOTE]
What.
[QUOTE=YugiReggie;34807695]BECAUSE, someone said it perfectly about, your pride is clouding your judgement. We are in the thread, Super FriendlySocial Love Advice. If your pride clouds your judgement, you probably won't get laid unless you're really prideful about how well you can play football or workout.[/QUOTE]
What are you even talking about?
dear yugireggie
i am trying to understand what you are saying...
and failing
[QUOTE=Seith;34807210]Do you represent the people of this thread? I did not know that.
According to the dictionary;abstract;[i]based on general ideas or principles rather than specific examples or real events[/i] isn't that what you people were complaining about? being "verbose" "vague" and "pretentious"? I think abstract fits perfectly.
Also, I'd like you to dissect the post you quoted, sentence by sentence, so I could grasp what is so "horribly put together".
[editline]21st February 2012[/editline]
Very observant my friend. I like to make people guess and use their brains.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Mon;34807306]you're letting your pride cloud your judgement[/QUOTE]
I was replying 2 these guys
[QUOTE=YugiReggie;34807872]I was replying 2 these guys[/QUOTE]
We know. I think the question is more...what does this even mean;
[i]"BECAUSE, someone said it perfectly about, [b]your pride is clouding your judgement[/b]. We are in the thread, Super FriendlySocial Love Advice. If your pride clouds your judgement, you probably [b]won't get laid[/b] unless you're really prideful about [b]how well you can play football or workout[/b]."[/i]
???
[QUOTE=Seith;34807961]We realize this. But, what, does this even mean?
[i]"BECAUSE, someone said it perfectly about, [b]your pride is clouding your judgement[/b]. We are in the thread, Super FriendlySocial Love Advice. If your pride clouds your judgement, you probably [b]won't get laid[/b] unless you're really prideful about [b]how well you can play football or workout[/b]."[/i]
???[/QUOTE]
What i Meant was: if your prideful about the way you communicate, you're probably looking like a huge jerk and aren't realizing it, or maybe you're autistic
[QUOTE=YugiReggie;34807982]What i Meant was: if your prideful about the way you communicate, you're probably looking like a huge jerk and aren't realizing it, or maybe you're autistic[/QUOTE]
Unless you play football or workout
[QUOTE=nnoah95;34808006]Unless you play football or workout[/QUOTE]
LOL
[editline]21st February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=YugiReggie;34807982]What i Meant was: if your prideful about the way you communicate, you're probably looking like a huge jerk and aren't realizing it, or maybe you're autistic[/QUOTE]
You really got to rephrase... Why would I not be prideful of the words that come out of my mouth?
[QUOTE=nnoah95;34808006]Unless you play football or workout[/QUOTE]
Yea! you can be prideful about working out and get laid! Or being prideful about playing football. I think there's not alot of pride that will get you laid, especially if your essence of character revolves around pride, for example, a KKK member, his essence revolves around pride for his race, he aint getting laid anytime soon!
i didnt think posts could get more incomprehensible than seith's, and then yugireggie came along. holy shit.
[QUOTE=YugiReggie;34808044]Yea! you can be prideful about working out and get laid! Or being prideful about playing football. I think there's not alot of pride that will get you laid, especially if your essence of character revolves around pride, for example, a KKK member, his essence revolves around pride for his race, he aint getting laid anytime soon![/QUOTE]
You can have pride in whatever the fuck you want and get laid. It's not about what you do, it's about how you do.
[editline]21st February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;34808061]i didnt think posts could get more incomprehensible than seith's, and then yugireggie came along. holy shit.[/QUOTE]
I think his only focus is, "Be a jock, get bitches."
[QUOTE=Phsykotik;34808086]You can have pride in whatever the fuck you want and get laid. It's not about what you do, it's about how you do.
[editline]21st February 2012[/editline]
I think his only focus is, "Be a jock, get bitches."[/QUOTE]
lol :tinfoil:
A jock is farthest away from the character I embody, an ancient lover from long ago is a more appropriate caricature, an ancient lover from the past, who somehow ended up in the present, and now it's my continued journey to make as many women wet as the ocean as my hearts' desire, it gives me pleasure, turning a woman on, just from that alone, knowing you're rushing blood to her lips, cheeks, chest, and other more delicious sacred parts. [b]Some women really do have dirty coochies though[/b]
are you high?
[editline]21st February 2012[/editline]
(on something other than ~life)
i liked this thread y'know
i really did
[QUOTE=Autumn;34808226]are you high?
[editline]21st February 2012[/editline]
(on something other than ~life)[/QUOTE]
SWIM is constantly high on marijuana, super illegal narcotics, sometimes crack, sometimes coke, but mostly an incredibly enlightening angelical cocktail of narcotics
SWIM IS HIGH ON LIFE TOO! :rock:
[QUOTE=YugiReggie;34808198]lol :tinfoil:
A jock is farthest away from the character [b]I embody, an ancient lover from long ago[/b] is a more appropriate caricature, an ancient lover from the past, who somehow ended up in the present, and now it's my continued journey to make as many women wet as the ocean as my hearts' desire, it gives me pleasure, turning a woman on, just from that alone, knowing you're rushing blood to her lips, cheeks, chest, and other more delicious sacred parts. Some women really do have dirty coochies though[/QUOTE]
As it turns out, I am Karl Marx reborn.
[editline]21st February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Seith;34807210]Very observant my friend. I like to make people guess and use their brains.[/QUOTE]
Which is not the point of this.
People come to be given an answer, not potentially guess the incorrect.
Yugi, where are you from? I was going to talk about what you posted but I don't think it's worth the time. Your posts just get worse and more random
[QUOTE=D3TBS;34808935]Yugi, where are you from? I was going to talk about what you posted but I don't think it's worth the time. Your posts just get worse and more random[/QUOTE]
It's better to think of my posts as not random, but relative to the subject, however slightly incomprehensible.
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