The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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you're changing your definition of mature now? ok nvm
maturity is a psychological thing not an organ that grows with you over time
[editline]14th October 2012[/editline]
that'd be crazy tho
[QUOTE=Raijin;38029609]you're changing your definition of mature now? ok nvm[/QUOTE]
no.. you just don't understand what the words "mature" and "immature" mean
[QUOTE=Raijin;38029609]you're changing your definition of mature now? ok nvm[/QUOTE]
this is exactly what i mean
you're supposed to be 21 yet you act like you're 15
[QUOTE=thisispain;38029680]this is exactly what i mean
you're supposed to be 21 yet you act like you're 15[/QUOTE]
I don't know much about how the US is, but my 10-year old littlebrother has had no problems saying "penis" (or "worse") in the past. Granted, this is Denmark, but I know only one person who refused to say words like that at 15-16, and let's just say that we fixed it.
penis isn't an answer to anything sex or attraction related.
he's obviously uncomfortable with it for numerous reasons, part of which is still insecurity about his sexuality. you don't become comfortable and secure about it till you are fully mature.
[QUOTE=thisispain;38029851]penis isn't an answer to anything sex or attraction related.
he's obviously uncomfortable with it for numerous reasons, part of which is still insecurity about his sexuality. you don't become comfortable and secure about it till you are fully mature.[/QUOTE]
I mean talking about such in general. The reason why I said "penis" is because he used it as an example.
[QUOTE=thisispain;38029680]this is exactly what i mean
you're supposed to be 21 yet you act like you're 15[/QUOTE]
shouldn't it be assumed he was emotionally stunted in the first place, i mean hes postin on fp??
[editline]14th October 2012[/editline]
and he's 21
[QUOTE=Raijin;38028074]i should be comfortable with this kind of topic.[/QUOTE]
you should. what's your sexlife like. prudeness tends to stem from insecurity. insecurity that is often born of having a bad/non-existent/weird sex-life
Oh God, what happened to Sex Girlfriends & Shit?
I thought it had closed due to the mass suicidal wave.
No, it just got locked for the max amount of pages
oddly inappropriate that and became the OP of the next one there are much more appropriate OPs but really its irrelevant
i don't think we should make another one of these threads. basically the same people post in both.
[QUOTE=thisispain;38041562]i don't think we should make another one of these threads. basically the same people post in both.[/QUOTE]
yeah but this one is for socially inhibited people
the other is for sexually inhibited people
"The Socially and Sexually Frustrated Shit thread"?
that describes 99% of FP threads
How do I get a girl to cuddle with me?
[QUOTE=killerteacup;38041492]No, it just got locked for the max amount of pages
oddly inappropriate that and became the OP of the next one there are much more appropriate OPs but really its irrelevant[/QUOTE]
I waited about 5 minutes after the old one locked and there still wasn't a new one, so I took the honor. Not like any of them had anything important in the OP anyways. And if we do decide to merge, I'll update the OP and ask a mod to change the title to something more general ("the relationships, social life and advice thread"? If not, does anyone have any better ideas?)
I wouldn't describe this thread as only for socially frustrated/crippled/inept people. I mean, it sounds odd but random strangers and forums do often have good advice, unless it's something like /b/ or someone is purposely giving stupid advice.
I'm sure plenty of people who lurk here/post here occasionally are perfectly fine socially, just want a bit of advice for a certain situation or something.
I'm in a tough spot now. Homecoming is this saturday, and this girl who I frankly screwed up with, but still like, is going. I'm not sure if I should go to homecoming and feel like shit if she finds someone else (Assuming the worst is gonna happen), or stay at home and feel sorry for myself.
[QUOTE=NorthKorea;38041770]How do I get a girl to cuddle with me?[/QUOTE]
run cuddle.dll using command prompt.
Oh my frikkin god the ask about the forums thread is driving me nuts and i need to sleep so im awake for tomorrow. I should not get this emotionally invested with an argument about a mod I dont even know!
Needed a vent, anyway on that note, Im a very fidgety person, plausibly hyperactive. I have a hard time settling down to sleep. My mind will be all over the place too. I find music helps somewhat. What about you guys?
[QUOTE=Rhenae;38042014]Oh my frikkin god the ask about the forums thread is driving me nuts and i need to sleep so im awake for tomorrow. I should not get this emotionally invested with an argument about a mod I dont even know!
Needed a vent, anyway on that note, Im a very fidgety person, plausibly hyperactive. I have a hard time settling down to sleep. My mind will be all over the place too. I find music helps somewhat. What about you guys?[/QUOTE]
i find that [URL="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g5QhxGyAwcM"]nosaj thing[/URL] is good sleepin music
Complete sensory deprivation. Staying still in complete darkness for as long as possible is probably the most relaxing test of endurance.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;38042014]Oh my frikkin god the ask about the forums thread is driving me nuts and i need to sleep so im awake for tomorrow. I should not get this emotionally invested with an argument about a mod I dont even know!
Needed a vent, anyway on that note, Im a very fidgety person, plausibly hyperactive. I have a hard time settling down to sleep. My mind will be all over the place too. I find music helps somewhat. What about you guys?[/QUOTE]
[video=youtube;36B225lLvY4]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=36B225lLvY4[/video]
best song to relax to.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;38042014]Oh my frikkin god the ask about the forums thread is driving me nuts and i need to sleep so im awake for tomorrow. I should not get this emotionally invested with an argument about a mod I dont even know!
Needed a vent, anyway on that note, Im a very fidgety person, plausibly hyperactive. I have a hard time settling down to sleep. My mind will be all over the place too. I find music helps somewhat. What about you guys?[/QUOTE]
doing unholy things to myself helps
[QUOTE=thisispain;38042103]doing unholy things to myself helps[/QUOTE]
unholy [i]nosaj[/i] things?
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vv_NQLiwEH4&feature=related[/media]
no, i meant masturbating
[editline]14th October 2012[/editline]
nosaj thing is pretty dope though
oh
[QUOTE=Krinkels;38042077]Complete sensory deprivation. Staying still in complete darkness for as long as possible is probably the most relaxing test of endurance.[/QUOTE]
That would be great if I could actually stay still for 5 minutes without going half way to crazy town :v:
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