The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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prob your name
[QUOTE=GURREN LAGANN;38143978]what do i say after i say hi[/QUOTE]
Well I don't know, that's up to you. Depends on where you are, what she was doing, whatever else you feel you could say.
Your name probably wouldn't hurt, though.
God I'm fucking bored everyday staying at home someone please suggest me how to meet new people.
Where can I go to meet more international people
The local ones are boring
So something like: "Hi My name is tony whats yours?.. i always see you just sitting around alone and shit so I thought i could be of company"
is that good or will i make myself look like a creeper?
i had a date once with some girl I met online, i got blocked the day after the date :( i am not good with girls so this is new to me
[QUOTE=GURREN LAGANN;38144093]So something like: "Hi My name is tony whats yours?.. i always see you just sitting around alone and shit so I thought i could be of company"
is that good or will i make myself look like a creeper?
i had a date once with some girl I met online, i got blocked the day after the date :( i am not good with girls so this is new to me[/QUOTE]
Just as a general rule, try not to plan out exactly what you're going to say, it usually makes it all the more likely you'll mess it up. So yeah, something to that affect with less of a hint of "I've been watching you for a while" and you should be fine.
[QUOTE=GURREN LAGANN;38143726]There's this cute girl that just walks around my college campus by herself, and just sits alone. How the fuck do I approach? I keep picturing myself spilling spaghetti by waterfalls
I've never approached any girl before[/QUOTE]
check out this sweet pickup-line from my book, PUA: Pick Up Girlz Easy N' Fast™
"hi"
[QUOTE=shian;38144066]God I'm fucking bored everyday staying at home someone please suggest me how to meet new people.
Where can I go to meet more international people
The local ones are boring[/QUOTE]
Dammit anyone
[QUOTE=lotusking;38144115]check out this sweet pickup-line from my book, PUA: Pick Up Girlz Easy N' Fast™
"hi"[/QUOTE]
goddammit seith where'd you come from
[QUOTE=shian;38144205]Dammit anyone[/QUOTE]
Other countries. get out there.
[QUOTE=TM Gmod;38144324]Other countries. get out there.[/QUOTE]
Well shit but I have no money now.
Where can I go to find expats
expats don't usually hang around expats
like we don't go to any expat clubs or anything
[QUOTE=shian;38144347]Well shit but I have no money now.
Where can I go to find expats[/QUOTE]
have you tried meeting new local people instead. that seems much easier than searching for expats specifically.
I have a feeling my gf will be leaving me soon, lately her friends are not in favor of us dating and that if she talks to me too much, her friends get pissed off. She keeps saying that she has to choose and that scares her, she says she might choose her friends because she knows them longer than she knew me. And I'm sort of freaking out here. Any help?
[QUOTE=GURREN LAGANN;38143978]what do i say after i say hi[/QUOTE]
I am a social retard so this probably won't work well or sound retarded, but I always just ask what their name is and shake their hand. It establishes some contact and shows confidence, just do not mumble it or anything and end up looking like a serial rapist.
Works for me.
Holly shit guys.
I just found out that my parents are cousins.
I've figured it out since my grandparents are brothers, so I came to the conclusion.
Just wow, I talked to my mother about it she told me it's not a big deal since unlike common sense it's very rare for cousin's sons to have any genetic diseases or complications and they did run all kinds of tests when I was born just to be sure.
I'm 100% healthy and it seems marriage between cousins is not such an uncommon thing either (I even came across some forums on the internet about it), they just tell me to avoid commenting this to anyone that knows me.
But wow, I'm an inbred guys.
[QUOTE=Megafan;38143892]Yeah, you'd probably (or at least I do anyway) start off as friends, get to know them a bit before asking them out, and then after going out a few times figure out if you're in a relationship.[/QUOTE]
Start off as friends? Assuming you talked to a random girl on the street, I promise you "being friends" with a guy she's just met won't deliver results. Ask her number, go on a date... The more you delay it the less you'll have a chance she'll want to do anything with you.
[editline]23rd October 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=AtomicDongo;38145292]I have a feeling my gf will be leaving me soon, lately her friends are not in favor of us dating and that if she talks to me too much, her friends get pissed off. She keeps saying that she has to choose and that scares her, she says she might choose her friends because she knows them longer than she knew me. And I'm sort of freaking out here. Any help?[/QUOTE]
Personally, If you really want this relationship, then I would sit her down and explain to her that nobody knows better than she does, as this is her relationship not theirs.
If the uncertainty continues, you let her enjoy what her friends think best.
[editline]23rd October 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;38145982]Holly shit guys.
I just found out that my parents are cousins.
I've figured it out since my grandparents are brothers, so I came to the conclusion.
Just wow, I talked to my mother about it she told me it's not a big deal since unlike common sense it's very rare for cousin's sons to have any genetic diseases or complications and they did run all kinds of tests when I was born just to be sure.
I'm 100% healthy and it seems marriage between cousins is not such an uncommon thing either (I even came across some forums on the internet about it), they just tell me to avoid commenting this to anyone that knows me.
But wow, I'm an inbred guys.[/QUOTE]
You dirty bastard.
Hey, it's not my fault.
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;38146215]Hey, it's not my fault.[/QUOTE]
Religious back ground?
OK. Developed a crush on my 26 year old (I'm 18) co-worker who is married with a 3 year old kid.
How the fuck does this even happen?
PRO TIP: nothing will happen between you, get over it
mhm mhm. that's why I'm annoyed. Why couldn't it have been a hot 18 year old who is single and likes to date freakishly tall music nerds?
[QUOTE=Jackald;38147443]Let's just say I know her intimately and leave it at that.
[editline]23rd October 2012[/editline]
Anyway, thanks for the advice guys, you were real bros about this.[/QUOTE]
Let's just say I "fondled her boobs with my hands and tongue" and leave the rest to your imagination ;]
Why even say anything? Haha
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;38147501]Let's just say I "fondled her boobs with my hands and tongue" and leave the rest to your imagination ;]
Why even say anything? Haha[/QUOTE]
ughh gross boobies
youre disgusting bda im going to throw up
Was going to ask a girl at uni out today, found out she's married with a kid.
[QUOTE=SBD;38148434]Was going to ask a girl at uni out today, found out she's married with a kid.[/QUOTE]
I was snowboarding this past Winter and saw this cute chick at the lodge during night skiing, she was obviously older than I (16) but I went up to her and asked if she wanted to go up with me. She was mid-20-something and married, just waiting for her husband to come down the mountain. What a twist.
[QUOTE=Boss;38146374]Religious back ground?[/QUOTE]
How is that relevant?
Was going to ask the girl who gave me a lap dance out, her best friend tells me she said she was into me at a sleep over so I figured it was in the bag. Go ask her out when we are alone and get,
"Sorry, I don't want to be in a relationship right now but I would love to be really good friends" :\
Her other best friend told me this was bs and proceeded to text her with "WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU."
So the girl I was datting wants to just be friends. God fucking dammit.
After lunch, she just asked me if I want more, said yes and she said, let's just be friends. She still texts me, like that's going to fucking help.
You know, I really tried hard this time. I'm fucking 24 soon, never had a girlfriend and I feel like the biggest fucking looser ever. I feel like I've been running a race only to realize at the end that I was never even a participant.
She also told me that I was just too nice, now what kind of bullshit is that? Did I miss a memo that its niw OK to be an asshole? If that's the case, I'm out of this game (not even going to try to date anymore).
But the worst part? My idiots of friends. Telling me "oh, just wait, you'll get the perfect girl" while they are sticking their fucking tounges down their girlfriends throat. Fucking hypocrits. I waited my whole goddamn life, and how did that turn out?
I'm sorry about this rant, I just needed a vent somewhere.
[editline]24th October 2012[/editline]
Well isn't that just fucking great, top of the page.
Here are two facts for ya;
1. Everybody fails, again and again and dont oet anyone make u think u dont have to fail.
2.life is shit. Nothing happens without effort and if u keep comparing urself to other people itll get u nowhere.
Now, lets get u in perspective and u tell me if youve truly tried your best and you are dealing with an impossible situation here.
How many times have you failed before learning to ride a bike? I bet a lot... Compare that to women, now, did you really try enough or is it just distress that blinds u from realizing you have a lot more to give and a lot more times to fail before youve nailed it.
I failed a billion times before i had sex with a random woman, how much can u take? A loser is someone who quits.
hi seith
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