The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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Hi
She says she wants to talk to me about stuff
Uh oh
[QUOTE=HarveySpecter;38154738]Here are two facts for ya;
1. Everybody fails, again and again and dont oet anyone make u think u dont have to fail.
2.life is shit. Nothing happens without effort and if u keep comparing urself to other people itll get u nowhere.
Now, lets get u in perspective and u tell me if youve truly tried your best and you are dealing with an impossible situation here.
How many times have you failed before learning to ride a bike? I bet a lot... Compare that to women, now, did you really try enough or is it just distress that blinds u from realizing you have a lot more to give and a lot more times to fail before youve nailed it.
I failed a billion times before i had sex with a random woman, how much can u take? A loser is someone who quits.[/QUOTE]
Dude, I have one of the hardest study courses ever. I work like a normal guy, but I have to go to school in the evening, sometimes till 10. I know how hard life is and that you have to fight for things you fucking want.
Which is what I did here. I supported her in getting a studyplace in my town (she now feels like she took advantage of me) and we did a lot together.
Now, do I think I'm in an impossible situation? Probably, although I try to convince myself that I am not (for whatever stupid reason, guess I'm not ready to give this up just yet).
Also, how many times have I failed? Don't know, but my success rate is at 0. That's what's bugging me so fucking much.
Also, I get what you're telling me, stuff I try to remember myself to aswell. But I'm not in the state of mind to actually do that right now.
[QUOTE=rosthouse;38155195]Which is what I did here. I supported her in getting a studyplace in my town (she now feels like she took advantage of me)[/QUOTE]
So you're saying you wouldn't have helped out your friend if you didn't think you were going to get sex out of it?
That's not very nice
[QUOTE=TH89;38155220]So you're saying you wouldn't have helped out your friend if you didn't think you were going to get sex out of it?
That's not very nice[/QUOTE]
Actually, that came out wrong and was not what I wanted to say. Of course I would have helped her even if I wasn't interested in her.
[QUOTE=rosthouse;38155195]Dude, I have one of the hardest study courses ever. I work like a normal guy, but I have to go to school in the evening, sometimes till 10. I know how hard life is and that you have to fight for things you fucking want.
Which is what I did here. I supported her in getting a studyplace in my town (she now feels like she took advantage of me) and we did a lot together.
Now, do I think I'm in an impossible situation? Probably, although I try to convince myself that I am not (for whatever stupid reason, guess I'm not ready to give this up just yet).
Also, how many times have I failed? Don't know, but my success rate is at 0. That's what's bugging me so fucking much.
Also, I get what you're telling me, stuff I try to remember myself to aswell. But I'm not in the state of mind to actually do that right now.[/QUOTE]
listen man, it sounds like you just need to chill out and appreciate life without your ( to be honest, exaggerated ) views on sex and love. if you're helping people out with the incentive that you might have a relationship, it's time that you started thinking that maybe it's not so important and that when the time is right, you'll be able to find someone you can have a relationship with.
i'd recommend that you just calm down and maybe stop overthinking this kinda stuff, and just enjoy yourself since otherwise it'll eat away at your self esteem and you'll be back at square one.
some people just end up alone in life, some people don't.
the key is to have a fulfilling and good life with or without a relationship. if you depend your happiness on a relationship you build an incredibly unhealthy situation that will just end up bad.
[QUOTE=Bobie;38155291]listen man, it sounds like you just need to chill out and appreciate life without your ( to be honest, exaggerated ) views on sex and love. if you're helping people out with the incentive that you might have a relationship, it's time that you started thinking that maybe it's not so important and that when the time is right, you'll be able to find someone you can have a relationship with.
i'd recommend that you just calm down and maybe stop overthinking this kinda stuff, and just enjoy yourself since otherwise it'll eat away at your self esteem and you'll be back at square one.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, you're right, I know. Its just that I'm really frustrated right now and needed a place to get it out somehow.
Also, just a disclaimer, I never actually said here that I just wanted sex, that's not what I'm looking for :v:
[QUOTE=rosthouse;38155359]Yeah, you're right, I know. Its just that I'm really frustrated right now and needed a place to get it out somehow.
Also, just a disclaimer, I never actually said here that I just wanted sex, that's not what I'm looking for :v:[/QUOTE]
everyone in this thread wants sex no exceptions
but yeah. stay optimistic and youll do fine
Damn, there's this really cute Ukranian girl who sits next to me in programing class and she has a boyfriend.
:v:
[QUOTE=rosthouse;38154497]So the girl I was datting wants to just be friends. God fucking dammit.
After lunch, she just asked me if I want more, said yes and she said, let's just be friends. She still texts me, like that's going to fucking help.
You know, I really tried hard this time. I'm fucking 24 soon, never had a girlfriend and I feel like the biggest fucking loser ever. I feel like I've been running a race only to realize at the end that I was never even a participant.
She also told me that I was just too nice, now what kind of bullshit is that? Did I miss a memo that its now OK to be an asshole? If that's the case, I'm out of this game (not even going to try to date anymore).
But the worst part? My idiots of friends. Telling me "oh, just wait, you'll get the perfect girl" while they are sticking their fucking tounges down their girlfriends throat. Fucking hypocrits. I waited my whole goddamn life, and how did that turn out?
I'm sorry about this rant, I just needed a vent somewhere.
[editline]24th October 2012[/editline]
Well isn't that just fucking great, top of the page.[/QUOTE]
Stop wallowing in your own self pity for christs sake, I'm not saying it to be a dick, I'm saying it because its true. You're not going to get anywhere in life saying things like[I] 'I feel like I've been running a race only to realize at the end that I was never even a participant.'[/I]
[QUOTE]She also told me that I was just too nice, now what kind of bullshit is that? [/QUOTE]
The 'bullshit' to which you refer, seems to me, to be her kind of saying 'you let me walk all over you and get what i want and you were too nice to stop me e.t.c'. Who knows what she though of course, but this is how i interpret that.
[QUOTE]But the worst part? My idiots of friends. Telling me "oh, just wait, you'll get the perfect girl" while they are sticking their fucking tounges down their girlfriends throat. Fucking hypocrits. I waited my whole goddamn life, and how did that turn out?[/QUOTE]
Even your friends are putting you into the 'friend zone' category. You waited your whole goddamn life? For what? 'The perfect girl' to fall into your lap? Have you really not realised at 24 that things just don't fall into your lap? Change your attitude, respect yourself, and actually go and [U]do things[/U]to get yourself a decent girl, rather than moaning about it.
Usually when someone says "you're too nice" what they actually mean is "you don't have a spine, but I'm too nice to say that." I'm not sure if that is ironic or not. But it's possible to be kind and generous but also assertive and stand up for yourself.
[editline]24th October 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=TH89;38154952]She says she wants to talk to me about stuff
Uh oh[/QUOTE]
Also "don't worry about it"
GUESS WHAT I'M DOING NOW
[QUOTE=TH89;38155911]Usually when someone says "you're too nice" what they actually mean is "you don't have a spine, but I'm too nice to say that." I'm not sure if that is ironic or not. But it's possible to be kind and generous but also assertive and stand up for yourself.
[editline]24th October 2012[/editline]
Also "don't worry about it"
GUESS WHAT I'M DOING NOW[/QUOTE]
You can neeeever stop yourself from worrying, it blows
[QUOTE=HarveySpecter;38154738]2.life is shit. Nothing happens without effort and if u keep comparing urself to other people itll get u nowhere.[/QUOTE]
"yes, um, hello, i would like to inform you all that this world is full of shit"
[editline]23rd October 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=TH89;38155911]Also "don't worry about it"
GUESS WHAT I'M DOING NOW[/QUOTE]
Guess what everyone else is doing now.
Update: False alarm! Apparently when some people say "it's nothing to worry about" they are actually telling the truth :)
[editline]24th October 2012[/editline]
Also I'm not drunk at all right now. Posting while under the influence is against the rules, and I would never break the rules. I could solve a quadratic equation right now (that's impressive because I haven't taken any math since Statistics).
[QUOTE=TH89;38157923]Update: False alarm! Apparently when some people say "it's nothing to worry about" they are actually telling the truth :)
[editline]24th October 2012[/editline]
Also I'm not drunk at all right now. Posting while under the influence is against the rules, and I would never break the rules. I could solve a quadratic equation right now (that's impressive because I haven't taken any math since Statistics).[/QUOTE]
Could I influence you into making a totally non drunken rap about me?
X = -b +/- √(b^2 - 4(a)(c)) / 2a
seith is right. life IS shit
a while ago I was worried about saving money while still paying rent and food and all that, so I ended up getting a second job at night stacking shelves. a job's a job's a job. pays pretty okay too, and it would never clash with my other job because it was strictly at night.
i received my eviction notice a few days ago. i have just over $200 in savings, my combined jobs net me less than $300 a week and the only person I know in this town is my girlfriend who lives on college campus
so right now i have no idea what the fuck I'm meant to do with myself
[editline]24th October 2012[/editline]
i know it's not social or love advice i need, but i just really, really needed to share that with someone. sorry.
[QUOTE=ThePinkPanzer;38158020]Could I influence you into making a totally non drunken rap about me?[/QUOTE]
Ayo, pink panzer, you're a twink mamzer
if i was a mod, i'd motherfuckin ban ya
blaow blaow, i keep it one hunnit
facepunch rap game kiddo i run it
blaoww
[editline]24th October 2012[/editline]
ThePinkPanzer...those mean things I said...I didn't mean them really. You're alright.
TH89 I hope you know that your music is on my iPod
[editline]24th October 2012[/editline]
and i love you
I love you too lets make out
brb making out with th89
to everybody reading, this is how you pull
mmfff uhhhngh mmmmm
[QUOTE=Aries;38158225]seith is right. life IS shit
a while ago I was worried about saving money while still paying rent and food and all that, so I ended up getting a second job at night stacking shelves. a job's a job's a job. pays pretty okay too, and it would never clash with my other job because it was strictly at night.
i received my eviction notice a few days ago. i have just over $200 in savings, my combined jobs net me less than $300 a week and the only person I know in this town is my girlfriend who lives on college campus
so right now i have no idea what the fuck I'm meant to do with myself
[editline]24th October 2012[/editline]
i know it's not social or love advice i need, but i just really, really needed to share that with someone. sorry.[/QUOTE]
damn dude
i'd let you crash on my couch
[QUOTE=TH89;38158267]Ayo, pink panzer, you're a twink mamzer
if i was a mod, i'd motherfuckin ban ya
blaow blaow, i keep it one hunnit
facepunch rap game kiddo i run it
blaoww
[editline]24th October 2012[/editline]
ThePinkPanzer...those mean things I said...I didn't mean them really. You're alright.[/QUOTE]
its okay i forgive you
once i overthrow star and max in my glorious revolution i shall reinstall you as head mod of all mods.
[QUOTE=thisispain;38158044]X = -b +/- √(b^2 - 4(a)(c)) / 2a[/QUOTE]
i did learn a song to memorize this in like grade 8 so it actually does sound like a rap to me
but you forgot a pair of parentheses
so
i had a 95% in my chem class up until yesterday. i had an exam in the class and i had spent several hours studying for it and understood the material. got to class, suddenly felt really sick. i finished about half of the exam because it was so difficult for me to focus, i had a migraine and it hurt to read so i got through about 20 questions of the exam (i think there were 30 or so, not including the bonus questions).
went to my chem lab after class and i felt incredibly nauseous. my lab partner usually doesn't talk to me while we work and just kind of does her own thing, and i was having difficulty reading the lab and had to keep leaving to blow my nose. my lab partner wouldn't tell me what parts of the experiment she was on and she was skipping around so i had no idea what to write. then she decided halfway through the experiment to put everything away and pull out her lab report from [b]last semester[/b] when we did the same experiment in general chem. i asked her if i could see her sheet since we weren't going to finish the experiment and she basically said no and left.
and then my prof wouldn't sign my thing that says i attended the lab because i couldn't see straight in order to do some completely trivial calculations that i could have done at home, and i felt like i was going to throw up so i just left without getting the sheet signed.
[editline]24th October 2012[/editline]
fucking hell i need to talk to a professional about getting accommodations for being dyslexic. i could've aced that test if i had enough time and if the girl sitting next to me didn't have her phone buzzing every 30 seconds.
just realized its Tuesday
i have an essay i did not start due in eight hours
welp fuck it time to fail a class
start it now
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38159235]my lab partner usually doesn't talk to me while we work and just kind of does her own thing, and i was having difficulty reading the lab and had to keep leaving to blow my nose. my lab partner wouldn't tell me what parts of the experiment she was on and she was skipping around so i had no idea what to write. then she decided halfway through the experiment to put everything away and pull out her lab report from [b]last semester[/b] when we did the same experiment in general chem. i asked her if i could see her sheet since we weren't going to finish the experiment and she basically said no and left.
and then my prof wouldn't sign my thing that says i attended the lab because i couldn't see straight in order to do some completely trivial calculations that i could have done at home, and i felt like i was going to throw up so i just left without getting the sheet signed.[/QUOTE]
Is your chemistry class just full of assholes then?
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