The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=Derp Y. Mail;38168969][B]wall of text inbound: [/B]wall of text[/QUOTE]
so you haven't fucked her?
[QUOTE=BlazeFresh;38169922]I laughed a lot at this bit, i don't know why. I just imagined you turning your head and a very full train of people are all staring at you, and me being one of those passengers.
Im happy for you tho[/QUOTE]
Actually the train was laid out like long-distance train, meaning where I stood there was no one else, and the doors to each cart on both sides were closed. So I was alone.
Also picture, as promised:
[img_thumb]http://i.imgur.com/GtquJ.jpg[/img_thumb]
Shit quality because taken at night. As a photographer, this grain makes my head explode. Love it anyway.
wow and you didn't even have sex with her
it feels like some kind of G rated teen romance movie
[QUOTE=thisispain;38170202]wow and you didn't even have sex with her
it feels like some kind of G rated teen romance movie[/QUOTE]
It's almost like I respect our privacy or something
Weird huh
We took the big V from each other.
Shh.
fuck privacy
I cant tell if you guys are being serious about the sex thing...
[QUOTE=Derp Y. Mail;38170285]It's almost like I respect our privacy or something[/QUOTE]
Hahah no you don't
[QUOTE=Derp Y. Mail;38170285]We took the big V from each other.[/QUOTE]
i apologize, usually people on this forum tend to share their sexual stories as much as possible
i mean i didn't seek out to know about people's pee fetishes, yet a certain poster keeps telling everyone about it
[QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;38170420]Hahah no you don't[/QUOTE]
Irony is for the laughs. Worked on you, didnt it?
it wasnt really a compliment
its absolutely pointless when 2 people who were just virgins get [i]that[/i] worked up over not seeing each other for a long distance relationship
yeah it felt like i was reading someone's diary
So I was just sitting here moping a bit about working just above minimum wage and how Im getting shittier amount of hours lately. Then I thought about it and minimum wage here is 10 bucks, and I get 10.50. And an average 9-5 job is 8 hours work were as an average day for me can be 9-10 hours. That and this is my first job, most of my peers are working shifts and may not get any work most days...
Perspective moment!
They're not entirely wrong - this might be a bit emotionally excessive for an internet relationship.
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Oh god... I've never cried so much in my life... I star crying just thinking of her eyes again... Writing it now makes me tear up...[/quote][quote]
It was painful... I had to leave... She didnt want me to... I didn't want to... I kept her close to me and tried to comfort both of us, but we just cried...[/quote][quote]
The look she had in her eyes as the train chugged off is what made me break down there and then. I just leaned against the door of the train and started to loudly sob and cry my eyes out.
I wanted to pull the emergency break, I wanted to jump off and go back at the next station, but I knew I couldn't...
Oh god... I've never cried so much in my life... I star crying just thinking of her eyes again... Writing it now makes me tear up...[/quote]
Whether it was a bit much or not, it's just how he felt. At least he hasn't been going on about for pages upon pages like some guy we all know... Let him be happy for now, and when he comes back saying how much he misses her, etcetera, let him be sad. There's no need to be scathing.
I think it was the excessive use of dots
Honestly I will never understand why people do that, but so many people seem to. What even.
its an internet relationship??? oh jesus man...
[editline]24th October 2012[/editline]
its not just the use of dots but the fact that he was so wordy that more than half of his post wasn't even important enough to get his story across
[QUOTE=Starpluck;38170662]They're not entirely wrong - this might be a bit emotionally excessive for an internet relationship.[/QUOTE]
Well, let me correct myself: Internet-based.
I mean, it's no different from any other relationship, except we get to see each other in person a lot less, which makes it a hell of a lot more emotional. The times you DO get to meet turn out more special.
Of maybe we're just stupid. Meh, I'd rather be stupid and happy than clever and sad. Not saying "ignorance is bliss", just saying happiness is happiness, emotions are emotions. Shouldn't be questioned.
Anyway, gotta sleep. I still have 9 hours before the flight leaves. Airport is really spooky empty.
Also yeah, excessive use of dots. Sorry, bit of a bad habit recently.
i don't know, it's not really my place to judge
[QUOTE=Derp Y. Mail;38170807]Well, let me correct myself: Internet-based.
I mean, it's no different from any other relationship, except we get to see each other in person a lot less, which makes it a hell of a lot more emotional. The times you DO get to meet turn out more special.
Of maybe we're just stupid. Meh, I'd rather be stupid and happy than clever and sad. Not saying "ignorance is bliss", just saying happiness is happiness, emotions are emotions. Shouldn't be questioned.
Anyway, gotta sleep. I still have 9 hours before the flight leaves. Airport is really spooky empty.
Also yeah, excessive use of dots. Sorry, bit of a bad habit recently.[/QUOTE]I just thought the surge of emotions was a bit strange given the context, but as long as the emotions are mutual I don't think there is a problem, your post seems to indicate she also reciprocated clingyness which is alright I guess. As T-pain said, its not really my place to judge but you both seem happy and I'm not going to shit on that.
theyre in lust though
theyve essentially known each other for like 4 days
no matter how close you get to someone over the internet its nothing like a real live relationship
of course and he'll figure that out once he actually gets into a real live relationship
[QUOTE=thisispain;38171171]of course and he'll figure that out once he actually gets into a real live relationship[/QUOTE]That's only if he doesn't commit suicide after the breakup
[editline]24th October 2012[/editline]
(its a joke im actually proud of you two)
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;38171094]theyre in lust though
theyve essentially known each other for like 4 days
no matter how close you get to someone over the internet its nothing like a real live relationship[/QUOTE]
ive never been on an 'online' relationship, ive met people who live near me online before though, through friends and started relationships that way. there's really no difference, maybe just a lot less stability in the earlier stages
Interesting, never seen an internet relationship that seems to be that close before. Nice nonetheless.
to be fair since he's met the girl it's not really an internet relationship anymore. It was, but now its a long term relationship.
i cried like a baby when i had to go home after visting my girlfriend for the first time, for the whole flight back.
call me a dramatic lusty teen or w/e... but it was really painful.
i cried when my first girlfriend broke up but i was like 15
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;38171094]theyre in lust though
theyve essentially known each other for like 4 days
no matter how close you get to someone over the internet its nothing like a real live relationship[/QUOTE]
there's a difference between cybering with someone over steam and having an actual relationship over the internet
lol so many bitter people in this thread, just let the dude be happy
or cry
or whatever
that's what friends are for!!
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