The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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guys im on this internet forum and a girl replied to one of my posts saying she laughed do you think i have a chance with her? she's honestly the girl of my dreams
i think u should go 4 it
wow get a room you two
[QUOTE=aliendrone123;34889561]wow get a room you two[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;34889313]guys im on this internet forum and a girl replied to one of my posts saying she laughed do you think i have a chance with her? she's honestly the girl of my dreams[/QUOTE]
Do it bro and if she turns you down then that just means she wants you bad.
~~~never back down never say sorry~~~
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;34889313]guys im on this internet forum and a girl replied to one of my posts saying she laughed do you think i have a chance with her? she's honestly the girl of my dreams[/QUOTE]
Totes bro. Totes hit dat like Chris Brown smacked Rihanna.
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Was testing the waters. This is what happens when you try get out the friendzone.
givesashit
There is not a friendzone, numbnuts.
In other news, I think one of my best friends likes me. I'm probably going to ask her out on Friday.
So there's just girls wanting to be friends with you not dating you. Same thing, or do you have another theory?
Regardless, good luck to you sir.
Friend zone implies it is impossible to get out of, which isn't true.
Just because a girl sees you as just a friend doesn't mean she will never see you as something more. It's just rare/takes work to change that.
uh shes clearly not interested in him though
[QUOTE=Evilan;34884183]We're getting somewhere now with Seith. Hopefully he will take a step back and look at himself from our perspective. It's not like we thrive on arguing, it's just hard not to when someone keeps posting stuff that either shoots all of our opinions down and begins a debate about how his methods are the best.[/QUOTE]
Where did I "shoot all opinions down and say my opinions are the best"? Did you even notice it's your own perspective, rather than what is actually being said by me?
What you meant to say was; It's harder to argue when someone isn't following your perceptions, and even harder when he disagrees. Just because I make it feel like it's the only one, doesn't make it so.
I have said it many times before; my opinion - based on experience - is my opinion. I didn't not once advocate it unless you guys told me I was wrong. How does it make me arrogant when I am defending my own opinion? That's natural.
Okay, there's a girl in my English class (actually more like fifteen girls but that's irrelevant). I've talked to her a couple times in the last semester or so, but only briefly. She seems nice enough, how do I go about striking up a conversation with her?
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;34898570]uh shes clearly not interested in him though[/QUOTE]
He shot himself in the leg. It's pretty obvious why;
He doesn't even know the girl, he just came out of the blue. "I don't even know you yet" - shows lack of comfort, meaning he probably didn't talk to her much.
He knows that himself, so he clearly shot himself in the leg by saying; "I see you're busy having a life" as in, [i]what she is doing is probably better than what I can offer[/i].
Her lack of interest is due to his lack of self-belief.
[editline]27th February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Alan Ninja!;34898732]Okay, there's a girl in my English class (actually more like fifteen girls but that's irrelevant). I've talked to her a couple times in the last semester or so, but only briefly. She seems nice enough, how do I go about striking up a conversation with her?[/QUOTE]
As you would with anyone. Female or male, they both converse about the same. Females are easier, as they don't have big egos, or ones at all.
[QUOTE=Seith;34898769]He doesn't even know the girl, he just came out of the blue. "I don't even know you yet" - shows lack of comfort, meaning he probably didn't talk to her much.[/QUOTE]
only she didn't say that...
she said "I don't know yet (what she's doing on friday) and you (what are you doing this friday)?"
[QUOTE=RainbowStalin;34885041]So on friday I decided to stop being a pussy and actually try something with the girl I've liked for the past 3 months or so.
It was friday and we were both the the club part of our university bar, we spent about the entire night talking with each other in the sofa area. I've known her for a while and we often talk with each other, so its not like we're strangers to one another.
Towards the end of the night (and as a result of being very very drunk) I make a move, she tells me she's seeing someone at the moment, she mentioned that for certain reasons she can't say she can't mention this to anyone including her close friends so there was no way I could have known about it.
Spoken to her since and I didn't make a huge deal out of it or anything, I said sorry and backed off, luckily it hasn't made things awkward between us and I told her I only did it becuase I was drunk.
But I'm still kind of confused about the whole situation.
Not sure if this the correct place to put this but I really feel like I need to vent this out somewhere. And I'd like to see what other people make of this.[/QUOTE]
You followed your inner desires, nothing bad about it.
About saying sorry....well...:)
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[QUOTE=Autumn;34898800]only she didn't say that...
she said "I don't know yet (what she's doing on friday) and you (what are you doing this friday)?"[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I see that now. Point is still valid, regardless.
Except no its not because all he did was ask her out. Hardly shooting himself in the foot.
[QUOTE=Evilan;34884067]You come off arrogant as hell. I had the same issue years ago. You will disagree with something because you believe your opinion is the only correct one. You don't concede a point until either the person agrees with you or they storm off angry because you insulted their intelligence of a subject because you believe you knew more about it.
You could be the nicest, friendliest and largest social butterfly in the world, but if you keep on arguing every little thing with everybody then you are nothing, but an antisocial human being. You need to learn how to keep your mouth shut on things you disagree with. Like, even if someone says something that is totally like "What the fuck, how can you believe that" on an issue like politics, let them have their belief. Just say something light hearted like, "I can see why you believe that."
Also, I agree with Mort & Charon. Stop over analyzing everything. Just because one part of a statement is incorrect to you, does not invalidate the entire thing. You are continually picking things apart until all that's left is [Insert Seith's Opinion Here]. What you may believe is not always completely true and what others say is not always completely wrong. In fact, you are just as wrong as others are on most topics of conversation. However, you being an arrogant person is not one of those topics the posters of this thread are incorrect about.[/QUOTE]
I believe my opinion is the only one because it's my opinion. Why would I choose to believe others, naturally? that's weird. But, if my opinion wasn't plausible in that situation I could have reconsidered as I have many times before. I am not afraid to admit I am wrong.
Also, maybe it is the only correct one, in my eyes, in that situation. If you remember correctly, I gave my opinion on the matter because someone asked for advice, and then I got into a few disagreements because [i]others[/i] did not agree with me. As I have said, it's my opinion, which anyone would naturally try and preserve. Especially in that situation, which is familiar to me.
And although I disagree with the 1st paragraph, I agree on the second paragraph. It is unnecessary. As much as others, I am also to blame. People, just as me, will always try and defend their opinions.. so in essence, what I am doing is a waste of time.
Arrogance is a point of view. Hard to transmit my opinions as firmly as I do right now, without being scolded for it. In that sense, I may be arrogant, but not thick headed
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[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;34898995]Except no its not because all he did was ask her out. Hardly shooting himself in the foot.[/QUOTE]
It's his fault he got a decline. Why? because he shot himself in the foot. How so? by demonstrating neediness, low worth and low self esteem.
I gave an example above as to why he demonstrates such feelings...
jesus christ seith your advice is crap
get with the program and stop being a jackass
i actually sorta agree with seith here, the way he asked her out wasnt confidentat all and made him seem like a downright boring person
The only issue is he said "oh I see youre busy having a life" which pretty much made him look like he has no social life and also he gave himself a no before she even said anything. You should of said, "well we could catch a movie instead of that, this movie seems pretty awesome" Just because she might have a friend over or might be going to a youth group doesnt mean she will say no to you and she might've picked to go to the movies over those. You have to be confident and act like you would be the best choice in that situation.
Should have tried for this Friday by adding himself as an option.
Dammitninjadick
You've even stuck your dick in the way of someone's post. :v:
That was a good thread, you should bring it back.
Yeah the way he asked her out wasn't optimistic, it pays to be optimistic when it comes to girls
I don't think I'm bad looking, so why is it that I tend to get rejected when I ask a girl to dance?
[editline]27th February 2012[/editline]
also, dancing tips? So far I rely on drinking to ignore the fact that I don't really know how to dance (but that doesn't answer the first question, since I ask random girls who haven't seen me dance yet)
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Was testing the waters. This is what happens when you try get out the friendzone.
givesashit[/QUOTE]
your biggest problem is that you have screenshots of this. rule of thumb: never ask for anything of that sort via any kind of textual media. face to face or not at all.
[QUOTE=Hmn30;34901191]I don't think I'm bad looking, so why is it that I tend to get rejected when I ask a girl to dance?
[editline]27th February 2012[/editline]
also, dancing tips? So far I rely on drinking to ignore the fact that I don't really know how to dance (but that doesn't answer the first question, since I ask random girls who haven't seen me dance yet)[/QUOTE]
Perhaps said girls don't find you attractive? Different strokes for different folks and all that jazz.
[QUOTE=Hmn30;34901191]I don't think I'm bad looking, so why is it that I tend to get rejected when I ask a girl to dance?
[editline]27th February 2012[/editline]
also, dancing tips? So far I rely on drinking to ignore the fact that I don't really know how to dance (but that doesn't answer the first question, since I ask random girls who haven't seen me dance yet)[/QUOTE]
If you're talking about dancing in a club there isn't exactly much skill in it, no one looking too hard at your moves. Just make sure you avoid rapid jerking movements and keep your body language open at all times. Keep it smooth. As for the actual dancing most people in clubs just bob energetically with the beat of the music.
[QUOTE=RainbowStalin;34902201]If you're talking about dancing in a club there isn't exactly much skill in it, no one looking too hard at your moves. Just make sure you avoid rapid jerking movements and keep your body language open at all times. Keep it smooth. As for the actual dancing most people in clubs just bob energetically with the beat of the music.[/QUOTE]
I'm taking about parties
Since I cheated on my gf, I don't really love her like I used to. Do you think its cause im hiding it from her or did the cheating make me fall out of love?
[editline]27th February 2012[/editline]
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Was testing the waters. This is what happens when you try get out the friendzone.
givesashit[/QUOTE]
You have alot to learn my friend.
[QUOTE=RopaDope;34902612]Since I cheated on my gf, I don't really love her like I used to. Do you think its cause im hiding it from her or did the cheating make me fall out of love?
[editline]27th February 2012[/editline]
You have alot to learn my friend.[/QUOTE]
If getting sucked off by a prostitute in a alley made you fall out of love then I really don't think you were in love in the first place.
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