The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=Seith;35004354]Sexy lingerie.[/QUOTE]
You know a girl can gift a guy something that isn't related to sex right? Just saying.
[QUOTE=1chains1;35004905]You know a girl can gift a guy something that isn't related to sex right? Just saying.[/QUOTE]
Regardless of it's sexual nature, it's pretty original.
[QUOTE=Seith;35005456]Regardless of it's sexual nature, it's pretty original.[/QUOTE]
And you will also be able to benefit from it.
[QUOTE=junker|154;35005522]And you will also be able to benefit from it.[/QUOTE]
Indeed, but I strayed from that point as 1chains1 seems to cringe every time I mention sex in that way or another.
Well I never bought lingerie for any of my girlfriends, I was never sure if it would fit or please her in any way.
I prefer doing stuff, like cooking and making a having a great night. For instance I drove once with my girlfriend to a hill on some beautiful plains and then we were there the whole night during the summer watching the stars. With some blankets. I really miss that.
anything related to sex isn't really "doing something nice" in my opinion
we have sex regularly like any normal couple - it's not like it's something he has to earn
[QUOTE=SaWAH;35008209]anything related to sex isn't really "doing something nice" in my opinion
we have sex regularly like any normal couple - it's not like it's something he has to earn[/QUOTE]
That's so weird. Taking in consideration, that if you were to not have sex at all in your relationship, it would have become a dull relationship. But when it's present, it's a regular thing, and not even considered a prize or "doing something nice" in general.
I don't see why the purchase of materialistic items will keep a man, or woman, any more happy than the bonding of two souls in something that is as natural as the suns rays.
Sex is the glue that holds a relationship together.
[QUOTE=SaWAH;35008209]anything related to sex isn't really "doing something nice" in my opinion
we have sex regularly like any normal couple - it's not like it's something he has to earn[/QUOTE]
Sex is something so sensual and amazing which deepens a relationship even more. It is passionate and great. Honestly for me, the ejaculation is not the most enjoyable thing but all the stuff around. The whole build-up, the undressing of the clothes, the sensual kissing, the moaning of her, her hands holding me tightly, her expression. The whole joy. That is far more satisfying then sex itself.
[QUOTE=thisispain;35003493]
"men are only interested in sex blah blah"[/QUOTE]
Well, here's a semi-cliché I've been pondering on;
There's this girl who is into me, she's really friendly and all but honestly I find her a bit boring. How do I subtly tell her all I want is friendship without hurting her feelings?
If she doesn't make a move then don't do anything? If she asks you on a date or something, just say sorry, and be honest.
Yeah I guess it's as simple as that.
just tell her we could have sex to make things more interesting, and if she declines then tell her you don't want to talk to her anymore. its a win win
[QUOTE=SaWAH;35003449]Now that I'm living with my boyfriend, I'd like to surprise him with something nice, seeing as I've been, and still am, an emotional wreck since christmas. Any non-expensive ideas? He's been really good at putting up with me, so I'd like to return the favour.[/QUOTE]
Do something unique and creative. Don't plan too much. Just go with the flow.
I once did a surprise to my ex and I didn't plan anything. She loved it.
Basically we went to this barbecue at a friends house and then we just left. Spent the afternoon at the beach just walking through the sand with not a soul to be seen. Then we just sat on a cliff and watched the sunset.
Yeah, beach and sunsets may sound a bit cliché but when it's spontaneous it doesn't.
We basically didn't have to say anything to each other, we just enjoyed the silence.
It's amazing how a moment like than can open your heart further and create a stronger connection with the other person. Funny how we talked about things and feelings that we had never talked before.
Well, it didn't end there.
Later we just went to the grocery store and cooked at my place. We had dinner at candle light and slept in my living room by the fire.
None of it was planed, it was just natural.
I'm not saying you should do something similar or prepare something epic. You'll both know what to do even if it starts with a single walk through the beach.
[editline]5th March 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=SaWAH;35003538]i think i'll get him a cat.[/QUOTE]
That's an excellent idea!
[editline]5th March 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=SaWAH;35008209]anything related to sex isn't really "doing something nice" in my opinion
we have sex regularly like any normal couple - it's not like it's something he has to earn[/QUOTE]
Sex is something you could get any day. I have to agree with you here. I think in this case sex should not be taken as a priority. On the contrary. I think it should be a final thing or a consequence of a really intense day with your soul mate.
I think people here are just turning sex into something banal. If you actually get to that make sure it's a natural consequence of the day you had and of how special that that was for you too. And you'll see that sex will automatically turn into making love witch is something completely different and really romantic.
So i had le first date with a girl tonight.
So the issue here is ive never actually like kissed anyone before. gimme some advice or pointers or whatevah please!
[QUOTE=gerbile5;35029843]So i had le first date with a girl tonight.
So the issue here is ive never actually like kissed anyone before. gimme some advice or pointers or whatevah please![/QUOTE]
you are aiming for the lips not the nose
[QUOTE=gerbile5;35029843]So i had le first date with a girl tonight.
So the issue here is ive never actually like kissed anyone before. gimme some advice or pointers or whatevah please![/QUOTE]
There is nothing we can really say, it is just something you learn over time.
[QUOTE=gerbile5;35029843]So i had le first date with a girl tonight.
So the issue here is ive never actually like kissed anyone before. gimme some advice or pointers or whatevah please![/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=SaWAH;35003449]Now that I'm living with my boyfriend, I'd like to surprise him with something nice, seeing as I've been, and still am, an emotional wreck since christmas. Any non-expensive ideas? He's been really good at putting up with me, so I'd like to return the favour.[/QUOTE]
blowjobs
[editline]7th March 2012[/editline]
lol
[QUOTE=Mon;35029867]you are aiming for the lips not the nose[/QUOTE]
I kiss my girlfriend on the nose plenty.
Just make sure the first one doesn't land there or you look retarded.
[QUOTE=junker|154;35008924]Sex is something so sensual and amazing which deepens a relationship even more. It is passionate and great. Honestly for me, the ejaculation is not the most enjoyable thing but all the stuff around. The whole build-up, the undressing of the clothes, the sensual kissing, the moaning of her, her hands holding me tightly, her expression. The whole joy. That is far more satisfying then sex itself.[/QUOTE]
This is kind of obvious. This is why people prefer sex over masturbation. Everything you've described is the fact that you enjoy sharing the experience.
[editline]7th March 2012[/editline]
Sorry, that came out sounding pretty pretentious. Of course some people just have sex for the direct feeling and don't give a shit about the other people, but I think that the majority of the people in this thread that have sex regularly, don't purely do it for that.
[QUOTE=Rusty100;35030790]blowjobs
[editline]7th March 2012[/editline]
lol[/QUOTE]
Honestly, that was the first thing that came to mind, but I figured it wasn't what she was looking for.
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;35031157]
This is kind of obvious. This is why people prefer sex over masturbation. Everything you've described is the fact that you enjoy sharing the experience.
Sorry, that came out sounding pretty pretentious. Of course some people just have sex for the direct feeling and don't give a shit about the other people, but I think that the majority of the people in this thread that have sex regularly, don't purely do it for that.[/QUOTE]
You're right that most people have sex because they like the person, but there are so many people out there who enjoy sex for sex's sake. Like most of my friends who go out and party every weekend do it to get laid and not really to find the girl they would like to take home to their parents.
[QUOTE=gerbile5;35029843]So i had le first date with a girl tonight.
So the issue here is ive never actually like kissed anyone before. gimme some advice or pointers or whatevah please![/QUOTE]
Should come naturally really... just make sure you tilt your head in the opposite direction to her so you don't end up squishing each others noses..
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;35036941]Should come naturally really... just make sure you tilt your head in the opposite direction to her so you don't end up squishing each others noses..[/QUOTE]
I'm Jewish. Any better tips?
[QUOTE=Seith;35037172]I'm Jewish. Any better tips?[/QUOTE]
Is this a joke? It's not very funny.
[QUOTE=Protocol7;35037614]Is this a joke? It's not very funny.[/QUOTE]
Are you a jew?
[QUOTE=Seith;35037840]Are you a jew?[/QUOTE]
No, but I've got a few Jewish friends.
[QUOTE=Seith;35037840]Are you a jew?[/QUOTE]
yes i am jew and i demand you remove nazi content
I'm a Goyim.
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