The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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gross
french kissing is fun if their mouth doesnt have a taste like that, that's pretty disgusting
[QUOTE=ForgottenKane;35182313]My GF is teaching me french kissing
I don't get it, is the taste of Doritos supposed to turn me on or something?[/QUOTE]
i suppose what you put in your mouth takes an import factor regarding the quality of the french kees, i'd rather taste doritos rather tasting a cock during a french mkiss
[editline]17th March 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Autumn;35181781]that was also 400+ years ago mate[/QUOTE]
and 400 years later we still have the same biology, only wih different culture
[QUOTE=ForgottenKane;35182313]My GF is teaching me french kissing
I don't get it, is the taste of Doritos supposed to turn me on or something?[/QUOTE]
Generally its best if you both haven't just eaten...
Although the one taste I do like from that is when my gf has been drinking Bacardi and coke, I like it myself but it just seems to suit her.
[QUOTE=DrBreen;35182401]i suppose what you put in your mouth takes an import factor regarding the quality of the french kees, i'd rather taste doritos rather tasting a cock during a french mkiss
[editline]17th March 2012[/editline]
and 400 years later we still have the same biology, only wih different culture[/QUOTE]
didn't you say you were going to bed because you were drunk?
and what the fuck are you going on about? of course we have different cultures, but he's in this one, and all i'm saying is it's going to be hard to get with women talking that way. you're saying it doesn't matter what the culture is, he can be whichever way he wants, but that's not true. go find some undiscovered Amazonian tribe and try to court one of their women, see how that goes. just ignore the cultural boundaries.
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;35182656]didn't you say you were going to bed because you were drunk?
and what the fuck are you going on about? of course we have different cultures, but he's in this one, and all i'm saying is it's going to be hard to get with women talking that way. you're saying it doesn't matter what the culture is, he can be whichever way he wants, but that's not true. go find some undiscovered Amazonian tribe and try to court one of their women, see how that goes. just ignore the cultural boundaries.[/QUOTE]
That's like saying being fat naturally would make it harder for a person to be successful socially. That's wrong. Following those cultural patterns - clothing, behavior - is what make a person the same as everybody else thus creating a very common image which doesn't contribute, but lessen his impact upon talking to women.
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;35182656]didn't you say you were going to bed because you were drunk?
and what the fuck are you going on about? of course we have different cultures, but he's in this one, and all i'm saying is it's going to be hard to get with women talking that way. you're saying it doesn't matter what the culture is, he can be whichever way he wants, but that's not true. go find some undiscovered Amazonian tribe and try to court one of their women, see how that goes. just ignore the cultural boundaries.[/QUOTE]
your amazon analogy is way extreme than my Shakespeare one, considering that American culture is a mixture of European ones, the fact that you want americans to have the same default culture is fucking retarded to say the least, culture is an evolving variable, you cannot judge someone for the way they speak condemning to be alone in their love life, that's just childish.
[editline]18th March 2012[/editline]
At least in the long run, teenage relationship courtship 'rules' are naturally stupid and confusing, often relying on other people for a more personal opinion, hence your stance on being "socially awkward"
ITT the origins of love in anthropology
[QUOTE=KnowProblem;35182819]ITT the origins of love in anthropology[/QUOTE]
joking aside, it's an important aspect to know what love is, considering our biological roots
You guys are arguing over nothing, he came in here looking for social advice. Talking like Shakespeare is GENERALLY weird, no matter if there is the off chance that someone might like it. In general we have rules in society for things like that but there will always be exceptions and its pointless to argue about the exceptions.
wow, are you guys fucking serious.
no one is gonna have friends if they talk like shakespeare. besides being a bit hard to understand, you sound like a pretentious douche.
[QUOTE=Seith;35182687]That's like saying being fat naturally would make it harder for a person to be successful socially. That's wrong. Following those cultural patterns - clothing, behavior - is what make a person the same as everybody else thus creating a very common image which doesn't contribute, but lessen his impact upon talking to women.[/QUOTE]
are you kidding me? i'm not saying you need to be the exact same as everyone else in order to be successful, being unique is certainly important, but at the same time, you can't be so unique in some way that it becomes weird. common sense.
[QUOTE=DrBreen;35182852]joking aside, it's an important aspect to know [B]what love is[/B], considering our biological roots[/QUOTE]
Haddaway
*yawns*
Let's get super detail oriented here. Women love detail orientation.
All this about Dr Breen going on about how he's shakesperean or whatever the fuck he's on about I can't help but think of the socially awkward babbling nerds you get on the 'geek' stereotype shows like The Big Bang Theory or Will from the inbetweeners, babbling away on useless shit that gets him nowhere.
How do you become fun to be with?
dr breen virginity award 2012
[QUOTE=JohanGS;35183725]How do you become fun to be with?[/QUOTE]
Are you not fun to be with? If so who told you that? That's not very nice! I dunno if I could say what makes someone fun to be with, it's not like a goal or something, like having 17 cans of Dr Pepper in a day, that's something you can definitely work up to and accomplish and then tick it off your list. I'll tell you what I don't find fun in people though, it's when people constantly look for something to complain about in everything, or have like a default stance of being cynical about everything. It's like they think all opinions are assumed to have been more considered if they're bad ones. Don't be one of them, they're fun vacuums!
I'll tell you what though, I was seeing this girl a while a go briefly, and she told me about this guy who liked her who I used to know in school. And he'd say really juvenile things like "If I asked you out face-to-face what would you say?", bear in mind this guy was 20, not 14. Anyway so she goes on about how she's not attracted to him at all and she says he doesn't do anything, all their conversations are these small-talk-esque back and forths, and I was like "Yeah, he doesn't really have any stories to tell" and she said I'd hit the nail on the head, he had nothing to say.
What I'm getting at is do you do anything fun? You're not going to be fun to be with unless you're willing to go and have fun. I don't mean like do stuff that everyone thinks is fun that you don't like, I mean do stuff you find fun, and then... Well that's all I can think of. Sorry I'm so rubbish. Hope this helped in your funning endeavours.
[QUOTE=DrBreen;35182746]At least in the long run, teenage relationship courtship 'rules' are naturally stupid and confusing, often relying on other people for a more personal opinion, hence your stance on being "socially awkward"[/QUOTE]
Please don't take this the wrong way, but I think if you could look back on this in a couple of years you'll pull the same regret face I pull when my friends tell me what I got up last night to on a hangover marred morning. This doesn't make any sense. Teenage courtship rules? Their aren't any really, people go on dates with people they take a fancy to, and so do adults. The people who would try and make it sound any more mysterious might be doing so to reconcile with the fact that they can't get any. And naturally stupid and confusing? Naturally in relation to what? Like in relation to the person? As in like "man is not naturally adept for the gauntlet of teenage dating, and must rely on man-made inventions, like The Super Friendly Social And Love Advice Thread, lest the species perish." (read that in a david attenborough voice). I just, you know, it's just really hard to figure out if you actually have a point.
[QUOTE=ZombieDawgs;35183722]All this about Dr Breen going on about how he's shakesperean or whatever the fuck he's on about I can't help but think of the socially awkward babbling nerds you get on the 'geek' stereotype shows like The Big Bang Theory or Will from the inbetweeners, babbling away on useless shit that gets him nowhere.[/QUOTE]
I fucking hate TBBT and any show that showcases nerds/geeks by the old stereotypes
So tonight was pretty great.
I first went over to a friend to give him back his PS2 controllers he forgot two weeks ago. After chilling out at his place with some coffee we went for a drive and went to one part of town for a cup of coffee. Then we decided to call a friend (the girl that has been topical to me) and ask how the girls movie-night has been going and if we could come and visit (she was trying to get us in but no guys were allowed). We picked her up because she said it was boring over there and then we went to the first friends house.
Then we picked up a third friend from his place and then tried to find a place where to go to drink.
But since we found no place where no parents would be home we decided to go to my home because my parents are [I]cool as fuck[/I].
The night when on with laughter, music, general drunkness and open friendlyness.
At one part when we were outside smoking our subject went to girl/boyfriends and potential/occured sexual innuendo. That is where I did a rather clear implication on that I've found someone who has a personality who I just could not help to fall for and that she is in our prescence.
And well for what it seemed the two guys were thinking like they tought that it could work.
Today I'm going shopping with one of the guys and I tought that it would be a good chance to discuss about it with him, as he happens to be a very close friend of hers.
she sounds like she likes being around you guys, and if i were you, i'd just ask her out on my own. i've never personally done better when i involve friends to hook me up or anything, sometimes you just need to take initiative and handle it all yourself. if you trust him to sincerely help you out, then i suppose more power to you. good luck either way.
sup thread
so today me and my girlfriend were alone in my house, and things lead sexual. She got what she wanted out of it, so im not worried about that aspect, but well uhm.... I couldn't get a full on like... boner. and it's worrying me. alot. Admittedly, I was very very nervous as it was my first time, and my mom could have walked in my house at any time, plus i am very very fucking tired, but still, it worrys me. What can i do to make sure this doesn't happen again?
I mean like i was able to preform, but like it wasn't like completely hard like it should be! I'm really worried about this! what do?
I mean like i sort of lost it while i was fucking her. I didn't even finish..... I couldn't.... We tried twice too....
I think you were just too nervous, next time will be better
I'm sure you'll be fine once you're more comfortable with her, you said yourself you were nervous. I mean you can't be in the moment when you're doing all that worrying.
Relevant:
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bs1zz4zZhdM[/media]
yeah, the same thing happened to me the first couple tries, it's just stage-fright.
Well, you guys were having fun with my text.
I am weird. Most everyone I know is weird. But it works.
noob is right about it being uncommon, the way I communicate.
However, I have the uncanny ability to not be a social outcast.
I don't know how I do it, but I can squeeze into many different groups.
But when it comes down to it, I speak in three different ways: a lazy mumble when I am tired, a hyper jumble when I am excited, and fine English when I am normal.
You might think it is strange, but I, somehow, do manage to pull it off, and the execution is not as horrible as you think.
Thanks for the feedback, though, guys.
Well shit. I finally got my ex girlfriend to explain why she broke up with me. Apparently she's just absolutely convinced we're not right for each other. I still believe we are. Fuck.
[editline]18th March 2012[/editline]
We broke up 2 months ago. Fuuuuck
[editline]18th March 2012[/editline]
I just want a quiet, decent looking girl. Preferably with an interest in space and classic rock. Where do I find a girl like that?
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;35184607]she sounds like she likes being around you guys, and if i were you, i'd just ask her out on my own. i've never personally done better when i involve friends to hook me up or anything, sometimes you just need to take initiative and handle it all yourself. if you trust him to sincerely help you out, then i suppose more power to you. good luck either way.[/QUOTE]
I tried asking her out with no fly.
She said that she has a crush on someone else allready, but knowing her she will not make the initiative for it.
[editline]18th March 2012[/editline]
And yes, I trust him to help me out.
Careful man, if you've already asked her out that's reaching no-go status
I know.
I have to be rather careful.
[editline]18th March 2012[/editline]
I am now gonna stay quite low with it and try to wait for the moment where it would seem suitable to tell her how sincere I am about her.
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