The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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so she's just really clingy? you could go for it, but don't get too attached and make it easy on yourself to end it if she gets too unbearable
we're not even "official" and it's getting unbearable, oh well
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;35203422]So how was my day?
I went to the computer store with two friends, one whom is the girl.[/QUOTE]
this reminds me of a really awkward situation i had in my life where my girlfriend my friend and i went to some guy's shitty computer business store to get ram and the whole thing was run from the counter, so we had to ask him for everything. he thought we were a bunch of retards and wanted us to call him later and tell him the model of a custom built pc but we never talked to him again.
did you even do anything with the girl because it sounds just like average hanging out
If neediness is one of her traits and it annoys you that much then you have no business being with her. If you want to maintain the relationship, then talk to her (gently) about it, without saying 'you a needy bitch' or anything.
I've had this small crush on a girl that's been ongoing for a couple of months, but I never really thought much of it. Back in october we went to the movies and nothing really came out of that, but she still shows interest in me. I'm thinking about popping the question to see if she wants to go on to another date because over the past couple of weeks we seem to have really been talking a lot more and she seems to show a lot more interest in me than she did before. There is a small dilemma though, she has been dating this guy off and on now for probably a year, but he still follows her and eats lunch with her, It doesn't seem that they're just friends but everyone says they aren't dating.
I'm just trying to figure out if it would be smart to ask her on another date. I just think it wouldn't hurt to try and I already have a car, job and and stuff. I just figure it wouldn't hurt because I don't have much to lose, and we aren't "best" friends.
I regret posting for advice on this thread because I have the tendency to over think things a lot, and I'm making a really big deal out of nothing.
Hi again guys. Its been a while.
I'm going on a second "date" with the girl I like. It's at a school musical. Any advice (other than be yourself/freshen yourself up)?
[QUOTE=RIPBILLYMAYS;35212553]Hi again guys. Its been a while.
I'm going on a second "date" with the girl I like. It's at a school musical. Any advice (other than be yourself/freshen yourself up)?[/QUOTE]
leave the spagetti at home
good luck bro
[QUOTE=Mobon1;35211264]this reminds me of a really awkward situation i had in my life where my girlfriend my friend and i went to some guy's shitty computer business store to get ram and the whole thing was run from the counter, so we had to ask him for everything. he thought we were a bunch of retards and wanted us to call him later and tell him the model of a custom built pc but we never talked to him again.
did you even do anything with the girl because it sounds just like average hanging out[/QUOTE]
It was just average hanging out. But I was concidering being a bit more assertive and flirtatious the next time we hang out.
Ofcourse keeping a good read on her to know when to slow down when going too fast.
[editline]20th March 2012[/editline]
Seems like I will be going out with a girl for a cup of coffee some day soon to come.
[QUOTE=DrBreen;35211247]we're not even "official" and it's getting unbearable, oh well[/QUOTE]
Uh... tell her, talk to her?
It's better than hiding it until you burst and she gets hurt, right?
[QUOTE=technicsix;35212198]I've had this small crush on a girl that's been ongoing for a couple of months, but I never really thought much of it. Back in october we went to the movies and nothing really came out of that, but she still shows interest in me. I'm thinking about popping the question[/QUOTE]
I burst out laughing when I read this far :v:
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;35215770]I burst out laughing when I read this far :v:[/QUOTE]
You just don't understand his love~
Has anyone ever experienced that a girl is convinced that you are a lying when you give her compliments?
Since this girl I've been seeing almost sees me as a big liar whenever I tell her that I find her interesting. She is certain that I am just pretending and in reality think that she is dull.
Which is far.. far from the truth. In general people around her don't seem to care about the stuff that she does, acting and doing various artwork.
I genuinely think that it is interesting but there is no use in me trying to say it anymore. She refuses to believe me.
Girls with low self-esteem tend to do that
[QUOTE=CommanderPT;35218176]Has anyone ever experienced that a girl is convinced that you are a lying when you give her compliments?
Since this girl I've been seeing almost sees me as a big liar whenever I tell her that I find her interesting. She is certain that I am just pretending and in reality think that she is dull.
Which is far.. far from the truth. In general people around her don't seem to care about the stuff that she does, acting and doing various artwork.
I genuinely think that it is interesting but there is no use in me trying to say it anymore. She refuses to believe me.[/QUOTE]
Sounds like a way to get more compliments... or just genuine insecurity.
fishing for complements
Seems like I'm going out with a girl on friday.
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;35220288]Seems like I'm going out with a girl on friday.[/QUOTE]
Girl? Friday? How peculiar.
[QUOTE=1chains1;35216190]You just don't understand his love~[/QUOTE]
wat. i never stated that i was in love with her? im just seeing if i should attempt to further the relationship regarding the situation.
i probably didn't word it right, but whatever.
[QUOTE=technicsix;35220798]wat. i never stated that i was in love with her? im just seeing if i should attempt to further the relationship regarding the situation.
i probably didn't word it right, but whatever.[/QUOTE]
Is there a reason in mind should a man choose not try furthering a relationship towards intimacy, besides STDs?
Funny thing happened to me.
So I've been talking ti this girl from Sweden who's an aquaintance of a friend of mmine on facebook.
She just added me and instantly started talking to me.
After a few chats now and then she tells me she's coming to Portugal (my country) for some weeks to work and she would like to go out with me (not on a date), but just for some coffee and chatting. She also told me she talks Portuguese since she studied in Brazil and in fact she does.
She's a nice girl to talk to, but what I find suspicious is that she doesn't give me much details whenever I talk to her.
I don't know if you're seeing where I'm getting at, but for me I'm not used to just have a few online chats with someone and then just go out with a person from far away, just like that. I mean, the minute we had our second chat she tells me something like "Hey, I'm coming over to portugal next month, maybe we should meet".
Maybe I'm making a huge paranoia about all of this and probably I am, because I don't have problems going out with someone I just met online. The way I see things, she's going to work here for some time, doesn't know too many people and decided to make some friends while she's here.
What do you guys think? The only thing I know about what she's doing here is that she's working as a babysitter while in holidays here. I'm studying near the city where she's staying so it's just a matter of catching the train and off I go.
What do you guys think? Should I talk to her more and try to get more details about her, just to be safe. What do you guys think?
I'm accepting the invitation though, it's just coffee and chat, what could go wrong?
Also my english is kinda rusty so it's going to be hilarious on the first minutes :v:
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;35220979]Funny thing happened to me.
So I've been talking ti this girl from Sweden who's an aquaintance of a friend of mmine on facebook.
She just added me and instantly started talking to me.
After a few chats now and then she tells me she's coming to Portugal (my country) for some weeks to work and she would like to go out with me (not on a date), but just for some coffee and chatting. She also told me she talks Portuguese since she studied in Brazil and in fact she does.
She's a nice girl to talk to, but what I find suspicious is that she doesn't give me much details whenever I talk to her.
I don't know if you're seeing where I'm getting at, but for me I'm not used to just have a few online chats with someone and then just go out with a person from far away, just like that. I mean, the minute we had our second chat she tells me something like "Hey, I'm coming over to portugal next month, maybe we should meet".
Maybe I'm making a huge paranoia about all of this and probably I am, because I don't have problems going out with someone I just met online. The way I see things, she's going to work here for some time, doesn't know too many people and decided to make some friends while she's here.
What do you guys think? The only thing I know about what she's doing here is that she's working as a babysitter while in holidays here. I'm studying near the city where she's staying so it's just a matter of catching the train and off I go.
What do you guys think? Should I talk to her more and try to get more details about her, just to be safe. What do you guys think?
I'm accepting the invitation though, it's just coffee and chat, what could go wrong?
Also my english is kinda rusty so it's going to be hilarious on the first minutes :v:[/QUOTE]
Go for it, it sounds like she just wants to have someone she knows while shes there, makes the whole 'going to a new country and not knowing anyone' easier.
[QUOTE=Seith;35218468]Sounds like a way to get more compliments... or just genuine insecurity.[/QUOTE]
Has to be the latter since it doesn't matter what I say really.
[QUOTE=technicsix;35220798]wat. i never stated that i was in love with her? im just seeing if i should attempt to further the relationship regarding the situation.
i probably didn't word it right, but whatever.[/QUOTE]
It was a joke towards mako
fuck
just popped a coworker in the face with a small foam football on accident
i told him I'm sorry but he still seems pissed :c
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;35220979]Funny thing happened to me.
So I've been talking ti this girl from Sweden who's an aquaintance of a friend of mmine on facebook.
She just added me and instantly started talking to me.
After a few chats now and then she tells me she's coming to Portugal (my country) for some weeks to work and she would like to go out with me (not on a date), but just for some coffee and chatting. She also told me she talks Portuguese since she studied in Brazil and in fact she does.
She's a nice girl to talk to, but what I find suspicious is that she doesn't give me much details whenever I talk to her.
I don't know if you're seeing where I'm getting at, but for me I'm not used to just have a few online chats with someone and then just go out with a person from far away, just like that. I mean, the minute we had our second chat she tells me something like "Hey, I'm coming over to portugal next month, maybe we should meet".
Maybe I'm making a huge paranoia about all of this and probably I am, because I don't have problems going out with someone I just met online. The way I see things, she's going to work here for some time, doesn't know too many people and decided to make some friends while she's here.
What do you guys think? The only thing I know about what she's doing here is that she's working as a babysitter while in holidays here. I'm studying near the city where she's staying so it's just a matter of catching the train and off I go.
What do you guys think? Should I talk to her more and try to get more details about her, just to be safe. What do you guys think?
I'm accepting the invitation though, it's just coffee and chat, what could go wrong?
Also my english is kinda rusty so it's going to be hilarious on the first minutes :v:[/QUOTE]
Ela é um travesti e quer-te ir ao cu!!
Eurgh I'm having a crappy night, I've had a pretty alright day - did a presentation and didn't end up looking like too much of a nervous stuttering spazzock, but then this evening I just got the sort of feeling that everything's fucked. Like one of them proper realisation moments: hardly any money, no job and lots of uni deadlines. Then I had this [i]OhmygodWHATamIgoingtodoafteruni[/i] mind explosion that's kept me up til now when I should be asleep, and my social life has become a housemate-stagnation situation again.
Rant rant rant rant rant rant, I know. Soz about that!
[QUOTE=DrBreen;35223434]She's a shemale trying to anal rape you[/QUOTE]
That's my biggest fear my friend! :v:
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;35223851]That's my biggest fear my friend! :v:[/QUOTE]
seriously though be careful, you just never know
Now seriously. I'm not afraid. It's just that I had bad experiences with very weird girls.
Some of these going out after online chats costed me some embarrassing moments dealing with drunk girls in front of my friend's parents.
I mean this one time, one girl that I knew through myspace wanted to see me at some event and I was there with my ex's parents and she texted me asking if I was anywhere around. I was there so, I though - hey why not, let's go meet this girl . Ok when I got there she was drunk as fuck with a bottle of liquor in her hands, she was stupid as fuck and annoying as fuck. I tried to go back and escape meeting her as soon as I saw her, but it was too late, she saw me before I could turn back.
I just stayed there talking a bit, trying to find an excuse to go back to my ex gf (we were dating at that point) and her parents. Funny thing is she said "I'll go with you" and as much as I told her that I really needed to go.. ALONE. She followed me.
So she follows me with her half empty bottle of Moscatel Wine to the place where my gf and her mom was in order to leave and go back to the car and she started to introduce herself to my gf and her mom. I thought they were going to be pissed but my gf was just laughing. She followed us to the car, rambling about all crazy dumb shit she could muster, stumbling on the sidewalk. She could barely walk.
She followed us to the car. This one time I we had to walk down a slope and I thought to myself that she was going to kill herself there. Magically she didn't.
Well, she pursued us to the car, both me, my gf and her mom were trying to convince her to go back but she didn't listen. So right before we got into the car she tries to kiss me, I avoid, and she just vomits on the floor in front of me.
I just got into the car and left. I said I was sorry but both my gf and her mom were laughing about the situation as I explained the reason why she was following us and how I met her.
Of course I don't think this is going to happen with this girl, but my insecurity is the fact that I don't know much about her. Of course she's a decent girl and all, I'm certain of that, but I want to be safe.
I'm asking my swedish friend about her. I wanna know more details about her.
how do you get back with friends that you haven't talked to in a while?
i'm not sure if things ended on a high note, and i want to set the record straight, but i don't know to bring it there without making things awkward
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