• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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you want to kill yourself solely because of that girl?
[QUOTE=flamehead5;34551993]For sure, go fuck yourself, why does everyone assume that all suicidal people just want attention, I could give a flying fuck about attention, I want to fucking die, because my life is shit. Simple answer. [editline]5th February 2012[/editline] Ha. Ha. Ha. You sure do have a way of making a shitty situation worse.[/QUOTE] Well you've said you've been to a psychiatrist, so I don't know if an internet forum will be any more effective.
[QUOTE=socks;34552008]you want to kill yourself solely because of that girl?[/QUOTE] Because I do shitty in school, because 90% of the people I know hate me and devote their lives to making mine worse, because I have mental problems, because I live with a mother who doesn't give a shit about me whatsoever, because I feel so alone I can't stand it. That's why.
[QUOTE=flamehead5;34551530]What excellent advice for me, an antisocial overweight depressed paranoid suicidal teenager.[/QUOTE] [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WlBiLNN1NhQ[/media] Seriously. If you keep a good attitude you'll be sure to get out of it. I know it sounds hard as fuck but trust me it works.
[QUOTE=flamehead5;34551993]For sure, go fuck yourself, why does everyone assume that all suicidal people just want attention, I could give a flying fuck about attention, I want to fucking die, because my life is shit. Simple answer. [editline]5th February 2012[/editline] Ha. Ha. Ha. You sure do have a way of making a shitty situation worse.[/QUOTE]You need to step back and look at this situation in a more positive light. What is it that's making you feel like this? When you have a mental list of things that are making you be in a bad mood, strive to remove or fix those things. Instead of doing something stupid, you should fix your life to the standard that you want to be at. Start working out, start making regular visits to a psychologist; stop letting small things bring you down, it doesn't do any good. Trust me man, in 10 years from now you will look back and know that you made the right choice. [editline]4th February 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=flamehead5;34552055]Because I do shitty in school, because 90% of the people I know hate me and devote their lives to making mine worse, because I have mental problems, because I live with a mother who doesn't give a shit about me whatsoever, because I feel so alone I can't stand it. That's why.[/QUOTE]Fuck those people. Don't give them the satisfaction of you feeling like crap.
Also start working out. Little by little. You won't regret it, and it makes you feel great.
[QUOTE=flamehead5;34552055]Because I do shitty in school, because 90% of the people I know hate me and devote their lives to making mine worse, because I have mental problems, because I live with a mother who doesn't give a shit about me whatsoever, because I feel so alone I can't stand it. That's why.[/QUOTE] CALL ME BRO, SERIOUSLY I LOVE YOU AS A HUMAN BEING. I CAN TALK TO YOU./
Just asked a girl out after work. She smiled and said something to the effect of "I dunno, I'll have to see." I'd like to believe that she seriously has to check, but it seems pretty clear that she was being nice. It's not the end of the world or anything, but it does suck. In retrospect, that's not actually a request for advice, but it's kinda nice to talk about it.
[QUOTE=Oicani Gonzales;34552176]and do you think you're the only person in the planet that has problems? i could spend an hour whining, typing all the fucked up shit that has happened and happens in my life, but instead i deal with it and try to get the best of what i have. people that know me from school always say they're surprised to see how i'm a completely different person now. i was just like you, a depressed, underachieving and socially dead teenager. deal with it. feeling sorry for yourself and complaining about how much your life sucks wont do anything to get it any better. change things. i can say it because i've been there myself and managed to pull myself out of the shit a bit. go to a psychologist [B]asap[/B], take on a hobby, study more - occupying your time is great help. stay away from the people that get you down. start ignoring small things. start working and seeing alternatives to move out as soon as you can.[/QUOTE] leave it to the social thread on facepunch to come up with [i]great[/i] advice for a suicidal kid this is definitely the best way to handle the situation, right guys? just act like maverick, use that ol' toughen up and be alpha spiel!
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;34553053]leave it to the social thread on facepunch to come up with [i]great[/i] advice for a suicidal kid this is definitely the best way to handle the situation, right guys? just act like maverick, use that ol' toughen up and be alpha spiel![/QUOTE] Basically this
[QUOTE=Oicani Gonzales;34553100]was i rude at all, seriously? [editline]5th February 2012[/editline] if i was, i apologize, wasn't my intention at all. the last thing i want to do is sound like a dick[/QUOTE] well you said he was whining, and then went on to tell him how you deal with it better than he does because you dont whine about it then you talked about yourself for a bit then your last sentence or two had useful advice.
Leave it up to you dumb fucks to tell a suicidal kid "to man up, and quit crying" the kid is obviously depressed, and has some deep rooted problems if he is suicidal. Trying to apply your facade "ALPHA GUY FUCK YEAH" logic is the worst and last thing you should do.
I am pretty sure everyone offered him advice to see a psychologist and also gave him other options but he shot them down. Furthermore he is asking for help how to commit suicide and help for how to avoid it on an internet forum which is obviously not the brightest thing. All in all he doing something stupid and selfish that will harm people who care about him, but he keeps saying nothing will work. So in the end we can only offer options and if he doesn't pull himself up from the ground he can't do anything. So no, none of us are being some kind of "alpha" dude, we're telling him to grit his teeth and work towards helping himself as all he is doing is stagnating in self pity. So Jo, get off Oicani's back as he has good intentions and if you feel our way is not helping then YOU find an option we haven't listed and watch as he shoots it down.
[QUOTE=Oicani Gonzales;34552176]and do you think you're the only person in the planet that has problems? i could spend an hour whining, typing all the fucked up shit that has happened and happens in my life, but instead i deal with it and try to get the best of what i have. people that know me from school always say they're surprised to see how i'm a completely different person now. i was just like you, a depressed, underachieving and socially dead teenager.[/QUOTE] cut that bullshit out. it doesn't help.
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;34553560]Leave it up to [b]you dumb fucks[/b] to tell a suicidal kid "to man up, and quit crying" the kid is obviously depressed, and has some deep rooted problems if he is suicidal. Trying to apply your facade "ALPHA GUY FUCK YEAH" logic is the worst and last thing you should do.[/QUOTE]Literally one person said that, not everyone that was trying to help him
[QUOTE=flamehead5;34552055]Because I do shitty in school, because 90% of the people I know hate me and devote their lives to making mine worse, because I have mental problems, because I live with a mother who doesn't give a shit about me whatsoever, because I feel so alone I can't stand it. That's why.[/QUOTE] a lot of us felt exactly the same way too, shit sometimes i feel just like you do right now. but take a step back and understand that the situation, as bad as it is, will pass. you're not gonna be in school forever, the people you know will eventually disappear, and you can put your back to your mom the rest of your life. however, killing yourself means you skip the bad part and also skipping the parts worth living. assuming you are high school aged, i want you to know that you have a huge life ahead of you. if you can get some help, you should get it. anything, even just a friend will suffice. if you can't or don't want to do that, you can also post here. part of social advice is dealing with shit like this and it can be comforting to share what's bothering you with anonymity. here's a cute cliche: [img]http://2.bp.blogspot.com/--Zu6iiQeJEI/TyLBSn-wv_I/AAAAAAAABSU/UpJdKW7G47s/s1600/hanginthereKITTEN.jpg[/img]
[QUOTE=1chains1;34553667]I am pretty sure everyone offered him advice to see a psychologist and also gave him other options but he shot them down. Furthermore he is asking for help how to commit suicide and help for how to avoid it on an internet forum which is obviously not the brightest thing. All in all he doing something stupid and selfish that will harm people who care about him, but he keeps saying nothing will work. So in the end we can only offer options and if he doesn't pull himself up from the ground he can't do anything. So no, none of us are being some kind of "alpha" dude, we're telling him to grit his teeth and work towards helping himself as all he is doing is stagnating in self pity. So Jo, get off Oicani's back as he has good intentions and if you feel our way is not helping then YOU find an option we haven't listed and watch as he shoots it down.[/QUOTE] Going through the last two pages, I see you guys basically laughing at him and, I also see some really shitty advice such as "suck it up pussy" is a great way to phrase it up. No you guys are doing a really bad job at handling this, regardless of intentions. Thisispain seems to be the only person who has posted about this kid who has an idea on how to help him.
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;34553797]Going through the last two pages, I see you guys basically laughing at him and, I also see some really shitty advice such as "suck it up pussy" is a great way to phrase it up. No you guys are doing a really bad job at handling this, regardless of intentions. Thisispain seems to be the only person who has posted about this kid who has an idea on how to help him.[/QUOTE] Oh really? [quote]What excellent advice for me, an antisocial overweight depressed paranoid suicidal teenager.[/quote] First he posts this, which comes off extremely hostile already making me not want to help him. Also if he is so self aware he should go find professional help for these, not ask a tiny sub forum of a video game forum. Secondly: [quote]You want excellent advice? Go see a psychiatrist. [/quote] Right off the bat he gets a proper response that tells him exactly what to do and he does this: [quote][B]I have, multiple times[/B], someone already said that earlier and you know what, [B]that's the equivalent of saying "Piss off I don't have an answer for you and I don't really give a shit either."[/B] [/quote] He basically shoots down the advice and says "oh no that doesn't work for me I have only tried twice when there are millions of doctors and medications that can help me". He also continues to act hostile to help, who the fuck would want to help him on here when he says that kind of stuff? We had an interest to help him and threw it in our face. Further moreeeeee: [quote]There is literally nothing else that we can tell you Edited: [B]You're not even trying to get yourself in a better mood, you're just shooting down all the advice we're giving you[/B][/quote] We even give him advice how to get started on moving forward. [quote]It's the best advice y[B]ou could get over the internet. [/B][/quote] None of us are telling him to stop being a bitch, but there is no true way we can help him. Then he starts asking how to kill himself in another thread, how the fuck is that supposed to help him and if he is so eager to for help why is he blowing it all off? So yes, I can understand people starting to get annoyed and telling him to quit whining and follow the advice.
ugh shut up.
dramarama
hey guys how about we stop arguing and post super friendly social and love advice
amaramard
[QUOTE=thisispain;34554013]ugh shut up.[/QUOTE] That's a mature comeback, I pointed out how most of us had his interests in mind, and in the end only a professional should be giving him advice if he is on the level of committing suicide with a BB gun. So unless you know of some reason how my statements were wrong, I suggest you shut up.
[QUOTE=1chains1;34554128]That's a mature comeback, I pointed out how most of us had his interests in mind, and in the end only a professional should be giving him advice if he is on the level of committing suicide with a BB gun. So unless you know of some reason how my statements were wrong, I suggest you shut up.[/QUOTE] argue with scoutking somewhere else not here
[QUOTE=thisispain;34554152]argue with scoutking somewhere else not here[/QUOTE] I am arguing with anyone who had the mindset that we did not try to help. Also to get us back on topic of social advice, telling someone to shut up is not the brightest way to make them stop arguing, for future reference.
[QUOTE=1chains1;34554174]I am arguing with anyone who had the mindset that we did not try to help. Also to get us back on topic of social advice, telling someone to shut up is not the brightest way to make them stop arguing, for future reference.[/QUOTE] it works for adults.
[QUOTE=thisispain;34554196]it works for adults.[/QUOTE] I am hoping you were going for some witty humor here, if so it made me laugh.
I didn't realize there was a new thread. I'm so late
[QUOTE=Pascall;34554232]I didn't realize there was a new thread. I'm so late[/QUOTE] i'm so glad you could join us. as it happens, we were just starting to get flamehead5 to hang on there. please see kitten exhibit A.
stop [editline]5th February 2012[/editline] this never happened
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