• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;35259119]Raising the eyebrows is generally a sign of being surprised/taken aback at what is going on, in that case it sounds like you're acting affronted by the presence of the individuals you use it on No wonder they do it back :v:[/QUOTE] "in Western society, raising ones eyebrows up and down is a signal for the acceptance of social contact." [url]http://www.bodylanguageuniversity.com/public/191.cfm[/url]
thinking about it, i naturally do that anyway when i make eye contact with people it's making eye contact, a subtle smile and with that comes a little rise of the eyebrows i don't think he's suggesting you should go around like this to everyone [img]http://www.daygame.com/site/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/eyebrows.jpg[/img] but i think there's probably some truth in what he's saying. people seem to find me friendly and easy to approach, and like i said, i find i raise my eyebrows when i make eye contact
When I make eye contact I break down in tears and have to be escorted home
I literally push my eyes against theirs that's eye contact
I went to a party and all it resulted in was hiccups
you did it wrong
[QUOTE=Autumn;35266768]thinking about it, i naturally do that anyway when i make eye contact with people it's making eye contact, a subtle smile and with that comes a little rise of the eyebrows i don't think he's suggesting you should go around like this to everyone [img]http://www.daygame.com/site/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/eyebrows.jpg[/img] but i think there's probably some truth in what he's saying. people seem to find me friendly and easy to approach, and like i said, i find i raise my eyebrows when i make eye contact[/QUOTE] That's what I imagine when you say that :v: Also that would be pretty hilarious Maybe it does happen so commonly that it's under my radar or something. I'll watch for people doing it at me for a few days :v:
Girlfriend got "mad" at me because my foot (she doesnt like my caliced feet) touched her knee and she refused to kiss me and she would always playfully pull away whenever I got near her. I decided I would play along because noone likes a boring person It eventually turned into me chasing her all over her fucking dorm hallways, and going up and down the stairwells. So basically you got this 6'7 210 pound guy sprinting up and down the 3rd and 2nd floors of her all-female dorm being loud as FUCK until I eventually I caught up to her. Then I had to pick her ass up and carry her back to her room all the while she was grabbing on every object she could making it tiring as balls until I finally plopped her on the bed. Using my manly strength I managed to hold both of her wrists together with one hand and holding her head in place with the other so she couldnt move and I placed a big ol smooch on her lips, finally won that shit. Then we kissed and I touched her butt and boobs for a good 5 minutes. I ended up being sweaty as hell and now I have to take another shower
sounded a little rapey, but if you say it was consensual
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;35269490]sounded a little rapey, but if you say it was consensual[/QUOTE] She was giggling the entire time. I felt really weird the whole time though as it did feel rapey
[QUOTE=Jmir 54;35269443]Girlfriend got "mad" at me because my foot (she doesnt like my caliced feet) touched her knee and she refused to kiss me and she would always playfully pull away whenever I got near her. I decided I would play along because noone likes a boring person It eventually turned into me chasing her all over her fucking dorm hallways, and going up and down the stairwells. So basically you got this 6'7 210 pound guy sprinting up and down the 3rd and 2nd floors of her all-female dorm being loud as FUCK until I eventually I caught up to her. Then I had to pick her ass up and carry her back to her room all the while she was grabbing on every object she could making it tiring as balls until I finally plopped her on the bed. Using my manly strength I managed to hold both of her wrists together with one hand and holding her head in place with the other so she couldnt move and I placed a big ol smooch on her lips, finally won that shit. Then we kissed and I touched her butt and boobs for a good 5 minutes. I ended up being sweaty as hell and now I have to take another shower[/QUOTE] Next time on The Memoirs Of Jmir 54: Jmir befriends an injured bird and touches its butt STAY TUNED
The only girl in the entire school that I don't want to go out with is hitting on me. She's really nice, but like fucking EXTREMELY hyper. How can I even deal with this?
[QUOTE=Mr. Smartass;35270669]The only girl in the entire school that I don't want to go out with is hitting on me. She's really nice, but like fucking EXTREMELY hyper. How can I even deal with this?[/QUOTE] Are you sure she isn't just being really hyper around you like she might be with everybody? If you don't want to be with her, then if she suggests that she wants to be more than friends then politely let her know that you're not looking for a relationship with her. Don't let her fool herself into thinking she has a chance if she's only going to be disappointed.
Okay, I probably don't need advice (if you have some, though, by all means give it). So a little while ago I was on Facebook and was having a few drinks and generally enjoying myself when I get a video chat request from a girl I used to know a couple of years ago. So I say "Ah, what the hell," and press answer. So there's the one girl I know, sitting there with another one that I don't. They're both drunk. I say hi and we're chatting and everything and the subject gets onto drinking, then parties, then things she's done at parties. So she says "I once made out with a girl at a party," and I was like "Really, who?" She points at the girl next to her. And for some reason that night I was all smooth and bravelike [sp]alcohol[/sp] so I said "Would you be willing to demonstrate?" [IMG]http://i.somethingawful.com/forumsystem/emoticons/emot-mmmsmug.gif[/IMG] Then they did something that I really did not expect. They started making out! In my mind I'm thinking holy fuck this is hot. So I'm watching for a few minutes and they eventually stop. Then they both say "David you're sooooo cute! We should totally hang sometime!" I replied with "But you live like 200 miles away." again and again, but they don't seem to get there heads around that. Then one says "Oh I'm coming out to *the town I live in* and we'll hang out!" So I say that's pretty cool, and we stop chatting. Anyway so the next day I message her on Facebook. No response. And it's a month later and there's no response. :v: Now I know it's gonna be awkward when we meet next, haha. I don't care though. It was really fun.
[QUOTE=Crimptor;35270992]Okay, I probably don't need advice (if you have some, though, by all means give it). So a little while ago I was on Facebook and was having a few drinks and generally enjoying myself when I get a video chat request from a girl I used to know a couple of years ago. So I say "Ah, what the hell," and press answer. So there's the one girl I know, sitting there with another one that I don't. They're both drunk. I say hi and we're chatting and everything and the subject gets onto drinking, then parties, then things she's done at parties. So she says "I once made out with a girl at a party," and I was like "Really, who?" She points at the girl next to her. And for some reason that night I was all smooth and bravelike [sp]alcohol[/sp] so I said "Would you be willing to demonstrate?" [IMG]http://i.somethingawful.com/forumsystem/emoticons/emot-mmmsmug.gif[/IMG] Then they did something that I really did not expect. They started making out! In my mind I'm thinking holy fuck this is hot. So I'm watching for a few minutes and they eventually stop. Then they both say "David you're sooooo cute! We should totally hang sometime!" I replied with "But you live like 200 miles away." again and again, but they don't seem to get there heads around that. Then one says "Oh I'm coming out to *the town I live in* and we'll hang out!" So I say that's pretty cool, and we stop chatting. Anyway so the next day I message her on Facebook. No response. And it's a month later and there's no response. :v: Now I know it's gonna be awkward when we meet next, haha. I don't care though. It was really fun.[/QUOTE] I'm not entirely sure with what you want advice with if you don't care about it. Though perhaps you should just leave her a message if you want to talk to her again - she may have potentially looked back at her message history with you after sobering up and not liking it at all. Or maybe she's embarrassed. But perhaps you should just try to patch things up.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;35261021]you're at that stage where you think that anyone who's different from you is somehow inferior to you as well [editline]23rd March 2012[/editline] also known as "rusty100-syndrome"[/QUOTE] no, rusty100-syndrome isn't when you think everyone who's different is inferior to you its when everyone is inferior to you!!
[QUOTE=ForgotPassword;35272359]Literally huh? That sounds very uncomfortable for the other person. And unhealthy.[/QUOTE] Naw Lukeo knows the risks, he wears contacdoms(tm)
Sometimes when I'm not paying attention to what I'm looking at I end up subconsciously staring at people. It makes people think I'm a weirdo.
[QUOTE=Slacker996;35272470]Sometimes when I'm not paying attention to what I'm looking at I end up subconsciously staring at people. It makes people think I'm a weirdo.[/QUOTE] Everyone zones out now and then, nothing strange about it.
[QUOTE=Crimptor;35270992]Okay, I probably don't need advice (if you have some, though, by all means give it). So a little while ago I was on Facebook and was having a few drinks and generally enjoying myself when I get a video chat request from a girl I used to know a couple of years ago. So I say "Ah, what the hell," and press answer. So there's the one girl I know, sitting there with another one that I don't. They're both drunk. I say hi and we're chatting and everything and the subject gets onto drinking, then parties, then things she's done at parties. So she says "I once made out with a girl at a party," and I was like "Really, who?" She points at the girl next to her. And for some reason that night I was all smooth and bravelike [sp]alcohol[/sp] so I said "Would you be willing to demonstrate?" [IMG]http://i.somethingawful.com/forumsystem/emoticons/emot-mmmsmug.gif[/IMG] Then they did something that I really did not expect. They started making out! In my mind I'm thinking holy fuck this is hot. So I'm watching for a few minutes and they eventually stop. Then they both say "David you're sooooo cute! We should totally hang sometime!" I replied with "But you live like 200 miles away." again and again, but they don't seem to get there heads around that. Then one says "Oh I'm coming out to *the town I live in* and we'll hang out!" So I say that's pretty cool, and we stop chatting. Anyway so the next day I message her on Facebook. No response. And it's a month later and there's no response. :v: Now I know it's gonna be awkward when we meet next, haha. I don't care though. It was really fun.[/QUOTE] they were both drunk, don't take anything they say seriously, just enjoy that they made out for you
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35260569]Um, yeah.[/QUOTE] Care to explain why?
[QUOTE=Icyanimal;35274371]Care to explain why?[/QUOTE] we already did on the next page
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;35274389]we already did on the next page[/QUOTE] You just said it was ignorant, but how exactly is it a "bad" thing? Plus, it always seem like every single female on earth hates me too, so, why not hate them back? OK I don't know how to say what I'm trying to say without sounding like a dick :v:.
Ignorant: Lacking knowledge or awareness in general; uneducated or unsophisticated. I'd say that's pretty bad and unlikable. I don't get how you can just flat out hate anyone that's a woman or man, it's just dumb. It's like saying I hate everyone for no reason, don't judge me it's who I am.
[QUOTE=Icyanimal;35274767]You just said it was ignorant, but how exactly is it a "bad" thing? Plus, it always seem like every single female on earth hates me too, so, why not hate them back? OK I don't know how to say what I'm trying to say without sounding like a dick :v:.[/QUOTE] because you have an incredible amount of self-pity that you use to justify your complete generalization, so youre gonna sound like a dick no matter what
[QUOTE=Icyanimal;35274767]You just said it was ignorant, but how exactly is it a "bad" thing? [B]Plus, it always seem like every single female on earth hates me too, so, why not hate them back?[/B] OK I don't know how to say what I'm trying to say without sounding like a dick :v:.[/QUOTE] This is probably a problem with either A) The people you are around and/or socialise with. B) Yourself I vote B since you're saying 'If you don't like me, I don't like you either!" that's pretty childish in my eyes, like throwing your toys out of a pram because you couldn't go and see the dog across the road or something.
[QUOTE=ZombieDawgs;35274848]This is probably a problem with either A) The people you are around and/or socialise with. B) Yourself I vote B since you're saying 'If you don't like me, I don't like you either!" that's pretty childish in my eyes, like throwing your toys out of a pram because you couldn't go and see the dog across the road or something.[/QUOTE] But why try to like someone that doesn't like you back?
[QUOTE=Icyanimal;35274881]But why try to like someone that doesn't like you back?[/QUOTE] When you hate them they'll pick up on your vibes and feel a similar thing towards you. If you make an effort to like them and you're a good person to be around they're not going to hate you are they? Why would they have any reason to hate you? [i]hate is a really strong word[/i]
[QUOTE=Anthrax713;35274945]When you hate them they'll pick up on your vibes and feel a similar thing towards you. If you make an effort to like them and you're a good person to be around they're not going to hate you are they?[/QUOTE] I always try to be the nicest whenever I'm talking to new people, and very rarely are they nice back.
[QUOTE=Icyanimal;35274965]I always try to be the nicest whenever I'm talking to new people, and very rarely are they nice back.[/QUOTE] -mean comment-
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