• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
    10,002 replies, posted
does she wear hats or is it just all dome?
Straight dome, but it's quite feminine and lovely and such. I am compelled to romantic action by her fuzzy scalp. [editline]24th March 2012[/editline] And well proportioned body. [editline]24th March 2012[/editline] Also she has nice teeth, but that's not really a "thing." Just an observation.
bda you need to either do something or stop obsessing over this girl
yeah don't wanna pass by this domed well-proportioned woman with nice teeth
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;35282633]bda you need to either do something or stop obsessing over this girl[/QUOTE] It's totally not an obsession, that makes it sound very weird! I am exaggerating my feelings because that is what I do! I am poetic and shit. [QUOTE=thisispain;35282645]yeah don't wanna pass by this domed well-proportioned woman with nice teeth[/QUOTE] Judge me not. I swear, I'm totally gonna charm the heck out of her just as soon as I remember how and have the opportunity.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35282684]It's totally not an obsession, that makes it sound very weird! I am exaggerating my feelings because that is what I do! I am poetic and shit. Judge me not. I swear, I'm totally gonna charm the heck out of her just as soon as I remember how and have the opportunity.[/QUOTE] You swore! I'm holding you to that. Even if it didn't involve pinkies.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35282684] Judge me not. I swear, I'm totally gonna charm the heck out of her just as soon as I remember how and have the opportunity.[/QUOTE] i'll start questioning your masculinity if you don't go for this.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35282396]Scenes unfold differently in my brain than they often do in real life. In my brain, I suavely get Hot Coffee Girl's name and number and charm her with my inherent goofiness and lack of grace, but in real life the manager takes my order while Hot Coffee Girl does dishes in the kitchen, and I linger by the pastry window hoping to trade a smile as she comes out to bus glasses. That tears it! Next time HCG is in, I'm definitely getting her name and asking for her number! I just need to figure out a way to do it that doesn't mess up our sweet coffee dynamic. I can totally handle a rejection, but I can't risk my coffee supply.[/QUOTE] saw you were after some head shavey goodness. let me tell you man, its as awesome as you think and most of the time those girls are cool as hell so im gonna help you out. i'd wait until the day she is out front makin your coffee before talking to her. This way you wont try to talk to her under strained (awkward) circumstances by pulling her out of the back. during this time i'd get my hair cut and beard trimmed, which will help you feel that much more awesome when you talk to her. dont linger by the pastries, sit at a table or something. if you want, it can be within eyeshot of her so you can see if she comes back out to the register. go back up ask for a cookie or something. dont worry, the time will come when she'll be up there and you can get some easy face time. just be cool man and talk about whatever, and if you feel like its a good time to ask for her number, do it. "you know, you seem pretty cool... etc" it might help you to set up a time constraint early on. pretend like you have a thing to be to. That way if you feel the conversation will run very dry very soon, you can effortlessly bail. this strategy helped me out a shitload. good luck gettin some of that sweet sweet head fuzz
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35282684] I swear, I'm totally gonna charm the heck out of her just as soon as I remember how and have the opportunity.[/QUOTE] A good opportunist grabs hold of opportunities, a great opportunist creates opportunities. Stop waiting for the "perfect time" and just do it.
I appreciate the advice and intentions, but I'm pretty much good to go with this! I don't know exactly how it'll play out, but I'm pretty comfortable talking to people and asking a girl out doesn't scare me any. I just thought it might be a bit weird to go back into the kitchen and say, "I couldn't help but notice that you were back here washing dishes. So, how you doing?"
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35285310]I appreciate the advice and intentions, but I'm pretty much good to go with this! I don't know exactly how it'll play out, but I'm pretty comfortable talking to people and asking a girl out doesn't scare me any. I just thought it might be a bit weird to go back into the kitchen and say, "I couldn't help but notice that you were back here washing dishes. So, how you doing?"[/QUOTE] Of course it'd be ridiculous to greet her and her dishes at such an inopportune time, but the point we're making is that you seem to be beating around the bush with asking out this girl. You got this man. Fuckin' do it. Also, some of my own shit: Second date got a little fucked up, we acidentally went to 2 different restaraunts in our town (which have the same name, mind you). So I finally got to her an hour later after she'd already finished eating and paying the bill, and I made it up to her by going to a movie and paying for everything. The best thing was that since I had a panic attack all the way to the restaraunt to meet her, I basically flushed out all my anxiety and was completely chill when I talked to her. She seemed surprisingly ok with all of this, and told me not to beat myself up over it. And also that she wanted to go out a few more times and get to know me better before we're anything for certain. All in all a shitload better than expected, though I missed out on some delicous belgian waffles.
So, I've known this girl since the beginning of the school year and only recently have we become closer. Since we go to film school together, she asked me to help on her final project, a short film, and I was able to help make it exactly the way she wanted it. From then on she has been extremely grateful and we've become somewhat better friends. We've gotten lunch with other friends and talk pretty often, almost always in person. The other day we got breakfast/lunch, just the two of us. It wasn't a date or anything. I could tell it was pretty awkward, as I usually am, but I still get mixed signs. Recently we both helped on a shoot in which we had to drive to for about an hour with a few other people. The entire time I was almost silent and couldn't help, but think that I had no chance with her as the other guys who were in the car showed much, much more confidence and made her laugh and everything, while I just sat there and just felt insignificant. The strange thing though is that she hasn't ever asked them for help or hungout with them as much as me, at least not to my knowledge. Am I just another friend or is there a chance? She responds to the other guys much more positively, while between us, it seems awkward.
Ok so it seems i've become the guy that just gets incredibly mad at every single girl he meets. After 3 years of chasing the one same girl and having 3 failed relationships with her its just made me angry. I don't even get sad anymore . I just want to punch her in the fucking face. And everytime i see a guy post on her facebook i just want to fucking stab him. Why do girls make me angrier than anything else in this stupid world?
i think you should go and see someone...
Man and I thought there was only a few crazies on facepunch.
Okay so i went to a party and got drunk. My friend said that his sister has been onto me for some time. He encouraged me to "try her". Okay after a while his sister started kissing me in a doorway and stuff. Not really romantic, i know. Now that its all over and we are both sober, and im sort of interested, how should i approach her?
[QUOTE=Str4fe;35287825]Okay so i went to a party and got drunk. My friend said that his sister has been onto me for some time. He encouraged me to "try her". Okay after a while his sister started kissing me in a doorway and stuff. Not really romantic, i know. Now that its all over and we are both sober, and im sort of interested, how should i approach her?[/QUOTE] "yeah we just made out and stuff how do i approach her???????" forum never ceases to amaze me
[QUOTE=Str4fe;35287825]Okay so i went to a party and got drunk. My friend said that his sister has been onto me for some time. He encouraged me to "try her". Okay after a while his sister started kissing me in a doorway and stuff. Not really romantic, i know. Now that its all over and we are both sober, and im sort of interested, how should i approach her?[/QUOTE] Don't operate on the assumption that it's gonna happen again. She was drunk. Just ask her out to a movie or lunch or whatever the fuck you want.
[QUOTE=Rusty100;35287954]"yeah we just made out and stuff how do i approach her???????" forum never ceases to amaze me[/QUOTE] NO. The point is, she has had a crush with me for a LONG time. And we were drunk, hey. Stuff happens.
[QUOTE=Str4fe;35288189]NO. The point is, she has had a crush with me for a LONG time. And we were drunk, hey. Stuff happens.[/QUOTE] "hey, wanna go out for a coffee some time?" like omg seriouslyshe likes u uve already made out ask her out its not hard my post was a triangle
True. [editline]25th March 2012[/editline] Its just that im a bit confused.
[QUOTE=MrCrumbCake;35285618]So, I've known this girl since the beginning of the school year and only recently have we become closer. Since we go to film school together, she asked me to help on her final project, a short film, and I was able to help make it exactly the way she wanted it. From then on she has been extremely grateful and we've become somewhat better friends. We've gotten lunch with other friends and talk pretty often, almost always in person. The other day we got breakfast/lunch, just the two of us. It wasn't a date or anything. I could tell it was pretty awkward, as I usually am, but I still get mixed signs. Recently we both helped on a shoot in which we had to drive to for about an hour with a few other people. The entire time I was almost silent and couldn't help, but think that I had no chance with her as the other guys who were in the car showed much, much more confidence and made her laugh and everything, while I just sat there and just felt insignificant. The strange thing though is that she hasn't ever asked them for help or hungout with them as much as me, at least not to my knowledge. Am I just another friend or is there a chance? She responds to the other guys much more positively, while between us, it seems awkward.[/QUOTE] no, sorry, she's pretty clearly not interested man. just keep looking.
A few weeks ago I was a little drunk and texted this girl to come over to the house I was at because I "wanted to see her!" Well we all know what that really means, and her boyfriend did too. She didn't seem to mind (heh heh) but her boyfriend and I are no longer on speaking terms (he's really unstable from what I gather). This was almost a month ago. Anyway last night she texted me saying "I have news..." and when I asked what the news was she replied, "Single..." I can't help but feel partially responsible, especially because ever since the whole texting business she was telling our mutual gay friend with a big mouth that they've been having big problems. She's really hot though, and the only other guy she specifically texted with the news was our mutual gay friend. Is it crass to take that as a signal?
If he was unstable and would get in a fuss over something like that they'd have broken up eventually. Get on the rebound. :v:
[QUOTE=Str4fe;35288429]True. [editline]25th March 2012[/editline] Its just that im a bit confused.[/QUOTE] wowwwwww just ask her to go out for a drink okayokay please. even if she says no she'll just be like "oh he probs thought that kiss meant something oh well" it's not a big deal you've even got something you can have banter about because you've already got on her so it's not gonna be a stale ass date ps. stop thinking
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35289134]A few weeks ago I was a little drunk and texted this girl to come over to the house I was at because I "wanted to see her!" Well we all know what that really means, and her boyfriend did too. She didn't seem to mind (heh heh) but her boyfriend and I are no longer on speaking terms (he's really unstable from what I gather). This was almost a month ago. Anyway last night she texted me saying "I have news..." and when I asked what the news was she replied, "Single..." I can't help but feel partially responsible, especially because ever since the whole texting business she was telling our mutual gay friend with a big mouth that they've been having big problems. She's really hot though, and the only other guy she specifically texted with the news was our mutual gay friend. Is it crass to take that as a signal?[/QUOTE] yeahh, i'd definitely see where she wanted to go with that. especially since she only texted two people, one of them being you, when you were the one trying to get with her not too long ago.
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;35289432]wowwwwww just ask her to go out for a drink okayokay please. even if she says no she'll just be like "oh he probs thought that kiss meant something oh well" it's not a big deal you've even got something you can have banter about because you've already got on her so it's not gonna be a stale ass date ps. stop thinking[/QUOTE] I just asked her out. We kissed again, so im gonna do this a couple of weeks maybe and if theres still something between us after that, then i'll go stable with her. Is that right?
[QUOTE=Str4fe;35291289]I just asked her out. We kissed again, so im gonna do this a couple of weeks maybe and if theres still something between us after that, then i'll go stable with her. Is that right?[/QUOTE] nice one. i wouldn't really bother thinking ahead and as deeply as that though. if you enjoy her company then see her... you'll know when it feels right to decide to officially call it a relationship have fun bro
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;35291412]nice one. i wouldn't really bother thinking ahead and as deeply as that though. if you enjoy her company then see her... you'll know when it feels right to decide to officially call it a relationship have fun bro[/QUOTE] Yeah, but even if i felt right i wouldnt officially call it a relationship if we have only been dating a week.
why is time a factor? if you two like each other and decide to go exclusive for the foreseeable future, even if you met yesterday, you're in a relationship.
Sorry, you need to Log In to post a reply to this thread.