• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=lum1naire;35361910]Haha fuck I just learned the girl I've been swooning over for the past 7 months, that my best friend also likes her. He's been such a good friend about it and not gettin involved, but now I think she might like him too. Looks like it's time for me to exit the picture :([/QUOTE] This doesn't happen to me, because I fall in love with every girl.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35366236]This doesn't happen to me, because I fall in love with every girl.[/QUOTE] I wish I could do that, tell me your secret?
[QUOTE=Autumn;35348180]i don't agree with it being a "personality issue", but i do agree that being overweight shows a lack of self respect, and self respect is important if you want anybody else to ever respect you (for whatever reasons)[/QUOTE] I was overweight, and I can confirm this. People who rate dumb just won't get it.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;35364537]dont come clean about how you really feel, thats just dumb make a move or something, dont just tell her "IVE ALWAYS LOVED YOU"[/QUOTE] I'm going to confort her about one misunderstanding; I never was a guy friend whom suddenly wants more (which she apparently tough), how I already fell for her personality a long time ago, how I allways had a genuine interest in her because no other girl has made me feel such a wide array of strong emotions and that I've never could have imagined that I would meet someone like her. (I just wrote 3 pages about this, but then I noticed how overboard it was) I will also try to make some moves at every chance I get.
What's your favourite textiles for hats? If you're a hatter.
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;35368044]I'm going to confort her about one misunderstanding; I never was a guy friend whom suddenly wants more (which she apparently tough), how I already fell for her personality a long time ago, how I allways had a genuine interest in her because no other girl has made me feel such a wide array of strong emotions and that I've never could have imagined that I would meet someone like her. (I just wrote 3 pages about this, but then I noticed how overboard it was) I will also try to make some moves at every chance I get.[/QUOTE] Sounds like a good chick flick, seriously. Don't let those feelings control you, because impulsive actions really never pay off.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;35364537]dont come clean about how you really feel, thats just dumb make a move or something, dont just tell her "IVE ALWAYS LOVED YOU"[/QUOTE] yeah.. that's the truth, deep down i feel like everything would be better if there was just love and honesty
[QUOTE=RIPBILLYMAYS;35364876]TL;DR-Got friendzoned[/QUOTE] no you didn't. she never saw you as a sexual interest. you're just a friend. one day she may see you as a sexual interest (maybe if you get a better haircut or stop acting like a pussy or something). one day something may happen. people need to stop indoctrinating themselves into this urban myth
You call it a myth, yet accept it. The only difference, is you don't like it being called a "friend zone"
why would i accept it? i used to think it was a real thing. it gave me an excuse for sexual failure and an excuse to give up. but i've broken out of the non-existent zone so many times now i refuse to believe in it. it's just an explanation for idiots who can't accept that anything other than bad timing ruined their attempt to get pussy
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;35369768]why would i accept it? i used to think it was a real thing. it gave me an excuse for sexual failure and an excuse to give up. but i've broken out of the non-existent zone so many times now i refuse to believe in it. it's just an explanation for idiots who can't accept that anything other than bad timing ruined their attempt to get pussy[/QUOTE] I have already posted that this is more than timing. To say it's timing is to say you have only broken out of it because it was sheer luck. Define "timing". Also, it seems like you refuse to accept it, but refusing to accept something is saying something is real. The whole reason as to why it happens, getting "friendzoned" is wrong. You can call it what ever, but it still exists.
"oh no i left it too long to ask her out so now i've been friendzoned oh well i just timed it badly" "DUDE ask her out RIGHT NOW because if you leave it too long and mess up the TIMING then you'll get friendzoned" [QUOTE=Seith;35369789]Also, it seems like you refuse to accept it, but refusing to accept something is saying something is real. The whole reason as to why it happens, getting "friendzoned" is wrong. You can call it what ever, but it still exists.[/QUOTE] what no it's just not real in the sense that most people believe it to be. it's not a zone. it's not a physical thing. it's nothing. it's not worth talking about at all. sometimes you are friends with someone and sometimes you will remain friends and sometimes you will get to shag her anyway giving it this official title of irrefutable truth puts a label on it that is completely unnecessary again, it's just an excuse for idiots. it's like those stupid non-existent mental conditions with the really wishy-washy symptoms like "do you feel sad sometimes?" that gives nerds on forums an excuse to say "I SUFFER WITH X Y AND Z AND THEREFORE I CAN'T TALK TO GIRLS" [editline]31st March 2012[/editline] seith considering you're the guy who says it's possible to be BRO TEAM ALPHA MALE MK.2 i'm really surprised you're championing the friendzone as a legitimate thing
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;35369807]no it's just not real in the sense that most people believe it to be. it's not a zone. it's not a physical thing. it's nothing. it's not worth talking about at all. sometimes you are friends with someone and sometimes you will remain friends and sometimes you will get to shag her anyway giving it this official title of irrefutable truth puts a label on it that is completely unnecessary again, it's just an excuse for idiots. it's like those stupid non-existent mental conditions with the really wishy-washy symptoms like "do you feel sad sometimes?" that gives nerds on forums an excuse to say "I SUFFER WITH X Y AND Z AND THEREFORE I CAN'T TALK TO GIRLS" [editline]31st March 2012[/editline] seith considering you're the guy who says it's possible to be BRO TEAM ALPHA MALE MK.2 i'm really surprised you're championing the friendzone as a legitimate thing[/QUOTE] I don't think Seith's saying it's an irrefutable truth, but that the term does have some truth to it. If you leave asking out a girl for too long, she'll think of you as a friend because any confident guy who wanted to go out with her would've have done it sooner, she's not categorising you into "potential love interest" but into "cool stuff I did with friends". Yes you can still fuck your friends (alcohol comes to mind) and no, the zone doesn't actually exist, it's just a blanket term for waiting too long to ask out a girl, bad timing. We aren't condoning people labelling themselves with disorders nor do we believe in it. Besides, the kind of guy who waits a long time to ask a girl out would be the type of guy who confesses all his feelings after he's knew the girl for a while and make it all awkward. Bare in mind we're talking relationships here, not just fucking.
that makes much more sense than seith's cryptic posts thank you
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;35369807]"oh no i left it too long to ask her out so now i've been friendzoned oh well i just timed it badly" "DUDE ask her out RIGHT NOW because if you leave it too long and mess up the TIMING then you'll get friendzoned" what no it's just not real in the sense that most people believe it to be. it's not a zone. it's not a physical thing. it's nothing. it's not worth talking about at all. sometimes you are friends with someone and sometimes you will remain friends and sometimes you will get to shag her anyway giving it this official title of irrefutable truth puts a label on it that is completely unnecessary again, it's just an excuse for idiots. it's like those stupid non-existent mental conditions with the really wishy-washy symptoms like "do you feel sad sometimes?" that gives nerds on forums an excuse to say "I SUFFER WITH X Y AND Z AND THEREFORE I CAN'T TALK TO GIRLS"[/QUOTE] While the idea behind what you are saying is solid, there are still a few contradictions; 1. Timing can be a part of the problem, but the "timing" results from poor understanding and weak male behavior. It's not the sole reason for why people become "friends" with a woman instead of lovers. 2. While you don't want to accept it as just something unbreakable, undeniable, it is still something you realize exists, just in a different term . I say this because [i]sometimes you are friends with someone and sometimes you will remain friends and sometimes you will get to shag her anyway[/i] indicates that even though you refuse to accept it and won't quit just because there's such a thing, you still believe it. Refusing to accept is saying something exists, so you can't just say it doesn't exist when you obviously believe it. 3. Never realized people used it as an excuse actually, thanks. 4. I am saying it exists, not that I use it as an excuse.
that makes a lot of sense actually
Ah crap yesterday at my friend's party I had to take a piss so I went outside and instantly unzipped my pants. After realising I was pissing in the middle of his terrace garden I decided to walk to the hedge while I was still pissing. I walked past a few poeple and continued pissing. Then suddenly someone shoved me and when I looked back I realised I pissed over the shoes ( And maybe a part of her legs. I don't know for sure ) of my friend's girlfriend withoud realising it... She was mad as hell and everyone already noticed that she was not happy that night. I instantly panicked and couldn't mumble anything than sorry but my friends all started to laugh really hard. The girl cycled away crying but my friends didn't take it seriously and only made puns about the situation ( That was the drop that makes the bucket flow-over! ). Then my friend came outside, told me to shut up and not think about it because they already had problems and went after his girlfriend. They broke up the next day...
[QUOTE=cheezey;35370052]Ah crap yesterday at my friend's party I had to take a piss so I went outside and instantly unzipped my pants. After realising I was pissing in the middle of his terrace garden I decided to walk to the hedge while I was still pissing. I walked past a few poeple and continued pissing. Then suddenly someone shoved me and when I looked back I realised I pissed over the shoes of my friend's girlfriend withoud realising it... She was mad as hell and everyone already noticed that she was not happy that night. I instantly panicked and couldn't mumble anything than sorry but my friends all started to laugh really hard. The girl cycled away crying but my friends didn't take it seriously and only made puns about the situation ( That was the drop that makes the bucket flow-over! ). Then my friend came outside, told me to shut up and not think about it because they already had problems and went after his girlfriend. They broke up the next day...[/QUOTE] I highly doubt accidental pissing on his girlfriend shoes is the cause of the breakup.
[QUOTE=cheezey;35370052]Ah crap yesterday at my friend's party I had to take a piss so I went outside and instantly unzipped my pants. After realising I was pissing in the middle of his terrace garden I decided to walk to the hedge while I was still pissing. I walked past a few poeple and continued pissing. Then suddenly someone shoved me and when I looked back I realised I pissed over the shoes of my friend's girlfriend withoud realising it... She was mad as hell and everyone already noticed that she was not happy that night. I instantly panicked and couldn't mumble anything than sorry but my friends all started to laugh really hard. The girl cycled away crying but my friends didn't take it seriously and only made puns about the situation ( That was the drop that makes the bucket flow-over! ). Then my friend came outside, told me to shut up and not think about it because they already had problems and went after his girlfriend. They broke up the next day...[/QUOTE] Seems like they would have broken up anyway Cheezey, with your assistance or not. Would any normal person start crying and running away over someone pissing on their shoes? Either she's mentally unstable or she was really stressed out over other major problems, none of which were your fault. Seith beat me to it
I need advice: I'm still virgin. Sometimes because of hormones i want to find prostitute and fuck her, but after masturbation, I'm loosing all my interest on sexual satisfaction. And continuing my work(study or programing). It happens nearly 3 times per week. My brain's some part says: Go find prostitute, and fuck her, it will be awesome. Other part is like: No man, you can just masturbate, and save your virginity to your love. What you [B][U]think[/U][/B] i should do?
[QUOTE=Kastro;35370108]I need advice: I'm still virgin. Sometimes because of hormones i want to find prostitute and fuck her, but after masturbation, I'm loosing all my interest on sexual satisfaction. And continuing my work(study or programing). It happens nearly 3 times per week. My brain's some part says: Go find prostitute, and fuck her, it will be awesome. Other part is like: No man, you can just masturbate, and save your virginity to your love. What you [B][U]think[/U][/B] i should do?[/QUOTE] Have you ever considered perhaps trying to get a girlfriend? :v: Or at the very least getting drunk at a party and fucking a girl there, would be cheaper than a prostitute.
[QUOTE=Kastro;35370108]What you [B][U]think[/U][/B] i should do?[/QUOTE] chill the fuck out
Why were you walking around while you were pissing ahahaha
Should've just stood in the middle of the party and spun around while pissing for maximum effect
Successfully hooked up with a beautiful red head last night, gum swap and all. Everything is copacetic. [editline]31st March 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Kastro;35370108]I need advice: I'm still virgin. Sometimes because of hormones i want to find prostitute and fuck her, but after masturbation, I'm loosing all my interest on sexual satisfaction. And continuing my work(study or programing). It happens nearly 3 times per week. My brain's some part says: Go find prostitute, and fuck her, it will be awesome. Other part is like: No man, you can just masturbate, and save your virginity to your love. What you [B][U]think[/U][/B] i should do?[/QUOTE] Get off your fucking pity potty and chat up some females at a party. It's not that difficult.
[QUOTE=Kastro;35370108]I need advice: I'm still virgin. Sometimes because of hormones i want to find prostitute and fuck her, but after masturbation, I'm loosing all my interest on sexual satisfaction. And continuing my work(study or programing). It happens nearly 3 times per week. My brain's some part says: Go find prostitute, and fuck her, it will be awesome. Other part is like: No man, you can just masturbate, and save your virginity to your love. What you [B][U]think[/U][/B] i should do?[/QUOTE] I think you just need to sit back and take a breather.
[QUOTE=cheezey;35370052]Ah crap yesterday at my friend's party I had to take a piss so I went outside and instantly unzipped my pants. After realising I was pissing in the middle of his terrace garden I decided to walk to the hedge while I was still pissing. I walked past a few poeple and continued pissing. Then suddenly someone shoved me and when I looked back I realised I pissed over the shoes of my friend's girlfriend withoud realising it... She was mad as hell and everyone already noticed that she was not happy that night. I instantly panicked and couldn't mumble anything than sorry but my friends all started to laugh really hard. The girl cycled away crying but my friends didn't take it seriously and only made puns about the situation ( That was the drop that makes the bucket flow-over! ). Then my friend came outside, told me to shut up and not think about it because they already had problems and went after his girlfriend. They broke up the next day...[/QUOTE] i don't get it where's the spagetti
Something about "she cycled away crying" is fucken hilarious
That whole story was pretty amusing
[QUOTE=cheezey;35370052]Ah crap yesterday at my friend's party I had to take a piss so I went outside and instantly unzipped my pants. After realising I was pissing in the middle of his terrace garden I decided to walk to the hedge while I was still pissing. I walked past a few poeple and continued pissing. Then suddenly someone shoved me and when I looked back I realised I pissed over the shoes ( And maybe a part of her legs. I don't know for sure ) of my friend's girlfriend withoud realising it... She was mad as hell and everyone already noticed that she was not happy that night. I instantly panicked and couldn't mumble anything than sorry but my friends all started to laugh really hard. The girl cycled away crying but my friends didn't take it seriously and only made puns about the situation ( That was the drop that makes the bucket flow-over! ). Then my friend came outside, told me to shut up and not think about it because they already had problems and went after his girlfriend. They broke up the next day...[/QUOTE] that's the funniest unfunniest thing i've heard all week hahaha although i don't believe they broke up because of piss on some shoes.. UNLESS She liked having pissed shoes and the guy couldn't deal with it so they broke up.
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