The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=lotusking;35402535]why cant i get a girl who will touch my dick?
love sucks[/QUOTE]
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love knows no price great enough
[QUOTE=lotusking;35402535]why cant i get a girl who will touch my dick?
love sucks[/QUOTE]
For the right price you can.
[editline]2nd April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=thisispain;35402548][url]http://www.uadreams.com/[/url]
love knows no price great enough[/QUOTE]
You shifty bastard.
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;35400872]I know I haven't pulled of all of the best move in this storm of a love affair.
I know I have been too over-analytical (I have to thank you guys for making me realize that, thank you very much).
But HOLY FUCKING SHIT!!!
Yesterday when I said: Wow, what a day!
I never knew what today would bring.
[/QUOTE]
oh my god what the fuck bro
I know you're happy and all but
you're bordering on creepy, reading so much into this shit
[QUOTE=Seith;35402549]For the right price you can.
[/QUOTE]
how much for you seith? will you talk pseudo-intellectual gibberish to me while you touch my dick? i'll pay extra
[QUOTE=GlebGuy;35402441]So I know this girl here, I told her that I have an affection towards her [B]but I know she doesn't[/b].[/QUOTE]
you should have stopped right here
[QUOTE=GlebGuy;35402441]So I know this girl here, I told her that I have an affection towards her but I know she doesn't. I asked what to do to make her have that kind of affection towards me (it's a normal question around where I live) but she says that she's the kind of person that rarely has any feelings for another person in that matter. Maybe in time she will have it but my question is, does anyone know how to speed this up or just be good to her until the time comes?[/QUOTE]
you cant make a person like you, stop trying and move on.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;35402526]shes not interested in you (you messed up) and you should move on[/QUOTE]
Well. 1 more year to waste here in this country and then hello University at Scotland.
[QUOTE=Pascall;35402563]oh my god what the fuck bro
I know you're happy and all but
you're bordering on creepy, reading so much into this shit[/QUOTE]
I really don't see why you people need to be so against being thrilled? It's what this thread is for ain't it? Sharing?
[editline]2nd April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=lotusking;35402569]how much for you seith? will you talk pseudo-intellectual gibberish to me while you touch my dick? i'll pay extra[/QUOTE]
Not enough alpha male, I'm sorry.
There's a fine line between being happy that something good happened to you and then writing a novel about your day's events as if it's something monumental.
That's how guys end up getting infatuated. They read far too much into very simple things and make it out to be some eye-opening experience which will undoubtedly guide them on the path to finding their one true love.
He just had a good day.
That's really it.
[QUOTE=Seith;35402634]I really don't see why you people need to be so against being thrilled? It's what this thread is for ain't it? Sharing?
[editline]2nd April 2012[/editline]
Not enough alpha male, I'm sorry.[/QUOTE]
whoa look out seith maximum alpha he gets all the fucking chicks WE'RE FUCKED HES GOING TO GET THEM ALL
[QUOTE=Pascall;35402676]There's a fine line between being happy that something good happened to you and then writing a novel about your day's events as if it's something monumental.
That's how guys end up getting infatuated. They read far too much into very simple things and make it out to be some eye-opening experience which will undoubtedly guide them on the path to finding their one true love.
He just had a good day.
That's really it.[/QUOTE]
he wrote about 500 words of completely mundane things and about 20 words that actually had to do with his situation, and those words turned out to be "yeah so she got rejected by the guy she liked."
Sunday roast, I'm telling you right now, there's no reason to be excited because her crush doesn't like her back. It isn't going to make her suddenly want you now. And besides, why would you want to be a second choice anyway? I wouldn't settle for being a fallback, personally. Go talk to Games Workshop girl.
The [b]Super Friendly[/b] Social and Love Advice Thread
Guys.
First date wen't pretty well!
The idea of a second one has been thrown out there, and this time it won't be a double date ;)
[QUOTE=PrivRyan;35403045]The [b]Super Friendly[/b]* Social and Love Advice Thread
Guys.[/QUOTE]*only applies if the person is willing to follow the advice here and doesn't refuse to let go of things
[QUOTE=Pascall;35402676]There's a fine line between being happy that something good happened to you and then writing a novel about your day's events as if it's something monumental.
That's how guys end up getting infatuated. They read far too much into very simple things and make it out to be some eye-opening experience which will undoubtedly guide them on the path to finding their one true love.
He just had a good day.
That's really it.[/QUOTE]
My point still stands. Why is there a need to open up his eyes? Is it realistically plausible to stop him from getting any more infatuated?
Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.
-- Henry Ford
You guys have any tips on how to get over rejection smoothly and calmly? I feel like I'm going to do something retarded in a fit of anger, but right now I have it controlled.
People also post here knowing that they will receive opinions on their situation and others are welcome to share said opinions.
Whether or not the poster chooses to listen is their choice.
[QUOTE=Glitch360;35403111]*only applies if the person is willing to follow the advice here and doesn't refuse to let go of things[/QUOTE]
Then it isn't really advice, as he has no choice on the matter.
[QUOTE=Zambies!;35403212]You guys have any tips on how to get over rejection smoothly and calmly? I feel like I'm going to do something retarded in a fit of anger, but right now I have it controlled.[/QUOTE]
listen to some music and let the feels come out man
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xRVx3t4v7h4[/media]
[QUOTE=Seith;35403243]Then it isn't really advice, as he has no choice on the matter.[/QUOTE]What I'm saying is that people shouldn't expect to recieve ~super friendly~ advice if they've crossed the line of whatever situation they are in, at that point the advice they recieve will start being blunt and not as friendly
[QUOTE=Seith;35403243]Then it isn't really advice, as he has no choice on the matter.[/QUOTE]
I feel like a dick for getting angry at him, but there's a point where my patience runs out. When you have told someone the same thing over and over again when they ask for advice and they continue to basically dismiss it, but come back with the same problem, it's really hard to stay super friendly and not get frustrated.
Sorry for blowing up on you Sunday.
All's said and done. Let's put it in the past. <333
On a more serious but not really serious note,
I want to be friends with my ex. But man is it tense when we even glance at each other. Any advice guys?
[QUOTE=PrivRyan;35404105]All's said and done. Let's put it in the past. <333
On a more serious but not really serious note,
I want to be friends with my ex. But man is it tense when we even glance at each other. Any advice guys?[/QUOTE]
Are you sure you want to? I was under the impression that I did, but then I realized I still had feelings and it came back to bite me in the ass. Make sure first.
I'd say to try and hang out with her more, but to do so with plenty of friends as well in case things go south so you aren't alone with her. If you just broke up and haven't even been talking, just try to break the ice and regain a sense of civility between the two of you first.
Oh well. Feelings are still to be had for her of course, but anything but a relationship is all I want at the moment. It's been nagging at me really, and I just want to make peace with another ghost of my past.
Ah. You are right. I just gotta suck it up, honestly. I have been a rather huge vagina lately.
That's a brilliant idea Mr. KnowProblem, and I do thank you.
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;35400872]I know I haven't pulled of all of the best move in this storm of a love affair.
I know I have been too over-analytical (I have to thank you guys for making me realize that, thank you very much).
But HOLY FUCKING SHIT!!!
...
[B]To conclude, I will keep my calm, let her sort this thing out by herself and hopefully come to some sense about it.[/B]
I have prepared myself for both the two possible endings.
One from where I just move on and one where my long waited dream comes true.[/QUOTE]
You already fucked that one up majorly with the whole writing a novel about your day and over-analysing every minor detail, but sure, do that.
[editline]3rd April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35401734]The stars weren't aligned, [I]Cute Well-Spoken Girl[/I] remains a stranger. I'll get her next time for sure.
I was totally hip to go for it, but she walked out of the room in conversation with a friend, and I convinced myself it'd be rude to interrupt and also I was wearing a dirty shirt because I got dressed in the dark and also my hair was kinda messed up and also I was pretty sleepy and didn't get to have my coffee and also I'd just eaten some soup so my breath might not have been at maximum freshness and also it was a bit too humid, so today was clearly just a bad day to ask her out.
What excuses?[/QUOTE]
I totally understand dude. I am pretty much phobic of having bad breath, I feel uncomfortable even talking to a friend if I've just eaten and haven't had a chance to rinse my mouth or eat mints/gum.
[editline]3rd April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=PrivRyan;35404311]Oh well. Feelings are still to be had for her of course, but anything but a relationship is all I want at the moment. It's been nagging at me really, and I just want to make peace with another ghost of my past.
Ah. You are right. I just gotta suck it up, honestly. I have been a rather huge vagina lately.
That's a brilliant idea Mr. KnowProblem, and I do thank you.[/QUOTE]
I can understand the desire to 'make peace' with your past and to try become friendly with an ex again. Good friends these days are far and few between, and so it makes sense to want to hold onto something that you've invested time and emotion in. However, I just want to pose to you these questions; is the friendship based on a real, rational, mutual connection, or is it more akin to an attempt to hold onto something comfortable that you want back? Is it arising out of a genuine interest in connecting with someone else as a person, or rather out of a fear of having to be alone again? You even just said yourself, of course the feelings are still there, and so really I would urge you to consider these sort of questions, and don't be afraid of admitting, and acting on, the truth.
For a long time my ex and I tried to be friends, and it really just never worked out without complications. Only very recently have I felt a complete emotional disconnection from her and the relationship, and I think it's only when you get to this point are you in a position to decide if you want to be friends again or not. I've gotten here and I've realized that as much as I appreciate the time we had together, and as much as the memories and experiences we shared mean to me, I don't feel any desire to continue a friendship with her again.
Of course by this, I don't mean completely booting her out of your life or whatever, and even since I made the above realization, my ex and I have chatted briefly a few times with no hard feelings. KnowProblem's suggestion is fair enough but I personally think you need to take this time off and really figure out where you're at yourself, and if you have completely and genuinely moved on. Only then would I suggest seeing each other and trying to break the ice to establish a connection again.
All the best in any case dude :)
[editline]3rd April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Zambies!;35403212]You guys have any tips on how to get over rejection smoothly and calmly? I feel like I'm going to do something retarded in a fit of anger, but right now I have it controlled.[/QUOTE]
Sleep on it. Realize how irrational you were being in the morning then go and hang out with some friends or do something else to distract you. Realize you're blowing a small rejection out of proportion and that there are billions of other women in the world, and you're just one guy moving through life and all of its lessons and experiences. Also fap.
Well I didn't ask that girl out saturday. I'm hoping to see her friday, and ask if she wants to do something saturday/sunday.
Does anyone know how to make a conservative, Christian choir girl who is madly in love with you sexually active?
Still in high school, by the way.
[QUOTE=Chezhead;35406793]Does anyone know how to make a conservative, Christian choir girl who is madly in love with you sexually active?
Still in high school, by the way.[/QUOTE]
remove all your clothes. roll in peanut butter. then, take pages of the holy bible and stick them to yourself. after that, knock on her door in the middle of the night and sing the entirety of bohemian rhapsody.
[QUOTE=KnowProblem;35406894]remove all your clothes. roll in peanut butter. then, take pages of the holy bible and stick them to yourself. after that, knock on her door in the middle of the night and sing the entirety of bohemian rhapsody.[/QUOTE] Great idea, internet. I'll try it tomorrow.
[QUOTE=Chezhead;35406925]Great idea, internet. I'll try it tomorrow.[/QUOTE]
In all seriousness, there is no easy short answer to that question. It purely depends on how flexible her values are. Or the amount of date rape drugs you have at your disposal. Good luck, in any case.
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