The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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So, there's this one girl. She confuses the hell out of me. 'nough said.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;35433380]Hit the gym and get a haircut.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I've been cycling a lot lately. It's fun and it gets weight off. Also I've been asking my mum to cut my hair for some time now.
get on your bike and ride to get a haircut
[editline]5th April 2012[/editline]
two birds, one stone
mommmmmm, pleassse cut my haaair
nooOOO i dont WANT to go to a barber!!!
Every time I see/hear anything about my ex and her new boyfriend I get really pissed off. Like, punching walls kind of pissed off. Is there something wrong with me?
[QUOTE=Alan Ninja!;35436222]Every time I see/hear anything about my ex and her new boyfriend I get really pissed off. Like, punching walls kind of pissed off. Is there something wrong with me?[/QUOTE]
Nah, that's a fairly understandable reaction. I certainly can't blame you for not liking the guy, if that's the case.
[QUOTE=Alan Ninja!;35436222]Every time I see/hear anything about my ex and her new boyfriend I get really pissed off. Like, punching walls kind of pissed off. Is there something wrong with me?[/QUOTE]
you need to get the fuck over her.
I hate his guts even though I know nothing about him.
[editline]5th April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=thisispain;35436276]you need to get the fuck over her.[/QUOTE]
Believe me, I'm trying.
[QUOTE=Alan Ninja!;35436281]Believe me, I'm trying.[/QUOTE]
find some other girl
[QUOTE=Alan Ninja!;35436281]
Believe me, I'm trying.[/QUOTE]
how hard are you trying?
how much of what you see/hear is an accident, and how much of it is you looking for it?
how do imake my cock grow. my meat is stoo small i jelqd the fuck outta it and its still 3 inches. im asian if that helps
[QUOTE=ILoveScatPorn;35436604]how do imake my cock grow. my meat is stoo small i jelqd the fuck outta it and its still 3 inches. im asian if that helps[/QUOTE]
you can't, buy a plastic penis extender.
Long story short: I'm white, come from a christian family, am an atheist. She's Pakistani, comes from a Muslim family, wears a Hijab. We both live in Northern Virginia. She was passing me notes in science class that say "<3 u ;)" and asking if I have a girlfriend. I ask her out, she says "nooo you can't be serious, you're just kidding. i tell her I'm serious and she says i'm "never serious" (which I'm not).
Did she reject me and doesnt want to hurt my feelings, or was she too nervous to answer and was stalling for time? I feel like the notes she was passing were pretty straightforward.
she's likely just engaging in a fantasy rather than looking for an actual relationship. chances are that she's is religious and if she isn't her father certainly is which will a relationship between you difficult.
now in an adult setting these difficulties can be worked around, but for what sounds like a teen fling it's gonna cause more trouble than it's probably worth it to her.
Are you in middle school?
[QUOTE=thisispain;35436691]she's likely just engaging in a fantasy rather than looking for an actual relationship. chances are that she's is religious and if she isn't her father certainly is which will a relationship between you difficult.
now in an adult setting these difficulties can be worked around, but for what sounds like a teen fling it's gonna cause more trouble than it's probably worth it to her.[/QUOTE]
So even if she does like me, it's probably too much trouble to pursue for a girl I just decided to ask out on a whim?
[editline]5th April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Glitch360;35436698]Are you in middle school?[/QUOTE]
Junior in Highschool. I know, the entire situation seems very Juvenile.
does her hijab match her carpet
[QUOTE=ILoveScatPorn;35436714]does her hijab match her carpet[/QUOTE]
Shes wears various colors. Though I hope the pink Hijab does. That'd be neat.
[QUOTE=prooboo;35436704]So even if she does like me, it's probably too much trouble to pursue for a girl I just decided to ask out on a whim?[/QUOTE]
i don't know anything about her so i can't be 100% sure, but judging from what I know, it's gonna be a lot of trouble. Pakistani's tend to be very traditional people and high-school dating certainly is anathema to that.
if it was college or a setting where she's independent it would be a completely different story.
[QUOTE=thisispain;35436738]i don't know anything about her so i can't be 100% sure, but judging from what I know, it's gonna be a lot of trouble. Pakistani's tend to be very traditional people and high-school dating certainly is anathema to that.
if it was college or a setting where she's independent it would be a completely different story.[/QUOTE]
Something about her makes me think that she herself isn't very religious, but her parents may are. I know a lot of girls who wear a Hijab but only because their parents make them do so.
[QUOTE=prooboo;35436777]Something about her makes me think that she herself isn't very religious, but her parents may are. I know a lot of girls who wear a Hijab but only because their parents make them do so.[/QUOTE]
exactly which is why you'd might have more luck in another setting.
I have extreme anxiety issues, I try and hide it but most of my friends can I'm a nervous wreck. I often find myself inexplicably thinking that there is someone trying to kill me. I smoke a metric fuckload of cigarettes and weed just to be able to attend school without freaking the fuck out. How do I become a more relaxed person without the weed and cigs? I know the air of agitation and the fact I smoke are driving girls away.
Additionally I posted before about my necrophilia issue so if the dude who replied to me sees this, tell me if you found that thing about dopamine and reprogramming your brain.
Oh and, is atheism a turn-off for girls? All the dudes I know who can easily get girls, I see them in church when I fake going. I was considering "coming out" of the atheism closet, is this a good idea? y/n.
[QUOTE=Djentleman;35436896]Oh and, is atheism a turn-off for girls? All the dudes I know who can easily get girls, I see them in church when I fake going. I was considering "coming out" of the atheism closet, is this a good idea? y/n.[/QUOTE]
the fact that you think that you have to 'come out' of the 'atheist closet' means that you are hanging around the complete wrong type of people or you are in middle school. why would any person even know, let alone care, about your beleifs? its not like that shit comes up in conversation.
Fucking guy on my basketball team pisses me the hell off.
Were playing a pick-up game, he dribbles up to me, and I barely initiate contact with him and he misses his lay-up. As I'm running back to play offense I can hear him talking quietly about how I'm a bitch because I refused to acknowledge me fouling him (I did but it was very lightly and were all college level players and usually we just let those go by) and the fact I called out them fouling me on an offensive possesion (I got smacked on the wrist and I felt as though I got fouled so im going to call it out). He refuses to call out fouls because he claims he's "not a bitch."
But this is what really rustles my jimmies. Before a weight-lifting session, as we were waiting for the weight room to open up he's acting like a total jackass and all of a sudden he hits a fellow teammate with a ball and my teammate basically trys to fight him. My other teammates hold them both back and what the fucking hypocrite does is basically just gets butthurt and leaves practice due to this minor incident and never shows up for the rest of the day. If youre such a fucking tough guy then why do you just leave practice because someone didnt put up with your bullshittery? He's also a team captain
I would LOVE for him to piss me off so badly one day that I just go beserk and attempt to thrash him. I've never fought before and I'm generally a timid person but I'm the strongest/tallest guy on the team so I would be confident in my amatuer fighting ability buuut then again usually there has to be a stimuli that makes me lose my mind (he's done something like this before, I was walking into the locker room and he was behind me and he basically just kicked my shoe and I stumbled a little. I kept walking calmly but for some reason I just lost it a second later and slammed the locker room and just yelled really loudly, I kinda scared everyone.)
But on TL:DR I have a lot of bottled-up anger towards a total jackass on my basketball team and I'm just waiting till he pushes my buttons to the point where I throw a few punches.
[QUOTE=Djentleman;35436896]How do I become a more relaxed person without the weed and cigs? [/QUOTE]
therapy
and that's the answer to all of your questions in that post
you have some anger issues dude
literal fistfights accomplish nothing but they deffo make you look like a complete tosser. and do you seriously think that he's that much of a cunt in public and nobody notices? when he fucks with you in public everyone just hates him a little bit more. i guarantee nobody likes him and if you get mad enough at his childish bullshit to fight him then people are going to look at you funny.
[QUOTE=Cheesemonkey;35436944]the fact that you think that you have to 'come out' of the 'atheist closet' means that you are hanging around the complete wrong type of people or you are in middle school. and why would any person even know let alone care about your beleifs? its not like that shit comes up in conversation. there isn't some sort of baptist girl circle where they conspire to not talk to the atheist guys in school[/QUOTE]
Everyone I know of in school who's of social note is super religious and we all HAVE to stand for the morning prayer. It's a catholic high school. And yeah it does come up in conversation often. Especially the illuminati conspiracy bullshit. Canadian prairie province rednecks are a piss-off.
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[QUOTE=thisispain;35436960]therapy
and that's the answer to all of your questions in that post[/QUOTE]
I'm not allowed to go to therapy. I've been prescribed stuff for clinical depression and anxiety but I'm not allowed to take them and I've been disallowed from going to my sessions.
[QUOTE=Cheesemonkey;35436992]you have some anger issues dude
literal fistfights accomplish nothing but they deffo make you look like a complete tosser. and do you seriously think that he's that much of a cunt in public and nobody notices? when he fucks with you in public everyone just hates him a little bit more. i guarantee nobody likes him and if you get mad enough at his childish bullshit to fight him then people are going to look at you funny.[/QUOTE]
I'll probably just end up talking to my coach about it in order to vent, hopefully it staying between just coach and I
I just have a lot of pent-up anger from bullying in high school and beyond and its slowly leaking out as I'm developing more confidence within myself
[QUOTE=Djentleman;35437013]
I'm not allowed to go to therapy. I've been prescribed stuff for clinical depression and anxiety but I'm not allowed to take them and I've been disallowed from going to my sessions.[/QUOTE]
excuse me? why?
[QUOTE=thisispain;35437110]excuse me? why?[/QUOTE]
my mom doesn't agree with pharmaceutical drugs and therapy, she tells me to "man up and get over it." dumb bitch.
which is extra funny since she was such a bitch to my dad he bailed out. how do I "man up" with no one to learn from?
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