• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=danielplazzy;35464557] daniel radcliffe isn't even a bad looking guy but it's more of a "HA HA, YOU LOOK LIKE A FICTIONAL CHARACTER" type thing[/QUOTE] But then they're just complimenting you on your looks really. The image most people associate with Harry Potter is Daniel Radcliffe, who like you said isn't bad looking. [editline]7th April 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35464753]That's okay, I look kind of like the dragon from the NeverEnding Story.[/QUOTE] [t]http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l0e5tblf6G1qa3nkyo1_500.png[/t]
I just had an idea for a bold move that could work well in my favours in all ways. Well on last sunday when me and the girl had a talk, she expressed her view as in: "Perhaps you fell for me bacause I play videogames". Then she said that she has many friends whom play games. Why not pick up that subject and ask if she could possibly hook me up with one of her friends? - Possibly a stupid idea.
So I finally got over this one girl I've been hung up on for... a year or so, maybe. It was fucking ridiculous. We decided to do that still ~~~bestfriends~~~ bullshit that doesn't work in the end, and her lies just stacked up and stacked up. I went through hell with her, and in the end she just lied to me too much, and turned in to something she always said she'd never become. So, fuck her, and the best advice I can give anyone here who has some girl say "Oh we can still be friends" or some variation of that is to say no, fuck you, to her and then walk away. It's a god damned awful situation and it only ends up hurting you more often than not. You'll end up putting that girl on some pedestal and it will fucking suck so much. I was dumb enough to believe her when she said "We can still be friends, really good friends, because I couldn't stand losing you." She said that when she was breaking up with me. Don't be a dumb ass like me and piss away a year of your life wallowing in misery over some dumb bitch you forced yourself into making her like the perfect thing to you. There will be plenty of others, don't trip yourself up over one. So here's to the new me, lessons learned and a little bit wiser even if some girl fucked me over. That's the one thing I can thank her for.
well at least you didn't let it get to you
[QUOTE=Makol;35464859]But then they're just complimenting you on your looks really. The image most people associate with Harry Potter is Daniel Radcliffe, who like you said isn't bad looking. [/QUOTE] Who are you trying to fool, nobody likes Daniel Radcliffe
No one?
Not a one!
[QUOTE=danielplazzy;35461688][wall o' text][/QUOTE] Throw her with a bucket of water. with glitter in it. Call her a bitch and laugh. Or hermione if you like to. Or punch her in the face, but thats not too legal. [editline]7th April 2012[/editline] But im serious about the bucket of water. just do it.
[QUOTE=danielplazzy;35461688]I've kind of gotten myself into a dilemma. Something I thought I would've been invulnerable to. Today, for the first time in my life, I've been bullied. I don't know what I did to provoke this, but I guess my mannerisms make me seem like an easy target. [/QUOTE] Are you in your freshman year of high school? Because that sounds like what kids that just got out of middle school would do. Just ignore them, they probably can't comprehend any sentences that uses words that have more then six letters in it anyway.
I honestly fucking loath bullies. One of the few things I miss about high school is seeing a kid getting bullied and being able to step in and tell the bullies to go get fucked. I used to be bullied in primary school and I was never able to stand up for myself so it really gets to me when I see someone in the same position, especially when the bullies are fucking low enough to pick on someone with a mental condition/something else they can't help. Cunts.
I never really got bullied. Then again, being a 6"2, 200 pound guy must have made me seem like a less than ideal target when everyone else was around 5"7 and 130. Come to think of it, I never really saw any real bullying. Kids taking jabs at each other with little insults here and there, but nothing prolonged really.
Off to meet CWSG! [editline]7th April 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Makol;35464859]But then they're just complimenting you on your looks really. The image most people associate with Harry Potter is Daniel Radcliffe, who like you said isn't bad looking. [editline]7th April 2012[/editline] [t]http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l0e5tblf6G1qa3nkyo1_500.png[/t][/QUOTE] [IMG]http://i1115.photobucket.com/albums/k553/BigDumbAmerican/NeverEndingDragon.jpg[/IMG]
that's frighteningly accurate
For a name like Big Dumb American you don't look very big or dumb. American, I suppose.
You kinda look like TheAmazingAthiest on a diet.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35468624]Off to meet CWSG! [editline]7th April 2012[/editline] [IMG]http://i1115.photobucket.com/albums/k553/BigDumbAmerican/NeverEndingDragon.jpg[/IMG][/QUOTE] you are awesome
he looks like a professor, and a bit awkward.
I used to always think BDA was a fat guy.
Could I get some opinions on having your significant other stop contact with another person? Personally, I think it's wrong and shows insecurity and/or distrust, but does anyone else have a different opinion? Is there any situation that makes this "right"?
in your opinion, what is currently making it "wrong"?
that someone feels the need to tell another what to do/how to live their life, i've always felt that if you need to tell someone to stop talking to someone, that there is extreme jealousy issues/insecurities or just no trust i get jealousy and all, but i think trying to make someone stop talking to another takes it a bit too far
no i mean, what is wrong about the contact your significant other and this other person is having, which leads you to wish they would stop contacting each other? what you've just said ^ is pretty much exactly what i think, telling your significant other that they cannot speak to ___ shows a massive amount of distrust, jealousy and insecurity. [editline]7th April 2012[/editline] unless this is all hypothetical, but since you're asking i'm guessing there's at least some basis to it
I really don't know what to make of my date with CWSG. We talked the entire time, and it was comfortable and easy for the most part. We joked a lot, delved a bit into a couple of deeper subjects, and generally had a good time, but she said some things at the end that made me feel sad and a little unsure. She kept asking me why I was interested in her. I said I couldn't really put it into words, she just stood out as being a good, kind person, and that I could tell she was smart, and funny, and beautiful. She just stands out, and I felt like she was the kind of person who I could actually connect with. She replied in a strange way. I don't really know how to take it, but it makes me feel sad, excited, and confused. She said she felt sorry for me, because I'm different from most people, and she feels like I probably have a hard time connecting with the world. She said she wants to keep hanging out with me, getting to know me better, but that she didn't think I'd keep finding her interesting. She said she didn't think she'd be able to understand what was really going on in my head, that I was too complex, and she said that she didn't think anybody would really be able to. She said she definitely wanted to be friends, but it didn't feel like being "friendzoned," it just felt like her saying that she wanted more time to get to know me. We're going to go out again, and I'm happy about it, but the things she said were eerily astute. For someone who seems to doubt her ability to identify with me, she hit the core of all my biggest fears in an hour-long lunch date. I don't even discuss those things with my best friends. It really threw me for a loop. I don't know if she and I will become romantic or not yet, but she's one of the most interesting people I've met in years. I can't believe how deep into my head she got in such a short time. She kept telling [I]me[/I] I should be a psychologist, but she's the one who managed to look past all the jokes and casual chit chat and tweeze out my real worries. Is it that obvious what I'm afraid of, or is she just that astute? Wherever things go between me and her, I definitely want to keep getting to know her.
[QUOTE=LtKyle2;35467099]Are you in your freshman year of high school? Because that sounds like what kids that just got out of middle school would do. Just ignore them, they probably can't comprehend any sentences that uses words that have more then six letters in it anyway.[/QUOTE] i'm a junior
I completely agree with Autumn. Although with context as to who the person is and what they've done / what they do to make your significant other want to stop contact, it might be justifiable.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35471443]I really don't know what to make of my date with CWSG. We talked the entire time, and it was comfortable and easy for the most part. We joked a lot, delved a bit into a couple of deeper subjects, and generally had a good time, but she said some things at the end that made me feel sad and a little unsure. She kept asking me why I was interested in her. I said I couldn't really put it into words, she just stood out as being a good, kind person, and that I could tell she was smart, and funny, and beautiful. She just stands out, and I felt like she was the kind of person who I could actually connect with. She replied in a strange way. I don't really know how to take it, but it makes me feel sad, excited, and confused. She said she felt sorry for me, because I'm different from most people, and she feels like I probably have a hard time connecting with the world. She said she wants to keep hanging out with me, getting to know me better, but that she didn't think I'd keep finding her interesting. She said she didn't think she'd be able to understand what was really going on in my head, that I was too complex, and she said that she didn't think anybody would really be able to. She said she definitely wanted to be friends, but it didn't feel like being "friendzoned," it just felt like her saying that she wanted more time to get to know me. We're going to go out again, and I'm happy about it, but the things she said were eerily astute. For someone who seems to doubt her ability to identify with me, she hit the core of all my biggest fears in an hour-long lunch date. I don't even discuss those things with my best friends. It really threw me for a loop. I don't know if she and I will become romantic or not yet, but she's one of the most interesting people I've met in years. I can't believe how deep into my head she got in such a short time. She kept telling [I]me[/I] I should be a psychologist, but she's the one who managed to look past all the jokes and casual chit chat and tweeze out my real worries. Is it that obvious what I'm afraid of, or is she just that astute? Wherever things go between me and her, I definitely want to keep getting to know her.[/QUOTE] She might be saying these things because she's unsure about how far she'll go with you so she's giving herself an out, sort of. Don't fret, just carry on they way you've been carrying on.
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35471547]She might be saying these things because she's unsure about how far she'll go with you so she's giving herself an out, sort of. Don't fret, just carry on they way you've been carrying on.[/QUOTE] I'm not even really worried about where we're going from a dating standpoint now. She's a terribly interesting girl, and right now I'd be happy to just get to know her as a person. I'm going to keep spending time with her and see where things go, but I'm not all that concerned about our romantic status, and I'm not in any hurry to find out. Today was not what I expected at all!
lol BDA i think she's as insecure as you are.
[QUOTE=thisispain;35471573]lol BDA i think she's as insecure as you are.[/QUOTE] Together, we could make almost one self-assured human being.
To all being bullied: relax. Let it wash over you like a river. In 01, I had just started eight grade in a new city. Back then I believed in Allah, and it was public knowledge across the school, due to the fact that I wore the robe-like outfit sometimes (It was like wearing PJs). September 11th rolled by, and guess who got the brunt of it? I had my face scraped against a wall, got beat up, called names, and every possible way of torture you can think of. To this day I have a fear of opening a locker. But it's honestly something thats going to roll over, no matter how painful it seems. Ignore it, and if things get too rough, fight back. Let yourself be pushed, but never against a wall.
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