The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35530683]My mom bailed on me, but I think I'd still understand why somebody might be uncomfortable with the knowledge that their mom tag teams sweaty, misshapen truckers.[/QUOTE]
oh i just don't want to know in the first place, whatever she needs to do that's her business and i'm totally fine if we never ever talk about it.
I'm seeing this girl a lot now, and my friend is getting all jealous and being a child about it because I'm not constantly at his beck and call anymore. I know you're supposed to put your friends first but he is making it very difficult. He never makes an effort to make plans with me, but then when he texts me or something five minutes before a taco bell run he has a hissy fit when I'm not available, because I've made friends with the girl. It's very frustrating because I'm trying my hardest to NOT be that guy who ditches his friends for a girl, but it's almost like he WANTS to hate me for being with her. What do?
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It might worthy to note that he already has a prejudice against her, as she's heavily involved in the theater and he assumes all theater people are "faggots."
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35532115]It might worthy to note that he already has a prejudice against her, as she's heavily involved in the theater and he assumes all theater people are "faggots."[/QUOTE]
Your friend is a worthless human being. Jettison him into space.
And today I mentioned to him that I'd catch up with him tonight, but I didn't hear from him at all until nowish. By now me, the girl, and some other folks (I wasn't really sure who else) had already made plans to go to the movies. I told him he was welcome to come along, but he said he'd only go if "promising people" were going. What the fuck does that even mean.
he sounds like a cunt.
[QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;35532268]Your friend is a worthless human being. Jettison him into space.[/QUOTE]
I was very good friends with him before these things surfaced. I don't know it's not something that's worth ending one of my closest friendships over.
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[QUOTE=thisispain;35532302]he sounds like a cunt.[/QUOTE]
i know...
i know...
:/
sometimes friends are cunts.
try talking to him about it
[QUOTE=thisispain;35532497]sometimes friends are cunts.
try talking to him about it[/QUOTE]
I'm a huge cunt to my friend sometimes. I just see him too much and he whines like a girl about everything. Especially this girl he dated for like 3 months well over a year ago and he talks about how much he loves her still and shit lol. At first I was sympathetic, but a year is too damn long.
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35532325]I was very good friends with him before these things surfaced. I don't know it's not something that's worth ending one of my closest friendships over.
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i know...
i know...
:/[/QUOTE]
tell him to stop being a faggot himself
if he's really your friend he'll just let it go and find something else to do, sounds like you're being his bitch and just taking shit from him
[editline]11th April 2012[/editline]
it's not like you're committed to doing things with your friends lol
The friendliness really shows in here
how to win her heart(panties)
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trust me,the ladies love coke!
according to my observations,if they want to do something with you they will just ask to make out/snuggle or give hints a lot sooner than usual
i know its bold to post that but i mean,coke does make it easier a bit like u both would be down for an activity, the both of you would drive to to the movies spontaneously and then buy some fireworks.
Well, that's certainly one approach.
[QUOTE=thisispain;35532497]sometimes friends are cunts.
try talking to him about it[/QUOTE]
"yo bro you are a cunt"
This is gonna be inappropriate but why does part of my mind hate people/minorities but the other half doesnt?
like I'll be walking along and ill think "Just look at that fucking queer I just want to punch him in his stupid face so bad" and then another part of me will think "Im sure he's a nice guy. Dont think that, youre just having a bad day".
oh god top page
If you can't tell a friend to fuck off, they're not your friend if you ask me
[editline]12th April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Jmir 54;35534700]This is gonna be inappropriate but why does part of my mind hate people/minorities but the other half doesnt?
like I'll be walking along and ill think "Just look at the fucking queer I just want punch him in his stupid face so bad" and then another part of me will think "Im sure he's a nice guy. Dont think that, youre just having a bad day".[/QUOTE]
Do you literally mean look at that homosexual, I want to bestow physical violence on him
Cause you should probably get a fucking grip if that's the case
[QUOTE=Jmir 54;35534700]This is gonna be inappropriate but why does part of my mind hate people/minorities but the other half doesnt?
like I'll be walking along and ill think "Just look at the fucking queer I just want punch him in his stupid face so bad" and then another part of me will think "Im sure he's a nice guy. Dont think that, youre just having a bad day".[/QUOTE]
we all have our dirty evil thoughts, its the actions that really matter
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;35534736]we all have our dirty evil thoughts, its the actions that really matter[/QUOTE]
I'm glad no one can read my mind. It'd probably wreck theirs looking inside mine. Not to mention that I'd probably get thrown into an asylum. :v:
I guess its just venting.
[QUOTE=Jmir 54;35534700]This is gonna be inappropriate but why does part of my mind hate people/minorities but the other half doesnt?
like I'll be walking along and ill think "Just look at the fucking queer I just want punch him in his stupid face so bad" and then another part of me will think "Im sure he's a nice guy. Dont think that, youre just having a bad day".[/QUOTE]
[url]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intrusive_thoughts[/url]
it's not a problem till you either act on it or become obsessed with it.
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[QUOTE=AnalAnnihilator;35534760]I'm glad no one can read my mind. It'd probably wreck theirs looking inside mine. Not to mention that I'd probably get thrown into an asylum. :v:[/QUOTE]
my thoughts consist of weird sexual stuff i'd do to men and women, sometimes i gross myself out.
also i'm not gay or bisexual.
I always judge then dismiss.
Like, I see some guy that naturally crosses his legs like this
[t]http://blindgossip.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/woman-crossing-legs.jpg[/t]
And I think, "He's got to be gay."
Then wait a bit, "Oh well."
It's surprising how often that is a correct assumption, though.
Here's a sticky situation, What if you like a girl who doesn't know what their sexuality is? All you know is she is pan-sexual, Do I get involved or what she's a great person but i'm afraid when we hit the bedroom she might have a dick, even though she has a really great body is it worth the risk?
[QUOTE=thisispain;35534778]my thoughts consist of weird sexual stuff i'd do to men and women, sometimes i gross myself out.[/QUOTE]
My thoughts consists of constant repetition of words, phrases, random thoughts, chants, and constant feeling of indifference/hostility.
...
I think I do need to see a shrink.
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[QUOTE=Phsykotik;35535051]It's surprising how often that is a correct assumption, though.[/QUOTE]
That means you're comfortable, not that you're gay.
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[QUOTE=Sir Lucky Dog;35535097]Here's a sticky situation, What if you like a girl who doesn't know what their sexuality is? All you know is she is pan-sexual, Do I get involved or what she's a great person but i'm afraid when we hit the bedroom she might have a dick, even though she has a really great body is it worth the risk?[/QUOTE]
It's not like you can't ask once you get that far, right?
[QUOTE=gufu;35535165]
That means you're comfortable, not that you're gay.
[/QUOTE]
To cross legs like that brings a ton of pain to my sack.
But quite often, the guys I see do that either turn out to really be women that look like dudes or gay guys.
Not all, but many.
Not saying that crossing one's legs like that denotes gayness in men. Just saying that it often coincides.
I understand that they are quite independant.
I shouldn't say it pains my sack, but my balls are really uncomfortable.
Well, i'm asking if, I should continue to stay involved with her or stop wasting my time.
I hope that is blatant enough for you.
thisispain: i'm receiving therapy now, hooray, my first session is set for tomorrow.
I was talking to my brother today. When my mom and dad split, my older brother (and late eldest brother. rip) went with my dad, and I got stuck with my mom. My older brother is alpha as fuck, so today I was talking to him, and I sent him this:
[QUOTE]It's like meeting girls. A friendship with a girl is just another kind of job, isn't it. In the beginning you pretend to be that perfect employee. You lie in the interview and then you do your best for a while.
You never step out of line. You brush your teeth every day. If you're kissing her you never pull out the sharpie and write "whore" on her body unexpectedly.
You behave. But how long can that go on before you start going crazy? You have to be yourself. That's why it's called being yourself.
In the end it never works out. You are who you are, no matter what you pretend at the beginning. So I'm not pretending. I smoke and drink to ignore my problems. I spend more time with my computer than with my friends. I don't have a very good relationship with women.
I am angry and lonely, but I can wash dishes and do boring, manual labour just fine. I'm being honest. Why won't anyone hire me?
I want my job back. They've probably already given it to some stupid bitch with half my experience just because she's got tits.
Shit.[/QUOTE]
He told me that I have issues with women and signed off afterwards.
Is he right?
[QUOTE=Phsykotik;35535226]To cross legs like that brings a ton of pain to my sack.[/QUOTE]
Eh, I guess I just learned how to cross my legs just enough so not only it puts no pressure on anything, but it can hide/correct the placement an erection. Rate me informative, everyone!
[QUOTE=Djentleman;35535263]He told me that I have issues with women and signed off afterwards.
Is he right?[/QUOTE]
I say that your brother is a dick for signing off on you like that.
[QUOTE=Djentleman;35535263]thisispain: i'm receiving therapy now, hooray, my first session is set for tomorrow.[/QUOTE]
good, i hope it will make you feel better and get you on the track you want to be on.
[QUOTE=AnalAnnihilator;35534760]I'm glad no one can read my mind. It'd probably wreck theirs looking inside mine. Not to mention that I'd probably get thrown into an asylum. :v:[/QUOTE]
I think only PURE, EMPRAH-APPROVED THOUGHTS.
[QUOTE=Phsykotik;35535051]I always judge then dismiss.
Like, I see some guy that naturally crosses his legs like this
[t]http://blindgossip.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/woman-crossing-legs.jpg[/t]
And I think, "He's got to be gay."
Then wait a bit, "Oh well."
It's surprising how often that is a correct assumption, though.[/QUOTE]
I sit like that sometimes. Makes my nads feel warm and cozy.
I'm not sure if I understand how it's feminine?
I usually go for a more relaxed ankle-on-knee position, but sometimes a man just wants cozy nads!
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35535719]I sit like that sometimes. Makes my nads feel warm and cozy.
I'm not sure if I understand how it's feminine?
I usually go for a more relaxed ankle-on-knee position, but sometimes a man just wants cozy nads![/QUOTE]
See, I can't, I get a terribad case of sticky nads.
Also, grats on getting therapy Djentleman! That's really fantasic that you're finally getting help, and I mean that in the most unsarcastic way possible.
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