• The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35535719]I sit like that sometimes. Makes my nads feel warm and cozy. I'm not sure if I understand how it's feminine? I usually go for a more relaxed ankle-on-knee position, but sometimes a man just wants cozy nads![/QUOTE] Because, aside from businessmen, the majority of men sit with legs separated. Women are taught to keep their legs closed. It is literally the woman's position.
maybe you should try not crushing your testicles. i can sit like that without having my balls hurt so i think you're doing something very wrong.
[QUOTE=thisispain;35535963]maybe you should try not crushing your testicles. i can sit like that without having my balls hurt so i think you're doing something very wrong.[/QUOTE] Well it's not that it hurts, more like there's this awful sticking sensation from my sack sticking to my thighs. It's irritating.
wash your testicles??? i don't think my scrotum's ever stuck to anything...
For some reason ever since I was like, 3, I've always sat in the same position, both legs crossed, as if I were like one of those Buddhist people you see on TV. It's comfy, though I sometimes worry about the effects it's going to have on my legs and spine.
[QUOTE=thisispain;35536231]wash your testicles??? i don't think my scrotum's ever stuck to anything...[/QUOTE] Condensation. I don't like crossing my legs, it's not gay to do so, I'm simply stating why I don't.
[QUOTE=Phsykotik;35535051]I always judge then dismiss. Like, I see some guy that naturally crosses his legs like this [t]http://blindgossip.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/woman-crossing-legs.jpg[/t] And I think, "He's got to be gay." Then wait a bit, "Oh well." It's surprising how often that is a correct assumption, though.[/QUOTE] I always cross my legs. Considering I have a Gf does that mean im bisexual?
When I cross my legs, my balls do a popping noise. Apparently this is totally normal when you have huge balls.
[QUOTE=Cl0cK;35536363]When I cross my legs, my balls do a popping noise. Apparently this is totally normal when you have huge balls.[/QUOTE] 5 Facts About Cl0ck You Couldn't Live Without!
[QUOTE=thisispain;35536381]5 Facts About Cl0ck You Couldn't Live Without![/QUOTE] I deliver! PS: Ladies, I'm single!
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35532325]I was very good friends with him before these things surfaced. I don't know it's not something that's worth ending one of my closest friendships over. [/QUOTE] I know how you feel. I have a friend who annoys me to no end, he always takes mucking about too far, he insults me for no reason and worse of all he's a massive broney with ponies as his facebook profile picture, and plastered on his bag (this was the guy who was taking the piss out of my ex when he was dating her). But saying that I still am friends with him and would never change that, and I can't tell why.
[QUOTE=Phsykotik;35535226]To cross legs like that brings a ton of pain to my sack. But quite often, the guys I see do that either turn out to really be women that look like dudes or gay guys. Not all, but many. Not saying that crossing one's legs like that denotes gayness in men. Just saying that it often coincides. I understand that they are quite independant. I shouldn't say it pains my sack, but my balls are really uncomfortable.[/QUOTE] So you're [i]not[/i] implying all gay men are eunuchs then? Because otherwise I don't see the importance of the pain factor
It kills me just to type this but the girl I've been after has thrown me in the friend zone. It's only now that it's all crashing down on me, I have no future when it comes to women, seriously. My friendship group consists most of women, but their either in relationships, aren't interested in me, or just aren't my type. I'm 17 years old, I think I'm actually not bad looking, and as of recently I've lost a load of weight (Now I have a flat, slightly toned stomach), I work out quite often (Maybe once every two or three days). My spots have cleared up and I've got a new haircut which people like. I just feel like my options are so limited when it comes to women, and if I'm honest the woman who just tossed me in the friend zone feels like the only one for me, I know that will change but what happens then? I'm shit at meeting new people the last time I checked, I'm the kind of guy who you have to grow to love, but by the time that happens I'm stuck in the friend zone. All I'm saying is I'm 17, and the furthest I've ever been with someone is just a kiss on the lips (Not even open-mouthed) What the hell do I do with myself? Oh also, basically only me and another guy in my group are single, meaning that when all the other guys are with their girlfriends, I'm just going to be stuck doing fuck all by myself, I've never said this before but; I'm not looking forward to summer.
[QUOTE=AltUser;35542254]I have no future when it comes to women, seriously. I'm 17 years old,[/QUOTE] Um... you need to rethink that statement.
All I can say to you is get off the pity potty, quit feeling sorry for yourself, and just persevere. You never know when a woman might fall into your life, and if it doesn't happen in high school, it'll happen in the next chapter.
ugh i was all content with my list of options to ask to prom and then today 3 of them got asked suddenly i feel pressure, I'm gonna ask someone tomorrow
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;35543275]ugh i was all content with my list of options to ask to prom and then today 3 of them got asked suddenly i feel pressure, I'm gonna ask someone tomorrow[/QUOTE] Don't feel pressured dude, there are probably plenty more options than you think.
Just finished reading this entire thread from page 1, thanks for letting me see how normal people go about daily life. Was entertaining
its getting close and I'd rather not be left picking from nothing (or going alone or not going) there are still a few girls I'd be perfectly happy to go with and I'm just going to ask them instead of waiting to truly make up my mind
[QUOTE=Centralia;35545850]Just finished reading this entire thread from page 1, thanks for letting me see how normal people go about daily life. Was entertaining[/QUOTE] If you have any neuroses you'd like to solve/reinforce, feel free to inquire within!
[QUOTE=Dark RaveN;35536345]I always cross my legs. Considering I have a Gf does that mean im bisexual?[/QUOTE] Missing the point. Well, rather, missing subsequent posts and replying before appropriate. [QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;35537248]So you're [i]not[/i] implying all gay men are eunuchs then? Because otherwise I don't see the importance of the pain factor[/QUOTE] I was just stating an observation. Then also giving my personal experience. I'm not saying to cross your legs as such is gay.
[QUOTE=Phsykotik;35535051]I always judge then dismiss. Like, I see some guy that naturally crosses his legs like this [t]http://blindgossip.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/woman-crossing-legs.jpg[/t] And I think, "He's got to be gay." Then wait a bit, "Oh well." It's surprising how often that is a correct assumption, though.[/QUOTE] I see a lot of guys sit like that. A lot of them are upper class businessmen. One of my teachers used to sit like that all the time too.
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35546458]If you have any neuroses you'd like to solve/reinforce, feel free to inquire within![/QUOTE] Meh I'm dying of boredom anyways. Basically I'm 18, graduating in a month, have 1 acquaintance, and haven't even had a friend who is a girl in my entire life. The list of "haven'ts" is truly massive. I don't have alcohol or drugs to turn to so I just drown everything out with frightning amounts of time on the computer and music. My life pretty much consists of cabin fever and I've been this way since as long as I can remember (I can remember avoiding people in kindergarten). I'm not saying things used to be easy, but I was pretty successful drowning things out a little over 2 months ago until I got a bit of a wake up call and now I'm basically facing fears and demons head-on that literally followed me my entire life. I really don't understand how I am able to keep going because the amount of shit going on in my mind reaches a "physical" level. AKA I constantly have a sick feeling in the pit of my stomach. Lately I've been having a hard time eating, sleeping, paying attention, etc so here I am. I can't play video games anymore so I just sit alone in my room. You guys have been entertaining me these last couple days when I'm not taking showers for fun or trying desperatly to distract myself with games and shit. I mean I'm literally a machine designed to be an undetectable shadow. Anyways I've never talked to anyone including my own parents so not so long ago I decided to actually try to talk to them and I was told I'd have to just deal with it and figure it out. I told my mom I was prepared to die alone and she just pretended I wasn't being serious. I've given considerable thought to suicide but I get nothing out of it and can say for certain that I will absolutely never resort to it. Thanks to anyone who read all of my crap and anyone lurking or something who is similar to me just know the amount of people in more dire circumstances than me and you is mind boggling. TL;DR I've taken isolation to a whole new level and can't ignore it anymore at all.
With every circle of friends I've ever had, I've felt like some kind of old lady allowed to stick with the group out of kindness but otherwise completely ignored. It seems like nobody shares any interests with me and could really care less about anything I say or do.
[QUOTE=The Maestro;35549363]With every circle of friends I've ever had, I've felt like some kind of old lady allowed to stick with the group out of kindness but otherwise completely ignored. It seems like nobody shares any interests with me and could really care less about anything I say or do.[/QUOTE] Yeah I know how you feel. If somehow I was able to talk on a consistent basis to some group I was always aware of just how little I was part of the group. Honestly I can count the amount of times I've hung out with people outside of school on my hands.
so I me up with the girl I was texting at a party/club visit thing we were both too awkward to sober so we both got inebriated and then it was pretty much the best thing ever
[QUOTE=AltUser;35542254]It kills me just to type this but the girl I've been after has thrown me in the friend zone. It's only now that it's all crashing down on me, I have no future when it comes to women, seriously. My friendship group consists most of women, but their either in relationships, aren't interested in me, or just aren't my type. I'm 17 years old, I think I'm actually not bad looking, and as of recently I've lost a load of weight (Now I have a flat, slightly toned stomach), I work out quite often (Maybe once every two or three days). My spots have cleared up and I've got a new haircut which people like. I just feel like my options are so limited when it comes to women, and if I'm honest the woman who just tossed me in the friend zone feels like the only one for me, I know that will change but what happens then? I'm shit at meeting new people the last time I checked, I'm the kind of guy who you have to grow to love, but by the time that happens I'm stuck in the friend zone. All I'm saying is I'm 17, and the furthest I've ever been with someone is just a kiss on the lips (Not even open-mouthed) What the hell do I do with myself? Oh also, basically only me and another guy in my group are single, meaning that when all the other guys are with their girlfriends, I'm just going to be stuck doing fuck all by myself, I've never said this before but; I'm not looking forward to summer.[/QUOTE] Step one, stop being so pessimistic. I was in pretty much exactly the same situation when I was 17. Heck, I was in that situation for most of the time I've been 18 as well. And now I've got a girlfriend. Hope is never lost.
Girl I had trouble communicating with I'm now going to prom with and text regularly. This is awesome.
Status update: still no babes on radar. I hope another Potential Love Interest (PLI) comes along shortly (though maybe this one could at least have enough confidence to answer "[I]would you like to go out this weekend[/I]" honestly)!
You should write a book about your acronyms, they are awesome
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