The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v3 - February
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This thread spends a lot of time sucking your cock BDA
I hope you enjoy it!
making friends with nice people feels nice <3
but it feels worse considering they all live hundreds of miles away anyway and im never going to meet them anyway
instead im here stuck with a bunch of idiotic assholes
welp
Is it normal to get angry at all the "Like if you feel bad for this person/think this is true love/love jesus/like this and see what happens/etc." bullshit on Facebook? And its not like I just get annoyed, every time I see that shit on my feed it just kills my mood. And the worst part is that you can't block those shitheads, they abuse some facebook glitch that prevents people from blocking them. I've debated deleting my account, but Facebook is pretty useful for keeping in touch with other people and it's good as an alternative to contact people
[QUOTE=Glitch360;35550887]Is it normal to get angry at all the "Like if you feel bad for this person/think this is true love/love jesus/like this and see what happens/etc." bullshit on Facebook? And its not like I just get annoyed, every time I see that shit on my feed it just kills my mood. And the worst part is that you can't block those shitheads, they abuse some facebook glitch that prevents people from blocking them. I've debated deleting my account, but Facebook is pretty useful for keeping in touch with other people and it's good as an alternative to contact people[/QUOTE]
It's possible to unsubscribe from your friends' feeds. I did that with a couple of people on my FB because they kept posting bible quotes and updates from their pretentious blogs. If that won't work just unfriend them, no big deal. Also, if you set your feed to most recent rather than most popular it will be less likely to show you those ridiculously popular yet useless updates.
As for getting angry, I dunno, pet peeves is a bit of a weakness of my own so I guess all you can ask yourself is if it will gain you anything by getting angry.
Just make an [I]edgy[/I] post about it and then all the likes you get will make you feel better about yourself.
[QUOTE=Glitch360;35550887]Is it normal to get angry at all the "Like if you feel bad for this person/think this is true love/love jesus/like this and see what happens/etc." bullshit on Facebook? And its not like I just get annoyed, every time I see that shit on my feed it just kills my mood. And the worst part is that you can't block those shitheads, they abuse some facebook glitch that prevents people from blocking them. I've debated deleting my account, but Facebook is pretty useful for keeping in touch with other people and it's good as an alternative to contact people[/QUOTE]
Getting angry at minor stuff like this is is a waste of emotions, its hardly the most pressing problem you will encounter with your life and if you at any point broadcast your anger about it you just look like more of a dick than they do
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;35551720]Just make an [I]edgy[/I] post about it and then all the likes you get will make you feel better about yourself.[/QUOTE]
Also this - anyone who posts a status ever about anything is going to be at the very least gratified when lots of people like it so I don't see why you would care
so
Sell it you take your cash back + a little more for the issue/problem give the rest to him he sounds like a prick.
Hell do some research and beat him to it, offer another camera with the money he will have left, although id fight for 50/50 but like I said prick.
i know
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;35550461]This thread spends a lot of time sucking your cock BDA
I hope you enjoy it![/QUOTE]
It's like oxygen to me.
[QUOTE=BlazeFresh;35553705]well he's actually a really nice guy so this took me a little off guard that he thought the camera was just out there in the open to be had. I just don't see any reason for it to be his.[/QUOTE]
Yea money can change the best of people, its best not to mix it with friends unless you have to.
There's this one girl in my tuition class that I fancy. She's been in my class since January and I want to start a conversation with her. How do I keep it casual and get her number or something? Because I suck at starting convo's.
you might want to start with 'hello'
I'm sorry but keeping it casual and getting her number are two different things when you're speaking to her for the first time. Get to know her before jumping down her throat about wanting her number.
[QUOTE=BlazeFresh;35554690]you might want to start with 'hello'
I'm sorry but keeping it casual and getting her number are two different things when you're speaking to her for the first time. Get to know her before jumping down her throat about wanting her number.[/QUOTE]
Or, alternatively, ask her out! Best case scenario she says "yes," worst case scenario, she says "yes" but doesn't really mean it and drags you along for a week. Either way she says yes, which technically counts as a win <;o| (serious winking clown face).
pretty sure the worst case scenario is something along the lines of "no, you freak"?
I disagree. If a lady's not interested in my advances, the response I would appreciate the most is a straightforward "no."
"[I]No[/I]" forces you to accept the state of things and move on, whereas a "[I]maybe[/I]" or a "[I]yes, but only for pretend[/I]" or a "[I]let's just be friends for now[/I]" or [B]anything[/B] other than a "[I]no[/I]" inspires false hope and misunderstandings.
That is true, a lot of girls like to let down easy. Not sure if thats the best or the worst thing to do.
Alright, after I start with hello how do I actually keep a proper non-awkward conversation going? Ya know, to get to know her and stuff.
Ask her if she'd rather be invisible or have stretchy arms. It's both entertaining [I]and[/I] a test of her character, because invisibility is a villain power.
No good things come from invisibility. Invisibility is for people who want to sneak into locker rooms and steal shit and spy on people. Rude! At least stretchy arms is utilitarian.
[QUOTE=AtomicDongo;35554942]Alright, after I start with hello how do I actually keep a proper non-awkward conversation going? Ya know, to get to know her and stuff.[/QUOTE]
Using experience.
Ask for $300 for it
[editline]14th April 2012[/editline]
Wow I left the thread open for like ten years without looking at it, should have refreshed
I meant the camera thing obviously
[QUOTE=MakoSkyDub;35555159]Ask for $300 for it
[editline]14th April 2012[/editline]
Wow I left the thread open for like ten years without looking at it, should have refreshed
I meant the camera thing obviously[/QUOTE]
no i get you, but i don't see why the remainder of the money should be his either.
[QUOTE=Kagrs;35551665]It's possible to unsubscribe from your friends' feeds. I did that with a couple of people on my FB because they kept posting bible quotes and updates from their pretentious blogs. If that won't work just unfriend them, no big deal. Also, if you set your feed to most recent rather than most popular it will be less likely to show you those ridiculously popular yet useless updates.
As for getting angry, I dunno, pet peeves is a bit of a weakness of my own so I guess all you can ask yourself is if it will gain you anything by getting angry.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;35551720]Just make an [I]edgy[/I] post about it and then all the likes you get will make you feel better about yourself.[/QUOTE]It's tempting, but about 60% of my friends are guilty of doing it so I can't really delete them/make an [I]edgy[/I] status about it. Plus there's the fear of no one liking my status and looking like an anti-social asshole :v:
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35550339]Status update: still no babes on radar.
I hope another Potential Love Interest (PLI) comes along shortly (though maybe this one could at least have enough confidence to answer "[I]would you like to go out this weekend[/I]" honestly)![/QUOTE]
You're starting to sound like a teenager, I mean come on, how much does this really mean to you? I'd say just go about you life and meet people casually, see if something happens. But then again aren't you one of those folks who has to be in love with someone at all times.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35554835]I disagree. If a lady's not interested in my advances, the response I would appreciate the most is a straightforward "no."
"[I]No[/I]" forces you to accept the state of things and move on, whereas a "[I]maybe[/I]" or a "[I]yes, but only for pretend[/I]" or a "[I]let's just be friends for now[/I]" or [B]anything[/B] other than a "[I]no[/I]" inspires false hope and misunderstandings.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, and it's possible to be firm and kind at the same time. Nothing about being clear she's not interested precludes her from being nice about it.
[editline]13th April 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=CheeserCrice;35555453]You're starting to sound like a teenager, I mean come on, how much does this really mean to you? I'd say just go about you life and meet people casually, see if something happens. But then again aren't you one of those folks who has to be in love with someone at all times.[/QUOTE]
uh, it's pretty obvious BDA is being purposely silly
The girl who I've been spending time with and I, as you may know had gotten really close. And this time last week we both got quite drunk and basically confessed our feelings for each other and led to us hugging and cuddling, etc. As well as kissing, which I actually stopped as it didn't feel right as we were pissed.
So the next morning I text her asking if she felt the same way and it basically went: "Yeah, I think I do" and we agreed that we should take it slow and "tread the water" as her experiences have been shitty in the past, I was fine with this but we didnt see each other for a good few days.
So this Wednesday we went out just for a walk and I didn't really try anything on with her as I felt we were both confused about where we stood, well that's a lie really: I just didn't know if she wanted this or not.
Then that night she text me saying that we should stay as friends. She said that she did have feelings for me but was afraid that if we went ahead with this and it didn't work out then we wouldn't end up being as close as we are now. She said that its not that she doesn't want to do this, its just that she's not sure and doesn't want to fuck things up between us. After trying to persuade her, I found that her decision was final. She said stuff like shes not worth it and there's someone out there who deserves me more than her.
So what can I do now? I seriously do feel things for this woman and I'm not sure but I think she might just feel things about me too, it's just that in previous relationships things haven't always been easy for her, from what I've heard. Besides, who confesses all their feelings for someone and kisses them if the two of them are "just friends". Oh, I also met her mother who asked, and I quote if we were "boyfriend and girlfriend now".
So what now? I told her that we will just stay as friends but I'm sure there's more than that between us? I think the only thing that can help me is if we both get drunk again.
I just have lots of love to give, probably. If better prospects don't come along shortly, I might just to seduce the kindly old woman who runs the market downstairs. Somebody needs to put a leash on this dog, he's barking up every tree in town!
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;35556736]I just have lots of love to give, probably. If better prospects don't come along shortly, I might just to seduce the kindly old woman who runs the market downstairs. Somebody needs to put a leash on this dog, he's barking up every tree in town![/QUOTE]
BDA, the quantum dog.
I met a girl while out on drinking with friends, we chatted for a while and danced, I ended up walking with her back to my place, by the time we got home we were sober but we still slept together, we stayed up till 8am talking and kissing and other things (more sex) we exchanged numbers and talked for a while
We then arranged a first date we went for a quiet drink and just talked, we then went to the movies (we kissed again inside), then we afterwards we went for a walk and another drink (were we kissed again) I told her that I liked her and she said she liked me, I asked her what we should do (relationship wise) and she said with a smile that we should see how it goes, I walked her back to the train station, were we talked and spent a long while kissing and holding each other before she left...
Were going to arrange a second date for next week, I really like her and I'm really interested in her and I hope shes legitimately interested in me, does it sound like she likes me? I hope she doesn't cancel, I keep getting that feeling, I've dated a lot of girls in my time but never before have I dated someone I like this, its hard to describe, shes pretty and interesting, opinions?
I need some help on getting this girl's phone number. I don't want to sound all weird when I ask her. What should I say?
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