I found out about my birthfamily. - General

[QUOTE=KaIibos;17802548]Your parents sound like losers :|[/QUOTE] That's Nice

If I were you, I wouldn't go looking for them unless you have a really burning desire to. You're only going to get hurt. Your dad sounds ok, but I wouldn't suggest looking for your mum...:saddowns:

[url]http://pipl.com[/url] I think if you use this website, you can pull up a website that can be used to pull up criminal records, included with pictures

My name is Robert too, I can be your dad. :unsmith:

Find them and meet them, how old were you when you were adopted?

[QUOTE=KillerSlash;17813801]Find them and meet them, how old were you when you were adopted?[/QUOTE] Whhyyyy? I never understand this thing people have about finding their 'birth parents', it just introduces pain on all sides, it's not as if you are somehow spiritually 'linked' to them. In my opinion, if I were in this situation I would think of my parents as the people who adopted me, raised me and looked after me, not those who abandoned me (for whatever reason, good or bad.) My biological parents would simply be my DNA donors, I don't see the reason behind attributing something special to two strangers who have done nothing for him, while his adopted parents have raised him from a baby. My opinion of course, no offence meant.

[QUOTE=articpenguin;17802525]Yea. I'm a crack-baby. I used to have little seizures when I was a baby, meaning I was withdrawing from the coke.[/QUOTE] I also, was a coke baby. My mother couldn't lay of the junk when she was pregnant. [MEDIA]http://www.vander-wal.nl/shop/images/products/Coca%20Cola/Coca%20Cola/9517_COCA%20COLA%20CHERRY%20BLIK%2033CC.jpg[/MEDIA] [i]stop hunting me demons from the past!![/i]

Holy crap you're adopted?

[QUOTE=Probydoby;17815126]I also, was a coke baby. My mother couldn't lay of the junk when she was pregnant. [MEDIA]http://www.vander-wal.nl/shop/images/products/Coca%20Cola/Coca%20Cola/9517_COCA%20COLA%20CHERRY%20BLIK%2033CC.jpg[/MEDIA] [i]stop hunting me demons from the past!![/i][/QUOTE] Ass

[mean]haha your mom's a prostitute.[/mean] But in all seriousness, that kinda sucks. Although, I'm happy for the fact that you have a good home now and your adopted parents are for you and such. I wouldn't try to find your birthparents though, as someone above stated it will only cause pain most likely.

[QUOTE=Hivemind;17815101]Whhyyyy? I never understand this thing people have about finding their 'birth parents', it just introduces pain on all sides, it's not as if you are somehow spiritually 'linked' to them. In my opinion, if I were in this situation I would think of my parents as the people who adopted me, raised me and looked after me, not those who abandoned me (for whatever reason, good or bad.) My biological parents would simply be my DNA donors, I don't see the reason behind attributing something special to two strangers who have done nothing for him, while his adopted parents have raised him from a baby. My opinion of course, no offence meant.[/QUOTE] Because they birthed you, they are you, you are them. You hold a part of their body inside you.

~torpico~

Although I find it a little mean to say, you're 'real' parents didn't seem at all fit to care for you, and you should at least be grateful that you have a somewhat normal family now. Being a crackbaby is one thing, but growing up with a druggie mother is much, much worse.

hey, random question, do you know if they keep their back door locked?

[QUOTE=ken18;17806833]I found out my family tree is a straight line. :smug:[/QUOTE] My family decided to interbreed to attempt to spell "Cocks" with our family tree.

They probably want nothing to do with you.

[QUOTE=Nori;17802407]So.. you're a coke baby.[/QUOTE] (not trying to be mean, just reminded me of this video.) [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yBfSiwmTzV4[/media] [editline]07:06AM[/editline] [QUOTE=Daolpu;17806800]If you're willing to spend the money [url]http://www.intelius.com/[/url] can help to locate people.[/QUOTE] [img]http://www.hd-tv-live.com/wp-content/themes/prepelix/slider/slider4.jpg[/img]

[QUOTE=Nori;17802407]So.. you're a coke baby.[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=KaIibos;17802548]Your parents sound like losers :|[/QUOTE] Didn't yer mamas ever tell you "If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all"?

[QUOTE=doommarine23;17816958]Because they birthed you, they are you, you are them. You hold a part of their body inside you.[/QUOTE] You hold a chemical strand of acids inside you which happens to come from two strangers, I see that as a silly thing to associate with a 'connection'. Love and devotion from a persons adopting parents form a spiritual and meaningful connection, not some acid strand.

This makes me sad just thinking about it. I feel for you man.

[QUOTE=Nautsabes;17815188]Holy crap you're adopted?[/QUOTE] Yup. All my life.

why would you look for that woman that birthed you. You can't call her your mother. She didn't give shit about you seeing how she did drugs when you were in her. The people who adopted you, raised you, loved you and were always there for you are your parents. Not some crack whore prostitute who works for slim picket the pimp. [editline]04:54PM[/editline] and has been jail several times.

[QUOTE=WPlayer;17843472]why would you look for that woman that birthed you. You can't call her your mother. She didn't give shit about you seeing how she did drugs when you were in her. The people who adopted you, raised you, loved you and were always there for you are your parents. Not some crack whore prostitute who works for slim picket the pimp. [editline]04:54PM[/editline] and has been jail several times.[/QUOTE] Well it did she she resorted to prostitution or something just so she could feed him. Well at least I think so. To lazy to re-read now, but yeah I doubt she'd even care if you found her. I mean you've seen all those TV episodes right with the kid who wants to find his real parents blah blah.. yeah doesn't work out.

As we all know orphans or adopted children grow to be either super hobos, or super badass mofos that fucking kill everybody with their bare hands and have sex with every single woman. I give you an informative, sir

[QUOTE=lum1naire;17843544]Well it did she she resorted to prostitution or something just so she could feed him. Well at least I think so. To lazy to re-read now, but yeah I doubt she'd even care if you found her. I mean you've seen all those TV episodes right with the kid who wants to find his real parents blah blah.. yeah doesn't work out.[/QUOTE] didn't the OP say she was introduced to a pimp at the age of 12/15?

[QUOTE=WPlayer;17843593]didn't the OP say she was introduced to a pimp at the age of 12/15?[/QUOTE] The OP's a she?

[QUOTE=Ginteru;17843606]The OP's a she?[/QUOTE] you know what the fuck he meant you fucking smart ass I'm going to bust your teeth [editline]03:09PM[/editline] have a heart [editline]03:10PM[/editline] [QUOTE=WPlayer;17843593]didn't the OP say she was introduced to a pimp at the age of 12/15?[/QUOTE] yes

-snip- So mom did sex and drugs. And even if she did the prostitution to "provide" for you, it was still bad.

[QUOTE=lum1naire;17843640]you know what the fuck he meant you fucking smart ass I'm going to bust your teeth [editline]03:09PM[/editline] have a heart [/QUOTE] My bad, sorry, Sorry OP.

[QUOTE=Ginteru;17843606]The OP's a she?[/QUOTE] No. I'm a dude.