Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

[QUOTE=Battledrobe;46336588]A condom can break, and in the case of oral sex very few people use condoms. I tried to limit the risk by not allowing him to finish inside my mouth, but there remains a risk. A risk I'd rather not have to contend with. I don't like sex to begin with, now I'd like to get it out of my mind. I just see it as a bestial urge that's the result of my sex drive. I thought I could contain it, but clearly, I can't do that 99% of the time. I want it out of my system. Of course you can't cure homosexuality, so I'd like to know what else I could do to suppress it.[/QUOTE] the same way people who are straight control their ability to not fuck every girl in sight, self-control (or just fap every once and awhile, christ) or just make yourself really ugly that way no one will love u

[QUOTE=Battledrobe;46336588]A condom can break, and in the case of oral sex very few people use condoms. I tried to limit the risk by not allowing him to finish inside my mouth, but there remains a risk. A risk I'd rather not have to contend with. I don't like sex to begin with, now I'd like to get it out of my mind. I just see it as a bestial urge that's the result of my sex drive. I thought I could contain it, but clearly, I can't do that 99% of the time. I want it out of my system. Of course you can't cure homosexuality, so I'd like to know what else I could do to suppress it.[/QUOTE] Christ how old are you? Are you sure its not just your hormones causing you to be horny all the time? Lots of people are like that in their teen years. You just have to teach yourself self control. It will naturally start slowing down in your 20's.

[QUOTE=Battledrobe;46336331]Anyone got any suggestions for me? I'd consider myself a homo, though I really wish I weren't. I just don't like the whole package that comes with it. Of course, I've never came out of the closet - don't plan to either - don't give a shit about gay rights, don't plan to get into a relationship or what have you. I'd sworn off sex and hadn't had sex for a year, but last week I caved in and gave another student near my college a BJ. Now I'm worried about STDs, because he got a tiny amount of spunk in my eye. I've been told the risk is minimal, and he's told me he's healthy, but it bothers me that the prime crowd I'm attracted to also happens to be the most hedonistic crowd that also happens to carry the most health risks. So, because there's no 100% safe sex, and since I only feel ashamed after having sex with someone - I'd really like to swear off sex for good this time. I've been considering placing parental control on my devices that would block apps like Grindr, using some random password and then throwing it away. Does anyone else have other suggestions regarding that?[/QUOTE] How old are you? This entire post is extremely ridiculous to me. I think you need to worry about re-evaluating your life more than about getting STD's. Sincerely: every single healthy gay person above the age of 18-24 I have ever known (including myself). You are treating sex and being gay in the same way that a schoolboy treats "cooties" with girls. Stop that. I don't mean to sound harsh, but its going to be way better for you in the end the quicker you stop thinking so ridiculously. What about the "whole package" don't you like? Why are you swearing off sex? Why do you feel ashamed for having sex? You shouldn't generally worry about getting STD's in the eye or anything like that. Despite what the media tells you, you are just as likely to get STD's if you are straight as you are gay. Most people do not have STD's and will never have them. The risk of getting STD's from something like oral are so small you might as well not even worry about it, especially if you don't swallow and don't blow random guys all the time. Wear a condom when having sex with someone you don't 100% trust. Etc... I think you need to learn to accept yourself (its dumb not to), not be scared of sex, not be scared of being out of the closet, and figure out how your sexuality figures into your identity. I'm not saying to have lots of random sex, I'm saying is to not be afraid of it and take precaution if you happen to have a fling here and there. If you are primarily concerned with STD's the easiest way to solve that is to stop having random sex with people and only have sex with a trusted boyfriend (or with someone you trust a lot and know). That's the best fight against STD's - using your head. And this applies to everyone, not just gays. Sex is healthy, so is accepting you are gay. If you are in college and saying stuff like "I'll swear off sex forever, I'll never come out of the closet, I wish I wasn't gay" that is the real issue that needs fixing, not finding out how to install parental blockers on your phone. You need to accept yourself for who you are and solidify your identity without shame.

[QUOTE=TehWhale;46335374]You sometimes end up sucking dicks you're not supposed to when you're very drunk :([/QUOTE] And that's a bad thing?

[QUOTE=Battledrobe;46336331]Anyone got any suggestions for me? I'd consider myself a homo, though I really wish I weren't. I just don't like the whole package that comes with it. Of course, I've never came out of the closet - don't plan to either - don't give a shit about gay rights, don't plan to get into a relationship or what have you. I'd sworn off sex and hadn't had sex for a year, but [B]last week I caved in and gave another student near my college a BJ. Now I'm worried about STDs, because he got a tiny amount of spunk in my eye.[/B] I've been told the risk is minimal, and he's told me he's healthy, but it bothers me that the prime crowd I'm attracted to also happens to be the most hedonistic crowd that also happens to carry the most health risks. So, because there's no 100% safe sex, and since I only feel ashamed after having sex with someone - I'd really like to swear off sex for good this time. I've been considering placing parental control on my devices that would block apps like Grindr, using some random password and then throwing it away. Does anyone else have other suggestions regarding that?[/QUOTE] You're worried about getting an STD because you got jizz in your eye, when you would have gotten it through slobbering all over his dick. [I]Be realistic here.[/I]

I'm 19. First off, I find it jarring how people tell me "you need to accept yourself for who you are" (not only here). Being gay is not who I am. If I suddenly stopped liking guys, I wouldn't come out any different. I'd just rather jack it to tits than abs. I don't feel the need to tell anyone that I'm a homo, because it doesn't matter at all. [quote]What about the "whole package" don't you like?[/quote] What I mentioned above. I don't like it that being a homo is somehow seen as a pivotal part of myself, and if I dislike it or keep it to myself, either I'm self-loathing, or I'm in denial. It's ridiculous. [quote]Why are you swearing off sex?[/quote] Because I don't enjoy it, despite what my hormones tell me. [quote]Why do you feel ashamed for having sex?[/quote] Because it's something that I do behind everyone's back and every time when I think back on it, it just felt like a waste of time. What would my parents think? I don't think it's any surprise to anyone that I come from a conservative background, but when it comes to that I definitely value my relatives over my liking of guys. It's not that important to me, and I don't feel like it's a good influence overall.

[QUOTE=Battledrobe;46337026]I'm 19. First off, I find it jarring how people tell me "you need to accept yourself for who you are" (not only here). Being gay is not who I am. If I suddenly stopped liking guys, I wouldn't come out any different. I'd just rather jack it to tits than abs. I don't feel the need to tell anyone that I'm a homo, because it doesn't matter at all. What I mentioned above. I don't like it that being a homo is somehow seen as a pivotal part of myself, and if I dislike it or keep it to myself, either I'm self-loathing, or I'm in denial. It's ridiculous. Because I don't enjoy it, despite what my hormones tell me. Because it's something that I do behind everyone's back and every time when I think back on it, it just felt like a waste of time. What would my parents think? I don't think it's any surprise to anyone that I come from a conservative background, but when it comes to that I definitely value my relatives over my liking of guys. It's not that important to me, and I don't feel like it's a good influence overall.[/QUOTE] you're probably bisexual, and i'm guessing you were raised under the impression that LGBT people are a bunch of sinners/filth/weirdos and you don't want to be affiliated with them it sounds like you just need more real life experience, you don't have to have the fact that you're bisexual define you at all, and it won't and shouldn't change the way people look at you, or make you have a lisp and wear girly clothes or some shit until then you're just 19 so your hormones are probably crazy so just fap daily or whatever to keep yourself under control, this isn't rocket science

[QUOTE=Reagy;46336905]And that's a bad thing?[/QUOTE] Of course is not. Dick sucking is the best hobby in this world.

WHY DID POSTAL UNBANNED BREAKYOURFAC. It´s the only mistake he did.

[QUOTE={TFS} Rock Su;46337294]WHY DID POSTAL UNBANNED BREAKYOURFAC. It´s the only mistake he did.[/QUOTE] WE'RE DOOMED.

[QUOTE=Battledrobe;46336331]Anyone got any suggestions for me? I'd consider myself a homo, though I really wish I weren't. I just don't like the whole package that comes with it. Of course, I've never came out of the closet - don't plan to either - don't give a shit about gay rights, don't plan to get into a relationship or what have you. I'd sworn off sex and hadn't had sex for a year, but last week I caved in and gave another student near my college a BJ. Now I'm worried about STDs, because he got a tiny amount of spunk in my eye. I've been told the risk is minimal, and he's told me he's healthy, but it bothers me that the prime crowd I'm attracted to also happens to be the most hedonistic crowd that also happens to carry the most health risks. So, because there's no 100% safe sex, and since I only feel ashamed after having sex with someone - I'd really like to swear off sex for good this time. I've been considering placing parental control on my devices that would block apps like Grindr, using some random password and then throwing it away. Does anyone else have other suggestions regarding that?[/QUOTE] There are much bigger risks involved in your day-to-day activities then giving a guy a bj. [editline]26th October 2014[/editline] [QUOTE=Battledrobe;46337026]I'm 19. First off, I find it jarring how people tell me "you need to accept yourself for who you are" (not only here). Being gay is not who I am. If I suddenly stopped liking guys, I wouldn't come out any different. I'd just rather jack it to tits than abs. I don't feel the need to tell anyone that I'm a homo, because it doesn't matter at all. What I mentioned above. I don't like it that being a homo is somehow seen as a pivotal part of myself, and if I dislike it or keep it to myself, either I'm self-loathing, or I'm in denial. It's ridiculous. Because I don't enjoy it, despite what my hormones tell me. Because it's something that I do behind everyone's back and every time when I think back on it, it just felt like a waste of time. What would my parents think? I don't think it's any surprise to anyone that I come from a conservative background, but when it comes to that I definitely value my relatives over my liking of guys. It's not that important to me, and I don't feel like it's a good influence overall.[/QUOTE] I seriously doubt you don't enjoy sex, hormones don't make you do anything you don't enjoy. Just do what everybody else does tho, pretend it never happened and get a girlfriend. It might catch up to you later but you can worry about it then.

[QUOTE=Battledrobe;46336331]Anyone got any suggestions for me? I'd consider myself a homo, though I really wish I weren't. I just don't like the whole package that comes with it. Of course, I've never came out of the closet - don't plan to either - don't give a shit about gay rights, don't plan to get into a relationship or what have you. I'd sworn off sex and hadn't had sex for a year, but last week I caved in and gave another student near my college a BJ. Now I'm worried about STDs, because he got a tiny amount of spunk in my eye. I've been told the risk is minimal, and he's told me he's healthy, but it bothers me that the prime crowd I'm attracted to also happens to be the most hedonistic crowd that also happens to carry the most health risks. So, because there's no 100% safe sex, and since I only feel ashamed after having sex with someone - I'd really like to swear off sex for good this time. I've been considering placing parental control on my devices that would block apps like Grindr, using some random password and then throwing it away. Does anyone else have other suggestions regarding that?[/QUOTE] Do you even know how STDs are transmitted? Through blood, and through microabbraisions caused by skin on skin contact. Getting jizz in your eye doesn't raise your chances of contracting an STD any more than kissing the guy.

Yo I'm pretty sure hes trolling. I mean the eye thing is proof enough

job hunting tomorrow and the next day. that being the good news, the bad news is i miss the first day of the hoxton breakout but im sure i'll get over it

Tonight I said I'd work on my assignment. And now I'm too tired and stressed to be able to focus. Damn it me why do you have to be such a big dumb stupid idiot face

Anyone have that feeling when it's like 10,11,12pm and you really want to go to bed but you don't want to because you feel like there is so much more to do

[QUOTE=Battledrobe;46337026]I'm 19. First off, I find it jarring how people tell me "you need to accept yourself for who you are" (not only here). Being gay is not who I am. If I suddenly stopped liking guys, I wouldn't come out any different. I'd just rather jack it to tits than abs. I don't feel the need to tell anyone that I'm a homo, because it doesn't matter at all. What I mentioned above. I don't like it that being a homo is somehow seen as a pivotal part of myself, and if I dislike it or keep it to myself, either I'm self-loathing, or I'm in denial. It's ridiculous. Because I don't enjoy it, despite what my hormones tell me. Because it's something that I do behind everyone's back and every time when I think back on it, it just felt like a waste of time. What would my parents think? I don't think it's any surprise to anyone that I come from a conservative background, but when it comes to that I definitely value my relatives over my liking of guys. It's not that important to me, and I don't feel like it's a good influence overall.[/QUOTE] Have you tried talking to a therapist?

so that photographer guy i think i've mentioned on here a few times before. i found him on an online dating site and read his profile and it sounds like we have a lot in common. only problem is i really don't want to create an OKC account because I have no idea how to actually write a dating profile for myself so it'd be a very poor first impression. One of my friends is close friends with him, only problem is I don't see her that much so i feel it'd be awkward for me to ask her for help with setting something up through facebook since i haven't seen her since the beginning of the semester. i could just add him on facebook and start talking to him that way but that seems too awkward too. please help, i really want to make this happen but i don't know how to proceed -_-

Just a thought but why do people say men shouldn't drink girly drinks, I think girly drinks taste the best.

[QUOTE=ultra_bright;46340682]Just a thought but why do people say men shouldn't drink girly drinks, I think girly drinks taste the best.[/QUOTE] obligatory that one video I can't find about manly drinks vs girly drinks [editline]39[/editline] [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7lPtr6dQrnY[/media] Since I'm only 18 I can't really relate to any alcohol discussion. I did have white wine at thanksgiving and it tasted like trash, I'll probably have the same experience when I drink other variants of alcohol.

[QUOTE=ultra_bright;46340682]Just a thought but why do people say men shouldn't drink girly drinks, I think girly drinks taste the best.[/QUOTE] I drink cider. v:rolleyes:v

since when was cider a girly drink

[QUOTE=Viva;46340969]since when was cider a girly drink[/QUOTE] Since strawberry.

reagy is a girly girl. whatelse is new

strangely I have never tried cider, but I don't like most other sugary alcoholic drinks.

I missed the getting drunk discussion because I was getting drunk. But now we're back on cider so it's ok. I had a cider last night. Just one. Also five shots of absinthe. Unsurprisingly there is a quite large blank space in my memory. That's the first time that has ever happened to me. I had a cocktail that tasted like pineapple it was delicious, there was one called Ryan Gosling but I couldn't afford it. On the subject of doing things you regret, I woke up to a call from my [I]father[/I] telling me I had lost my wallet. I was in a different city to him. I didn't even know I had lost my wallet. Then I went and got my wallet from the police (complete with all cards and cash, what luck) and instructed the police officer to "have a good afternoon!" at 8am in the morning. Which leads me to waking up drunk: that is so fun. I got to see all the messages I didn't remember sending whilst still drunk so they were entertaining rather than embarrassing. They included: a text to someone "You're lamaxjng" and a ten second snapchat of me in a very dark club with the caption: "Cancer." Then I went home and at 11am I was still tipsy and sent a barely clothed picture of myself to [I]everyone[/I] on my snapchat list declaring I had made it home. That was probably the closest I came to actually regretting something. What else happened. It was amazing fun. Oh, half of it feels like a dream so I had to confirm things like me meeting my cousin (I knew he was gay but he didn't know I knew so I hope that wasn't awkward) who was apparently very nice and kept checking in on me. He thought I was on drugs at first. Kept asking me what I had taken. Well, maybe he just wanted some idk. :v: I met a B-grade celebrity, apparently some gay guy who won big brother. Cool for him because he was there alone but always had someone to talk to. I "danced" a lot. Was dropped off at my brothers house and I broke in through the back door, fell asleep on the couch, woke up before any of them woke up and left. So I ninja-slept they never even knew. Oh and I threw up at one point I think but as usual I did it with great skill in a garden and didn't ruin anything. The only thing about getting black out drunk (wait does that mean what I think it means, I didn't actually pass out at any point) that I don't like is not remembering all the cool things I did. I had a little bit of a hangover I guess which is the first time that has happened to me as well. Normally I don't get any hangover at all. But also normally I drink way more water than I did. Yes. As for the appeal of getting extraordinarily wasted here it's mostly a culture thing. Yay for alcohol let's melt our brains and all that. Cider tastes ok but too close to apple juice for some reason (even if there is no apple) and so it kinda makes me feel sick. [editline]27th October 2014[/editline] Oh and as for sucking dicks you weren't supposed to, last night was surprisingly tame of me I don't think I even tried to kiss anyone (that might be wrong though, I haven't asked). However one time I had a threesome with my then boyfriend and a guy who I later learned has a crush on me but I had no attraction to him whatsoever; he woke up in the middle of the night and snuck out to go feel immense regret at home. Poor guy.

[QUOTE=Rexxasaurus;46341176]strangely I have never tried cider, but I don't like most other sugary alcoholic drinks.[/QUOTE] Eh, you're not missing much.

I am going to watch Toy Story 3 for the first time. My family watched it without me when it came out and I am only just now getting around to it.

I only drink cider. :>

I think I'm bi-gender '>.<