Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

[QUOTE=Mysterious;46344053]My Halloween outfit: [IMG]http://i58.tinypic.com/2v3g2uv.jpg[/IMG] Watch everyone think I'm an ebola survivor/Breaking Bad person or something[/QUOTE] Those sanitary shoes. Also, not good enough. Go hazmat or go home. [T]http://polarvest.com/Media/Images/HazMat%201%20.jpg[/T]

[QUOTE=Mysterious;46344053]My Halloween outfit: [IMG]http://i58.tinypic.com/2v3g2uv.jpg[/IMG] Watch everyone think I'm an ebola survivor/Breaking Bad person or something[/QUOTE] CROCS.

It's just a WIP right now. The final costume is gonna have a different mask, some blood of course, and I swear, I won't be wearing crocs :v:

[QUOTE=Mysterious;46344182]It's just a WIP right now. The final costume is gonna have a different mask, some blood of course, and I swear, I won't be wearing crocs :v:[/QUOTE] Excuses. We all know you love crocs. YOU DO. ADMIT IT.

Crocs are awesome for summer. Not much better for anything else.

[QUOTE=Teto;46343172]I was considering joining up with a gym so I can get in good shape, to compensate for my self-conscious fear of being bad at sex. Or maybe I could look for self esteem somewhere else, that doesn't cost me £20 a month. I'll give it a think.[/QUOTE] This time next year you'll wish you started today. It's a good thing to do just because it takes care of your body and makes you look good. Start slow, if you push yourself too hard at first you'll end up feeling awful and tired, wondering how anyone can enjoy this. Your body will eventually (over weeks/months) get used to exercising regularly and you'll enjoy yourself.

[QUOTE={TFS} Rock Su;46344212]Crocs are awesome for summer. Not much better for anything else.[/QUOTE] Oh please, i'd rather wear sandals than crocs during summer.

[img]http://puu.sh/crfA2/3bf6b81c13.jpg[/img] changes / slight altercations are being made but ye

[QUOTE=redback3;46344247][img]http://puu.sh/crfA2/3bf6b81c13.jpg[/img] changes / slight altercations are being made but ye[/QUOTE] 9/10 need more blood on the jacket.

[QUOTE=redback3;46344247][img]http://puu.sh/crfA2/3bf6b81c13.jpg[/img] changes / slight altercations are being made but ye[/QUOTE] Welp, just got put to shame :P

[quote]Good Morning Alexander, I hope you're well and you had a good weekend. Thanks for getting in touch about the opportunity at Actorshop. I'm currently meeting with people this week. Are you free to meet on Wednesday or Thursday morning? Looking forward to hearing from you. All my best, Allen Liedkie [/quote] AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!! also, look what I found for £5: [t]http://puu.sh/csYBL/6ca5149980.jpg[/t]

Yaaaaay I finished my assignment on the day it was due in. I hope BTEC doesn't murder me \:v:/

Kind of wish I lived in a country where Halloween was celebrated so I could dress up like that.

[QUOTE=redback3;46344464]AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!! also, look what I found for £5: [t]http://puu.sh/csYBL/6ca5149980.jpg[/t][/QUOTE] aww yiss

I´m thinking of buying a stock of Irn Bru just for myself after birthday. How does it taste tho? Something like a fanta but much better?

[QUOTE={TFS} Rock Su;46345434]I´m thinking of buying a stock of Irn Bru just for myself after birthday. How does it taste tho? Something like a fanta but much better?[/QUOTE] It's like coca cola in that it doesn't taste like anything else. The difference is it doesn't taste like coca cola. It just tastes like irn bru.

hi gay people im callum im bored how do i english

My sister was bugging me about exercise and such and how I should be doing it which was really annoying me because I felt like I was being picked on - I said jokingly "I've lost respect for you" which hurt her and now she's saying it's her fault that she's pushing into my life and bothering me about stuff. I feel bad because she helped me with so many things and now she just seems sad...i dunno :/

[QUOTE=Mysterious;46344053]My Halloween outfit: [IMG]http://i58.tinypic.com/2v3g2uv.jpg[/IMG] Watch everyone think I'm an ebola survivor/Breaking Bad person or something[/QUOTE] beautiful scenery

[QUOTE=elevate;46347390]beautiful scenery[/QUOTE] The field behind me is literally filled with shit :v:

I don't even know what I'll do for Halloween. Got asked to do a gig with the quartet that night anyway. Maybe people'll appreciate Patrick Bateman playing the trombone? I could totally do that.

[QUOTE=Battledrobe;46342988]Pretty sure I'm gay, not bi. The female body just doesn't arouse or interest me at all. It's true that I've been raised with the notion that gay people are freaks and that I don't want to be associated with them -- with the whole gay marriage thing that's been going on in France recently, I've often heard family members refer to homos as faggots and the likes. I don't really have a stance on it, but if coming out (which I'm not particularly interested in) means that my family will begin shunning me and classifying me as a faggot, I'm not sure why coming out would even be considered a good idea in my situation. Again, I'd rather not mess up my family relations just because I told them that I like guys. They're still my family, and I don't want to disappoint them. If I have to choose between my sexuality and my loved ones, I'll choose the latter. What do you think?[/QUOTE] Don't let your sexuality define you, as well as don't bother denying it. Doing both will only alienate you and greatly conflict you (as evident by your past posts). Your family doesn't have to know, they don't need to really, if sexuality is that important to them than they have more important things to spend their effort and time on. As for the here and now, you're still young. I somewhat understand what you mean about sex as i fall into the category of people who largely find sex rather overrated. It feels good sure but i quite honestly couldn't care if i had sex or not and would rather just find someone i'm comfortable with to spend time together. Don't cite hormones as making you go out and seek sex, that's legitimately just poor self control. If you are actively denying your sexuality to yourself this may even be a symptom of it. To shorten all this, don't deny sexuality, don't put yourself down due to it. Your family does not need to know unless/until you find someone very important to you in your life in which case it's not out of the question to tell your family. The idea of 'coming out' is something so ingrained in the minds of some lgbt members that they become fixated on feeling the need to tell their family or wanting so badly to be accepted. Coming out is something that for many people is a pointless or even counter productive task. They're you're family but they don't know everything about you, everyone has aspects they keep to themselves or away from others. Don't bother going over in your head if you should come out or not unless there is a serious reason to do so (I.E meeting someone very important to your life). Just keep growing up and maturing and as you grow older more wisdom can come to you allowing you to more accurately weigh things for your situation.

[img_thumb]http://i.imgur.com/XLhcHHi.jpg[/img_thumb] Looks like the infection is spreading.

Whoa there's one in philly, i'm checking them out at some point.

Something weird happened on the weekend. I went to my boyfriends uni-reunion and met all his friends. There were these 2 identicle twin sisters there. They were adorable, cute and very very pretty. And i couldn't stop looking at them and i kind of wanted to be with them in a way? There was no like sexual desire to be with them but i don't know. It was really strange, i've never felt like that before with females.

Fucking cs:go is like "here's a classified rifle" "oh boy i'm gonna open more crates and get rare items like this!" £20 of keys later and still nothing above mil-spec ;~; whyyyy

Lesson learned, don't gamble.

You could blow triple that amount and get nothing good. Save your money and don't waste it on keys for CSGO

[QUOTE=Rexxasaurus;46350474]You could blow triple that amount and get nothing good. Save your money and don't waste it on keys for CSGO[/QUOTE] b-but i could get a $300 knife there's a chance i don't have a problem what are you talking about

[QUOTE=Viva;46349251]Don't let your sexuality define you, as well as don't bother denying it. Doing both will only alienate you and greatly conflict you (as evident by your past posts). Your family doesn't have to know, they don't need to really, if sexuality is that important to them than they have more important things to spend their effort and time on. As for the here and now, you're still young. I somewhat understand what you mean about sex as i fall into the category of people who largely find sex rather overrated. It feels good sure but i quite honestly couldn't care if i had sex or not and would rather just find someone i'm comfortable with to spend time together. Don't cite hormones as making you go out and seek sex, that's legitimately just poor self control. If you are actively denying your sexuality to yourself this may even be a symptom of it. To shorten all this, don't deny sexuality, don't put yourself down due to it. Your family does not need to know unless/until you find someone very important to you in your life in which case it's not out of the question to tell your family. [B]The idea of 'coming out' is something so ingrained in the minds of some lgbt members that they become fixated on feeling the need to tell their family or wanting so badly to be accepted. Coming out is something that for many people is a pointless or even counter productive task.[/B] They're you're family but they don't know everything about you, everyone has aspects they keep to themselves or away from others. Don't bother going over in your head if you should come out or not unless there is a serious reason to do so (I.E meeting someone very important to your life). Just keep growing up and maturing and as you grow older more wisdom can come to you allowing you to more accurately weigh things for your situation.[/QUOTE] From my point of view everything you said here was good except for the bold bit. I agree that at this point in his particular situation the focus should not be his family's acceptance but his own acceptance of himself, but all of the following (except the bit in brackets - not this bit the next bit :v:) is talking more broadly for other people reading the thread I guess. (For Battle: at the moment everything Viva said for your situation is 100% correct). Coming out I don't think is pointless or counter-productive if done with a reasonable degree of sensibility - even in for the "many people" you refer too (unless those people are people in a place where homosexuality is illegal). If they research and prepare well an individual will only benefit themselves and others by coming out. Of course, you have got to be in the right place. That's mentally, physically and financially. This will vary according to individual circumstances. It can be strategic to remain secretive about your sexuality to your family, but if you are financially secure, independant and your family is bigoted and homophobic you are just trading a lifetime of putting up with that for a year or two of dealing with it directly. And depending on their level of bigotry, you can be directly exposing others to that homophobia when you have the opportunity to stop it. From what I understand, from people I talk to, from things I have read - whilst I must put the disclaimer I certainly haven't lived it - society in civilised places will allow even the most bigoted people to come around and accept a gay relative - and subsequently be more accepting of other lgbt people - if approached in the right circumstances, which can be manufactured by the individual.