Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

[QUOTE=SPESSMEHREN;46464195]HOYL FUCK ITS WORKING ^_^ omg guys... i'm having a conversation with a cute guy on OKC and we have tons of relevant interests :3[/QUOTE] be careful etc. but I hope it's all going well :) [QUOTE=DigitalySane;46455616][img]https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/18317806/Photo%2020-10-2014%2008%2011%2056%20pm.jpg[/img] random hi also filters cause bf likes filters.[/QUOTE] adorable

I'm gonna be learning C# and C++ next year at college, it's gonna be interesting to say the least.

[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;46465068]At least non of you are learning Java. You'll get bored of it so easily. [code]CLASS CLASS CLASS CLASS CLASS CLASS CLASS CLASS CLASS CLASS CLASS CLASS CLASS CLASS CLASS CLASS // fuck this code [/code][/QUOTE] News for you, I'm learning Java this year.

This is like c# in a nutshell.

Every time I do Java I die a little inside. So far the funnest language I've worked with is Perl. [code] $wagmaster[420]; #yolo[/code] Legit line of code

[QUOTE=Reagy;46465040]I'm gonna be learning C# and C++ next year at college, it's gonna be interesting to say the least.[/QUOTE] I have to reverse engineer a program in C++ by this Friday. I don't know C++. Help.

[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;46465120]You poor fucking soul.[/QUOTE] I already know it's a terrible fucking mess to use. But its the only thing that really will just work on anything if coded correctly.

My next project is to code a small 12x12 grid where a genestealer and a marine try to find each other and kill each other and create a text log out of it. In lua.

i'm learning php, css and such go me

[QUOTE=Reagy;46465144]I already know it's a terrible fucking mess to use. But its the only thing that really will just work on anything if coded correctly.[/QUOTE] The language itself is really not as bad as people make it out to be. Its mainly just that all the tools surrounding the language are ass.

[video=youtube;b-Cr0EWwaTk]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-Cr0EWwaTk[/video]

Sorry I haven't posted here in a while, just been feeling sort of awkward is all.

Story time: So I, like many, have had experiences of loneliness that I've tried to solve through various means like online dating. However, sites like OKC were too slow and apps like Grindr or Tinder were way too forward. I can be pretty prude when it comes to dating: I always assume the guys I meet are straight, and I never hit on straight guys. This makes it pretty difficult for me to flirt or effectively strike up conversations with men. I also thought I could never do hook ups just for the fear of all that could go wrong. However, my 21st birthday came and went this past week, and it's like a switch has flipped. I downloaded grindr and got stood up by some guy. That caused me to call up my ex for a hook up, which gave my the confidence to hit up a bunch of guys on tinder and grindr. This means I started sending nudes to people I've talked to for only a few minutes. The only thing is, is that I'm loving it. Pretty attractive guys are calling me sexy, and now a bunch of people want to meet up and hang out with me, not the other way around. I've also started anonymous camming, which I totally wouldn't have done before this past week but it turns out I love it? This is causing some inner turmoil, however. I love all this attention but it's causing my anxiety levels to go off the chart. I'm still not at the point of meeting anonymous guys, but I've had some decent conversations with people I'd love to go to coffee with or something similar. tl;dr, I've had a very sexually liberating week and a half. Do I need to worry more about the consequences?

I would be very careful with who you send nudes to. You never know when it might come back and bite you in the ass.

Grats on the booty call bro.

[QUOTE=Cold;46465575]The language itself is really not as bad as people make it out to be. Its mainly just that all the tools surrounding the language are ass.[/QUOTE] And that's what makes the language turn into ass, because the tools are useless. You can have a great functional language but if the tools you use to create it butcher it to fuck, it's pointless. Also the fact that shit like OOP with Java is so fucking hacked in and doesn't follow with the formatting that other languages use is just amazingly retarded.

I'm pretty well-versed in programming, but I also started from a really young age. I do PHP and JavaScript professionally, but I also do C++, C# (ASP.NET typically), as well as Ruby (on Rails). I do really want to learn more C++ since it's such as versatile language, I just lack the motivation.

The trailer for the film I shot back in August is up! [video=youtube;t0Iz3TrgK0g]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t0Iz3TrgK0g[/video]

I'm learning C++, Java, PHP, CSS and SQL(like 3 different types). [editline]11th November 2014[/editline] also I hate programming for mobiles it's unbelievably boring and shit, idgaf if there is a massive market you could make the best app and get buried under the unbelievable amount of shit so it doesn't even matter.

Developing mobile apps/games is like playing the lottery. You might make a really neat, original, very well designed game and you'll get a <100 downloads. And then this other ass-hat comes along who who copied a 2002 flash games and gets 100 million downloads.

Speaking of programming, I did Java last year. Boy it was fun... My teacher was so bad, that class was self learn or fail.. Many people dropped the course.

[QUOTE=DanTehMan;46465973]Story time: So I, like many, have had experiences of loneliness that I've tried to solve through various means like online dating. However, sites like OKC were too slow and apps like Grindr or Tinder were way too forward. I can be pretty prude when it comes to dating: I always assume the guys I meet are straight, and I never hit on straight guys. This makes it pretty difficult for me to flirt or effectively strike up conversations with men. I also thought I could never do hook ups just for the fear of all that could go wrong. However, my 21st birthday came and went this past week, and it's like a switch has flipped. I downloaded grindr and got stood up by some guy. That caused me to call up my ex for a hook up, which gave my the confidence to hit up a bunch of guys on tinder and grindr. This means I started sending nudes to people I've talked to for only a few minutes. The only thing is, is that I'm loving it. Pretty attractive guys are calling me sexy, and now a bunch of people want to meet up and hang out with me, not the other way around. I've also started anonymous camming, which I totally wouldn't have done before this past week but it turns out I love it? This is causing some inner turmoil, however. I love all this attention but it's causing my anxiety levels to go off the chart. I'm still not at the point of meeting anonymous guys, but I've had some decent conversations with people I'd love to go to coffee with or something similar. tl;dr, I've had a very sexually liberating week and a half. Do I need to worry more about the consequences?[/QUOTE] Lol, it's funny that just after posting this my fears may have been realized. Apparently some instagram account started posting nudes from grindr guys in my area, and apparently I might've been one of them. Honestly, I wouldn't mind too much if it didn't link the pictures to my face and my name...

[QUOTE=DanTehMan;46468288]Lol, it's funny that just after posting this my fears may have been realized. Apparently some instagram account started posting nudes from grindr guys in my area, and apparently I might've been one of them. Honestly, I wouldn't mind too much if it didn't link the pictures to my face and my name...[/QUOTE] Yuck. I was going to say as long as you don't intend to get into politics or some kind of super conservative profession you should be fine (even then as long as you don't send anything to people underage or you aren't underage or you aren't cheating on anyone it's your personal stuff so it technically shouldn't impact any career that isn't based in PR and might improve some! In ten or twenty years it will matter even less). But then I forgot about gay people who out gay people for lolz. I think it's one of the most disgusting things you can do - in relation to this whole social networking gay scene - is to out someone whether you know them or not. Anyway, they have to take it down if you ask otherwise you can sue them, if you're in the right US state, for invasion of privacy since you had a reasonable expectation of privacy when you gave them your picture.

so i'm messaging this guy on okc... when should i recommend us to meet or go on a date or something?

[QUOTE=SPESSMEHREN;46468584]so i'm messaging this guy on okc... when should i recommend us to meet or go on a date or something?[/QUOTE] Now I go as early as possible with a very relaxed no expectations kind of attitude. Unfortunately if they're anxious themselves (and they probably are) they can take that the wrong way and freak out thinking you want to murder them. That's what I used to do before I got over my anxiety problems. Just be nonchalant about it and if they say no don't make a big deal about it and accept their answer right away. [editline]12th November 2014[/editline] I figure I can learn more about them in thirty seconds of talking in person than I can in three weeks of chatting. And I tend too as well. Some people make really great profiles and read well online but in person they're really not so exciting. Others seem like a complete waste of time online (because they're too busy having a life or whatever to respond) but in person are absolutely awesome.

hmm... any recommendations on what to do/where to go? We both live 20 minutes away from the city and I don't go frequently so I have no idea what kind of places there are.

[QUOTE=SPESSMEHREN;46468734]hmm... any recommendations on what to do/where to go? We both live 20 minutes away from the city and I don't go frequently so I have no idea what kind of places there are.[/QUOTE] Dinner and/or a movie, the tried and true classic. Get to know each-other better. Hit off a great conversation or two. The first date is always the one to see if things will click or not.

[QUOTE=MaddaCheeb;46468755]Dinner and/or a movie, the tried and true classic. Get to know each-other better. Hit off a great conversation or two. The first date is always the one to see if things will click or not.[/QUOTE] Honestly, you can't go wrong with coffee. Expected time is only about 45 minutes to have a chat over some coffee, but if you're having a good time it can run much longer. If you don't like coffee, you can always get a specialty tea or juice, or even hot chocolate.

I think it was before I had ever gone on a date with anyone ever I read in this thread that movies aren't a good idea for a first date because you're watching the movie, sitting next to someone you barely know and pretty much unable to talk to avoid being rude and ruining the movie. That's been 100% my experience. Coffee/hot chocolate/cheesecake/dinner/lunch/breakfast/food/talking are far better. The only time a movie worked for me as a "date" was because we weren't exactly watching the movie...

ask them out for coffee, that way even if it goes bad you still got coffee. Coffee will never hurt you. Coffee is your friend.