Gay Chat V11 - Were you expecting something funny? - General

I am not gay

[QUOTE=Ax3l;46644862]I am not gay[/QUOTE] What is your problem you sick freak

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[QUOTE=Xieneus;46644456]hey~[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;46644462]mmm hey darlings~[/QUOTE] hey there qts how's it going

[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;46645389]mmm good bby[/QUOTE] mhm mhm that's good babe

I've had a swollen ankle for two days now and I have no idea what's causing it. All the doctors around here are either closed or full. fml

[QUOTE=JPlus;46645380]hey there qts how's it going[/QUOTE] doin' fineEEeeEEEeeEEee

[QUOTE=Xieneus;46645476]doin' fineEEeeEEEeeEEee[/QUOTE] das goOOOoOOooooOOood i'm doing fineEEeeEEEeeEEee toooOOoOooOOOoo okay i'll stop now sorry

Finished playing GTA IV. Good game.

[QUOTE=H4ngman;46638565] Also, random face pic. [IMG_thumb]http://s18.postimg.org/fprk31q49/image.png[/IMG_thumb] Shaggy hair, glasses and I haven't shaved due to flu rendering me unable to go out for 2 weeks other than work. But I feel good, generally[/QUOTE] Where'd the super long hair go you changed you sold out man!!! Amazing beard for having not shaved for so long though. I'd just end up with a gross neckbeard. Really sucks to hear about the health shit, I hope that the shoulder surgery helps.

[QUOTE=Viva;46633924] Like gta sa was a fun game, and they added some really awesome mechanics for rpg like elements but failed in their implementation in various ways (all i need to say is: gang wars). But i felt that with saints row and other games that pushed that crazy factor rockstar amped up their game and focused more on 'let's have the player do insane shit' more than anything. I can certainly sit down and play though it over and over and i have several times.[/QUOTE] Hate to revisit this again. But it just occurred to me that Saints Row couldn't have been an influence. San Andreas came out nearly 2 years before the first Saints Row which wasn't released until late 2006. If anything, San Andreas influenced Saints Row. Was there another example of over the top games you can think of from the 2003-2004 era? I'm sure one existed, but I can't think of one currently. They may have simply just been ramping up the crazy because "why not?" It is Rockstar after all.

[QUOTE=Demache;46651243]Hate to revisit this again. But it just occurred to me that Saints Row couldn't have been an influence. San Andreas came out nearly 2 years before the first Saints Row which wasn't released until late 2006. If anything, San Andreas influenced Saints Row. Was there another example of over the top games you can think of from the 2003-2004 era? I'm sure one existed, but I can't think of one currently. They may have simply just been ramping up the crazy because "why not?" It is Rockstar after all.[/QUOTE] Aye, i knew saints row wasn't out at the time as saints row was about 2 years after. However, there were other gta clones out at the time or games the mimicked gta which pushed more crazy aspects like True Crime. I only used saints row as it was easier and got the point across and is much more well known.

[QUOTE=Zeke129;46647609]Where'd the super long hair go you changed you sold out man!!! [/QUOTE] nigga u high? Its just behind my head lol [IMG]http://s2.postimg.org/pccrb4srt/image.png[/IMG]

Hi Jesus!

[QUOTE=usaokay;46652000]Heeeeeeeeey dudes and dudettes, I'm doing a paper based on my gay relative and I would like some direct quotes/stories from you folks (really [B]really [/B]serious quotes yo). You don't need to answer it if you want. I'm just taking a shot in the dark here. - Have you told your parents/relatives of your sexuality yet? Why or why not? - Besides parents/relatives and strangers on the internet, who else know of your sexuality? - Has anyone (includes people on the internet) negatively reacted to your sexuality? Do you think this caused some pressure trying to confess in the real world too? - What were the main thoughts going through your head whenever you think about telling other people (not internet people, they don't count)? Okay, my gay relative is married to some South Korean dude he met during his stay in SK. The only problem this Korean dude has is that he hasn't told his own family (except for one friend) that he's gay. This is for anyone who already has a SO: - Do you show affection for one another in public? Why or why not? - Would you withhold your sexuality from your parents? Why or why not? - Have you ever been to a gay community? If yes, do you feel most comfortable being there? Oh yeah, for the paper, I might need your real names (p sure my journalism prof checks up on that). You can PM me that if you want.[/QUOTE] My closer family, my best friend, and most if not all strangers on the internet know too. My mum seems to think it's either just a phase or I'm bi or something and I think my step-dad doesn't care at all. Though surprisingly, I've never been discriminated online for being gay. Like, the furthest it goes is an obvious joke, it's kinda odd to be honest if you play that in tandem with the stereotype so now I reflect on it I find it sort of confusing but on the other hand I don't really care anyway. As for the main thoughts telling people, it's like, compare it to trying to ask someone out. You make up plans to do it, and you think okay I'm gonna do it now, and then as you get nearer to it you get more nervous then when it finally gets to the situation it's like a 50/50 chance if you'll say it or be silent about it. It's slightly embarassing to do sometimes and I always tried to dodge using the word "gay" or anything, I normally kinda hint at it. That's how it goes for me anyway. I'll PM you my name.

[QUOTE=usaokay;46652000]Heeeeeeeeey dudes and dudettes, I'm doing a paper based on my gay relative and I would like some direct quotes/stories from you folks (really [B]really [/B]serious quotes yo). You don't need to answer it if you want. I'm just taking a shot in the dark here. - Have you told your parents/relatives of your sexuality yet? Why or why not? - Besides parents/relatives and strangers on the internet, who else know of your sexuality? - Has anyone (includes people on the internet) negatively reacted to your sexuality? Do you think this caused some pressure trying to confess in the real world too? - What were the main thoughts going through your head whenever you think about telling other people (not internet people, they don't count)? Okay, my gay relative is married to some South Korean dude he met during his stay in SK. The only problem this Korean dude has is that he hasn't told his own family (except for one friend) that he's gay. This is for anyone who already has a SO: - Do you show affection for one another in public? Why or why not? - Would you withhold your sexuality from your parents? Why or why not? - Have you ever been to a gay community? If yes, do you feel most comfortable being there? Oh yeah, for the paper, I might need your real names (p sure my journalism prof checks up on that). You can PM me that if you want.[/QUOTE] PM Sent. In other news I'm really happy today. I came into class this morning, and my professor pulled me aside, out into the hall. At first I thought I did something wrong or whatever, but it was completely the opposite! He told me how all my lab reports were phenomenal, very detailed and well laid out and that he would like to use them as examples for his other classes. And not only were they very well done, but I apparently did more than I had to (We only had to do 8 out of 14 apparently, I did like 12 :v:) and since my quiz scores were so well I had a 124% average, and I was thus exempt from the final exam. He also told me he'd be writing me a letter of recommendation for any future endeavors and had he been running his own business he'd definitely hire me in an instant as I was a very efficient and effective worker! My day has been made! :D

[QUOTE=H4ngman;46652215]nigga u high? Its just behind my head lol [IMG]http://s2.postimg.org/pccrb4srt/image.png[/IMG][/QUOTE] Phew Looks great with that beard imo

Yeah, H4ngman looks hot as shit, plain and simple. Congrats.

[QUOTE=Teto;46657335]Yeah, H4ngman looks hot as shit, plain and simple. Congrats.[/QUOTE] 9/5 would drink with.

How come everytime I feel awful I feel like I want to identify as straight. Does anyone else get this?

[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;46657413]How come everytime I feel awful I feel like I want to identify as straight. Does anyone else get this?[/QUOTE] most likely you're evaluating your life and seeing where things could have stemmed from. I get like this often actually and i think, well things are tough and being gay makes things seem/feel harder. I wonder what it would have been like if i were straight, would i be better off? I wouldn't have to worry about negative things to the same extent. I even had a girlfriend/high school sweetheart that things crumbled around and i can only think that if i were straight, i would have had a lasting relationship with her. Really its just like self deprecation i think. AKA 'Man life would have been so much better if X didn't happen and Y happened instead'

H4ngman teach me the ways of luscious locks

[QUOTE=Viva;46657459]most likely you're evaluating your life and seeing where things could have stemmed from. I get like this often actually and i think, well things are tough and being gay makes things seem/feel harder. I wonder what it would have been like if i were straight, would i be better off? I wouldn't have to worry about negative things to the same extent. I even had a girlfriend/high school sweetheart that things crumbled around and i can only think that if i were straight, i would have had a lasting relationship with her. Really its just like self deprecation i think. AKA 'Man life would have been so much better if X didn't happen and Y happened instead'[/QUOTE] No I'm thinking of something a bit different from that, it's similar. I'm not going to talk about it because it might start a shitstorm and I'll look dumb. Though your post got me thinking on significant others. Like pretty much all my life I haven't really bothered to get a significant other. I tried a few times but I couldn't handle those relationships because we both had problems that were difficult to solve. Like does one really need one? I've seen people in this thread talk about going on several dating service sites or other services yo find someone.

After being through a few, it's honestly not my scene. I'm not the type of person that can function in a relationship. I'm too to myself, i won't go as far as to say im selfish but i do value my alone time immensely and i'm a quiet person and can go long times without talking to people. That doesn't work when you're in a relationship so for the good of others i don't get involved. I've broken hearts of several people unfortunately before i came to this realization but for the good of others i don't really seek relationships now. [editline]6th December 2014[/editline] In my situation, the girl i was with in highschool. She came into my life right as i began to seriously question my sexuality and it was an on off thing for 4 years. I never told her i was gay, she had me thinking for awhile about myself being bisexual but i'm really not. I feel guilty everyday for doing this to her. I met up with her summer of 2013 and i planned to spend the day with her and explain myself, why i acted like i did in highschool and to tell her why i never pursued a real serious thing with her but when the time came for it....i just couldn't do it. I still tried to make sure she had a good time when i was with her but i feel like by doing that, all i did was lead her on for years. I even took her to senior prom because i planned to go to have fun and heard she was going but backed out due to not having a date. I didn't want her to miss out on senior prom with her friends so i took her. It's one of my most definable regrets in life, leading her on due to my sexual confusion. I run into her occasionally and it's awkward. I still can't tell her and each time i see her its long enough that things changed since i last saw her and it only makes it harder.

[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;46657581]No I'm thinking of something a bit different from that, it's similar. I'm not going to talk about it because it might start a shitstorm and I'll look dumb. Though your post got me thinking on significant others. Like pretty much all my life I haven't really bothered to get a significant other. I tried a few times but I couldn't handle those relationships because we both had problems that were difficult to solve. Like does one really need one? I've seen people in this thread talk about going on several dating service sites or other services yo find someone.[/QUOTE] Everyone needs companionship but that companionship doesn't need to be in the form of a boy/girlfriend (or married partner). It can be family, friends, even just coworkers that you get along with. Maybe you even consider online friends to be enough. If you're content with the companionship you currently have, then there's no need to try for more solely because you think you should. But if you want more and haven't had luck finding it with current methods, then I see absolutely nothing wrong with trying something else - like a dating site - to find someone.

[QUOTE=Zeke129;46657862]Everyone needs companionship but that companionship doesn't need to be in the form of a boy/girlfriend (or married partner). It can be family, friends, even just coworkers that you get along with. Maybe you even consider online friends to be enough. If you're content with the companionship you currently have, then there's no need to try for more solely because you think you should. But if you want more and haven't had luck finding it with current methods, then I see absolutely nothing wrong with trying something else - like a dating site - to find someone.[/QUOTE] Yeah I don't really have any sort of companionship whatsoever. I just talk to my friends on steam. We fuck around almost every day and I'm not sure if it's normal to have just online friends. Like I have a few irl friends but we lost touch since grad, I do have 1 but we just talk over steam.

I'm completely fine with all of my friends being online. As long as you enjoy talking to them and spending time with them, it's more than alright. Doesn't mark you as a loser or anything I think.

idk just feels pretty fucking dumb that I have like 1 irl current friend and I don't give a fuck about getting a companion or not

I would most certainly encourage you to seek friends locally though. Having friends online is great, but they should never really replace having friends you can physically hang out with and get out of the house. My best friend since 2006 is someone i never met physically for instance, but i still have friends to hang out with and dick around with that live near me.

[QUOTE=Viva;46657606]After being through a few, it's honestly not my scene. I'm not the type of person that can function in a relationship. I'm too to myself, i won't go as far as to say im selfish but i do value my alone time immensely and i'm a quiet person and can go long times without talking to people. That doesn't work when you're in a relationship so for the good of others i don't get involved. I've broken hearts of several people unfortunately before i came to this realization but for the good of others i don't really seek relationships now. [editline]6th December 2014[/editline] In my situation, the girl i was with in highschool. She came into my life right as i began to seriously question my sexuality and it was an on off thing for 4 years. I never told her i was gay, she had me thinking for awhile about myself being bisexual but i'm really not. I feel guilty everyday for doing this to her. I met up with her summer of 2013 and i planned to spend the day with her and explain myself, why i acted like i did in highschool and to tell her why i never pursued a real serious thing with her but when the time came for it....i just couldn't do it. I still tried to make sure she had a good time when i was with her but i feel like by doing that, all i did was lead her on for years. I even took her to senior prom because i planned to go to have fun and heard she was going but backed out due to not having a date. I didn't want her to miss out on senior prom with her friends so i took her. It's one of my most definable regrets in life, leading her on due to my sexual confusion. I run into her occasionally and it's awkward. I still can't tell her and each time i see her its long enough that things changed since i last saw her and it only makes it harder.[/QUOTE] I've been in a straight relationship as well, back when I was 16. Considering that I only came to terms with being gay 2 years ago, thats not too bad, I've been struggling with sexuality for a long time. I just don't see it as this black and white thing. Straight sex was okay I guess, I'm not particularity amazing in the sack on top either way, but I just didn't feel comfortable with a girl. Something was missing and I thought it was just normal. Looking back, it was probably just horny teenage lust that got me in that situation. Only when I first was with a boy last year, I really felt something. I felt comfortable, every touch, every kiss, it all came natural, nothing was forced or awkward for me and I knew I wanted this more than anything else. That being said, its not impossible for me to be in a straight relationship and I guess it could work out for a female partner but I would never be fully happy that way. In that way, sexuality to me is not binary. Yes, I could have straight sex as well I guess, there is no physical problem to stop me but its not what I want. Thats why I feel very confident as a gay guy. I've been wondering if I wasn't bi, but I don't think sexuality is defined by what you can or can't fuck. It's what you want, what makes you comfortable, what you love that defines you